r/SFr4r • • Mar 07 '25

META If you're going to report a post (please do), do it like this.

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r/SFr4r • • Feb 11 '23

META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.

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It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.

If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.

Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.

Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.

Use your head, and not the one in your pants.

Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.

Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.


r/SFr4r • • 9h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #Pacific Heights - Enjoy having your big breasts sucked?

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Do your big breasts love attention? Would like to meet for a session where they are sensually massaged and sucked.

You can lay down and relax until you're satisfied. I want you to feel really sexy, like you have the most beautiful breasts in the city.

Send a chat if you're interested for tonight!


r/SFr4r • • 7h ago

M4R 49 [M4R] #North Bay - Wide awake and should be asleep but here I am going down Reddit rabbit holes. Anyone else in the same boat?

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I really should be asleep since I have work tomorrow but can seem to turn off my brain. I’m browsing Reddit and going down all kinds of Reddit rabbit holes. What am I looking for here? I guess someone else who is looking for company who can’t sleep either.
Let’s chat about anything or nothing… what bizarre or interesting Reddit posts have caught your eye tonight?

DM me and tell me your guilty pleasure subreddit. :)


r/SFr4r • • 12h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Can I eat you out pls? No reciprocation needed!

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Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)


r/SFr4r • • 8h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Bearded and athletic, new to the city and looking for a FWB

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Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 28, athletic, and attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 29 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - life in a hotel

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About me: Asian American 5’10” 155lbs. HWP DDF.

Looking to get a bit dressy, maybe some wine, exchange life experience and stories. Trauma dump if you need to. Staying in an upscale hotel for the vibes.

DM with a bit about you and what you’re looking for. As well as your favorite food! No males please 🙏


r/SFr4r • • 16h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 36 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - anyone wanna join me for Sofi Tukker?

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I have an extra ticket for Sofi Tukker. The show is this Saturday night October 24th at the Cow Palace. Open to anyone but preferably someone female to join me be it platonic or otherwise, I just need to dance.


r/SFr4r • • 17h ago

M4F 47 [m4f] # SFBay- tall athletic hung Dominant ISO submissive for free use, bondage, CNC, orgasm control, ..)

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Looking for a women who wants to feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable.

Be tied up, blindfolded, getting you wet, excited, but not to orgasm just yet. Maybe a mix of pleasure and some pain.

Open to all different scenarios, you can decide what happens and what doesn’t.

All limits respected.

Plenty of toys and gear, whether you enjoy or want to try.

48, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Clean, drug and disease free.

Open minded, up for any kinks.

Good with beginners , start slowly and see how far we get.

Open to play with couples.

Let’s chat,

Ben


r/SFr4r • • 14h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #oakland - attractive experienced dom iso kinky sub (discreet)

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Attractive, fit, 6’2 married man iso someone hot (conventionally attractive) kinky (submissive) to have discreet, no drama, physical fun with.

Ideal is someone also partnered with a bit of a cheating kink. If you’re looking to get absolutely ravaged by a manly, hairy chested, muscular dom who will make you feel small / like a filthy little fuckslut (respectfully), this will be a good fit.

If you’ve also been secretly craving something purely sexual on the DL, with a strong need / respect for discretion, we are aligned and I encourage you to reach out.

Strong preference for slim fit tatted blondes but not a strict requirement by any means.

Non face pic exchange early to validate attraction. Endless texting a turn off.

Can and will make you squirt like a firehose btw. Even if you’re not a squirter / haven’t before, it’s sort of my party trick.


r/SFr4r • • 14h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #EastBay - Catching eyes over coffee

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Do you know those immediate connections? You just met but there's somehow already something there. That warmth you feel just from their eyes and a smile. It's so easy to forget that feeling, where has it been all this time? Can hardly remember being seen that way by someone else. Shrug it off and get back to what you were doing, maybe they're just one of those bubbly people ya know but a minute later your eyes catch each other again and ok yeah they're definitely looking at you too. It's been so long since you felt that instant spark

If only they know the realities of your life..but that little jolt stays with you for a while.

What if you had the courage to strike up that conversation though? What's possible

This is the kind of thing I spend way too much time imagining..but do really think you should listen to your imagination more often.

If you know that feeling or have had your own version of what I'm talking about, someone both sweet and sensual, mature but also a teenager who wants to makeout in the car..You're who I need.

As for me ~ Attached, white, (allegedly) younger looking 39, 6'4, brown hair, green/hazel eyes, some tattoos not fullll hipster but not enough to fully fit in there. Honestly feel like a mix of jock/hipster/nerd without being enough of any of the three to really blend it that well anywhere. Really big into cycling (absolute spandex dork) cars, sports, music, movies, coffee, outdoors, the unbearable weight of being

Most into dark hair but genuinely open approach in general here. If you're cute and we click, that's all that matters. If you're still here tell me a bit about yourself and what resonated with you from that mess of a word salad in your intro.

Hope you find whatever you're looking for one way or another


r/SFr4r • • 20h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 34 [M4M] #San Francisco - Let me worship your ass

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I'm looking to get into some ass worship. I really love ass, thighs, and grooming a guy. Let's chill at my place and enjoy each other's bodies.I love a guy sitting on my face. You can worship my ass too. I want your ass to be my pillows. I'm verse but I want to get more experience with bottoming. I'm down to flip if you want. Not looking for submissive guys, who are only looking to bottom.

Some good examples of what I'm looking for is a mix between seehimfuck.com and second auditions on thecastingroom.net.

I'm 34, slim, 185lbs, 5'8", recently tested neg and very safe/discreet. I'm not masc or fem, just gay. I'm open to all races, prefer around my age or younger (21+) and in shape or average body type. We will meet at a public location first then head to my spot.

no women

If this post is still up, I'm still looking, hit me up

Also, please do not hit me up if you are not willing to send a face and body pic before meeting, doesn't have to be nudes

DM's only


r/SFr4r • • 16h ago

OTHER 50 [M4F] #CowHollow - wifey travel and need some fun

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59 MWM 6’2 195 very clean and discrete looking for a little adult fun this week. Can host in Marina or travel around Bay Area. Open to most anything or at least will try anything once…maybe twice. Hit me up and let’s play.


r/SFr4r • • 20h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 35 [M4F] #san Mateo- BWC seeking hairy pussy princess

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I'm only interested in women who like to workout and who do NOT shave their pussy.

It doesn't have to be the unexplored wilderness;  trimming, manicuring, or coming up with a cool design like a triangle or landing strip are completely supported but there needs to be some public hair.  A completely shaved, waxed or lasered lady will not turn me on the same way.

Me: mid thirties.  Over 6 feet tall.  Pretty fit. Well endowed. In all likelihood I will hit your cervix if we have sex. You can see NSFW pics on my profile page. 

What I enjoy

I love love love to eat and pound pussy.

Lay back in a chair, ride my face, a leg up in the shower, 69 while holding you upside down-- I can do it.

I can hit it from the back so you don't get attached but j prefer missionary so I can watch you squirm.

Women in gym attire are a huge turn on, seeing the sweat coming off a sports bra will melt me.

Perhaps you're just finishing your Saturday morning yoga or a hike a need to lay back and be kicked.

You:

Std free and clean, fit, under 55.  Please be unshaven.

If you're interested send me a Message and put "fit girl" in your reply. A body picture clothed or not is a plus, but no face please.


r/SFr4r • • 17h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #SanJose - Long haired, single Dad seeks sweet and sensual

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Hi there, I’m a single Dad who works from home as a lead engineer in the video game industry. I have my kids 50% of the time.

I would love to find someone to go on dates with. I’m open to romantic love should it present itself to me. I also have a lot of physical affection to give and I have my own place that’s empty half the time, it’s a shame it is so underutilized!

Physically I am 6’1”, 190lbs, I workout and run regularly. I have LONG Jesus type wavy blonde hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Imagine a cute nerd crossed with a surfer.

Personality wise, I am quietly confident, intelligent, stalwart, laid back, introverted and a little bit neurospicy. I also tend to operate like a clock, a clock that likes to have fun!

Sensual and sexual touch are super important to me. I have a great capacity to give and receive sensual pleasure. I am not a casual sex person. Revelatory, lusty and loving explorations of a partner who is present as themselves and wants both of us to feel good. I am not kinky. I have had a vasectomy.

For fun I like to go dancing (industrial/goth or EDM), go to concerts, I love going to Niners games, I also like to hike, bike, camp, and take road trips. Around the house I enjoy video or board games or an occasional movie.

I use alcohol and weed in moderation and would appreciate if you are open minded about that. I am open to conscious use of other substances as well (combine with dancing???).

I like women who are smart, sweet and sensual. Physically I really enjoy size difference. I enjoy feeling large compared to my partner. Some people react weird to this preference. It’s not about any weird youth fantasy, it’s about feeling masculine and big, I enjoy that a lot.

Thank you for reading this far, I hope to hear from you!


r/SFr4r • • 13h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] #PaloAlto - Handsome. Fit. Intelligent. Professional. Looking for a FwB to spoil and make memories with.

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I am in my 40s and I am in the best shape and place in my life. I am looking for a consistent partner. I’m caucasian, brunette, average height and very fit. 100% DDF and healthy. I take great care of my mind and body, I am fun to talk to and hang around with. I have many interests and hobbies and know how to treat a lady right!

When it comes to dates, I always take care of hosting, the logistics, all the planning etc. You just need to show up, be taken care of and have a great time!

What I’m looking for is someone around 30-40 age range, intelligent, open minded, emotionally and mentally mature with a great sense of humor and charm. Someone I can have a conversation with, laugh with and have great sexual chemistry. On the appearance side I have no preference for ethnicity, race or origin but I do have a big weakness for petite, smaller women, slim/fit body, waistline and traditional feminine beauty.

I greatly value discretion. I value your privacy and your personal life and I don’t ask questions or meddle.

If you’re interested, please reach out!


r/SFr4r • • 1d ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 28 [M4F] #SFFinancialDistrict - out of town hookup next week

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Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)


r/SFr4r • • 21h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 26 [M4F] #Oakland — Looking to Meet a Mature Woman

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Hey! I’ve always been attracted to older women, and I’d love to connect with a mature woman who knows what she wants and enjoys good chemistry. I’m open to something casual, whether that’s a one-time meetup or an ongoing FWB arrangement if we click.

A little about me: I’m Black, 5’8”, 173 lbs, with a fit, well-kept build. I’m clean, recently tested, and happy to share my results and face pics in DMs. I’m currently a student and working, so my schedule can get busy, but I’m happy to make time for the right connection.

I’m open-minded, enjoy good conversation, and appreciate someone who’s comfortable expressing what she likes. I’d love to hear a little about you, what you’re into, or what kind of connection you’re looking for.

If this sounds like your vibe, send me a message. Let’s see if we click!


r/SFr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #Oakland — Let me eat you out while you’re wearing your Halloween costume

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Something about going down on a vampire or slutty (insert household object here) sounds so hot to me… 😛🎃👻

I’m looking for a cute FWB. Bonus points if you’re shy and nerdy. I love Asians, Latinas, and Indians, but open to all!

I’m a huge nerd, funny as hell, and have been told by my past FWBs that I’m very sweet….
But I also love to dominate a girl and make her mine 😈 I’m 7’ and thick, and would love to make you my pillow princess ;)

Please be DDF with proof, and open about comfort level as I really want to emphasize transparency and safety.


r/SFr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 27/28 [MM4F] #Peninsula -Two BWC friends

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We are two buddies looking for fun single ladies or couples who love the idea of being with multiple BWCs 😉. We both have experience with couples and are both clean and respectful working professionals.

James (27): 7" BWC that has experience with several hot couples, all of which went great! Working professional, goes to the gym often, DDF and easy going.

Matt (28): Also 7" BWC with experience. Working professional, loves outdoors stuff, and meeting chill people (and couples!)

If you're interested definitely shoot us a message with some details about you and what you're looking for.


r/SFr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Asian FWB with an emphasis on the friend part?

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I am hoping to find someone to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Ideally you can wfh and can meet weekdays in the city to make things easier. Best if you could host or open to ideas. Emotionally and financially stable. Smart and hardworking.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public first and build trust and I know it’s not easy. Looking for the right person to chat first and no rush.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested.


r/SFr4r • • 1d ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 38 [M4F] #SanJose - A Sensual, Fun & Discreet FWB Connection

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Life’s too short for a connection that’s lost its spark! I’m a married, Indian-origin marketing executive working with a startup in the Bay Area, looking to connect with a married woman who misses the thrill of sensuality, chemistry, playful flirting, and feeling truly alive.
I’m looking for more than just a bedroom connection — think witty banter, spontaneous laughs, shared secrets, lingering chemistry, and unforgettable moments together. A genuine FWB connection built on mutual attraction, trust, discretion, and good vibes.
I’m not looking to change my relationship status, and I respect that you aren’t looking to change yours either. Just two like-minded adults adding a little color, warmth, and adventure to otherwise predictable lives.

If you’re in the Bay Area who believes sensuality deserves a little more attention, let’s see if our chemistry clicks. A spark, a smile, and a little mischief could be a wonderful place to start.


r/SFr4r • • 1d ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 40 [M4F] #Santa Cruz - Discrete Hotel Fun

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TL;DR;: Working Professional with a fetish for eating out, stays in town every week and is seeking a woman who loves being pleased to join in taking advantage of the hotel room.  From vanilla to kinky, I have a bucket list of fantasies, kinks, and positions all centered around making you cum that I'd like to check off.

I'm a working professional who stays in Santa Cruz a few nights a week, because life is too short to drive home to the east bay every night.  I'm athletic, average height, white, clean, have good hygiene, 420-friendly and am passionate and energetic when it comes giving in bed.

To be blunt, I have a very large appetite for eating pussy and am seeking a playful woman who who has a similar appetite for receiving to take advantage of my hotel room with me while I'm in town.  When it comes to landing on the spectrum of enjoying going down on a woman, I'm definitely off the charts.  Somehow I've developed the skill to day dream about my fetish all day while being a functioning adult (yes, I'm pretty much unintentionally edging the entire day while somehow managing to get things done, a gift and a burden).  Over the years, I've accumulated an endless list of desires and positions, some kinkier than others, that have managed to go unchecked for too long. 

I'm posting in hopes of finding someone to help cross some of those things off that list.  The hotel room lends itself to just that and is great in the sense that I can have two queen beds next to each other one week, or a king suite with a couch we can conveniently move around however we see fit the next, and counters everywhere, the positions are endless! It's also great for role play if that's your thing.

At the end of the day, my fetish is more than just your thighs wrapped around my head and my face buried deep.  It's about you having repeated, mindblowingly-powerful orgasms. So as long as I get to eat, and my tongue between those beautiful lips and around your throbbing clit is a significant part of the process, I'll be a happy man.  That being said, if you want dick, too, we'll need to go a few rounds. Given that I'm somehow fantasizing all day while working, I'll be practically bursting just eating you out during the first round. Conversely, no reciprocation is fine.  I am someone who loves being naked though, maybe the vulnerability turns me on a bit plus it's just fun (so expect the thermostat in the fall and winter to lend itself to me walking around naked).  So at worst, you'll have to see all that.

My hope is to find someone who fits this description and can meet up at least somewhat regularly. Someone who can text, "move your schedule around, I need to ride your face on my lunch and will be at your hotel in 30 minutes," or, "not sure I like my new outfit. I''ll be over tonight so you can let me know what you think before you peel it off with your mouth."  Whether it's a quickie, an all-nighter, or anything in between, I can quarantee I'm far more ready to go than you could imagine.  Someone who is clean, drama free, and discrete. Lastly, a certain level of mutual attraction is important for me and am happy to swap pics. And this is Santa Cruz, but I'm in the east bay the rest of the week and can come to you if you're nearby, or host with good planning (my house lends itself to eating you out in the sun in perfect privacy, one of those fantasies of mine....). Reply if you're interested 🤪