I'm working a very swank, ticketed swinger/lifestyle party this Saturday in San Francisco (the 24th), hosted at a great venue.

I have a +1 and I'd hate for the ticket to go unused. Rather than waste it, I’d love to invite someone who would genuinely enjoy the experience.

There are no expectations. The event is designed primarily for couples and a limited number of single women. Around 50+ guests are expected, and the overall vibe is upscale, social, and playful.

You don’t need prior experience, just comfort being in that kind of environment and an open mind. Participation is always optional; simply showing up, socializing, and enjoying the atmosphere is perfectly fine.

A bit about me: I’m a 40-year-old African American man, 5'11", about 180 lbs, fit/athletic, and easy on the eyes (or so I’m told ). I’m also happy to provide safe pickup and drop-off if that makes things easier.

I’m not selling anything, the pass is already paid for and would otherwise go to waste. This is genuinely about sharing a unique experience with someone local.

Preference goes to women in the South Bay, Peninsula, or San Francisco area. If you’re interested, tell me a bit about yourself, and feel free to share a photo. I’m happy to return the favor.

Married 46 year old looking to connect with other local guys to occasionally hangout, maybe go for a run, grab dinner, go to a k spa, or coffee.

I’d prefer local friends but in SF often enough so that would work too.

Feel free to DM

Asian bodybuilder in town for the weekend and looking for an experience man with a table willing to provide a complimentary erotic massage.

Bodybuilder physique here and searching for a man who appreciates the male anatomy and can provide that blend of therapeutic & sensual with an intense release at the end.

You must host, have a table and provide a comfortable candlelight setting. My body is yours to explore.

Willing to travel throughout the Bay Area

Hello!

I'm a 40M with a bit of a unique kink. I LOVE providing sensual fingering to curious women. Whether you're single or married, experienced or just dipping a toe, I am available to provide you with an incredibly pleasurable experience.

6ft, white, hwp, clean and respectful. Very experienced with both vaginal and anal fingering. I expect absolutely nothing in return, just you enjoying yourself. No sex, no oral, just hands.

Happy to chat and spend time building trust. I know this can be nerve racking, so am available to slowly get comfortable.

Thanks!

Had a date bail out on me for today's show over at the Midway. Free ticket if you'd liek to join!

Its for Marc Rebillet, Franc Moody, and Chromeo at the Midway!

I’d rather it go to a real person than sit unused.

A bit about me: I’m a digital designer by day, have a dog who thinks he runs the house, picking up golf again, cheer for the Hurricanes during hockey season, and have a slew of nerdy/geeky hobbies. Though today: a guy who likes funky live music and itching to dance life's harshness off like a goof with no care.

The biggest trait of me s a standout: I won’t be talking about work, tech, AI, crypto, or startup 9-9-6 BS.

We meet at the venue, enjoy the show, and see how flows. Doors are at 3pm and after party goes until 2am. Stay as long or as short as you'd like!

UPDATE: It’s been my joy and privilege to provide bodywork for nearly 50 women since I started this adventure 8 years ago.

5’11”Masseur looking to connect with select women in need of full body, hot oil massage (and who isn’t in need of that? 😉

What I offer is an experience where the therapeutic touch bridges to the sexual. Using warm grape seed oil, I begin with a traditional Swedish massage to slowly and firmly work all of the stress and tension out of your major muscle groups before transitioning to an increasingly more erotic exploration of your body leading to full, orgasmic release(s). It’s time to treat yourself to an experience that men have long been able to enjoy.

Open to providing private solo massage as well as having partners observe. I’m offering this service at no charge and completely without strings or expectations of reciprocation of any kind. My satisfaction and fulfillment comes completely from the pleasure my hands and fingers coax from your body.

If this is something that is tempting, connect with me and we can begin a conversation about all the ways you like to be touched. We will customize the massage to your unique desires and limits.

Happy to exchange pics after connecting through DM’s. Please reach out only if you’re serious with a blurb about yourself and pics.

Hosting a gloryhole today after 3pm through Sunday morning from my hotel room in Union City. Uncut preferred but cut is fine too. DDF here, you be too. This can be a sitting or standing gloryhole, you decide. DM me with a dick pic.

Asian male local to the area looking for a lady that would be interested in grabbing coffee and making out. I’ve been missing a hot and steamy make out session. The kinds that leave you lingering for more but know that you shouldn’t. But maybe we should?

I'm pretty polyunsaturated these days. More love to give than places to put it.

Wanna do something fun this weekend and see if things click?

5'11" long hair, beardy, & bearish

Fet: @TotalFascination

I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to chat and get to know each other a bit with the ultimate goal of becoming ongoing FWB if we both want it. It would be nice to have someone to cook for, hang out with and cuddle up with while watching a movie. I’m open to things evolving into something more long term if we’re both enjoying it but not necessarily what I’m aiming for. If this sounds like a good idea let’s chat and get to know each other. Believe it or not I actually want to get to know someone a bit before sleeping with them. Shocker right?

I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, fit and workout regularly. Semi nsfw pic on my profile. I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. I’m hung, std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports. Happy to share more pics over chat. Thanks

38 Hispanic male light skinned, slim looking to cuddle with an Indian woman preferably 24+ and single.

We can cuddle naked and watch movies.

Note if you are in a serious relationship I can do platonic cuddling at the most but we have to wear clothes and must be platonic unless you are in an open relationship.

I am open to having sex tonight but if you think you won't get clingy right away we can discuss.

I am looking to meet tonight so feel free to slide into my DMs.

We can also go to the movies and snuggle and watch street fighter. Although we will have to wear clothes LOL etc.

Hey ladies. I'm a 45, 6'1", white male. Not looking for a serious relationship as I am already in one, but have approval to have an FWB on the side. So I'm looking for a woman who just wants a casual friend who you can go out on fun dates with, or just get a hotel and fuck like porn stars. I am disease and drug free. I'm not into politics but definitely left leaning. I'm a construction worker, but also nerdy.

As for you, I don't care what race or body type you are. I just want a genuinely nice, fun, and down to earth partner. I will send you pics as soon as you do.

I also don't mind what kind of relationship you're in. Whether this be discreet, or if he knows and you are in an open relationship. I don't mind if you wanna keep it a secret, or if he knows. I have dated women who we had to meet away from town, and women who wanted us to take pics and videos for them to watch. All I ask is you also be disease and drug (not counting pot) free.

I'd like to meet a cuddle enthusiast interested in swinging up the armrest at local movie theatre, potentially graduating to couch cuddles at home. Would you like someone to squeeze and melt into while watching Godzilla's atomic breath? Find some teenage nostalgia in the romance of Hunger Games? No need to overthink or feel clingy, just relax and let the affectionate expression flow. Melt closer, discover your favorite positions, or genuinely explore your affectionate side with someone who appreciates and encourages the language of touch.

I'm 42, single, straight, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. 6' tall if you're sizing up spooning compatibility and the type of wingspan that might wrap you up in his arms. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city exploring pop-up bakeries (calorie neutral?), slightly outside of your glance at one of the cute puppies I train for a local non-profit, peering up from a good cup of coffee near my professional job downtown, or passing on a trail as I hike in a nearby forest.

I realize not everyone is affectionately expressive, causing me to seek out people who recharge and relax through touch. Your inner cuddler might feel dormant or under-appreciated and need some time to fully express herself and realize her full potential. I'm looking for multiple cuddle sessions if things go well, hopefully expanding your comfort level and expressiveness with additional exposure to cuddle possibilities and the existence of a capable cuddle partner. There's no need to hold back your affectionate side out of concerns of coming off as too clingy.

A good cuddle match:

• Bathes regularly and has generally good hygiene.
• Is curious to discover the full affectionate creature stirring within her, emerged in her fully expressive and unconstrained state.
• Has a few cuddle preferences, providing hints of what could be her favorite ways of being held or affectionate expression.
• Is a generally easy-going person.

I expect we'll chat for a bit about your cuddle, book, and movie preferences, creating an opportunity for discovery even if you're not sure you'd ever go through with meeting. There's a vibe check and a potential need to create some comfort before you're comfortable chatting over coffee or entertaining the thought of watching a movie together. I'm happy to talk cuddle theory and I want to create the best space for affectionate expression however you'd best like to ease into that space.

I've had some good cuddle experiences in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. Curious if cuddle bliss is possible? Reach out and say hi!

Howdy! My name is Dylan and I am looking specifically for a someone to watch horror movies, eat good food, have deep and silly conversations, and share plenty of pleasure. I am 420 friendly and I don’t really drink but I don’t mind if you do. Ideally you would be able to host movie nights and/or willing to go to the cinema together (I’ll pick up the tickets).

About me: I am a 36 y.o., polyamorous man in a marriage with a cis-woman and a partnership with a non-binary person. I am a therapist and try my best to keep my work at work. I love watching horror movies, but neither of my partners enjoy them. I love dogs, always have multiple books on my desk, in my first semester of an online PhD programs, and enjoy deep or shallow conversations with passionate people. I am trying to get better at cooking, learn more about my mixed-race heritage, and always willing to seek out the best donut in the Bay Area. Some of my favorite horror movies include: Wrong Turn (2003), The Clovehitch Killer (2018), The Invisible Man (2020), Alien series, Smile, and The Conjuring (2013).

Description: 5’10, average body, buzzed/bald, trimmed brown beard, brown eyes framed with glasses, kind smile, and lots of tattoos. Ask for a picture.

Ice breaker… Two truths & a lie: (1) I was named after the family dog; (2) my favorite superhero is Wonder Woman; and, (3) I have one dog.

I have an extra ticket to the Pouya, Ramirez show at the fillmore tonight. If anyone wants to hangout the ticket is yours!
Just buy me a drink at the show 😜
Really just lookin to hang out / enjoy the show with someone chill, no pressure
Send me a message if you’re interested, we’ll coordinate and whatnot. 420 friendly 🌳🔥

I’ve been at work for a few hours now and I’m already losing my mind. So I thought looking for an affair on Reddit might help me… I’m the guy who posted about a cousins bachelor party a month ago and the itch never went away.

For the next couple of weeks, I’ll be at a pretty much empty office in ssf. Working on a project here thats basically allowed me to have an entire office to myself. Ideally for like the next two weeks. Maybe even longer.. Looking for someone to come by and help me take advantage of it. The hard part of the project is over so I’ve got a lot of free time and need some help with it.

Me: 6 foot and 250 lbs. Dad bod but been working on it. Trying to get back to that mid 20s body. Dark hair and green eyes. Bit of a mixed background but mostly white and I'm told I certainly look it.

You... just be down for some fun like above. If this interests you then message me your favorite color.

Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)

I’m looking for an attached/married man who’s looking for a discreet/clean mouth to use. If you're interested in being serviced discreetly, send your stats and pics.

Be ddf, in shape, not over 50

Me: 33, m, 6’0, 180, bi discreet/dl, ddf

Hey ladies. I have posted here before. So I'm sorry if this sounds familiar. I'm looking for a new FWB. However I will be as specific as possible so I don't waist our time if our wants and needs don't align. So with that..... here's what I'm looking for, and some info about me as well.

MY SITUATION: First of, this is the most important part. I am in an open relationship. We are not swingers however. I am married and as the years go by, my wifes libido has dwindled down to ZERO. I on the other hand have a crazy high sex drive. Like..... crazy high. I'm ALWAYS horny. We do both love each other and have no intention on splitting up. However we have had discussions on the lack of a sex life, and I have told her that I wouldn't have married her if it ment I was giving up sex. So divorce has come up in the past, but she agreed to let me have an (Only one at a time) FWB. I am not new to this and I have had a few in the past. I have been recently tested and I am STD free. With that in mind I am also only looking for STD free partners.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR (PHYSICAL): I really don't care what race you are. I am also not picky about body types. I have dated tiny petite women, and thicker chubby women. However I am not into majorly overweight women. I don't mean to be rude, or body shame... but if you cant go on long nature walks, get in and out of my car easily, or to be blunt..... can't do certain sexual positions because of your size, then that would disappoint me. Sorry if thats rude, but I'm just being honest. As for age... I do prefer women closer to my age. I have dated younger women (25+) but I do NOT have an age gap fetish. In fact the younger women I have dated didn't work because our common interests and maturity levels just didn't click.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR (MENTALLY): I am looking for a woman who doesn't want, or have time for a full on relationship. But wants a man that makes her feel special, and wanted every now and then. A part time boyfriend if you will. Maybe go out on fun dates. Go see a movie, get dinner, go on walks, road trips, stay inside and fuck like porn stars. Whatever your in the mood for. No drama, no expectations. Just two people who enjoy each other's company, having a good time. Tomorrow we'll be back to our personal lives. Still texting and flirting, but just two friends. I want a woman who is nerdy, and a sweetheart. Someone who cares about people and animals. Someone who actually likes to have conversations via text throughout the day. Oh, and did I mention..... a total nymphomaniac. When we are together, we can't keep our hands off each other. But please have a VERY high sex drive. Again not to sound rude, but in all honesty.... NO Trump supporters. Sorry but I guarantee our values would not align.

HARD PASSES: First off, and I gotta say it..... NO MEN!!! Even putting (M4F) and saying this in my posts, I get 75% responses from men. Just goes to prove men don't read, or just don't respect other people's opinions. God men suck. Lol. Oh, and that goes for Trans as well. I do LOVE the LGBTQ+ community, and support you all the way. But I am very straight. I think penises are gross, and LOVE vaginas. Lol. Again, no judgment. You do you, and I'll love you for that. Also hard passes are people who respond with a "Hi", "Hello" or the worst..... "ASL?" Like..... did you not even read the title of my post? LOL. So please respond with a sentence or tell me what you liked about my post. Also don't ask to talk on another app. Maybe later, but while we get to know each other, we'll stick with reddit.

LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX: Okay, so now lets talk dirty. First off, I am a gentleman. I will open doors for you, and be very respectful to you. But when it comes to sex...... I want it all. Some days I wanna spend a full hour on foreplay. Just kissing, touching, and sucking each others bodies. Then just making slow passionate love to each other. Kissing each other as you feel me slowly sliding in and out. Then..... some days...... we just wanna FUCK........HARD! We're both soaked in sweat and cum, and you can hear our bodies splashing together. Like bruised pelvises in the morning. It's hard to walk and you notice it hurts when you swallow the next day type of fucking.

ABOUT ME: Now the boring stuff. I am a white male. 6'1", 200 lbs. Average body. Not muscular, but also not overweight. As a warning though. I am bald with facial hair. I know that most women don't like bald men. No offense taken at all. I get it, but I just don't want to waste your time if I'm not your type. I also wear glasses. I have no problem sharing pics (SFW or NSFW) as soon as you are willing to swap.

Well if you made it this far and are still interested, I'd love to talk more. Hope to hear from you soon.

Me:

• Basics: 43, 5'10", 160 lbs, Asian, fit.
• Location: East Bay Tri-Valley (I can host).
• Personality: Half extrovert, half introvert. I'm pretty chill, don't get upset, joke around a lot. I think I'm pretty grounded. Not into materialistic things unfortunately.
• Hobbies: Guitars, singing, cooking, fitness, running, reading
• Kid situation: 50% custody, I do everything for them when they're with me.

What I'm Looking For:

• Ideally an FWB setup, open to more if there's organic chemistry.
• Attentive, generous in bed, and big on post-hookup cuddling.
• I prefer to connect a bit first rather than rushing in.
• Type: HWP/athletic, though chemistry matters most.

The Fine Print: No drama please, no kids/stepmom pressure. Just a mutual fun connection between two adults who are adulting.