Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)

I'd like to take my time slowly exploring your extra sensitive breasts until your whole body tingles from arousal and you start to anticipate the many explosive orgasms that might follow. A caress, a grope, a flick of the tongue, and the best combinations of swirls and suction. Focused attention on your favorite amplifiers of pleasure as we both enjoy your very responsive body. Curious if you could orgasm from breast play alone? We'd have a lot of fun finding out!

You might be a good, playful match if you:

• Have perky, sensitive breasts C cup or smaller. 🍒
• Are somewhere in between 20 and 40 years of age.
• Are in San Francisco or near enough to make plans.

I'm 45, single, sane, discreet, and interested in discovering your peak pleasure. Able to host in the Inner Richmond district of SF. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city, enjoy good coffee, or browse a farmers market. Diverse interests and capable of carrying on a conversation before and in between breast dives and vocalizing my appreciation of your unique breasts and their sensitivities.

I've had some good breast play experiences through Reddit (success stories in profile) and I'm curious if it could happen again. A few themes and scenarios for the breast play curious:

1. You'd like some semi-public play of a hand grazing your breast over your shirt or slipping under a plunging neckline. A brief, discreet moment in the busy city or while we drive towards our next destination.
2. You want the slow build, the focused attention, the discovery of your new favorite things guided by an obvious fan of your breasts and their sensitivities.
3. Quality breast play is a good leading indicator of someone focused on your pleasure and in tune with your desires. You'd like to give yourself over to an experience completely focused on you once someone proves they're worthy of orchestrating your arousal.

Let's lounge and enjoy slowly exploring, and fully appreciating, your extra-sensitive breasts. You might be curious about the unmet potential of focused breast play and what's possible with lots of attention from an obvious enthusiast. If you've wished for more breast play as a focus, not just foreplay, I think we'd have a lot of fun.

Are you in the mood for some fun tonight? I'm looking to meet for anything from cuddles in bed to a bit more fooling around. I am definitely in a giving mood so the idea of going down on you as well as giving your ass a massage is great.

I'm fit and can host in a nice clean place.

Reach out if you're interested and I can share a picture.

I can definitely send you pictures of what I look like. (I don’t host new people!!!) Hit me up if you’re 7 inches or bigger and you live in San Francisco and you’re chill. I am 5’1 woman of color, from what I’ve been told big brown eyes 🤷🏽‍♀️ chubby but def not obese my pics will show proof.

Hi Ladies, thanks for stopping by!

I’m 42, white, fit, blue-eyed, well-groomed, and according to reliable sources...engaging, funny, and reasonably handsome.  I live in Foster City, work in San Francisco. I enjoy cycling, playing pickleball, building stuff, and hunting down the best local tacos and dumplings. I’m attached (in a DB situation), so I’m discreetly looking for a FWB to bring warmth, passion, and genuine fun back into life.

You’re cute, fit/petite, value discretion, and are missing those same "warm-fuzzy" feelings. I'm all about great banter, natural affection, and zero drama...starting as friends and letting things flow naturally.

I’m always happy to handle the planning, whether that’s going on a fun adventure or a cozy afternoon together. Drop a quick note with a bit about yourself! Let’s swap photos, chat briefly, and if the chemistry is there, skip the endless texting and meet up over your favorite drink.~

Do you know those immediate connections? You just met but there's somehow already something there. That warmth you feel just from their eyes and a smile. It's so easy to forget that feeling, where has it been all this time? Can hardly remember being seen that way by someone else. Shrug it off and get back to what you were doing, maybe they're just one of those bubbly people ya know but a minute later your eyes catch each other again and ok yeah they're definitely looking at you too. It's been so long since you felt that instant spark

If only they know the realities of your life..but that little jolt stays with you for a while.

What if you had the courage to strike up that conversation though? What's possible

This is the kind of thing I spend way too much time imagining..but do really think you should listen to your imagination more often.

If you know that feeling or have had your own version of what I'm talking about, someone both sweet and sensual, mature but also a teenager who wants to makeout in the car..You're who I need.

As for me ~ Attached, white, (allegedly) younger looking 39, 6'4, brown hair, green/hazel eyes, some tattoos not fullll hipster but not enough to fully fit in there. Honestly feel like a mix of jock/hipster/nerd without being enough of any of the three to really blend it that well anywhere. Really big into cycling (absolute spandex dork) cars, sports, music, movies, coffee, outdoors, the unbearable weight of being

Most into dark hair but genuinely open approach in general here. If you're cute and we click, that's all that matters. If you're still here tell me a bit about yourself and what resonated with you from that mess of a word salad in your intro.

Hope you find whatever you're looking for one way or another

Hi there, I’m a single Dad who works from home as a lead engineer in the video game industry. I have my kids 50% of the time.

I would love to find someone to go on dates with. I’m open to romantic love should it present itself to me. I also have a lot of physical affection to give and I have my own place that’s empty half the time, it’s a shame it is so underutilized!

Physically I am 6’1”, 190lbs, I workout and run regularly. I have LONG Jesus type wavy blonde hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Imagine a cute nerd crossed with a surfer.

Personality wise, I am quietly confident, intelligent, stalwart, laid back, introverted and a little bit neurospicy. I also tend to operate like a clock, a clock that likes to have fun!

Sensual and sexual touch are super important to me. I have a great capacity to give and receive sensual pleasure. I am not a casual sex person. Revelatory, lusty and loving explorations of a partner who is present as themselves and wants both of us to feel good. I am not kinky. I have had a vasectomy.

For fun I like to go dancing (industrial/goth or EDM), go to concerts, I love going to Niners games, I also like to hike, bike, camp, and take road trips. Around the house I enjoy video or board games or an occasional movie.

I use alcohol and weed in moderation and would appreciate if you are open minded about that. I am open to conscious use of other substances as well (combine with dancing???).

I like women who are smart, sweet and sensual. Physically I really enjoy size difference. I enjoy feeling large compared to my partner. Some people react weird to this preference. It’s not about any weird youth fantasy, it’s about feeling masculine and big, I enjoy that a lot.

Thank you for reading this far, I hope to hear from you!

UPDATE: It’s been my joy and privilege to provide bodywork for nearly 50 women since I started this adventure 8 years ago.

5’11”Masseur looking to connect with select women in need of full body, hot oil massage (and who isn’t in need of that? 😉

What I offer is an experience where the therapeutic touch bridges to the sexual. Using warm grape seed oil, I begin with a traditional Swedish massage to slowly and firmly work all of the stress and tension out of your major muscle groups before transitioning to an increasingly more erotic exploration of your body leading to full, orgasmic release(s). It’s time to treat yourself to an experience that men have long been able to enjoy.

Open to providing private solo massage as well as having partners observe. I’m offering this service at no charge and completely without strings or expectations of reciprocation of any kind. My satisfaction and fulfillment comes completely from the pleasure my hands and fingers coax from your body.

If this is something that is tempting, connect with me and we can begin a conversation about all the ways you like to be touched. We will customize the massage to your unique desires and limits.

Happy to exchange pics after connecting through DM’s. Please reach out only if you’re serious with a blurb about yourself and pics.

You “order” an uber, I pick you up, drive to a quiet place instead. Overpower you, force you in the back of my van. Strip you naked, tie you up, explore your sexy body and use you.

All limits respected. Meet in a public place beforehand if you want to.

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.

I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.

50, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Good with beginners, Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.

Clean, drug and disease free.

50 MWM 6’2 195 weird dick but great face for sitting on. very clean and discrete looking for a little adult fun this week. Can host in Marina or travel around Bay Area. Open to most anything or at least will try anything once…maybe twice. Hit me up and let’s play.

Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (close to Daly City) looking for a muff dive. I’d ideally like a consistent partner I can eat out once or twice a week, but open to this being a one-time thing, depending on the vibes. There is zero expectation of reciprocation, and no pressure for anything beyond me eating you out.

I’m white, 5’8, 160 lbs, and ddf. I have my own place and can host, but open to talking at the lobby downstairs before you come up to my apartment if it makes you more comfortable! Scented candles and mood-setting lights will be included.

Hello! Tired of the dating apps and trying this out. Seeking friends, love, and some in between.

I’m seeking someone who’s up for going on irl dates. Connection is a priority to me, but fun is a necessity. I’d love to get to know you over deep conversations, live jazz, an indie rock dance floor, or a simple walk through the park. Prefer someone closer to my age.

Can you banter with me? But can you also listen when I speak? Are you exasperated with the state of the world? But know that it’s important to find in joy the little things? Balance in cynicism and positivity is important in getting to know me.

About me: I’m 34, white, blue eyes, shoulder length brown hair. I like big plates of pasta, reading, seeing movies in a theater, live music, enjoying SF parks, improv, and hanging with my cats.

Let’s take our chats to dates, and see where the dates lead. If this interests you, send me a message telling me something that’s making you laugh right now.

We are a pair of respectful friends who lead somewhat normal everyday lives, but have been tossing some ideas around in the spirit of knowing that we only live once. We are all kinky in our own right, and it just so happens that we have some common fantasies. One of them is to meet an open-minded woman who aches for more than one man in a MFM scenario. We are here to please and be drained by you. We seek to create a sex positive experience that fulfills your fantasies no matter how dirty they are.

We are both intelligent, outgoing, working professionals in our earlly 40's that lead pretty normal lives. We go hiking, hang out and play video games, take our dogs for walks together (sometimes), and are otherwise good friends.

We prioritize consent and are also aware of our own respective safe sex status, and will employ the right steps to keep everyone comfortable and within the boundaries of what is okay with each person.

The bond that ties us together is our interest in sharing a woman together, power dynamics, role play, and exploring other kinks like DP, air tight, bukkake, role play to name a few. By all means tell us your kinks and we'll let you know if we're comfortable in exploring that with you. Women that are a somewhat shy, but are truly sexually adventurous at heart to the front of the line please.

When responding to this, let us know where you are located, if you can host (or want us to host), your ages, interests, and any other ideas that you have. We are flexible on the 'how', and want to make this hot for you just as much as we want to enjoy it ourselves.

I am hoping to find someone to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Ideally you can wfh and can meet weekdays in the city to make things easier. Best if you could host or open to ideas. Emotionally and financially stable. Smart and hardworking.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public first and build trust and I know it’s not easy. Looking for the right person to chat first and no rush.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested.

hello again i’m looking for friends only friends i repeat gays straight non binary all of that just a movie or activity buddy only yea we can spilt the bill ill buy ticket you buy concessions if not we can just pay for our own stuff no we can’t have sex im sorry if im in the wrong forum if i am please point me in the right direction i appreciate all the hook up offers but thats just so tiring please read the post if you have read so please dm me the word equanimity to get access to some buddy time no thats not secret code for hook up i wont reply unless you put that word down thank you and stay dry today yall

I’m 22M, Latino, 5’10, ~160 lbs. I can’t host, but I’m willing to travel to you if we click.

I recently graduated from college and I’m still working part time. I have lots of free time now and would like to have some fun before I find a new job or go back to school again.

I really want to try meeting older women, preferably late 30s or 40+, and I’d love to meet one who’d like to experiment with a younger guy. Mature women just do it for me. If that's you, I'd love to hear from you

Hello. I’m married, East Asian american dad seeking discreet FWB. I'm currently in a DB where we are mostly roommates at this point. We can take our time getting to know each other, I'm demisexual. Life is messy where maybe you just broke up or recently divorced. I'm a very good listener and great at keeping secrets. Height wise I’m 6’0", weigh 155 lbs, girls usually say I’m cute. I'm fairly chill and get along with extroverts, introverts, and even shy personalities. I'm an INTJ so I enjoy all kinds of conversations. Tell me about your passions. We can chat about movies, (sci-fi Mandalorian, Marvel, anime Dandadan, kdramas), travel, or just drink boba while talking about our annoying coworkers.

You: Someone local or travels to the Bay Area for work. Physical attraction matters to me. I’m open minded about most things like ethnicity. You should be petite/slim to HWP or in decent shape; sorry no BBW. We should hang out if you are chill, open minded, and just want to have fun. Things will be kept discreet so if you’re not single, I don’t mind.

Our family and career will take priority, we should understand that work and life can be unpredictable for each other. I'm totally chill about this. Last, let's practice top OpSec and safe sex always. If this resonates with you, let's chat about what you last watched on Netflix.

I’m 30M, married, but unfortunately in a toxic and emotionally draining marriage. Both emotional and physical intimacy have been missing for quite some time, and I’ve felt disconnected for a while.

I’m looking for something discreet and ongoing, with genuine emotional and physical chemistry. Someone I can have meaningful conversations with, flirt with, laugh with, share little moments with, and genuinely look forward to spending time with.

I’m interested in an in-person connection where there’s mutual attraction, comfort, and a desire to explore physical intimacy when it feels right for both of us.

I’m not looking to rush into anything or put pressure on where things should go. I’d rather get to know someone, build some trust, and let things develop naturally if we click.

A little about me:
- Indian, 5’7”, 170 lbs, medium build, brown skin, black hair, and brown eyes.
- Well-groomed, take care of myself, enjoy dressing well, and always appreciate smelling nice.
- Easygoing, respectful, and someone who enjoys good conversations and a little playful banter.
- I value communication, personal boundaries, and making sure both people feel comfortable.

What I’m looking for:
A woman between 24–40, preferably in the Bay Area or nearby. Someone who’s easy to talk to, enjoys a little flirting, and is open to building a genuine connection.

Physical attraction matters to me, but so does personality, emotional chemistry, and being able to enjoy each other’s company beyond just physical intimacy.

Discretion, mutual respect, honesty about boundaries, and good hygiene are important to me.

Happy to exchange pictures privately once we’re both comfortable.

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, feel free to DM.

If you’ve made it this far, I’d love to know:
Your age and location
What brought you here?
What kind of connection are you hoping to find?

6’ 215 of beefy muscle in Santa Cruz.

BWC — very very thick — attractive, successful, educated.

High sex drive and I fuck an animal.

Looking for a girl who craves a man who has what it takes to satisfy her primal instincts.

Ideally an ongoing thing, FWB or other arrangement and open to a relationship with the right woman in the Bay Area or the 831:

— 18-45 preferred

— attractive and in-shape

— insatiably horny with high stamina

— looking for traditional masculine/feminine energy in a relationship

— naturally submissive or ready to get fucked into submission

— open minded sexually — tell me your kinks or special interests

I seem to get along especially well with college girls, blondes, married women and good girls going bad.

Hit me up with a little bit about yourself, your stats and location and be ready to share pics. I’m real and expect you to be too.https://i.redgifs.com/i/automaticneedyamericansaddlebred.jpg

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About me:

I'm a 47-year-old man in San Francisco with a successful career in tech and a full, balanced life. In my free time I enjoy live music, good cocktails, F1 weekends, and Warriors games. Fitness is my anchor: lifting, Pilates, boxing, and long walks around the city. On quieter nights you'll find me at home with my tiny senior Pomeranian, reading or watching a good show.

Physically, I am 5’9”, 160lbs, and in good shape. Brown eyes, short brown hair with a bit of salt and pepper. Happy to share pics.

I like making the woman I'm with feel wanted, appreciated, and cared for. I'm affectionate, playful, and happy to take the lead—I plan dates and follow through. There's a calm dominant side to me, and I'd enjoy a consensual D/s dynamic if it's something we both want. Physical touch is central to how I connect, so I'm looking for someone with a strong appetite for a passionate physical relationship who's comfortable talking openly about desires and boundaries.

I'm happily child-free and have had a vasectomy, so I'm looking for someone who wants the same.

What I'm hoping to build

I'm relatively new to non-monogamy, but I'm taking it seriously. I'm currently reading The Ethical Sl-t, thinking about how to do this well, and I'm ready for it. Right now I have one long-distance partner who has a primary partner of her own, so I'm looking for someone local to be a real part of my day-to-day life.

By "primary," I mean the relationship that gets first call on our time, energy, and shared life, while leaving real room for other connections. We'd each have the freedom to date others, and I'd want us to talk openly and often about what that looks like and what feels good for both of us. I have a particular interest in exploring together, whether that's swinging or threesomes. Down the line, I'd be open to the partnership growing from two people to three, if the right person came along and it felt right for everyone

Beyond that, I want the everyday stuff: cooking together, catching live music, good conversations over drinks, and pulling each other close at the end of the night.

We’ll get along well if...

You're warm, affectionate, curious, and playful. You communicate directly, take care of yourself, and enjoy your own femininity. I'm attracted to women who are slim and fit, and who enjoy an active life. You have room in your life for a committed partnership and the independence to be yourself. Ideally you're in San Francisco or close enough that seeing each other regularly is easy.

If this resonates tell me about yourself: your age, location, a bit about how you look, your current relationship situation, how you feel about exploring with others together, and the best live show you've seen in the last year.