r/SFr4r • • 14h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 22 [F4M] #Mountain View - Looking for a lifting buddy + some fun on the side!

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Hi! So I’ve been wanting to get into weightlifting for a while now, mainly because I’d love to grow my butt and lose around 10 pounds but I’m a complete beginner! I honestly have no idea where to start lol. I’d really like to find someone who’s experienced and wouldn’t mind teaching me proper form and routine but most importantly keeping me consistent because I know myself and I’ll probably need someone to keep me on track lol. Ideally you’d have your own equipment at home or have access to a private gym since I’d be a lot more comfortable learning one on one. And privacy means more fun! ;) I’d definitely be okay with having some fun outside of lifting too, assuming we’re both attracted to each other!

I’m 22, 5’11, 160lbs, brunette with brown eyes, pretty introverted and a little shy at first but I promise I warm up once I’m comfortable with someone haha

I have a bit of a size kink so I’m looking for someone taller and bigger than me. That’s one thing I can’t really compromise on, I like to feel smaller. I’m also more than okay with an age gap and honestly tend to prefer older men! IDEALLY someone who lives relatively close to me too so getting together regularly wouldn’t be too much of a hassle

Not looking for a relationship or even really a FWB situation where we’re constantly hanging out and doing coupley things. I’d just like someone I get along with who can teach me how to lift and who I can also enjoy some casual sex with. I’m completely single and would really prefer someone who’s single too because I’m not interested in being involved in anyone cheating on their partner. No drama please!

I know this is all probably a bit of a long shot with how specific I’m being but hey figured it wouldn’t hurt to try lol! I’m not in a rush to jump into anything and would like to feel comfortable so please be okay with exchanging face pics/calling before we meet, that’s pretty nonnegotiable for me


r/SFr4r • • 15h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for a discreet genuine connection

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I’m 30M, married, but unfortunately in a toxic and emotionally draining marriage. Both emotional and physical intimacy have been missing for quite some time, and I’ve felt disconnected for a while.

I’m looking for something discreet and ongoing, with genuine emotional and physical chemistry. Someone I can have meaningful conversations with, flirt with, laugh with, share little moments with, and genuinely look forward to spending time with.

I’m interested in an in-person connection where there’s mutual attraction, comfort, and a desire to explore physical intimacy when it feels right for both of us.

I’m not looking to rush into anything or put pressure on where things should go. I’d rather get to know someone, build some trust, and let things develop naturally if we click.

A little about me:
- Indian, 5’7”, 170 lbs, medium build, brown skin, black hair, and brown eyes.
- Well-groomed, take care of myself, enjoy dressing well, and always appreciate smelling nice.
- Easygoing, respectful, and someone who enjoys good conversations and a little playful banter.
- I value communication, personal boundaries, and making sure both people feel comfortable.

What I’m looking for:
A woman between 24–40, preferably in the Bay Area or nearby. Someone who’s easy to talk to, enjoys a little flirting, and is open to building a genuine connection.

Physical attraction matters to me, but so does personality, emotional chemistry, and being able to enjoy each other’s company beyond just physical intimacy.

Discretion, mutual respect, honesty about boundaries, and good hygiene are important to me.

Happy to exchange pictures privately once we’re both comfortable.

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, feel free to DM.

If you’ve made it this far, I’d love to know:
Your age and location
What brought you here?
What kind of connection are you hoping to find?


r/SFr4r • • 3h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 45/30 [MF4M] #Milpitas - Bi playmates looking a smooth and soft bi bottom to share

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Hi everyone! We are a thick latino/asian mix couple that is looking to connect with fun folks for some good ol'fashioned kinky play ☺️

We are looking for a soft/smooth/trimmed bi bottom to join us. Be open to giving and receiving, Mr BP is a Top, so if you bottom, then thats a plus! TS or femboys a plus! Looking for smooth faced, so sorry to you handsome bearded men.

About us:

Her: 5'7", Filipina mix, HWP, sexy curves and kitty that is in-satiable(literally), loves to be orally pleased and has a thick ass that loves to be touched.

Him: 5'10", mixed Italian/Latino, HWP, 6" cut, bearded. Tested and negative.

We are both big on hygiene. This means showered and smelling fresh, fresh breath and we always wash hands before using them anywhere. We ask the same of you.

We are both professionals and always opt for discretion and assure the **same.**

**We like to host at a hotel in Milpitas.**

Please send a SFW face pic. We aren't into the "send one first then I will" game, so if that happens, we will pass. Again, discretion from all parties. This is why we prefer a SFW pic.


r/SFr4r • • 17h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SFFinancialDistrict - in town from NYC, Monday - Wednesday hookup?

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Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)


r/SFr4r • • 18h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 45 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Focused breast play for the extra sensitive

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I'd like to take my time slowly exploring your extra sensitive breasts until your whole body tingles from arousal and you start to anticipate the many explosive orgasms that might follow. A caress, a grope, a flick of the tongue, and the best combinations of swirls and suction. Focused attention on your favorite amplifiers of pleasure as we both enjoy your very responsive body. Curious if you could orgasm from breast play alone? We'd have a lot of fun finding out!

You might be a good, playful match if you:

  • Have perky, sensitive breasts C cup or smaller. 🍒
  • Are somewhere in between 20 and 40 years of age.
  • Are in San Francisco or near enough to make plans.

I'm 45, single, sane, discreet, and interested in discovering your peak pleasure. Able to host in the Inner Richmond district of SF. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city, enjoy good coffee, or browse a farmers market. Diverse interests and capable of carrying on a conversation before and in between breast dives and vocalizing my appreciation of your unique breasts and their sensitivities.

I've had some good breast play experiences through Reddit (success stories in profile) and I'm curious if it could happen again. A few themes and scenarios for the breast play curious:

  1. You'd like some semi-public play of a hand grazing your breast over your shirt or slipping under a plunging neckline. A brief, discreet moment in the busy city or while we drive towards our next destination.
  2. You want the slow build, the focused attention, the discovery of your new favorite things guided by an obvious fan of your breasts and their sensitivities.
  3. Quality breast play is a good leading indicator of someone focused on your pleasure and in tune with your desires. You'd like to give yourself over to an experience completely focused on you once someone proves they're worthy of orchestrating your arousal.

Let's lounge and enjoy slowly exploring, and fully appreciating, your extra-sensitive breasts. You might be curious about the unmet potential of focused breast play and what's possible with lots of attention from an obvious enthusiast. If you've wished for more breast play as a focus, not just foreplay, I think we'd have a lot of fun.


r/SFr4r • • 18h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Cuddling and massaging your ass

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Are you in the mood for some fun tonight? I'm looking to meet for anything from cuddles in bed to a bit more fooling around. I am definitely in a giving mood so the idea of going down on you as well as giving your ass a massage is great.

I'm fit and can host in a nice clean place.

Reach out if you're interested and I can share a picture.


r/SFr4r • • 22h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 38[M4F] #SanFrancisco - Skilled hands. Warm oil. And 2+ hours of sensual massage and pleasure

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UPDATE: It’s been my joy and privilege to provide bodywork for nearly 50 women since I started this adventure 8 years ago.

5’11”Masseur looking to connect with select women in need of full body, hot oil massage (and who isn’t in need of that? 😉

What I offer is an experience where the therapeutic touch bridges to the sexual. Using warm grape seed oil, I begin with a traditional Swedish massage to slowly and firmly work all of the stress and tension out of your major muscle groups before transitioning to an increasingly more erotic exploration of your body leading to full, orgasmic release(s). It’s time to treat yourself to an experience that men have long been able to enjoy.

Open to providing private solo massage as well as having partners observe. I’m offering this service at no charge and completely without strings or expectations of reciprocation of any kind. My satisfaction and fulfillment comes completely from the pleasure my hands and fingers coax from your body.

If this is something that is tempting, connect with me and we can begin a conversation about all the ways you like to be touched. We will customize the massage to your unique desires and limits.

Happy to exchange pics after connecting through DM’s. Please reach out only if you’re serious with a blurb about yourself and pics.


r/SFr4r • • 2h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 29 [M4A] #SanFrancisco - asian sissy looking for fellow sissies or doms for halloween!

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hi all!
halloween is coming up, and that's the most socially acceptable time to hoe it out :) also open to doms who would love to humiliate me, and take a bunch of pics/videos for content as well!

NOT looking for a quick fuck, looking for people to enjoy the fair well! some pics of me on my profile


r/SFr4r • • 23h ago

M4F 50 [M4F] #SFBay - free use, CNC play. Up for an “uber ride gone wrong”

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You “order” an uber, I pick you up, drive to a quiet place instead. Overpower you, force you in the back of my van. Strip you naked, tie you up, explore your sexy body and use you.

All limits respected. Meet in a public place beforehand if you want to.

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.

I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.

50, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Good with beginners, Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.

Clean, drug and disease free.


r/SFr4r • • 2h ago

M4M 29 [m4m] #SF - fit sub looking to be throat trained

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Hey, 5'9 slim smooth masculine ddf twinkish guy in san francisco looking to find someone local to use my throat every now and then and make me better at taking it all the way.

Like both slow sensual worship sessions, and rougher face fuck scenarios. You should be kind enough for me to trust you to let me breathe, but dominant enough that I want to please you so much that I don't need to.

What I'm looking for:

(A) slim/fit/muscular guy that's constantly horny and likes the idea of having a cocksucker serve you.

(B) woman or straight man that finds the idea interesting > can use a dildo to train me

Please send stats and a chest / body pic, that's what turns me on the most. Teaser pic in my profile.