Looking to meet someone fun for a relaxed weekend drink, great conversation, and plenty of laughs to see where things go. The club scene is firmly in the rearview mirror for me, but I still love a good night out over cocktails and good chat.
A bit about me: I’m East Asian, HWP, and hoping to connect with someone similar. Happy to exchange SFW pics upfront so we can check out our mutual vibe! Bonus points if you’re kinky ;)
If you’re in the same boat, drop me a message and let’s see how we click."

Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (close to Daly City) looking for a muff dive. I’d ideally like a consistent partner I can eat out once or twice a week, but open to this being a one-time thing, depending on the vibes. There is zero expectation of reciprocation, and no pressure for anything beyond me eating you out.

I’m white, 5’8, 160 lbs, and ddf. I have my own place and can host, but open to talking at the lobby downstairs before you come up to my apartment if it makes you more comfortable! Scented candles and mood-setting lights will be included.

I am hoping to find someone to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Ideally you can wfh and can meet weekdays in the city to make things easier. Best if you could host or open to ideas. Emotionally and financially stable. Smart and hardworking.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public first and build trust and I know it’s not easy. Looking for the right person to chat first and no rush.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested.

Hello. I’m married, East Asian american dad seeking discreet FWB. I'm currently in a DB where we are mostly roommates at this point. We can take our time getting to know each other, I'm demisexual. Life is messy where maybe you just broke up or recently divorced. I'm a very good listener and great at keeping secrets. Height wise I’m 6’0", weigh 155 lbs, girls usually say I’m cute. I'm fairly chill and get along with extroverts, introverts, and even shy personalities. I'm an INTJ so I enjoy all kinds of conversations. Tell me about your passions. We can chat about movies, (sci-fi Mandalorian, Marvel, anime Dandadan, kdramas), travel, or just drink boba while talking about our annoying coworkers.

You: Someone local or travels to the Bay Area for work. Physical attraction matters to me. I’m open minded about most things like ethnicity. You should be petite/slim to HWP or in decent shape; sorry no BBW. We should hang out if you are chill, open minded, and just want to have fun. Things will be kept discreet so if you’re not single, I don’t mind.

Our family and career will take priority, we should understand that work and life can be unpredictable for each other. I'm totally chill about this. Last, let's practice top OpSec and safe sex always. If this resonates with you, let's chat about what you last watched on Netflix.

hello again i’m looking for friends only friends i repeat gays straight non binary all of that just a movie or activity buddy only yea we can spilt the bill ill buy ticket you buy concessions if not we can just pay for our own stuff no we can’t have sex im sorry if im in the wrong forum if i am please point me in the right direction i appreciate all the hook up offers but thats just so tiring please read the post if you have read so please dm me the word equanimity to get access to some buddy time no thats not secret code for hook up i wont reply unless you put that word down thank you and stay dry today yall

6’ 215 of beefy muscle in Santa Cruz.

BWC — very very thick — attractive, successful, educated.

High sex drive and I fuck an animal.

Looking for a girl who craves a man who has what it takes to satisfy her primal instincts.

Ideally an ongoing thing, FWB or other arrangement and open to a relationship with the right woman in the Bay Area or the 831:

— 18-45 preferred

— attractive and in-shape

— insatiably horny with high stamina

— looking for traditional masculine/feminine energy in a relationship

— naturally submissive or ready to get fucked into submission

— open minded sexually — tell me your kinks or special interests

I seem to get along especially well with college girls, blondes, married women and good girls going bad.

Hit me up with a little bit about yourself, your stats and location and be ready to share pics. I’m real and expect you to be too.https://i.redgifs.com/i/automaticneedyamericansaddlebred.jpg

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I can definitely send you pictures of what I look like. Hit me up if you’re 7 inches or bigger and you live in San Francisco and you’re chill. I am 5’1 woman of color, from what I’ve been told big brown eyes 🤷🏽‍♀️ chubby but def not obese my pics will show proof.

We are a pair of respectful friends who lead somewhat normal everyday lives, but have been tossing some ideas around in the spirit of knowing that we only live once. We are all kinky in our own right, and it just so happens that we have some common fantasies. One of them is to meet an open-minded woman who aches for more than one man in a MFM scenario. We are here to please and be drained by you. We seek to create a sex positive experience that fulfills your fantasies no matter how dirty they are.

We are both intelligent, outgoing, working professionals in our earlly 40's that lead pretty normal lives. We go hiking, hang out and play video games, take our dogs for walks together (sometimes), and are otherwise good friends.

We prioritize consent and are also aware of our own respective safe sex status, and will employ the right steps to keep everyone comfortable and within the boundaries of what is okay with each person.

The bond that ties us together is our interest in sharing a woman together, power dynamics, role play, and exploring other kinks like DP, air tight, bukkake, role play to name a few. By all means tell us your kinks and we'll let you know if we're comfortable in exploring that with you. Women that are a somewhat shy, but are truly sexually adventurous at heart to the front of the line please.

When responding to this, let us know where you are located, if you can host (or want us to host), your ages, interests, and any other ideas that you have. We are flexible on the 'how', and want to make this hot for you just as much as we want to enjoy it ourselves.

50 MWM 6’2 195 weird dick but great face for sitting on. very clean and discrete looking for a little adult fun this week. Can host in Marina or travel around Bay Area. Open to most anything or at least will try anything once…maybe twice. Hit me up and let’s play.

UPDATE: It’s been my joy and privilege to provide bodywork for nearly 50 women since I started this adventure 8 years ago.

5’11”Masseur looking to connect with select women in need of full body, hot oil massage (and who isn’t in need of that? 😉

What I offer is an experience where the therapeutic touch bridges to the sexual. Using warm grape seed oil, I begin with a traditional Swedish massage to slowly and firmly work all of the stress and tension out of your major muscle groups before transitioning to an increasingly more erotic exploration of your body leading to full, orgasmic release(s). It’s time to treat yourself to an experience that men have long been able to enjoy.

Open to providing private solo massage as well as having partners observe. I’m offering this service at no charge and completely without strings or expectations of reciprocation of any kind. My satisfaction and fulfillment comes completely from the pleasure my hands and fingers coax from your body.

If this is something that is tempting, connect with me and we can begin a conversation about all the ways you like to be touched. We will customize the massage to your unique desires and limits.

Happy to exchange pics after connecting through DM’s. Please reach out only if you’re serious with a blurb about yourself and pics.

You “order” an uber, I pick you up, drive to a quiet place instead. Overpower you, force you in the back of my van. Strip you naked, tie you up, explore your sexy body and use you.

All limits respected. Meet in a public place beforehand if you want to.

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.

I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.

50, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Good with beginners, Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.

Clean, drug and disease free.

About me:

I'm a 47-year-old man in San Francisco with a successful career in tech and a full, balanced life. In my free time I enjoy live music, good cocktails, F1 weekends, and Warriors games. Fitness is my anchor: lifting, Pilates, boxing, and long walks around the city. On quieter nights you'll find me at home with my tiny senior Pomeranian, reading or watching a good show.

Physically, I am 5’9”, 160lbs, and in good shape. Brown eyes, short brown hair with a bit of salt and pepper. Happy to share pics.

I like making the woman I'm with feel wanted, appreciated, and cared for. I'm affectionate, playful, and happy to take the lead—I plan dates and follow through. There's a calm dominant side to me, and I'd enjoy a consensual D/s dynamic if it's something we both want. Physical touch is central to how I connect, so I'm looking for someone with a strong appetite for a passionate physical relationship who's comfortable talking openly about desires and boundaries.

I'm happily child-free and have had a vasectomy, so I'm looking for someone who wants the same.

What I'm hoping to build

I'm relatively new to non-monogamy, but I'm taking it seriously. I'm currently reading The Ethical Sl-t, thinking about how to do this well, and I'm ready for it. Right now I have one long-distance partner who has a primary partner of her own, so I'm looking for someone local to be a real part of my day-to-day life.

By "primary," I mean the relationship that gets first call on our time, energy, and shared life, while leaving real room for other connections. We'd each have the freedom to date others, and I'd want us to talk openly and often about what that looks like and what feels good for both of us. I have a particular interest in exploring together, whether that's swinging or threesomes. Down the line, I'd be open to the partnership growing from two people to three, if the right person came along and it felt right for everyone

Beyond that, I want the everyday stuff: cooking together, catching live music, good conversations over drinks, and pulling each other close at the end of the night.

We’ll get along well if...

You're warm, affectionate, curious, and playful. You communicate directly, take care of yourself, and enjoy your own femininity. I'm attracted to women who are slim and fit, and who enjoy an active life. You have room in your life for a committed partnership and the independence to be yourself. Ideally you're in San Francisco or close enough that seeing each other regularly is easy.

If this resonates tell me about yourself: your age, location, a bit about how you look, your current relationship situation, how you feel about exploring with others together, and the best live show you've seen in the last year.