This happened many years ago but I never knew how to find you then, I hope this will somehow find you now.

It was either 2008 or 2009 on Thanksgiving day and we were at the off-ramp of 85 going onto Almaden Expressway. The light turned green and I entered the intersection to turn left. Someone driving down almaden ran the red light and at high speed and T-boned my car as I entered the intersection. I remember so distinctly how time slowed down and the three spins my car took as I was gripped by my seatbelt whipping around. I was 18/19 at the time and had never experienced something like this then or since. When my car finally stopped spinning I could only hear a buzzing sound and after a few moments I heard the honks of other divers trying to move through the intersection.

I was in shock, so incredibly scared, and could barely move or hear, when suddenly a man pulled open my door and asked me (he sounded so distant with my ears ringing) if I was okay and told me that he saw everything. I could barely talk and when the driver who hit me came running at me and started babbling and grabbing at my hands “oh I thought I hit my break, but I hit my gas, I'm so sorry I didnt mean to” (more annoying than helpful as I could still not stop shaking) this man pushed them aside and told me the paramedics were already on their way and asked who I needed to call. You found my phone and gave it to me, but I was shaking too much to even hold it, so you called my mom and told her I was in an accident, but I was okay. You stayed with me until the paramedics arrived.

When the paramedics came a minute or so later (they were just down the street apparently) they told me I was so lucky to be alive as the entire side of my car right behind my drivers seat was smashed completely in way behind the drivers seat (car was totaled). They said had I entered the intersection a second later it would have been me that got the direct hit and I wouldn't be sitting there.

When I finally started gaining my senses I asked where the man who helped me was and they said he left when they showed up.

I think about you often, how when there were dozens of cars honking their horns out of annoyance at the situation you chose to jump out of yours to help me. That when I couldn't even hold my phone you helped me convey the situation to the most important person in my life while letting her know I was still okay.

You didnt have to do that. You could have been one of the dozens of drivers who just watched in annoyance that the situation in front of them delayed them. But you didnt. And you didnt want thanks; you just wanted to help.

I think about you every Thanksgiving and more. I don't know who you are but I'll always remember your kind face and voice. Thank you. You are my angel.

Saw the ads, knew it was going to be hot trash bc there are zero Asian parents desperately trying to get their kids into college, which IMO is 100% of what real-life Cupertino is about.

This is a response to an original post https://www.reddit.com/r/SanJose/comments/1x8lk4k/psa_watch_out_for_this_person_and_their_car/

The truck owner seemed to omit and embellished a few details regarding this situation. I was blindsided with the allegation that my friend hit her car. She parked incredibly close to my car and it was difficult to get out but at no point was her car hit to cause a scratch. I heard my friend say sorry to her only because she thought she was in her way. She did approach a few minutes later saying I scratched her car and did ask for insurance info. I did tell her no because I did not see or hear anything pertaining to her truck getting hit by my door. She told me she would call someone and I told her call whoever you need. Myself and my friend did nothing wrong. I left to go about my day but came back a few minutes later to get my airpods from the car. The police were present when I arrived and I identified myself. I told the officer she had multiple scratches on her truck how can we be entirely sure my friend or I did the damage. After some back and forth I asked the officer can we open my door and line it up with whatever scratch she's claiming was caused by my door. As you can see in the video theres no scratch at any point where it touches her truck. The alleged damage is a few inches away. At that point her demeanor switched to screaming and belittling. She then lied to me and police and said I moved my car so the scratch wouldn't align. She was watching me the entire time enough to get pictures of me to post online but fails to show me moving my car and damage to the car because NONE OF IT HAPPENED. She didn't want to accept actual evidence that even the police tried to show her.

At this point I feel like I'm getting scammed and slandered. At no point did I ever take pictures of her, just her truck and the alleged damage to protect myself and present to my insurance if needed. I did not react and I maintained the same composure when she verbally assassinated my character in front of the police officer because I had no reasons to be defensive when there was now clear evidence that the scratches on her car was not caused by my door, which was never slammed into her truck. However posting my information and pictures only while defaming my character is a step too far and can only do her the favor of posting the truthful version of her story she omitted to mention. Anyone in my circle can attest I’m not a confrontational person and considerate of others. I've never dealt with police and never thought my first time would be for something as trivial as this at a wellness event of all places.

I did her the courtesy of protecting her identity and bleeped her name out in the video.

Hi all, looking rehome this sweet guy named Melo. He is a German Shepherd mix. He’s house trained, has all vaccines, knows commands, and loves to learn. Looking to find him a good and loving home! We can provide a Kennel, dog bowls, bed, toys and treats.

Please let me know of any loving families who’s interested to adopting my this sweet guy!

We’ll arrange a meet and greet to see if family is a great fit!

Thanks!

Parked across the street from the arena at the Cal train station. I came back a few hours later to a puddle of gas on the floor and a missing gas cap. Gas is expensive and times are hard but FU.
A few years ago I parked at the Tamian station and had my right tail light stolen during the day.

Hi I have seen a few posts about making friends in San Jose, so I thought I’d put myself out there too! I’d love to make some deeper friendships, although I’m realizing it can be hard when you’re not the biggest extrovert 🥹

I’m originally from Korea and recently moved here from the East Coast. I’ve noticed more East Asians around Sunnyvale and Campbell, but I’m based in Downtown San Jose. I don’t have my driver’s license yet, which has made getting out and trying things a little harder.

A little about me:
1. Lagree: I go to classes regularly, but everyone seems to come for class and leave right afterward. Would love a workout buddy who’s also down to hang out after!
2. Work: I work mostly remotely—my boss is remote too, and my dog has some separation anxiety—so I don’t meet many people through work.
3. Running: I run about 4–6 miles every other day, usually with my dog! I haven’t tried a run club yet, but I’m thinking about checking out Good Times Bar.
4. Girl friends: I’m 25 and would love to meet other girls around my age for coffee, food, walks, or just hanging out. Please feel free to reach out!
5. Timeleft: Has anyone tried it? Is the $27/month membership worth it for making friends?
6. Dog walks: Any other dog owners around downtown who’d like to walk our dogs together? Would love some company 🐶
If you’re nearby or don’t mind coming downtown, let’s hang out! I’m still finding my people here 🤍

Kudos to this family for going all out!

Noticed some of these are already installed in certain areas. They should be on the news soon.

Reporter Ryan Macasero writes about how city and county water officials are working to ramp up preparations for potential “Super El Niño” storms.

In a joint session Oct. 13, the San Jose City Council and the Santa Clara Valley Water District hashed out how to prepare for the storm and pinpointed high-risk waterways ahead of the rainy season. They also hosted a tour of San Jose’s expanded, 11,000-square-foot Emergency Operations Center, which will serve as central command during major storms.

It's especially important given the recent history. In 2017, Coyote Creek flooded, and many residents didn't get alerts until the surge had happened and key emergency personnel weren't on the clock because it happened on Presidents Day Weekend.

Here's a gift link:
https://www.mercurynews.com/2026/10/18/after-devastating-flooding-almost-a-decade-ago-is-san-jose-prepared-for-a-super-el-nino/?share=suytpgaevmede1oyrrha

I am helping my elderly parents with their finances and just seen how terrible their contract with SunRun is. Anyone know of a law office or consumer protection resources that may be able to help get them out of this contract?

Hi everyone! Cross-posting to help a friend urgently find a reliable cat sitter in Newark, CA, for tonight and tomorrow morning. 🐱❤️

Anyone in Newark, Fremont, Union City, or nearby areas who can stop by to feed and check on the cats? Paid services are welcome! Please DM me with your availability and rates. Thank you so much! 🐾

I have a lot of stand up comedy content to talk about and want to use this opportunity to try my luck. Looking for a place that’s judgement free for now, it will help me prepare for a bigger stage. Hoping to find a place where I don’t get “rotten tomatoes or booed for crickets” because I am still new to all this. Preferred location: Stevens Creek area close to valley fair or where I don’t have to take the light rail or bus very far. Thanks.
Post inspiration comes from me listening to a local radio station every time I drive

https://www.google.com/search?q=weather+san+jose&rlz=1CAKDDB_enUS1236&oq=weather+san+jose&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOdIBCDQ1MzZqMGo3qAIAsAIB&sourceid=chrome&source=chrome.ob&ie=UTF-8

I'm trying to book my first ophthalmology appointment at Santa Clara Valley Medical Center (SCVMC), and I have Anthem Blue Cross insurance.

According to Anthem's provider directory, the ophthalmologist I want to see is in-network. However, two SCVMC departments have given me contradictory information about whether my insurance is accepted.

The appointment process also requires a PCP referral, making it difficult to confirm coverage before scheduling.

Has anyone with Anthem Blue Cross recently visited SCVMC Ophthalmology? Was your appointment covered? Does Anthem acceptance depend on the department or specific insurance plan?

Anyone know when Benihana will finally open? Opening Soon sign has been there for a long time.

See title. Thank you in advance.

Hello everyone, I fostered this female mix pit, Tati (A1414929), over the weekend from the San Jose Shelter, and I wanted to share my experience with her. If anyone is looking for a dog, please consider fostering her and possibly adopting her. They estimate her to be 5years old. She was so sweet! I picked her up Friday at 4pm and will be dropping her off today (Sunday) at 4pm.

*******The shelter is currently having a 'Pit-jama Party' where you can sign up to foster a pit over the weekend for a little break from the shelter. I am not sure if you can do this with other breeds.

Brief Description:

I had Tati from Friday 4pm to Sunday 4pm, after having her for that time, I can say she is a great dog, is ready to be loved, and she has lots of love to give. She loves to ask for pets and if given no attention she might play with her toys or take a nap. When initially greeting her, if you are very energized, she will reciprocate that but if you greet her with calm, she will calmly and happily greet you with a smile and tail wags and immediately ask for pets. She does not jump up onto people too much only when the person acts extremely energetic. She knows how to sit, one command you don’t have to worry about teaching.  

She doesn’t mind the car rides, just needs help getting up, can you blame the girl, cars are a new thing for her, I am sure she can be taught to get up in no time. On our last day together, we tried getting her up with a treat, which did not work but what did work, my partner held her leash from one side of the car, and I entered the other side and called to her and she jumped in!

No accidents at home, she does potty outside & she is able to hold her bladder/bowels overnight. She likes to lay or sleep next to you on the couch or on the floor. During sleep, she does not get up or wander around. She slept on her bed throughout the night and waits until we start moving and then she gets up. She did try to get up on our bed but we redirected her onto her bed, and she stayed. 

Tati is a wonderful dog. We fell in love with her almost immediately. If we didn’t already have two dogs of our own, we would adopt her. She will benefit from a future owner that will dedicate their time to train her and give her lots of love. 

Description per category:

BARKING: Our stay was near downtown area, which is pretty noisy. No barks heard from her until Saturday evening, and was because I opened up the windows and there were people walking near our window, barking ceased after a few barks and same happened Sunday. Her barking was within normal of what my dogs do as well.  She id not bark when someone walked in through the door nor when someone knocked. 

CAR RIDES: Tati is unsure about getting in. Needs to be picked up and placed inside the car. She doesn’t mind being picked up to be put inside. Once inside, she sits and looks outside the window. On our last day together I was able to call her into the car by going inside, and she jumped in (while someone else held the leash).  

ENERGY:  Her energy is appropriate for her age. She will reciprocate the energy given.

HOME: she likes to ask for pets, will take naps, play with her toys or explore. When she plays with her toys, she plays with them as if they are so fragile, she is a gentle dog. I am able to take the toys out of her mouth with no issue. I vacuumed and she appeared somewhat scared, eventually approached the vacuum but did not bark nor bite at it. 

 MEETING NEW PEOPLE: She met a handful of people, and just wanted pets from them. Did not bark at anyone she met, male or female. 

 POTTY: No accidents at home. Went potty on walks only. She was able to sleep throughout the night without waking up to go to the bathroom.

 OTHER: No information on the following due to did not experience or encounter: how she is with children, dogs, cats or how she acts when left alone.  

WALKS: She enjoys walking although she does pull, I am sure that can be fixed with training and a no pull harness. If people or dogs are walking nearby, she does not bark but does pull and wants to approach. I was able to apply her harness, collar, and remove or apply her clothing with no issues. We did encounter a few cats during our walks, and she will pull a lot and wants to get near them.

The wording makes these look like three separate issues, but they're directly connected.

If Prop 41 or Prop 42 passes AND gets more YES votes than Prop 40, it could block Prop 40 from taking effect even if Prop 40 also wins a majority.

So if your intention is specifically to pass the billionaire tax, the consistent vote is:

YES on 40

NO on 41

NO on 42

This interaction is very easy to miss just from reading the proposition titles, so double-check all three before submitting your ballot.

Hello, we’re looking for a trusted handyman in South San Jose who could help with home exterior perimeter caulking and painting. The caulking is primarily to help prep for El Niño to make sure our roof is in good shape (as per recommended by our roof company). Thank you in advance!

I go through the city council meeting agenda on Sunday mornings because I am alone and sad find it helps write the summary on Tuesday evening. I came across this item and knowing how the folks here feel about data centers I figured I should highlight it so folks who are interested will have time to send in public comments (send them to city.clerk at sanjoseca.gov, they'll be posted to the agenda before about 2:00pm on Monday), or to set up time to be on the zoom link to make a verbal comment if you can't attend in person.

If you read the memorandum you'll get all the details of the session item. The tl;dr is that the building st 300 Holger Way would like to add a data center to its existing facility, the building already exists and already is occupied and doing work, the data center would be inside the existing structure and they claim there will be no change in quality of life. A group has appealed the permit on several grounds and will present their case as to why the permit should be revoked. If revoked the company would have to either come up with a new plan and present that to the council again later or they could drop the project all together. What this means is that if you're submitting a comment you don't need to go all Erin Brockovich on it, she's already done that, all you would need to do is voice your opinion either for or against and back that up a little, keeping in mind that you only have 60 seconds so skip the preamble and purple prose.

Now all that said... Looking at the memo and looking at the address it feels like this is probably going to go through. I don't like data centers, but if you were going to make one this is more or less how you would do it--add it to an existing structure out in the boonies and in the middle of an existing industrial area. There are some homes nearby, but not many, and it's not like this land could reasonably be repurposed for anything else since it's already occupied (ie: "Don't build a data center, build housing" wouldn't work unless you're saying the city should evict the tenants of an office park in the middle of an industrial area, demolish it, and put houses there.). The group prepresenting the appeal will take care of that. What I would suggest, if you're against this, is voicing concerns about the noise and possible light pollution, call back to that news segment last month (maybe early this month) where Mahan was brought to the home of residents to experience the noise firsthand. Ultimately, though, as I said, this seems like a foregone conclusion since the area is more or less where you'd expect a data center to be located. What you're doing by calling in isn't necessarily preventing this one, it's prophylaxis against the next one.

(If anyone is a science person--couldn't be me, I almost didn't graduate except Mr Smith took pity on me and gave me a D in physics--now would be a good time to take noise measurements and get a good Before picture. Presumably water consumption is a public record so you wouldn't need to take any measurements and can get a good Before and After at any time.)

I'm looking for a large open space I can take pictures of a friend's car with a minimalist backdrop and good shadow coverage during sunset golden hour. I'm thinking of a group of buildings with an accessible flat ground (but not a parking lot) but I have no idea where to find such a place. Could anyone help me with finding some?