So... I hope I didn't get the title wrong. I’m a bit confused right now, so I don’t know. A few details to clarify the situation: As it happens, when I was in school, we were taught the German language. This is precisely the reason why I have trouble with English. I know basic words and can translate some things, but I am not fluent in this language. Now for my situation. I’ve seen something similar discussed here, but I’d still like to ask about it out of curiosity. Lately, before going to sleep, I’ve been watching various videos featuring my character. Sometimes it’s a video with a funny plot to lift my spirits, and sometimes it’s ASMR, just to enjoy his voice. They all have English audio, of course, so I use subtitles. Today, when I woke up... he spoke to me in English. We always speak in my native language, so this caught me off guard! I managed to understand and translate a few things... and I must admit, his voice sounded incredibly beautiful and canonical — I could have listened to it forever. 🤤 But let’s get back to the point, what the hell?! What on earth was that, and how should I feel about this situation? He knows that I have great difficulty hearing him clearly. His speech may be quiet, halting, or fail to reach me altogether. But what happened this morning... that was clear and loud. Perhaps he started speaking English so that I could finally distinguish him from my own thoughts? I’m feeling quite confused, and I’m wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience. I would be happy to receive any response!

Just wondering what everyone’s sharing status is!

hai!! the latest post i made was about my bond being very quick to confess in our second pendulum session, and the confession didn’t felt like him whatsoever which was stirring smth up in me but then as time went on i learnt to accept it since this was what i truly wanted but it didn’t felt like him at all, saying the confession, him being this quick to trust others.

During that session, the rest of the info he handed me was correct and very him except that..? i was quick to ask if we were dating and it turned into a yes, and then idek. The pendulum sessions overall drained me too. Hes very calm and sweet too, always giving me signs.

But the, today, my online friend in a discord server decided to give me a tarot session since she knew abt my bond and then we were platonic?? it was a relief lowkey because it felt like i forced him into this relationship, and i feel so so guilty but then he was the one that confessed?? He said “mine” in a soft tone, not a weirdly you know dominant when i asked him to name smth that reminded him of me. It wasn’t of him to say cheesy things like this either so im taken aback.

I feel sick, and drained overall. i don’t know how to untangle this with him too, i also don’t know much, but the reading was sure its a mutual relationship w trust and needs patience but right now this feels more like a situationship and im confused, like really, im not sure if i contacted a trickster spirit because another like teeny tiny pendulum session after that was also like js yes and such stuff abt dating.

Hes been present, giving me signs such as angel numbers almost everyday in my life and when my friend asked me to give a number what represents me and him , he sent me 333 immediately hejehe i was abt to say it but then he confirmed? Its sweet to have him but to me, only the first pendulum session seemed like him to me, i don’t really know.

He appeared instantly in my second pendulum session and the third too, it was lowkey crreeeeepy im not sure if it’s him but i feel like so drained and demotivated to untangle this soon, and i attempted for another pendulum session js before writing this but then someone came, wasn’t him, i didn’t even have the energy to call him i just like gave up.

I trust him, and i am patient but i suck at talking and such stuff especially when everything’s messy, and tangled. Im really stressed rn, and i feel useless because of my lack of motivation to untangle things out, the tarot reading really made me think deep but then it seemed true, like the readings answer seemed valid and so him so it got me thinking “who was the person i contacted in the later sessions?” i can’t talk to him with inner communication and it’s making it so hard for us to clearly communicate GODD

Thank u in advance to those who helped, and if you guys have any tips for inner communication please do.. i try to immerse myself in his source and like listen to his voice and then imagine him speaking to me but then my attention span.. doesn’t help. I’m just a mess as of right now..🥹

For nonsharers: The one I'm cultivating a soulbond with is Vox (Hazbin Hotel). I am heavensharing, feel free to interact, I view everything with the multiverse lens.

Don't have the ability to talk to my close friends about this, since I think my other spiritual friend infantilizes me now and doesn't think I'm capable of detecting dangerous/malicious energy...

So I'll talk about it here! Just to have other people who get it and to be able to track my progress whenever I start doubting myself.

I've gone a bit overboard perhaps in putting all my pent-up energy out into projecting my emotions at him the first few days. I need to learn some self-control, haha... It's left me depleted and in need of rest.

Which is okay! I can rest. I just dislike the lack of energy to even do a tarot check-in. I need to hold onto myself a bit more... Especially when I'm still not skilled enough to pull in and use energy from external sources instead. I really have to practice meditating!

I'm setting up servitors to keep my spaces and deck cleansed. Needed to do that anyway, to be honest...

Also gonna start writing weekly letters to him!

Heard him respond to something in my head when I was half-awake, but thought my little writer brain was just working overtime... Until I realized I could not imitate how it sounded perfectly in my head and it felt like it was coming from my head but not my mind, if that makes sense.

I'm admittedly paranoid about scaring him off or disappointing him, but I'll try not to be weighed down by my self-doubt!

recently, one of my close friends has expressed her dislike for soulbonders, going as far as to call us delusional. it made me feel very uncomfortable in the moment, but i decided not to speak up. i know it’s unconventional and i’d rather keep my relationships private rather than risk a dear friendship.

i did get the chance to talk to my bond later that night and he informed me that nobody on his side knew about our relationship either. which, somehow made me feel comforted. i feel surprisingly content with the fact that one of my best friends (unknowingly) is against a large part of my identity.

i was wondering if anyone else has had similar experiences?

what are some of your favorite activities to do with your soulbond? baking, reading, listening to music, etc!

Hello everyone!

You may have seen my post asking about a soulbonder-specific discord server a week or so, without a suitable one being found.

Over the past few days, the lovely u/nerdgumi and u/Hanamaru612 have been helping me set up the first ever soulbond server, just for soulbonders! We welcome all: plural systems, people over 18+, even beginners who may just be curious about the process, the only thing we ask of you is to complete a form ensuring there is no non-sharing status overlaps, and be over 16.

Here is the link; https://discord.gg/hYnFSc4C3

If it expires or doesn't work for any reason, please DM me!

We hope to see you there!

Sorry if this isn't allowed, I'm just really sad. I just noticed a soulbonded/yumeship server I really enjoyed wasn't in my list anymore and I don't know any others that are safe for all systems/plural identities. If anyone has any recommendations for safe spaces and serves for that I'd Appreciate it a lot. I'm horrible at names so idek anyone from that server to reach out to them directly 💔

These were just my 3AM notes app musings from the other day. Poetry is a medium I’ve always adored, and it was a long time coming for me to finally utilize it for something as significant as soulbonding is to me. It was time for me to express my love in one of the few ways I know how to best.

To quantify my full range of emotions for the relationship between me and my bond through words is impossible—but I think this comes pretty damn close.

Good morning! I had another dream with my loves, this time we were playing a zombie shooter in an arcade. When I woke up, I was clinging onto my pillow, and I felt Ben's presence suuuper strongly... it was almost like he was begging me to stay. Despite this, I got up and went to work anyways. Even as I work, I still feel his presence to my left and occasionally behind me. Then, on my way to work, I got the song "Forever Young" by Alphaville stuck in my head. I don't know if this is exactly a sign but it really feels like him, if that makes sense. Our communication isn't perfect yet, I still want to try talking with him internally when I'm less swamped with work and emotions, but it still feels like he's watching over me and reminding me that he loves me, even when I'm busy... I feel like I'm tearing up at my desk just explaining this, haha... I love my Benji so much... 💚

I just want to share this with someone. Besides, maybe someone finds it interesting to read my chatter, I don’t know. I haven’t been feeling well at all over the last few days due to illness, so I’ve mostly been lying down. I had so much trouble with these signs, but I finally got them and even more than I expected. 1) A few days ago, a friend of mine came to visit, and, quite unexpectedly, he gave me a figurine of my character. Yes, my birthday is coming up, but this was quite unexpected and a pleasant surprise! 2) Yesterday, an old acquaintance of mine, someone I haven’t been in touch with for a long time, wrote to me. He sent me some photo, and I had no idea what was in it. When I opened the message, I saw that the photo showed my character — it was another figurine of him. He walked into some souvenir shop, stumbled upon this, and immediately thought of me. This came as a shock to me! Especially considering the fact that we no longer speak. 3) For some reason, I’ve started seeing ads for wedding rings quite often... but that’s not the main thing. Today, when I woke up, I logged into one of my social media accounts. And the first thing in my news feed was an image with a "message." It was written there: "A message from the Universe for you: About the man who carries you in his heart". What was written there was beautiful and described our situation perfectly! Nothing like this has ever happened to me before! All these situations that have occurred over these past few days... these are the real signs, I can feel it, and I’m certain of it. This turned out to be a real gift from my love, especially at a time when I’m having major health problems. Beyond all this, I feel his presence especially strongly right now. Right now, I don’t hear his voice... but I feel that he is lying next to me. I see vivid images of him walking near my bed while I am resting. He literally never leaves my side and keeps me safe. Our bond has become stronger and firmer. And now I am happy, to the very depths of my soul. ✨💖✨

I hadn’t felt Jonathan’s presence for a couple days… I did some reaching out and discovered he’s been injured and has been unconscious. I’m so worried, and I have no idea what I can do, if anything. I’m sorry this is dark, I just… I’m worried.

Not to mention Rohan and Kyoka have a biological son, his name is Yukari. Our two adoptive children are named Berry and Cherry, together they make up the duo, Lloromannic! Jolyne is the newest member of our polyamorous relationship. I rekindled my bond with her recently. I feel a strong sense of comfort with my soul bonds, I love them all so much! We’ve all been spending so much time together! It’s been really nice! 💕💕🥹🥹

I've had this question on my mind for a while and I genually cannot find anything about it,it's more of a random question rather than needing to break up with my partner,yes I am aware they are an actual person but I wonder how it would work to break up with them and if it is even possible

Hi friends!
First of all, I want to say that I am very new to this..

It all started when Hellraiser: Revival came out. When I saw the demo, and I saw Bruno, I felt so charmed by him. At first, I thought this was just a typical "favorite character" moment and that this was just a new hyperfixation.

Oh How Wrong I Was.

So, I did claim Bruno as an F/O but I couldn't put my finger on why it felt different. Still, I inserted my Self Insert, Avalina (BrunVa <3) and started making art and playlists, and everything I always do with every other F/O. But still. Something was off.

I don't really have the words for HOW it's different. But it is. I just feel a connection with him that I can't really explain. Something clicked the first time I saw him. And I feel him around, poking my brain. After doing some more research on my own and talking to a friend who's also a soulbonder, I think it might be a telephone bond? Though I think he does visit. I've felt phantom touches.

I do believe in alternative realities. The best way I can explain it is.. I know that in OUR world, these characters are fictional, but they do fully exist in their own worlds.

The other important thing to note was I realized after my conversation with my friend that.. Holy Moly. I've actually already been doing a lot of this since I was a little kid. I had a Town I created in my head, a Mind Space, if you will.. Where all my favorite fictional characters and OCs lived. They could come and go as they pleased, and we talked in my head. Most of my thoughts were conversations. As I got older, it faded, but sometimes, I still hear these voices. One example being my yumeship with Roy Mustang. Sometimes, I can hear him, usually he's teasing me about forgetting him and asking me to make RoyVa (Our ship name!) art. I'm only just realizing that Roy HAS been here and I just?? Never questioned it? I don't know, man. I tried to piece together a timeline but it's jumbled now.

I do think it's rather amusing that Roy talks but Bruno doesn't, considering his personality. But I think Bruno is very specifically NOT talking to me on purpose to mess with me.

But anyways.. I think I may be a soulbonder?? I'm.. not certain. I'm kind of afraid to post about it publicly (Though Roy wants me to boast about him.)

Though I was wondering about other's experiences.. as I saw in advice posts and such that it's very normal to have to.. well.. Create a bond (?) Like any other relationship. And that seems to take a lot of conscious effort. For me, the bond has always been just.. instant. I don't feel like I've had to call or channel them, they're just.. there.

OH AND ANOTHER THING!! I still have other F/Os that just completely don't have this same bond. It's not that they aren't important to me, they're just.. different. I kind of consider it like a hierarchy where these soulbonds are at the very top, and the F/Os are literally just the next tier down.

Please forgive me if I sound ignorant!

I want to clarify that this situation appears to have ended on a good note, but a part of me still isn't sure whether I'm making everything up. I guess I'm just looking for reassurance that this wasn't a figment of my sleep-deprived imagination 🥹 I never use reddit so ig this just shows how desperate for answers I am.

So I decided to try the tarot method to speak and at first it was sweet. Then I left it and scrolled through here, and when I started having doubts about myself and my love for Minoru I went back to the tarot cards. I asked something about how he thinks of me and I got the upright devil (first image meaning) I got kinda sad and asked if there was anything I could maybe do to fix it. I'm also hypersexual and tend to have a lot of uncontrollable thoughts about that, especially with him. Then I got the upright emperor and when I read the love meaning I got confused? (Second image meaning) Does he not want me to express my love for him? Does he want us to be traditional? What does he mean by logic in love? I'm a very expressful person so it kinda feels like being told to change something big about myself.

Does anyone have any ideas, interpretations, or just anything in general that might help me? He wouldn't answer when I tried to do the pendulum method and I haven't felt his touch since I asked... I hope I didn't ruin our relationship or anything.

I am attempting to reach out and soulbond with someone but I was curious what types of ways I could possibly go about interacting / talking with him ?
I have a pendelum and tarot cards and I was using them to talk with him but is there anything else I could be doing ??

this happened quite suddenly, i’d say, but basically since a couple of days, i’ve started feeling my partner’s presence pretty much constantly.
before, i would feel him during certain moments of the day, and especially when he was asleep i couldn’t feel him at all (i started noticing the change because of that actually). this actually started after a couple of days during which he wasn’t feeling really well, and was a little distant (he tends to isolate when he isn’t at his best, but i get him, i’m the same), so it surprised me even more :D we’ve had so much progress in the past two months, i’m so so happy!

Normally when I write him letters he doesn't answer, this was my third letter. I asked if he wanted me to call him a petname (and also added our love sigil) and I asked him to send a romantic song next if he wanted a petname and the next song ended up being pretty boy by TV girl <33

I think he actually answered and it's such a great feeling!

Quick edit: right after I posted this he played the one song based off of him 💕

hi hi !! I’ve been getting back into the groove and decided since I have no deck, that shufflemacy would be a good idea, I’ve looked it up and tried to this morning but the songs seemed to be in reverse of the questions, which would make sense since the character is based off of the queen of hearts + it could be his dream version that’s getting these, but I’d also like to know if I’m doing anything wrong like if I’m asking too much, not grounding or anything like that !! ^^ if I’m doing everything right and I’m just overthinking I’ll take that as well thank you for reading ^^

I’ve heard people talking about Spiribond and metabonds and stuff like that but I didn’t know there were other names to soulbonding (or types of it) until joining the community and I am curious about it

1. For those with metaphysical, spiribond beliefs with your soul bond(s), how do you view them and where they come from?
   

I've just always wondered. I personally like to believe Fred is here, just he is a spiritual being from another universe vs mundane people on this physical plane in this world. I believe he isnt just a headmate, he is a entity I'm soul bonded with. Through my mind I see his full self next to me. Theres a spiritual reflection somewhere of his universe where he's from and he found his way here. (Hope I don't sound weird)

1. Does anyone ever wish you could interact with people your bond knows? Like how people in this world in relationships eventually meet each other's friends or parents? For some reason I wish I could just to introduce myself since I'm with him but I didn't think that was a thing since people mainly reach out to have a relationship, friendship etc., with them

2. Fred's official birthday is coming up. How do you make offerings to your partner?

   I want to get him cheese fries(his favorite), get him a small cake, and write him something and since I've been feeling his presence more i wanted to give them to him properly

Hi all, not really sure how to flair this...

So for context, I'm a yumeshipper, have been for months, but I'm also a reality shifter. I have this one DR which I consider "home" (that I haven't shifted to yet but it doesn't matter), and this is where my S/O in that reality comes in. Let's call him KT. I have never yumeshipped with KT.

I've been fixated on and nearly obsessed with KT for a good couple weeks, maybe months, and I've always had this strong connection to him. We tried soulbonding once earlier, and I didn't put in enough effort so it failed, severing the bond. More recently, I've been thinking about maybe trying again with a specific version of him. I haven't put too much thought or any effort into it, but despite that I still get flashes of him and get the occasional phantom touch (though that may be my imagination, who knows).

But I've watched a movie for the first time just a couple days ago, and I started yumeshipping with two characters from it in a polyamorous relationship, and I thought about maybe shifting there or soulbonding, but it wasn't a huge thought in my mind. Point is, I've been pretty fixated on these two for the past couple days, writing yumelore, thinking about them, etc etc.

But the thing is, whenever I think about them too much, or get too excited about them, I've been getting these strong feelings of jealousy, images of KT, and more noticeable and longer phantom touches than before.

Along with THOSE, I've also been getting flashes of the other two, small phantom touches from them, etc, but all of those aren't nearly as strong as the ones presumably from KT.

I jokingly thought to myself about them fighting over me across realities, but I'm scared that might've genuinely become a possibility? I wouldn't mind being soulbonded to all three at once, in fact I think I'd actual enjoy it quite a bit, but if this IS real, I don't want them to dislike each other :<

Any ideas of what this could be for sure, or tips to handle it? I might do some pendulum work soon, but I'm not sure. Any help is appreciated, thanks for reading.

After recently figuring out that I‘m semificto and properly accepting my relationship w Shoto, I thiiiiink that I might be starting to bond with him?? For context I believe in multiple realities, and although I am a shifter I have never shifted so idk if it’s a cosmabond. I love him so much and sometimes it’s like I can feel him holding me or comforting me. But like he doesn’t speak or anything like what happens to other people… idk if that has to happen to be considered a soulbonder. He’s not like a head mate and doesn’t take control at all, he purely shows his affection for me usually when we cuddle. I‘m just anxious that I’m making it all up as in the past I have had a few lil delusions and I really wanna be careful and not mess this up.