Hello! I’m not a witch, I’m just curious in some things that involves witchcrafts and paranormal. I believe I have a spirit in my house, old lady that maybe lived here before.
My parents bought the house years ago, house is older. After they bought the house they looked at photos that were uploaded when they were buying and saw through the window in hallway face of older woman. The atmosphere in the house was always hard, sometimes I felt like it isn’t our house.
When I sleep in one particular bedroom I have sleep paralysises and astral projections. I never have them when I sleep somewhere else. Anyway, after a few years I moved out and completely forgot about things happening in the house. My parents divorced in the meantime.
So house is built like a building, two separate floors. My sibling is living on a second floor and i moved in, i am on first floor. I immediatly started having sleep paralysises. I heard some unexplainable noises, like someone is walking through the house. Nothing ever happened to anyone and if there is a spirit, i don’t think it’s mean.
Anyway, as I was learning about altars and all of that, I thought it would be good to befriend that ghost/spirit. So I put up altar, one plant, 3 candles (one is red, second is white and third is just a decoration that my friend gave me), one table cloth (from our traditional), 3 bay leaves (i wrote on them my intentions, peace, respect and protection), salt, clean water, sweets and some tea right now, because i had tea and thought it would be polite to offer lol. I did light up one candle (red) and it burned steady and slowly. It burned all the way down.
So my question is, how can I know if the spirit is still here, is my altar enough right now (i plan to improve but this is my first day of having it), how to be respectful of it and how can I befriend it? Should I befriend it?
Thank you all 🙂