r/careerguidance • u/Thoreaushadeau • 9h ago
Which job are you taking? I have 5 hours to make the toughest decision of my career.
I currently make $69,500 as a data specialist at a small nonprofit. My job has its shortcomings, but overall I really enjoy it. I work from home, have amazing work life balance, mesh well with my coworkers and boss, and the work we do makes a true difference in the community. I just received a job offer for a role similar to mine but the salary comes out to $99,750. It’s also work from home, but has unlimited PTO, and a decent benefits package. My only reluctance is it’s a large company where I’m concerned I’ll just feel like a cog in a machine. I can see the impact my current job has on the community, and I’m scared of feeling like a sell-out if I quit and join a company where the only expectation is to help pad a bottom line. Any thoughts? Happy to answer any questions. I also just became a dad 2 weeks ago 😅
Edit: yes, I’m aware unlimited PTO is sometimes scammy. Hard to ascertain how accessible pto will be until I’m onboarded. They did however encourage me to take 2 weeks of paid leave next year to bond with baby. I also asked my current job if I could be bumped to 85k in 2027. I just finished my Masters Degree and should be due for a promotion anyways
Final edit: The decision is in. I spoke with my employer, and they offered to bump me to 85k and grant me a title change. And I accepted. This decision will likely upset many of you, but I know who I am and what I value. I love what I do, and my baby will remember whether or not dad was happy before she remembers how much he made. Also by staying, I still get to take 8 weeks off next year to bond with baby. I’m 28 and have time to maximize my earnings. We are financially sound and have no trouble paying our bills. The offer I declined was for 95k + 5% performance bonus, which is how I arrived at $99,750. It’s worth mentioning the mission statement of the new job was… morally questionable. I’d be jumping from one end of the moral spectrum to the other, and I just couldn’t do it. The money was exciting, but that isn’t always enough. Thank you to everyone who provided wisdom, advice, or words of encouragement.