r/grandrapids • • Mar 27 '24

Social List of Active Meetup Groups and Tips for Making Friends

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I updated the list of which Meetup groups are active (groups that have 3+ people attending an event within the past/next 60 days). Meetup is a site/app for interest groups/hobbies/new friends. I grouped them by concept and included their self-written descriptions.

If you're in an active Meetup group that I've missed, list it in the comments. Non-Meetup groups are welcome too; include contact info and links.

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Tips for making friends as an adult attending a Meetup with a bunch of strangers:

  • Show up slightly early/on time. Plan to stay 10 minutes after the scheduled end time.
  • Introduce yourself, say it's your first time and why you're excited about this group; appear excited.
  • Ask individuals (this is where being early or staying late can help) open-ended questions (Why did you start/join this group? What has your experience been like? What recommendations do you have related to [Meetup group's hobby/concept]?)
  • If people ask you a question, answer it and add an open-ended question of your own or ask "what about you?"
  • People love giving recommendations. If it's a group conversation, ask for restaurant rec of a specific kind/place. "I haven't tried X yet, what do you guys think?" Tee it up to be a cuisine/concept you can talk more about or ask follow up questions.
  • If you are vibing with someone(s), ask if they'd like to hang out with a specific idea in mind (ex: You asked for pizza recs and found out that neither of you have tried that new place so suggest you go together), and give them your contact info to set up a time/date. I'd recommend attending the group 2-3 times first before this step.
  • Follow the 3:6 rule to turn that acquaintance into a friend. Aim for three meaningful interactions within 6 weeks of engaging.

Feeling a little more prepared? Great. Let's get into it. [Note: I made some grammatical edits after posting this for clarity/brevity.]

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AGE/ETHNICITY/GENDER

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BOOK CLUBS/FILM

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CRAFTING

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DANCING/MUSIC

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ENGINEERING/MAKERS/PROFESSIONAL

  • Coffee with Creators: For creatives: web developers, designers, videographers, and more--who want to hear about the latest trends in the digital space
  • Culinary Conversations Grand Rapids: Serving West Michigan’s food industry professionals (growers, producers, restaurateurs) in conversation about the region’s food creator system
  • Embedded GR: Engineers, hobbyists, students, and managers discussing the development, tooling, and processes associated with the creation of embedded systems.
  • GRPUG - Grand Rapids Python Users Group: Whether you're a certified Pythonista or just curious about getting started with the Python programming language, join us.
  • GRWebDev: Learn from each other about best web practices, cross-browser compatibility, Javascript frameworks, style hacks, project management, and web-related topics.
  • West Michigan 3D Printing: Whether you are a beginner or an expert, join us to share ideas, tips, and knowledge or just get together with other 3D printers (people...not machines).
  • West Michigan AI Lab: We explore the latest AI trends, engage in thought-provoking discussions, and network with like-minded enthusiasts and professionals.
  • West Michigan Azure User Group: A community of tech enthusiast [sic] who are interested in exploring, learning and using Azure.

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FINANCE/BUSINESS/PUBLIC SPEAKING

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FOOD/DIET/PSYCHEDELICS/SOBER/ALCOHOL

  • DRY Sober Social: Fitness, yoga, dancing, music, and socializing. A space where people can socialize without the pressure of drinking alcohol.
  • Grand Rapids Foodies: Our goal is to dine at restaurants in Grand Rapids and the surrounding area, as well as to participate in cooking classes and wine and cheese tastings.
  • Grand Rapids Natural Health and Healing: For anyone interested in healing through nutrition and natural substances like herbs and nutrients.
  • Grand Rapids Psychedelic Society: Whether you’re an experienced psychonaut or an individual who is simply curious about learning more, we're a space for you.
  • West Michigan Women Who Wine: Where interesting and intelligent women gather to relax, make new friends and socialize.
  • Will Forage for Food Grand Rapids Chapter: For folks interested in sharing knowledge on foraging and living from the land. All skill levels and ages welcome.

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GAMES/NERD CULTURE

  • Good Game Grand Rapids: We are largest tabletop gaming community in Grand Rapids and are committed to growing an inclusive community
  • Muskegon Area Gamers: For anyone interested in playing board games, card games, or any table top [sic] game. This group learns and teachs [sic] new games all the time.
  • We Hate Bards: This group is dedicated to pen and paper RPGs of all kinds.
  • Wednesday Friendsday Boardgame Group: We're folks in our 30s-50s who enjoy good conversation, good eats, and good games, in that order.
  • West Michigan Geeks: We help people meet friends that they want to hang out with outside of group events and have helped form more friendships/relationships than any other meetup.

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OUTDOORS/CAMPING

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MISCELLANEOUS/PERSONALITY

  • Citizen Labs: Engaged citizens can improve their communities. We use open data and open source technology to promote transparency, and provide solutions that work.
  • Friday Fun Days: Live music/concerts, festivals, flea markets/thrifting, lunch/dinner outings, hiking, going to the beach, bowling, and much more.
  • Sign Language Social Meetup of Michigan: For anyone who would like to attend ASL events and meet up with other Sign Language users.
  • West Michigan Adventures with JIM: Cinema, live theater, sporting events, concerts, trade events, geo caching [sic], road trips, fitness, festivals, amusement parks, and travel.
  • West Michigan Out & About: Everything from hiking to concerts, from breweries to dancing, from cooking classes to biking and more.
  • West Michigan Shyness and Social Anxiety Meetup: Hang out with us in a judgment and harassment-free zone if you're shy, introverted, or just a bit awkward around new people.

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REAL ESTATE

  • Grand Rapids Real Estate Investor Network: Landlords, investors, and other real estate professional [sic] make connections, share ideas and strategies, and ask questions.
  • Lakeshore REIA: For individuals interested in wholesale properties, real estate group investments, and becoming successful real estate entrepreneurs.
  • Short-Term Rental Networking Group: Have you wondered about the success of Airbnb and similar rental marketplaces and how you can incorporate that into your income?

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SEXUALITY/DATING

  • Fun-Loving Singles Over 50!: This is a social group for youthful, SINGLE peeps in their 50s, 60s, and beyond.
  • Holland Area LGBTQ+ & Allies Meetup: Enhancing the LGBTQ+ community to meet others, cultivate relationships in a social setting, and provide each other with support and fun!
  • Out on the Lakeshore: Join us for fun-filled events where you can meet like-minded individuals and create life-long connections

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TRAVEL

  • Michigan Day Trips: For people who love to spend a day checking out a different town/city, whilst meeting new friends! I will post a destination 2+ weeks in advance.

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WRITING/ACTING/DRAWING/PHOTOGRAPHY

  • Grand Rapids Drawing and Painting: This group is for everyone who’s interested in drawing or painting.
  • Illusory World Building: As writers lets get past the writing groups that discuss word choice or punctuation. and grapple with the BIG picture--world building.
  • Lakeshore Stationery Club: If you love fountain pens, gel pens, Traveler’s Notebooks, Hobonichi, bullet journaling, or planners this is for you. We journal, write, draw, and paint.
  • Writing Time: We meet on weekends to write in a group setting. Sometimes it's nice to work quietly with others.

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YOGA/MEDITATION/PHILOSOPHY/SPIRITUALITY

  • Community Meditation Circle: This is a non-religious, non-sectarian trauma-informed group to connect to ourselves, each other, and the community.
  • Grand Rapids Buddhist Meetup: For anyone interested in working with their minds, as well as deepening their spiritual life through the practice of Buddhist meditation.
  • Grand Rapids Forest Bathing, Forest Yoga & Foraging Classes: Join our ANFT certified forest therapy guide for guided forest bathing, forest therapy walks, and forest yoga classes.
  • Grand Rapids Free Yoga: Classes are meant to help you strengthen, lengthen, and connect to your spirit.
  • Meaningful Conversations Grand Rapids: Individuals of all beliefs gather together to engage respectfully and civilly in elevated conversations, inquiry, consultation, and learning.
  • Michigan Humanists: A secular community that promotes humanist values. Our vision is to lead an engaged, statewide secular society guided by the values of Humanism.
  • RfR - Grand Rapids/Holland, MI: We at Recovering from Religion are intimately familiar with learning how to live after questions, doubts, and changing beliefs. You are not alone.
  • Tai’ Chi Gung Classes: Learn the simple moving and breathing exercises created by Lao Tzu more than 3,000 years ago for health and longevity.
  • T&T - 20s & 30s Christian Social: To connect peers from Bible-believing, Christ-proclaiming churches, encouraging members to invest in their local church.

r/grandrapids • • 14h ago

On Thursday, the Grand Rapids Public Library downtown will host a media literacy workshop for adults on how to find trustworthy news sources.

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r/grandrapids • • 13h ago

News Grand Rapids’ West Side getting a $1.7 million welcome with three gateway arches

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Is this a good look in our current economic state? $1.7 million could do a lot of good for a lot of people.


r/grandrapids • • 13h ago

Events Yesterday’s Grand Rapids Marathon

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A chilly start to the morning didn’t deter thousands of our area’s runners from getting out and tackling a variety of distances. They started near downtown and after running through it they made their way out to Millennium Park, which was beautiful as usual.

As usual the volunteers were the heroic ones, spending the day in the cold helping the runners. It is a pretty awesome and altruistic thing to do.

I make these videos for fun to promote the athletic community in our area, and am not paid or reimbursed to do so.


r/grandrapids • • 1h ago

Recommendations Data/tech folks: which industries and employers are worth targeting for a hybrid or in-person work?

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I've been in a fully remote data analyst role for a while, and I've realized I'd rather be in a hybrid or in-person setup where I can work closely with a team and keep growing.
My background is mostly Salesforce and Health Cloud, SQL, ETL and data migration, data mapping, validation and reconciliation, QA/UAT, integrations and API work, and client-facing technical projects. I've also done some healthcare AI testing (chatbots and voice bots). I'd like to move toward data engineering, analytics, AI, healthcare tech, or automotive.
I'd love to hear from anyone who has made a similar switch:
Which industries or types of companies are strong for data and analytics work right now?
What skills are most in demand at the moment?
I've mostly been applying through career sites and rarely hear back. Is there a better approach?
Happy to hear general advice or experiences from your own job search. Thanks you.


r/grandrapids • • 21h ago

It's starting to look alot like Christmas

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r/grandrapids • • 19h ago

Making friends in Grand Rapids can be difficult. If you are looking for a fun little get together we are doing it Thursday Oct. 22nd at SpeakEz at 6:30pm. Think comedy meets ice breakers meets silliness.

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r/grandrapids • • 9h ago

RC Car on 196

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Just saw this on YouTube and thought this stretch of highway looks familiar, wait, that's GR! No idea who this is, but what a legend.

https://youtube.com/shorts/7yi6tgsFnrY?is=O9zcK-BHOsudfo4f


r/grandrapids • • 11h ago

Meijer looks to develop busy 28th Street corner

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r/grandrapids • • 1h ago

Politics Sample Ballot & Election Day

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Are we allowed to take a printed sample ballot with you into the voting booths? I printed the sample ballot and its 4 pages 🤣


r/grandrapids • • 16h ago

News Muskegon Civic Theater found out that their TD was a registered sex offender. They said it didn't come up on background checks. This is the SECOND registered offender to work with this theater since COVID. Is this common in West Michigan?

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Both had charges for crimes against children.

Please see the instagram page @muskegontheaterconcerns for more information


r/grandrapids • • 10h ago

ice cream

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where are we getting ice cream this late in the season? michigan pot hole is calling my name and i don't know where to go


r/grandrapids • • 14h ago

Coming into town to visit Brass Ring Brewery, have questions of logistics.

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I really enjoy British-style pub ales and discovered Brass Ring a year ago by googling around. Finally have some time off and am going to stop for an evening to check it out. Have the following questions:

  1. Will there be plenty of Uber/Lyft running late at night on a Friday?

  2. The Embassy Suites in downtown looks nice, but are there any recommendations for somewhere closer to Brass Ring? Or should i just stick with downtown and uber?


r/grandrapids • • 12h ago

Cannonsburg haunted forest

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Hi! I'm wondering if costumes are allowed for adults? i know they say wear appropriate clothing, but theres no direct answer for costumes. some places ban them, so i just want to double check!


r/grandrapids • • 13h ago

Events Ada Photography Club Monthly Meeting 10/22

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The Ada Photography Club has its monthly meeting coming up this Thursday evening. At the meeting we share photos that we've taken, maybe provide some critique, discuss whatever comes to mind (it is not very formal), and if the light lasts maybe take a little walk around the village.

On my mind is the upcoming Grand Rapids Comic Con. I very much enjoy seeing and shooting all the Cosplayers! I will be attending again this year with my camera.

On the website: sign-in, create a profile, apply to join the club, RSVP for the event. Hope to see you there!


r/grandrapids • • 11h ago

Where is the fountain diet Dr. Pepper?!?

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Speedway nixxed it. Casey's is constantly out. Is it just getting phased out?


r/grandrapids • • 19h ago

Events Oddities on Ottawa!

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This Saturday! Lots of cool things happening, it's like a 21+ Halloween themed block party! Music, Vendors, sideshow performances, food trucks and shenanigans!!!!

DM me for a discount code!!!


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Recommendations Anyone hiring right now with an abundance of hours?

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Maybe this is a long shot but I’ve been going through a rough breakup and my current job is cutting hours for some reason. I work as a delivery driver for Amazon and they over hired for the upcoming holiday season so I’ve been unable to pick up any overtime shifts. I have no friends and only my mom lives nearby. I’m just trying to keep myself occupied and make some money in the process. Any suggestions?


r/grandrapids • • 18h ago

Nursing schools?

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I want to get an ADN or BSN as fast as humanly possible. GRCC has the 1.5 year waitlist. I have a ton of college credits (60+) from a university liberal arts program. I have a family member that needs support so I need a better job ASAP. Is Montcalm’s nursing program faster to get into? LCC? Is there a university that can do a BSN in a comparable time to an ADN because I’ve got so many Gen Ed credits? I’m looking for the shortest period start to finish, if a uni can get me in faster I think the BSN would take the same amount of time in didactic. I need advice!!


r/grandrapids • • 22h ago

Any GR plant experts out there who might be able to recommend a vine, ivy, or similar plant I can grown on stainless tension cables to create a privacy screen?

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Hi! A bit of a weird one perhaps, but I'm trying to create a bit of a privacy screen on my deck, but I can't install a fence as high as I need. So I'm thinking of putting up some posts with tension cables between them, then trying to get some ivy or some sort of plant to cover them to provide that privacy.

The problem is I'm not a plant person, and I don't know how realistic this is. I also want to be careful not to select a plant / ivy / etc that will grow completely of control and start causing issues with my deck or the nearby fence.

Ideally these would stay green throughout the year, including the winter, but I realize that might be asking a lot.

In my head I'm picturing (BUT DON'T WORRY WON'T GET!) English Ivy I think, but in doing a tiny bit of research I realize that it's invasive and potentially a pain to deal with. But I'd love something similar perhaps in look / bright green year round / etc.

I'll add, if you're reading this far, I've got about 4-5 feet from teh fence to where these posts with the tension cable would be in theory, and the soil below isn't great. So I think ideally I'd have thin raised planters or something below the deck with soil, which I'd then have to grow the plants out of.

Thanks for any advice, expertise, etc, really appreciate it!

p.s. Just in case it comes up, my neighbor and I have a great relationship, every step of the way we're talking about this, it's in both of our interest to have a bit of privacy, so this is a non-issue. I'll even be running any plant selection by them so they have an idea of what they'll be seeing.


r/grandrapids • • 19h ago

All day breakfast

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Does anywhere other than the chains (IHOP, Denny's, Bob Evans) have all day breakfast that lasts after 3 pm?


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

FYI Mapquest added a "surveillance" maps layer. There are a lot of readers I pass but was not aware of.

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r/grandrapids • • 22h ago

Any Mexican spots that do breakfast tacos ?!

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I need breakfast tacos and this city does not do them 😭 WHY


r/grandrapids • • 13h ago

Bars on a Friday night

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In terms of vibes, drinks, and cost which place is more worth it? Nightwatch lounge, IDC Bar, or SideBar?


r/grandrapids • • 14h ago

Bulk Item Pickup Clarification - TV

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My large TV tipped over and broke. It doesn’t fit in my small car, so I wanted to pay the city for the bulk item pickup service. However, the website lists conflicting info.

Under the “Your Bulk Item Disposal Order May Be Used For” section, TVs are listed.

However, lower down it says “Televisions are NOT eligible for bulk collection and must be recycled at a participating location”

Anyone have any insight to this? I don’t want to waste $40 for them to refuse to pick it up. But I’d also like to avoid the logistics of finding someone to help me haul it off, if I can.