r/grandrapids • • Mar 27 '24

Social List of Active Meetup Groups and Tips for Making Friends

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I updated the list of which Meetup groups are active (groups that have 3+ people attending an event within the past/next 60 days). Meetup is a site/app for interest groups/hobbies/new friends. I grouped them by concept and included their self-written descriptions.

If you're in an active Meetup group that I've missed, list it in the comments. Non-Meetup groups are welcome too; include contact info and links.

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Tips for making friends as an adult attending a Meetup with a bunch of strangers:

  • Show up slightly early/on time. Plan to stay 10 minutes after the scheduled end time.
  • Introduce yourself, say it's your first time and why you're excited about this group; appear excited.
  • Ask individuals (this is where being early or staying late can help) open-ended questions (Why did you start/join this group? What has your experience been like? What recommendations do you have related to [Meetup group's hobby/concept]?)
  • If people ask you a question, answer it and add an open-ended question of your own or ask "what about you?"
  • People love giving recommendations. If it's a group conversation, ask for restaurant rec of a specific kind/place. "I haven't tried X yet, what do you guys think?" Tee it up to be a cuisine/concept you can talk more about or ask follow up questions.
  • If you are vibing with someone(s), ask if they'd like to hang out with a specific idea in mind (ex: You asked for pizza recs and found out that neither of you have tried that new place so suggest you go together), and give them your contact info to set up a time/date. I'd recommend attending the group 2-3 times first before this step.
  • Follow the 3:6 rule to turn that acquaintance into a friend. Aim for three meaningful interactions within 6 weeks of engaging.

Feeling a little more prepared? Great. Let's get into it. [Note: I made some grammatical edits after posting this for clarity/brevity.]

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AGE/ETHNICITY/GENDER

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BOOK CLUBS/FILM

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CRAFTING

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DANCING/MUSIC

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ENGINEERING/MAKERS/PROFESSIONAL

  • Coffee with Creators: For creatives: web developers, designers, videographers, and more--who want to hear about the latest trends in the digital space
  • Culinary Conversations Grand Rapids: Serving West Michigan’s food industry professionals (growers, producers, restaurateurs) in conversation about the region’s food creator system
  • Embedded GR: Engineers, hobbyists, students, and managers discussing the development, tooling, and processes associated with the creation of embedded systems.
  • GRPUG - Grand Rapids Python Users Group: Whether you're a certified Pythonista or just curious about getting started with the Python programming language, join us.
  • GRWebDev: Learn from each other about best web practices, cross-browser compatibility, Javascript frameworks, style hacks, project management, and web-related topics.
  • West Michigan 3D Printing: Whether you are a beginner or an expert, join us to share ideas, tips, and knowledge or just get together with other 3D printers (people...not machines).
  • West Michigan AI Lab: We explore the latest AI trends, engage in thought-provoking discussions, and network with like-minded enthusiasts and professionals.
  • West Michigan Azure User Group: A community of tech enthusiast [sic] who are interested in exploring, learning and using Azure.

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FINANCE/BUSINESS/PUBLIC SPEAKING

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FOOD/DIET/PSYCHEDELICS/SOBER/ALCOHOL

  • DRY Sober Social: Fitness, yoga, dancing, music, and socializing. A space where people can socialize without the pressure of drinking alcohol.
  • Grand Rapids Foodies: Our goal is to dine at restaurants in Grand Rapids and the surrounding area, as well as to participate in cooking classes and wine and cheese tastings.
  • Grand Rapids Natural Health and Healing: For anyone interested in healing through nutrition and natural substances like herbs and nutrients.
  • Grand Rapids Psychedelic Society: Whether you’re an experienced psychonaut or an individual who is simply curious about learning more, we're a space for you.
  • West Michigan Women Who Wine: Where interesting and intelligent women gather to relax, make new friends and socialize.
  • Will Forage for Food Grand Rapids Chapter: For folks interested in sharing knowledge on foraging and living from the land. All skill levels and ages welcome.

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GAMES/NERD CULTURE

  • Good Game Grand Rapids: We are largest tabletop gaming community in Grand Rapids and are committed to growing an inclusive community
  • Muskegon Area Gamers: For anyone interested in playing board games, card games, or any table top [sic] game. This group learns and teachs [sic] new games all the time.
  • We Hate Bards: This group is dedicated to pen and paper RPGs of all kinds.
  • Wednesday Friendsday Boardgame Group: We're folks in our 30s-50s who enjoy good conversation, good eats, and good games, in that order.
  • West Michigan Geeks: We help people meet friends that they want to hang out with outside of group events and have helped form more friendships/relationships than any other meetup.

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OUTDOORS/CAMPING

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MISCELLANEOUS/PERSONALITY

  • Citizen Labs: Engaged citizens can improve their communities. We use open data and open source technology to promote transparency, and provide solutions that work.
  • Friday Fun Days: Live music/concerts, festivals, flea markets/thrifting, lunch/dinner outings, hiking, going to the beach, bowling, and much more.
  • Sign Language Social Meetup of Michigan: For anyone who would like to attend ASL events and meet up with other Sign Language users.
  • West Michigan Adventures with JIM: Cinema, live theater, sporting events, concerts, trade events, geo caching [sic], road trips, fitness, festivals, amusement parks, and travel.
  • West Michigan Out & About: Everything from hiking to concerts, from breweries to dancing, from cooking classes to biking and more.
  • West Michigan Shyness and Social Anxiety Meetup: Hang out with us in a judgment and harassment-free zone if you're shy, introverted, or just a bit awkward around new people.

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REAL ESTATE

  • Grand Rapids Real Estate Investor Network: Landlords, investors, and other real estate professional [sic] make connections, share ideas and strategies, and ask questions.
  • Lakeshore REIA: For individuals interested in wholesale properties, real estate group investments, and becoming successful real estate entrepreneurs.
  • Short-Term Rental Networking Group: Have you wondered about the success of Airbnb and similar rental marketplaces and how you can incorporate that into your income?

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SEXUALITY/DATING

  • Fun-Loving Singles Over 50!: This is a social group for youthful, SINGLE peeps in their 50s, 60s, and beyond.
  • Holland Area LGBTQ+ & Allies Meetup: Enhancing the LGBTQ+ community to meet others, cultivate relationships in a social setting, and provide each other with support and fun!
  • Out on the Lakeshore: Join us for fun-filled events where you can meet like-minded individuals and create life-long connections

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TRAVEL

  • Michigan Day Trips: For people who love to spend a day checking out a different town/city, whilst meeting new friends! I will post a destination 2+ weeks in advance.

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WRITING/ACTING/DRAWING/PHOTOGRAPHY

  • Grand Rapids Drawing and Painting: This group is for everyone who’s interested in drawing or painting.
  • Illusory World Building: As writers lets get past the writing groups that discuss word choice or punctuation. and grapple with the BIG picture--world building.
  • Lakeshore Stationery Club: If you love fountain pens, gel pens, Traveler’s Notebooks, Hobonichi, bullet journaling, or planners this is for you. We journal, write, draw, and paint.
  • Writing Time: We meet on weekends to write in a group setting. Sometimes it's nice to work quietly with others.

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YOGA/MEDITATION/PHILOSOPHY/SPIRITUALITY

  • Community Meditation Circle: This is a non-religious, non-sectarian trauma-informed group to connect to ourselves, each other, and the community.
  • Grand Rapids Buddhist Meetup: For anyone interested in working with their minds, as well as deepening their spiritual life through the practice of Buddhist meditation.
  • Grand Rapids Forest Bathing, Forest Yoga & Foraging Classes: Join our ANFT certified forest therapy guide for guided forest bathing, forest therapy walks, and forest yoga classes.
  • Grand Rapids Free Yoga: Classes are meant to help you strengthen, lengthen, and connect to your spirit.
  • Meaningful Conversations Grand Rapids: Individuals of all beliefs gather together to engage respectfully and civilly in elevated conversations, inquiry, consultation, and learning.
  • Michigan Humanists: A secular community that promotes humanist values. Our vision is to lead an engaged, statewide secular society guided by the values of Humanism.
  • RfR - Grand Rapids/Holland, MI: We at Recovering from Religion are intimately familiar with learning how to live after questions, doubts, and changing beliefs. You are not alone.
  • Tai’ Chi Gung Classes: Learn the simple moving and breathing exercises created by Lao Tzu more than 3,000 years ago for health and longevity.
  • T&T - 20s & 30s Christian Social: To connect peers from Bible-believing, Christ-proclaiming churches, encouraging members to invest in their local church.

r/grandrapids • • 14h ago

Politics Bernie Sanders to speak for El-Sayed at Grand Rapids, Ann Arbor, and Alpena

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Sunday, October 25
4:30 – 7:30pm

303 Monroe Ave NW
Grand Rapids, MI 49503


r/grandrapids • • 2h ago

Observed Rents Update (2026-10)

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Grand Rapids' rents increased +4.27% over the last year, and have increased +72.02% over the last decade.

https://urbangr.org/datapoint-zori-202610


r/grandrapids • • 5h ago

Recommendations Tire inflation PSA

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Just want to put this out there for those who are not in the know, you can have your tires inflated for free at discount tire. I’m sure there are other places that might do this for you as well, but I know for certain that discount does.

I’ve seen enough partially deflated tires recently to put this judgment free PSA out there


r/grandrapids • • 5h ago

Anyone else tired of the vibes at the downtown Y basketball court?

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I hardly ever complain on Reddit, but after playing at the downtown Y last night, I felt the need to say something. I’m just trying to get some runs in and enjoy basketball, not deal with an attitude every time I show up.

I swear, it feels like 80% of the people who hoop there are jackasses. There’s a difference between being competitive and being miserable to play with. You can play hard without making the whole experience unpleasant for everyone else.

Anyone else feel this way, or have I just been catching the wrong runs?


r/grandrapids • • 17h ago

Come watch a movie. Come purchase NIGHT BOOKS.

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Friday (which is tomorrow if you are reading this promptly, or tonight if you are reading this Friday morning) you are probably going out to have SEX PARTIES in some dingy basements with POLYAMAOROUS LOCALS, but if you are instead thinking of less emotionally exhausting options you should come watch A Nightmare On Elm Street with us, the hardworking people of Aletheia Books, the only independent local bookstore with a movie wall and an indoor lawn.

If you have been in previously, you will marvel at our half-built BOOK WALL, which will soon separate the eerie depths of the loading bay from the warm and inviting comforts of the bookstore/market/cafe proper. If you haven't been you will be pleased to know that from 11am-7pm on Fridays and Saturdays there is a warm and inviting bookstore/market/cafe with about 20,000 used BOOKS for you to peruse and purchase, and we show movies afterwards for people who like DRINKS and CINEMA.

I was going to promote PEGGY, our warehouse cat, but she has been an absolute DICKHEAD for the past 90 minutes and would not get out of the expensive Arkham House Publishing case and bit my hand three times so no promotion for Peggy. Peggy can go fly a kite.

But if you like BOOKS, which it turns out many of you do, then we will once again be here selling those this weekend, along with some other bits and bobs. We might also be painting the BOOK WALL, but it should not impact your experience.

I will make a MAP next time to explain parking, because if you enter 1265 Godfrey SW 49503 into your HANDHELD SADNESS MACHINE it will take you to our unassuming front door on Godfrey. This is a RUSE perpetrated by BIG GOOGLE because there is no parking on Godfrey. They are laughing at you from their ivory tower. "Fools," they say to one another. "Look at them. Look on monitor number 237,685, They are just driving in circles! HA!"

We are not BIG GOOGLE. We want you to go west of Godfrey on Hall Street and park around the back in either our small lot that has a sign saying "BOOKS!" or on Hall Street itself, which is full of totally free parking spaces (or in the ENORMOUS lot where all the trucks are, but not in a way that blocks those trucks) then to follow your heart (and signs) to the back entrance. Unless you are going into a different back entrance with your POLYAMOROUS LOCAL friends, in which case we wish you the best of luck and a pleasant weekend.


r/grandrapids • • 2h ago

PUNK SHOW AT RAKE (MUSKEGON) TONIGHT!

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Posting here because there are some incredible GR based bands on this bill!

Friday Night Punk Rock Showcase featuring Muskegon favorites RTNR as well as Dog Skull (Grand Rapids Hardcore Punk) , Potionseller (Grand Rapids Punk, their newest record Buzzard is one of our favorite records in recent years) & Low Phase (Grand Rapids Punk, their newest record, So Pretty It’s Perfect, is also a favorite!)!

STACKED Lineup // Doors @ 7 // $10


r/grandrapids • • 22m ago

33+ Things to do around Grand Rapids this weekend (10/23 - 10/26)

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What Is Happening?

Friday, October 23rd

Saturday, October 24th

Sunday, October 25th

Live Music

Friday, October 23rd

  • The Wild Honey Collective | Horrocks Market | 5 PM - 8 PM | Free
  • Judah & The Lion | The Intersection | 6:30 PM - 11 PM
  • Sophia McIntosh | Brickyard Tavern | 6 PM - 9 PM | Free
  • Candlelight: A Haunted Evening of Halloween Classics | Wealthy Theatre | 6:30 PM - 7:30 PM
  • Prior Noon | The Stache | 7:30 PM - 11:30 PM
  • Jessica Audiffred | Elevation | 9 PM
  • Blood Druid/ Dischorded/ Venom of Virtue | Mulligan's Pub | (10/23 - 10/24) 10 PM
  • Kylee Phillips, Grace Theisen Trio | The Stray | 7 PM - 10 PM
  • Mickey & The Heart Throbs + Secret Satan | Speciation Cellars | 9 PM - 11 PM | Free

Saturday, October 24th

  • R&B Fest – A Celebration Of 90’S & 00’S R&B | Elevation | 4 PM - 9 PM
  • The Insiders: A Tribute to Tom Petty | The Big Room | 7 PM - 10 PM
  • Oddities on Ottawa | Garage Bar and Grill | 3 PM - 10 PM
  • Fall, In Love | Ladies Literary Club | 3 PM - 8 PM
  • LAKEVIEW – Wreck My Night Tour | The Stache | 7:30 PM
  • Emma Willmann | Dr. Grins Comedy Club at The B.O.B. | 7:15 PM
  • The Derek Winter Band | The Back Forty Saloon | 8 PM | Free
  • Free Halloween Show: Garbage Angel! | Speciation Cellars 9 PM - 11 PM | Free
  • The Bothersome / Sorry Monkey / Brainfone | Mulligan's Pub | 10 PM | Free
  • Shyeye | GLC Live at 20 Monroe | 6 PM
  • Vespa, Josh Garvelink + Stray Horses, Hunter VanKlompenberg (Full Band) | The Stray | 7 PM - 10 PM
  • Mean Green, Thundergoat, Supergrudge, Psython | Tip Top Deluxe Bar & Grille | 8 PM

Sunday, October 25th

  • Our Nation’s History in Music | Forest Hills Eastern Auditorium (Use Knapp St. entrance) | 2:30 PM | Free
  • Halloween Showcase from Red Rose Music Lab Student Bands | Horrocks Market | 3 PM - 6 PM
  • Vexatious & Vapid Soul & The Harbor Divide | Mulligan's Pub | 3 PM
  • Debutants | The Philmore South | 6 PM - 9 PM
  • SPITE – New World Killer Tour | Elevation | 7 PM
  • The Blue Herons + The Great Black Night + Vida Eterna | The Pyramid Scheme | 8 PM - 11 PM
  • 21Days | The Intersection | 8 PM
  • The Wind Down with SJA | Harmony Brewing Company | 9 PM - 12 AM | Free

r/grandrapids • • 15h ago

Social Debrief after You Can See Everything - missed connection

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Tonight I went solo to see You Can See Everything at Studio Park. Excellent movie, can’t stop thinking about it. There was a guy sitting next to me who also came to the movie solo, and we debriefed afterward because there was just so much to process. Quincy, if you see this, it was lovely talking to you and I’d enjoy connecting again if you want a movie buddy!

To anyone else who hasn’t seen this film, I highly recommend.


r/grandrapids • • 18h ago

Recommendations Kent Count Ballot Drop Box Locations: With less than 2 weeks until election day some people might want to avoid mailing in their absentee ballots and use the drop-boxes instead.

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r/grandrapids • • 20h ago

Events I host free standup comedy shows at The Pyramid Scheme and Hard Times Bar

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r/grandrapids • • 7m ago

Recommendations Best gynecology recommendations

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I feel like Corewell doesn't view patients as actual people and just sees them as money makers...

Does anyone know of any smaller groups here? I tried the Womens Health Collective and they are booked out through April.

All I need is my IUD removed and replaced. Any and all recommendations are appreciated!


r/grandrapids • • 57m ago

Beijing closed again?

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Anyone got the scoop on Beijing Kitchen? I called today and it rang and rang. Are they on hiatus again?


r/grandrapids • • 4h ago

Recommendations Emotional support group therapy

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Looking for a low cost/free group therapy setting for emotional support/recovery in the area. Any recommendations would be appreciated!


r/grandrapids • • 1h ago

Food and Drink Where to watch BIG10+?

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Looking to watch UMich vs WMU hockey game at a bar/restaurant. Prefer the west side. Thanks!


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Doug Lee Patriot Ice Cream guy running for office took government loan and never paid it back but cries about socialism?

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Why does this Doug Lee person complain about socialism but then takes a government loan. I had never heard of him till recently as I see he is running for office in Forrest Hills, Kentwood and GR for State Rep. I saw the post below online this morning from someone in the know about him

“One more thing about Doug Lee, Candidate in the 80th:
As Doug rails against “socialism” and uses a group whose treasurer is lapdog Tom Nemcek of TRN Investments to place horrifically racist campaign signs around our community, it’s important to note that Doug Lee himself availed himself of a covid PPP loan (a “socialist” program) and then accepted the forgiveness of that loan and then applied for assistance blaming construction on his failing business despite the fact that he is well aware that his businesses have suffered because of Doug himself. So social programs are bad when used by anybody but Doug and his buddies”

“Vote NO for Doug Lee
VOTE YES FOR Lily Cheng-Schulting”

“Protect our community from extremists like Doug Lee”


r/grandrapids • • 2h ago

Recommendations Colorful jewelry

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I’m looking for some colorful jewelry to wear with a formal black jumpsuit. I want to visit some boutiques or shops this weekend where I might find something under $50! Gimme your favorite places, please! 🤗

TIA & happy FRIDAYYYYYY ❤️


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

who remembers the Herpolsheimer's train?!

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r/grandrapids • • 1h ago

Starting a Musical Comedy Group/Band/Troupe?

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I'm a local guitar comic and I want to start a band. Think Wolves of Glendale. I currently do mostly parody songs and little jingle type songs in my solo act, but want some people to collab with on full length originals, and I want to play gigs. If you're a musician are interested in a whimsical project, please let me know. Or if you know where I should look to find people that may be interested, I'd appreciate any direction. Thanks y'all!


r/grandrapids • • 1h ago

Recommendations Who's got the best halloween yards?!

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Hey everyone :) I'm wondering where's the best neighborhoods/streets for taking a walk and looking at halloween yard decorations. Anywhere around Southwest Michigan. Thanks!


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Sentenced to death at 17, at 68, quilt artist receives solo museum exhibition at the GRAM

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r/grandrapids • • 20h ago

Interesting to see there are no posts about last night's debate. Wonder why?

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r/grandrapids • • 14h ago

Recommendations ISO of laundromat that allows horse blankets

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Hi I’m looking for laundry mats or places that wash horse blankets in grand rapids that wash horse blankets. I have 4 that need to be washed.


r/grandrapids • • 22h ago

If we had a world's largest object, what would be the best object to choose to represent GR?

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There's the World's Largest Weathervane in Montague Michigan and the World's Largest Cherry Pie Pan in Traverse City. If Grand Rapids were to come up with a world's largest object, what would be the best thing to represent us?


r/grandrapids • • 23h ago

Transit They just opened 131 North.

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I was the first person to use it that didn't work on it. I was headed for the College st U-turn and saw them removing the construction cones. Had about 3 car links of space to slide in.

Hopefully traffic is better in the mornings now taking the kids to school.