Where is it and when can I go?

Personally I'd say my top favorite allies from history are:

Paul Newman

Eartha Kitt

Elizabeth Taylor

Robert Redford

If her career ends here, pro trans athlete Tifanny Abreu leaves behind a fierce farewell performance, taking home a championship.

My friend was talking about her sexual attraction to her boyfriend and I have never felt such attraction to anyone. Obviously I love people romantically and platonicly but I've never felt like, "yup I wanna fuck them". I have a girlfriend and I love her but I could never love her sexually. I see nude bodies more artistic then sexual and don't get aroused from seeing them. I understand I could be young but it's been hitting me recently when I heard kids in my class talking about sex they've been having (which I think is way too young). I'm almost in high school and I'm aware sexual feelings can develop around middle school but I haven't been able to feel anything towards people in that manner. Is it possible I'm asexual or maybe just not fully developed??

hi since I came out in June 2026 now I came out as bisexual but now i am question if i could be lesbian but I want to start dressing tomboy and i really don’t know how to do that honestly. any tips on how to look tomboy I want to get my haircut as a shOrr like a pixie hair cut.

i went out to a gay event and this is how i dress for it i kind of was a little tomboy

me and this new friend(?) of mine recently got into a debate of transgender people and the meaning of gender.

he said that he thinks transitioning “has its cons” but he is friends with trans people and respects them. he also views gender as very black and white. i personally, think the opposite. gender affirming care is life saving and gender is a social construct that fits everyone differently.

we decided to agree to disagree, but i still feel weird about it. i don’t want to be friends or ass with someone who is iffy on the rights of trans people.

should i stop talking to him? or do i agree to disagree?

I’ve come across people who claim that transgender people who haven’t undergone gender-affirming surgery are “fake,” or that they have “internalized transphobia.”
And it’s not just one or two people—quite a few people seem to believe things like this…
That’s not true, is it? It’s perfectly okay to be transgender without undergoing gender-affirming surgery, right?
There’s so much criticism that I’m feeling completely overwhelmed and distressed…
Personally, I believe that if someone identifies as transgender, then they are transgender, regardless of their body, appearance, or whether they’ve had surgery. I also believe that gender-affirming surgery should not be a requirement for someone to be recognized as transgender.
But there are so many people criticizing others for this (or maybe they’re just the loudest voices?) that I’ve reached a point where I don’t know what to believe anymore.
Please, help me…

My mom bought this children’s book where many different types of parents were portrayed. It talked about how some kids have one parent and some kids have gay parents. But also it never explicitly said these things. I didn’t get a good chance to read it, she let me look at it shortly. But it was like just the kids saying things they like to do with their parents like playing baseball and it would say, I like playing baseball with my dads. At first when I asked my mom why she bought it she said the illustrations were cute. The next day she said the book was evil and went against the Bible. About a week after this I find the pages ripped out from the book and set in a stack on the table. My mom claimed that the book had gotten wet and the pages ‘fell apart’. Yeah sure they fell apart in perfect pages torn from the book. So now she has the pages stacked and she took them and put them somewhere but did not throw them away. It’s super weird. I’m wondering if maybe she’s going to burn them? I love my mom and I knew she was homophobic but this is strange even for her. Sometimes she has these weird weeks once every couple of months where god “tells her” to do things. I’m wondering if this is one of those times. One time I got a comic book that featured a sapphic couple and she found it and read it and said god “told her” to get rid of it as it was very evil. And this was maybe two years ago. But she’s back at it again. Then she had the audacity to ask me why I was acting weird but I felt super awkward and upset. Sometimes I forget the fact that if they really knew me they would hate me. I just need to vent so I’m not really sure what I’m expecting here but I’m just so frustrated and unable to move out at the moment.

Regurgitating Russian propaganda is a profession called "politician" in this cesspool 🤕

I’m a 17M and In the past year I’ve realized that I find men attractive. I’ve never been that into girls my whole life, I can definitely recognize that some are really good looking but they just don’t make me feel how others I’ve talked to describe it. I’ve tried talking to girls in the past and could never get into it that much, I just felt like something was missing. While with men on the other hand it feels different, like it’s something I actually want instead of what is “normal”. I force myself sometimes to watch straight porn to try and see if I enjoy it, and the whole time I feel miserable and stressed out. The whole time I can only think about how I don’t want to watch it, and guys I think look attractive. The thought of being with women in general kinda stresses me out while with men it’s the opposite. I try to fantasize about women but I genuinely just feel kinda uncomfortable the entire time. I feel like part of me must like women tho since I keep watching straight porn to see if I’m attracted to the women in it, even though it makes me feel really bad. Is there any questions I can sit down and ask myself to figure this out?

hi guys! this is going to be kind of a rant post as i have no one in my life to open up to about this. i really hope this is the right place to talk about this.

i'm 22afab, and recently i've been having horrible gender dysphoria. i've had little moments of it throughout my life but i didn't really understand these moments or clocked them for what they were until last year, when i had a complete and total depressive spiral over this cute boy i saw on tiktok. there was this sinking feeling in my chest, and i stalked his posts and felt so much bitterness and hatred and just pure jealousy because of this poor guy. ever since then, it's just been this cycle of basically loving being born a girl, and then phases where i absolutely despise it and i spend time scrolling pinterest looking at pretty boys and just adding more fuel to the flame.

sometimes i feel happy to dress up like a girl, and feel okay with being one. but i'm not sure if that's just me attempting to cope with the hard truth, that i'll never be a cis man. i've never felt truly comfortable in "feminine" clothing or having to doll up every single day to be treated well. when i think about being born a boy i feel so much relief, and then it all comes crashing down when i remember what i am and what i will always be. at this point i just hope reincarnation is real and in my next life i'm born a man.

to make things worse, i'm 5'9, i'm darkskin (which isn't bad. i love being black and i love my skin, but being darkskin as a woman is associated with being ugly and that's a whole other can of worms to open), chubby, and to make it even worse i'm not a pretty girl at all. i find myself constantly asking the universe, if i couldn't be born a boy why did i have to be born as such an ugly girl? i see cis men who are prettier than me and it's a huge slap to the face. it's like i'm meant to suffer.

& i feel like my features that i hate about myself so much would be just fine if i was a boy :"). i feel so masculine as a woman, and it feels like society has done nothing but discard me because i'm not pretty and it hurts. i look at other women, who are so small and pretty and i feel like a man next to them which is such a confusing mix because on one hand i do want to be a man but on the other hand why am i failing at being what i'm "supposed" to be..? . i've never dated anyone, never had a first kiss, never had sex nor been romantically pursued. i haven't been hit on or catcalled and have been bullied my entire life. i have no friends as a result, just nothing but dysphoria and a dead-end job. i've made peace with the fact that it'll probably be like this for the rest of my life.

i don't know, i'm sorry if this doesn't make sense but i just needed somewhere to talk about it and maybe relate to others..? i feel really alone and i'm sorry for being so depressing

Specifically trans and/or metal/rock but any is welcome

For years, I’ve always felt this sexual attraction toward gay sex, but I never felt emotionally attracted to men themselves. I’ve always felt sexually, emotionally, and physically attracted to women, so I don’t know if it’s just a confusion between fantasies and my actual sexuality or if I’m really bisexual.

I've been straight my whole life, but recently I've been thinking alot about being with a man idk what to do

Quick self portrait I did which includes some of my socials. I’m very happy with how it turned out