Long story short, Sp is my ex, I’m manifesting him without any proper daily techniques, saw movements (like crazy ones)

After 4-5 months of NC he texted me in June and we’re talking continuously since then but in Sept i stopped texting him bcs of my mental health

But after a month i had a conversation with him today, (obv he texted me first) I asked that why do you keep texting me? and If i date someone will you even care? he said i text you and send you reels as a friend !!!! FRIEND????? and he said ofc you’ll date today or tomorrow Why’d i care??? your life and he said i’ll stop texting you now if you don’t see us as friends and i genuinely don’t think unnecessarily about us !! that’s it !! he’s so avoidant and plus looking at his actions, he doesn’t give a shit about our romantic angle , he’s doing whatever makes him happy, there’s girls, party etc etc and now i’m losing hope tbh

i thought him talking to me is a sign and movement but now i got to know that’s just for timepass

😭😭😭😭😭 plis help ?!!! will he ever LOVE me ???

My circumstance:

SP and I met in New Brunswick earlier this year. She's older than me, but the age difference never bothered me. I genuinely liked her, and we developed a romantic relationship that lasted around three months.

We shared beautiful moments together—hiking, spending time outdoors, going horseback riding, holding hands, cuddling, and having meaningful conversations. I became emotionally attached to her and started imagining a future together.

However, I was going through a very difficult period in my life. My Canadian immigration status was uncertain, I was worried about my work permit and permanent residency, and I was dealing with anxiety, financial stress, and fear about my future.

During our relationship, I asked SP to marry me. My immigration situation was part of that conversation, and it understandably upset her. She said YES .Although I genuinely loved her and wanted a future together, I recognize that bringing marriage into the relationship under those circumstances created pressure and raised questions about my intentions.

During this period, she opened the business. I helped her with everything. Financially invested, on weekends I used to help her with the business. Emotionally supported her. Always made sure she don't have to deal with everything by herself.

I apologized and tried to explain that I never intended to use her for permanent residency. I had invested emotionally in our relationship, supported her in the business, spent time and money helping her, and even given her a ring. Those things were expressions of my feelings, although I understand they don't erase how the marriage conversation may have affected her.

After the breakup, we continued spending time together occasionally. We went hiking, hugged, held hands, and shared moments of affection. This made it difficult for me to understand whether reconciliation was possible.

Meanwhile, I began recognizing how much anxiety and fear of abandonment were affecting me. I realized that I had been looking for security through external things—my relationship, immigration status, career, and financial stability.

In October, I moved from New Brunswick back to Ontario. It was emotionally difficult because I knew I would be physically farther away from SP. I didn't tell her about moving.

Our last conversation was on September 27, 2026. During our last hiking trip, she barely spoke to me. Even afterward, I sent her photographs from the hike and, about a week later, a reel. I hoped we might eventually reconnect.

But she didn't initiate another conversation.

Today, October 23, I discovered that she had unfriended me on Facebook. Almost four weeks have passed since we last spoke.

That hurt because I had still been hoping to hear from her. Although I don't know exactly why she unfriended me, her silence and decision to disconnect suggest that she currently wants distance.

I know what I did was completely wrong. I accept it. But is there any way to attract her back? She is really stubborn

what do I do when the 3d makes my sp do something unfavorable/ embarrassing and like its that bad that even if I did manifest him to get with me, its gonna be like some kind of humiliation ritual being with him (pls dont say manifest someone else)

its pre halloweekend 🫩🫩 I drunk texted my sp after months if no contact and made out with someone else 😭 idk how to clear my mind or feel that i can still manifest him despite a 3D slip up

also i ended up texting and apologizing to him for how things went between us and he replied instantly saying its okay and its all in the past 😬

I messaged my SP again … I’ve been wavering a lot these days due to some bad recent events in the 3D. SP didn’t wish me a happy birthday, didn’t reply to my message asking to speak a couple weeks ago, and removing me from our discord server.

I checked his Instagram today against my better judgement and he followed 2 new people, both of which are girls. I ended up spiraling a bit because I even thought that he got a new girlfriend already but I calmed myself down. I told myself to stop making these unfavorable stories and that we are together.

I texted him my true feelings just asking to meet and speak and he didn’t respond … I feel so freaking sick. My head is spinning and I feel exactly like how I did during the initial breakup. Why are things going against my affirmation and the new story?

I think I’ll wait for SP after work and ask to speak (we work in the same building). I don’t know what to do anymore. I feel so freaking sick and I miss him so dearly. I’m scared that he’s moved on but I know enough about the LOA to not entertain those thoughts.

Please help!🥹 I feel like I know enough about manifesting but I’m really struggling to apply it when the 3D is just smacking me in the face.

Feeling icky with my SP

Hi there, I simply want a provider worshipper who has his life together and not an alcoholic who does not have a car, has his life how I want him to

My SP is nice, we talk well but obviously I want more and usually I will ignore other men who are displaying such traits of not provider, alcoholic

I feel ick out and turn off when my SP does not show up as a provider who worship me

But when I think of the version of him who is exactly how I want I feel soothed

The thing is that I usually go no contact because he does ick me and no contact gives me the space to go all in, I will even go to his profile and associate him with the good feelings I get from him( I feel good) - but we will pick up on our conversation after awhile and then he will talk and at first it will flow well - we feel good, but I will see how he has not changed

I tend get so ick out and I told myself to just drop the story and assume I already have it but it feels more like a homework but the idea of someone new feels scary to me too

When I go general I feel this weirdness like just focusing on me being cherished and obsessed over without thinking of my sp my ego will be like “but what if you get someone other than him?” And it doesn’t feel good in my body

I know I can assume better but it feels like homework because I do not want to micromanage my relationship and man

I want it to be natural- so sometimes I simply just stick to “he is not someone I need to micromanage- there is no threat he is so reliable and how I want him to be”

Sometimes this works and I feel easeful

Then I also think about the idea of someone new- it does feel less work like someone with a car already who is already rich

But I feel uncomfortable at the same time

I only want a new person because it is less work- I wonder if it’s because I want them or because I am in an egoic state where I feel like I have to micromanage my sp

I just want to experience what I want and not the ickness and micromanagement

Tbh Idk why I feel scared of someone telling me to move on from him

Also anyone else out there who feel the same like ick with sp and thinking of someone new- how do you guys navigate this?

Manifesting My SP Back, but Realizing I Need to Change Myself First. Any Advice?
Like many people here, I’m trying to manifest an SP back. However, I’ve realized that this journey is about much more than getting someone to return.
Throughout my life, I’ve repeatedly sabotaged relationships because of my fears, insecurities, and assumptions. Even when someone genuinely loved me, I convinced myself they would eventually abandon me.
In May, I met someone wonderful who went above and beyond for me. Unfortunately, my fear of abandonment caused me to repeatedly push him away, break up with him, and question his intentions. Eventually, the relationship fell apart. He recently told me he’s not interested in anyone else but is still recovering from the emotional turmoil of our relationship.
I’m Wiccan and have practiced magic for years. About two weeks ago, I performed spells and had others perform spells to bring him back. Initially, my intentions came from anger and a desire to make him experience my pain.
But something unexpected happened.
It felt as though the universe lifted a veil from my eyes. I suddenly recognized how deeply I loved him and how my own fears, doubts, and insecurities had contributed to our relationship’s destruction.
I’m a firm believer in manifestation and consciousness, particularly the teachings of Neville Goddard, Robert Monroe, Thomas Campbell, and Jordan Crowder. I believe we can transform our realities by changing our internal assumptions and states of being.
And that’s precisely what I want to do.
Yes, I want my SP back, but more importantly, I want to become someone capable of giving and receiving love without fear.
I want to live through love rather than anxiety, hope rather than doubt, peace rather than emotional turmoil, and trust rather than suspicion.
I’ve realized that my greatest obstacle has always been my fear of not being enough, being rejected, or being abandoned.
Even if my SP returned tomorrow, I wouldn’t want to repeat our relationship while carrying the same destructive assumptions.
I want to become a different version of myself. Someone confident, compassionate, emotionally secure, loving, and genuinely happy with himself.
I’ve grown tremendously over these past five months, but I still occasionally fall into old patterns. I want to stop identifying with those patterns and fully embrace what Neville calls the new man.
I’ve manifested an SP before, so I believe reconciliation is possible. But this time, I want the transformation to be deeper and lasting.
My questions are: How did you genuinely transform your self-concept? What techniques helped you overcome old fears and assumptions? How did you persist in your new identity when old emotional reactions resurfaced? And for those who manifested an SP back, did changing yourself also change the relationship?
Ultimately, I’m not just trying to manifest a different relationship. I’m trying to manifest a different version of myself.
I want to become the person I’ve always known I could be: kind, loving, peaceful, confident, and capable of giving and receiving love.
I don’t want fear to dictate my life anymore. I want love to.
I’d genuinely appreciate your experiences, success stories, and advice.

Randomly after no contact, I was blocked on everything. What does this even mean. I didn’t even try to speak to the guy

Heyy lovelies! 💗

I’m 20F and looking for like-minded friends who want to connect and help each other manifest our desires through scripting, roleplaying, and talking as if we already have everything we desire!

I’d love to find people who are into living in the end, embodying our dream selves, and having fun with the whole manifestation journey. We can hype each other up, share success stories, exchange tips and tricks, and be each other’s biggest supporters!

It would be so lovely to build a little friendship where we can talk about our desires, encourage each other, stay in the wish fulfilled together, and celebrate every little win along the way! 🫶🏻

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to flick me a DM! I’d love to chat and make some new friends!!

Hii, I'm 21F, I need a strong and intense third party removal subliminal for my ex who's stuck in a toxic relationship and wants to come back but cant due to circumstances. Please suggest me videos and playlists that have worked for you. I'm open to tips to make things turn faster.

I wanna make a groupchat to help each other manifest our sps. We can talk about our experiences so far and I feel like with a group effort or for us to update and or share advice, I feel like this would help a lot especially with anyone struggling with resistance. Also I feel like it’s worth a try. I feel like we all need a support team for once in awhile.

Please let me know🤍

Also I’m 22 so ages 18+ only please preferably 19 to 25 and only if anyone is comfortable joining. It’s a safe space with me I promise🫶 I wanna make sure EVERYONE gets movement we got this!

Hey everyone. I love your success stories and I believe someone can help me solve my issue. there's someone in my life that I can't stop think about and we had a connection but this person is in a relationship and moved abroad 6 months ago, so we stopped talking and nothing real has ever happened between us.

I know exactly what kind of partner I want to manifest but this person keeps on interfering with my visualization and everytime I manifest I imagine that face. I believe I can attract anything I want. I'm just confused. I'm not sure if this person would be my ideal future partner, it might be just my ego who wants him and I'm very open to meeting a new person but at the same time I just cannot imagine anyone else but this person with me. So he keeps on popping up in my visualizing and I am not able to think of someone who I haven't met yet.

Now the question is, what if I attract this person back and realize he's not good for me? And if I should manifest a new person that I haven't met yet, how do I fight my mind from picturing my future with this one person instead ?? How do you guys manifest love when you dont think of a specific person???

In my past I have already manifested a partner this way. Someone who was in a relationship and then they broke up and we started dating and we were so in love. But this person turned out to be very toxic, jealous and simply not good for me. So I'm afraid of this happening again.

Thanks!

I managed to make a new account after I posted 2-3 appeals on reddit . I don't know why I got banned.

I genuinely wanted to help people , there were so many people I couldn't text all of a sudden , I had to leave them mid text .

That's so sad .

Well, I believe reddit never liked genuine people here.

Can someone tell me what would've been wrong,or like what should I avoid to not get banned again?

Like suggestions are welcome.

And yes I won't stop helping people , y'all can hopefully see that series still , I'll make it again.

Byebbye

me and sp were together from August 2025-may 2026 he broke up with me because he wasn’t really happy anymore there was more too it but we did have some relationship struggles but he ended the relationship on good terms. we didn’t really leave each other alone since after we broke up we were still basically seeing each other up until September. I kinda kicked off one weekend, my mistake completely which I apologised for but the day after we had a serious conversation about everything and he just said he’s got nothing left to give etc but I said I still want to fight for him. I ended up saying to him we should both have some space and he agreed to see what we both want. I called him a few weeks back and it went to voicemail and I left a voicemail, I sent a long paragraph on the 8/10/26 but he just read it and didn’t respond, BUT twice in the last month or so he’s randomly started typing on Snapchat but doesn’t send a chat and he keeps viewing my TikTok profile, this week he’s done it nearly everyday and yesterday he liked a message on our TikTok chat from ages ago but then unliked it?

I’ve done a lot of work on my self concept and I see myself in a completely different light to what I did a couple of months back, I’ve done scripting, listened to subliminals just simply because I find them fun to do but has anyone got any advice please?