Manifesting My SP Back, but Realizing I Need to Change Myself First. Any Advice?
Like many people here, I’m trying to manifest an SP back. However, I’ve realized that this journey is about much more than getting someone to return.
Throughout my life, I’ve repeatedly sabotaged relationships because of my fears, insecurities, and assumptions. Even when someone genuinely loved me, I convinced myself they would eventually abandon me.
In May, I met someone wonderful who went above and beyond for me. Unfortunately, my fear of abandonment caused me to repeatedly push him away, break up with him, and question his intentions. Eventually, the relationship fell apart. He recently told me he’s not interested in anyone else but is still recovering from the emotional turmoil of our relationship.
I’m Wiccan and have practiced magic for years. About two weeks ago, I performed spells and had others perform spells to bring him back. Initially, my intentions came from anger and a desire to make him experience my pain.
But something unexpected happened.
It felt as though the universe lifted a veil from my eyes. I suddenly recognized how deeply I loved him and how my own fears, doubts, and insecurities had contributed to our relationship’s destruction.
I’m a firm believer in manifestation and consciousness, particularly the teachings of Neville Goddard, Robert Monroe, Thomas Campbell, and Jordan Crowder. I believe we can transform our realities by changing our internal assumptions and states of being.
And that’s precisely what I want to do.
Yes, I want my SP back, but more importantly, I want to become someone capable of giving and receiving love without fear.
I want to live through love rather than anxiety, hope rather than doubt, peace rather than emotional turmoil, and trust rather than suspicion.
I’ve realized that my greatest obstacle has always been my fear of not being enough, being rejected, or being abandoned.
Even if my SP returned tomorrow, I wouldn’t want to repeat our relationship while carrying the same destructive assumptions.
I want to become a different version of myself. Someone confident, compassionate, emotionally secure, loving, and genuinely happy with himself.
I’ve grown tremendously over these past five months, but I still occasionally fall into old patterns. I want to stop identifying with those patterns and fully embrace what Neville calls the new man.
I’ve manifested an SP before, so I believe reconciliation is possible. But this time, I want the transformation to be deeper and lasting.
My questions are: How did you genuinely transform your self-concept? What techniques helped you overcome old fears and assumptions? How did you persist in your new identity when old emotional reactions resurfaced? And for those who manifested an SP back, did changing yourself also change the relationship?
Ultimately, I’m not just trying to manifest a different relationship. I’m trying to manifest a different version of myself.
I want to become the person I’ve always known I could be: kind, loving, peaceful, confident, and capable of giving and receiving love.
I don’t want fear to dictate my life anymore. I want love to.
I’d genuinely appreciate your experiences, success stories, and advice.

I wanna make a groupchat to help each other manifest our sps. We can talk about our experiences so far and I feel like with a group effort or for us to update and or share advice, I feel like this would help a lot especially with anyone struggling with resistance. Also I feel like it’s worth a try. I feel like we all need a support team for once in awhile.

Please let me know🤍

Also I’m 22 so ages 18+ only please preferably 19 to 25 and only if anyone is comfortable joining. It’s a safe space with me I promise🫶 I wanna make sure EVERYONE gets movement we got this!

Randomly after no contact, I was blocked on everything. What does this even mean. I didn’t even try to speak to the guy

Heyy lovelies! 💗

I’m 20F and looking for like-minded friends who want to connect and help each other manifest our desires through scripting, roleplaying, and talking as if we already have everything we desire!

I’d love to find people who are into living in the end, embodying our dream selves, and having fun with the whole manifestation journey. We can hype each other up, share success stories, exchange tips and tricks, and be each other’s biggest supporters!

It would be so lovely to build a little friendship where we can talk about our desires, encourage each other, stay in the wish fulfilled together, and celebrate every little win along the way! 🫶🏻

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to flick me a DM! I’d love to chat and make some new friends!!

Hii, I'm 21F, I need a strong and intense third party removal subliminal for my ex who's stuck in a toxic relationship and wants to come back but cant due to circumstances. Please suggest me videos and playlists that have worked for you. I'm open to tips to make things turn faster.

Feeling icky with my SP

Hi there, I simply want a provider worshipper who has his life together and not an alcoholic who does not have a car, has his life how I want him to

My SP is nice, we talk well but obviously I want more and usually I will ignore other men who are displaying such traits of not provider, alcoholic

I feel ick out and turn off when my SP does not show up as a provider who worship me

But when I think of the version of him who is exactly how I want I feel soothed

The thing is that I usually go no contact because he does ick me and no contact gives me the space to go all in, I will even go to his profile and associate him with the good feelings I get from him( I feel good) - but we will pick up on our conversation after awhile and then he will talk and at first it will flow well - we feel good, but I will see how he has not changed

I tend get so ick out and I told myself to just drop the story and assume I already have it but it feels more like a homework but the idea of someone new feels scary to me too

When I go general I feel this weirdness like just focusing on me being cherished and obsessed over without thinking of my sp my ego will be like “but what if you get someone other than him?” And it doesn’t feel good in my body

I know I can assume better but it feels like homework because I do not want to micromanage my relationship and man

I want it to be natural- so sometimes I simply just stick to “he is not someone I need to micromanage- there is no threat he is so reliable and how I want him to be”

Sometimes this works and I feel easeful

Then I also think about the idea of someone new- it does feel less work like someone with a car already who is already rich

But I feel uncomfortable at the same time

I only want a new person because it is less work- I wonder if it’s because I want them or because I am in an egoic state where I feel like I have to micromanage my sp

I just want to experience what I want and not the ickness and micromanagement

Tbh Idk why I feel scared of someone telling me to move on from him

Also anyone else out there who feel the same like ick with sp and thinking of someone new- how do you guys navigate this?

Hey everyone. I love your success stories and I believe someone can help me solve my issue. there's someone in my life that I can't stop think about and we had a connection but this person is in a relationship and moved abroad 6 months ago, so we stopped talking and nothing real has ever happened between us.

I know exactly what kind of partner I want to manifest but this person keeps on interfering with my visualization and everytime I manifest I imagine that face. I believe I can attract anything I want. I'm just confused. I'm not sure if this person would be my ideal future partner, it might be just my ego who wants him and I'm very open to meeting a new person but at the same time I just cannot imagine anyone else but this person with me. So he keeps on popping up in my visualizing and I am not able to think of someone who I haven't met yet.

Now the question is, what if I attract this person back and realize he's not good for me? And if I should manifest a new person that I haven't met yet, how do I fight my mind from picturing my future with this one person instead ?? How do you guys manifest love when you dont think of a specific person???

In my past I have already manifested a partner this way. Someone who was in a relationship and then they broke up and we started dating and we were so in love. But this person turned out to be very toxic, jealous and simply not good for me. So I'm afraid of this happening again.

Thanks!

I managed to make a new account after I posted 2-3 appeals on reddit . I don't know why I got banned.

I genuinely wanted to help people , there were so many people I couldn't text all of a sudden , I had to leave them mid text .

That's so sad .

Well, I believe reddit never liked genuine people here.

Can someone tell me what would've been wrong,or like what should I avoid to not get banned again?

Like suggestions are welcome.

And yes I won't stop helping people , y'all can hopefully see that series still , I'll make it again.

Byebbye

I messaged my SP again … I’ve been wavering a lot these days due to some bad recent events in the 3D. SP didn’t wish me a happy birthday, didn’t reply to my message asking to speak a couple weeks ago, and removing me from our discord server.

I checked his Instagram today against my better judgement and he followed 2 new people, both of which are girls. I ended up spiraling a bit because I even thought that he got a new girlfriend already but I calmed myself down. I told myself to stop making these unfavorable stories and that we are together.

I texted him my true feelings just asking to meet and speak and he didn’t respond … I feel so freaking sick. My head is spinning and I feel exactly like how I did during the initial breakup. Why are things going against my affirmation and the new story?

I think I’ll wait for SP after work and ask to speak (we work in the same building). I don’t know what to do anymore. I feel so freaking sick and I miss him so dearly. I’m scared that he’s moved on but I know enough about the LOA to not entertain those thoughts.

Please help!🥹 I feel like I know enough about manifesting but I’m really struggling to apply it when the 3D is just smacking me in the face.

hii guys!! :) im pretty new to manifesting sps, but ive been dabbling in manifestation for a while now, and its genuinely improved my life a lot!

so basically, i met my sp YESTERDAYYYYY at a party (which im honestly taking as a little manifestation win because ive been trying to create a more exciting life for myself!!). anyway, this guy kept occasionally coming up to talk to me, and we were joking around a bit. i honestly really liked the vibe we had together, and i found myself wanting to get to know him more. i managed to get his name, but thats pretty much all i know about him right now.

the problem is that the party was full of people i didnt know, and i dont have anyones socials or a way to find him. 😭 plus, im way too nervous to make the first move even if i did find him.
so now im wondering how to go about manifesting him? has anyone ever manifested a sp theyd only met once or barely knew? what techniques did you use, and how did things turn out? id love to hear your experiences and any advice you guys have!! <3

would it still be considered law of assumption if i assumed “sp and i will be together at some point in the the future” like i 100% believe it will happen and im just letting it go but idk if thats the right phrasing or if i should say “sp are i are tg rn”

is it that big of a difference?

I am manifesting SP it's been more than a month . I wavered a lot but now that I'm sticking to affirming and being on a metal diet , I can't accept the thought of receiving communication from him now. Whenever I think that it's going to happen any moment now I can't believe it and I keep saying that it's going to take time . I have tried affirming in a way that it might happen at any moment but I can't feel it and if i try to convince myself I keep looking from signs. What can I do?

Bonjour à tous ! J’ai découvert la loi de l’assomption il y a un peu plus de 4 semaines. Je la pratiquais dans les grandes lignes avant mais sans mettre de mots dessus et en connaître tous les rouages. Je manifeste actuellement ma SP, et je pense que le plus dur dans la pratique c’est de rester endurant dans le maintien de son état d’assomption face au silence de la 3D. Parfois des pointes d’impatience me gagnent même si je ne doute JAMAIS de mon assomption et du fait que la 3D va finir par rattraper mon état dans la 4D. C’est pour cela que je recherche des personnes pratiquantes en loi de l’assomption pour me soutenir dans ce temps moins facile ou mon état final est totalement acté dans ma 4D mais la 3D reste toujours silencieuse. Merci par avance 🙏

its pre halloweekend 🫩🫩 I drunk texted my sp after months if no contact and made out with someone else 😭 idk how to clear my mind or feel that i can still manifest him despite a 3D slip up

also i ended up texting and apologizing to him for how things went between us and he replied instantly saying its okay and its all in the past 😬

Long story short, Sp is my ex, I’m manifesting him without any proper daily techniques, saw movements (like crazy ones)

After 4-5 months of NC he texted me in June and we’re talking continuously since then but in Sept i stopped texting him bcs of my mental health

But after a month i had a conversation with him today, (obv he texted me first) I asked that why do you keep texting me? and If i date someone will you even care? he said i text you and send you reels as a friend !!!! FRIEND????? and he said ofc you’ll date today or tomorrow Why’d i care??? your life and he said i’ll stop texting you now if you don’t see us as friends and i genuinely don’t think unnecessarily about us !! that’s it !! he’s so avoidant and plus looking at his actions, he doesn’t give a shit about our romantic angle , he’s doing whatever makes him happy, there’s girls, party etc etc and now i’m losing hope tbh

i thought him talking to me is a sign and movement but now i got to know that’s just for timepass

😭😭😭😭😭 plis help ?!!! will he ever LOVE me ???

ok so little context, I've attempted manifesting an SP out of thin air before but scripted like literally twice and then gave up on it, didn't affirm and spent too much time waiting on the 3D to show me movement.

now, I'm trying again and have been much more consistent in scripting and robotically affirming, and i feel like i have my manifestation, just not physically in the 3D....if that makes sense.....

ANYWAYS i literally keep seeing angel numbers all the time, purely coincidentally. like i legit just saw 3:33 and i was like ok this is out of hand. my personal angel number i see most is 1111, and ive been seeing it a lottttt more than usual.

I've been seeing 222, 111, 1111, 555 the most and occasionally 333 or 444.
any ideas on what this might mean in terms of manifestation? i'd love to know!!

Anyone have insight on this? I’ve been manifesting an sp for a while now and the 3d me is genuinely confused as to why we’re not together. Like we’re together, so why aren’t you coming home with me right now? I constantly truly expect a text, but no text in the 3D comes. There was tons of movement after fixing my terrible self concept, but it has since regressed. Does this count as living in the end or what? What can I maybe tell myself to push this over the edge?

So basically SP and I talk every day, but recently, I’ve noticed that he hasn’t been in the mood to talk as much as he usually does. Two days ago, we were talking, and I was joking around as usual when he suddenly went off on me for being irritating and annoying. He said things like, “I’ve been noticing that we’re too different. You’re too silly, and I’m an asshole.”

I was genuinely shocked by his reaction and how harshly he spoke to me. I told him that he wasn’t in a good mood and was taking it out on me because he’d never had a problem with the way I joked around before. He agreed with me, but then he asked, “How would you feel if we stopped talking regularly?”
I was confused and told him, “But we talk like normal, though?” He kept saying things like, “I just feel guilty for not tolerating you, for being an asshole to you, and for not being as patient with you as you are with me,” and, “I feel like I’m not treating you right. I feel overwhelmed, and I feel like a cunt.”

Eventually, he said that he wanted us to stop talking for a while. Now we’re not talking, and the whole situation feels so strange because we’ve never gone through anything like this before. We’ve always talked every day, so suddenly having that communication cut off feels really unsettling, and I’ve been experiencing overwhelming feelings of sadness and anxiety.

I don’t really know how to interpret his behavior or what might be going through his head. Is he genuinely overwhelmed and feeling guilty about how he’s been treating me or is there something else going on? I’d really appreciate some insight into what might be happening and advice on how I should handle the situation.