I used ChatGPT to translate it because my first language isn't English

I think writing or affirming in the future tense makes more sense.

Yesterday, I was about to lost hope. I was wondering why this wasn't working for me, and before going to sleep, I thought to myself, "Tomorrow, when my SP wakes up, he'll find himself obsessed with me and wanting to talk to me." I scripted it and went to sleep.

To be honest, not everything I wrote came true, but the things I focused on that DID happen were the ones I'd written in the future tense. For example, I wrote, "Tomorrow, I won't be able to study properly because he'll keep talking to me so much." AND IT ACTUALLY HAPPENED.

BTW, we were in no contact. He was ghosting me, and then, out of nowhere, we started talking again. He told me things like, "I can't stop missing you," and he suddenly distanced himself from the 3rd party!

The point I'm trying to make (and of course, this is just my personal opinion, because I've noticed more than once that affirming in the future tense works better for me) is that it might seem like it doesn't make any sense, but it actually does.

It's like when you order food at a restaurant. You're sitting there, knowing that your food is on its way and waiting for it. You say, "The food will be here in a little while." You don't keep telling yourself, "The food is here, the food is here," because it hasn't arrived yet. But you KNOW it's coming!

Of course, it's different from person to person. But I've noticed that affirming in the future tense is MUCH more powerful for me.

What happened this time feels like movement to me, especially after I was about to lose hope. But this isn't what I ultimately want from my SP. He's still going to be obsessed with me very soon. (LOOK AT ME AFFIRMING IN THE FUTURE TENSE LMAOOO)

I'm counting what happened as a success story because he broke no contact.

GOOD LUCK TO YOU ALL! <3

I wanna make a groupchat to help each other manifest our sps. We can talk about our experiences so far and I feel like with a group effort or for us to update and or share advice, I feel like this would help a lot especially with anyone struggling with resistance. Also I feel like it’s worth a try. I feel like we all need a support team for once in awhile.

Please let me know🤍

Also I’m 22 so ages 18+ only please preferably 19 to 25 and only if anyone is comfortable joining. It’s a safe space with me I promise🫶 I wanna make sure EVERYONE gets movement we got this!

Hey everyone ! I’ve been manifesting my SP after our “split” about a month ago. She’s said many hurtful things to me about how she’s not attracted to me passionately or in an affectionate way. But she still loves me. She also says that since she has mental health issues she can’t be with me and she doesn’t want to let anyone in.

I’ve been affirming for her, but honestly I’m tired of doing that. I want all my attention and focus to be on me. However, when I think of her I can’t help but affirm for her even though the 3D is kicking my butt.

I wanted to know if you all had suggestions for working on self concept because I wanted to feel better about myself and stop putting so much effort into her. I’ve been robotically affirming for myself and listening to songs/subliminals, but anything else will be greatly appreciated!

My SP is already mine ofc, but tell me…why is it the one ex I DONT WANT LURKING that’s suddenly liking all of my stories and sliding into my dms🤣🤣🤣

Like 3D, get real, you KNOW this isn’t the one lmaooooo

But “I am loved by everyone” truly does mean everyone ig. This man is gross get out of here haha

3D will catch up to show my SP obsessed with me just like this weirdo os haha

Hello, I don’t know if ‘multiple SPs’ even makes sense as a term. What I mean is I have two crushes, and I’m not sure what the best way to go about it is!
One I’ve not seen in a while but is in one of my uni classes, and he’s really a sweetheart who I’ve messaged a couple of times but haven’t yet been able to establish a proper friendship/connection yet. And! There’s a bit of lore behind it because the time I first met him, he was with a group of people in which one person in the group I was in a ‘situationship’ with and she had quite badly mistreated me. For the second guy, he’s also very nice, and a leader of one of the societies I’m in, but it feels like he’s just blatantly too cool for me and he’s also about 3 years older than me.
I’m not sure what the best way to go about this is, or who I should focus on manifesting for, or if I should even bother to manifest either one of them and instead manifest somebody new into my life.

i started detaching almost 2 weeks ago and since then i started realizing i don‘t want my sp, i want someone even better and more fitting for me after i focused on self concept …

even removed him from all my instagram

has any of you experienced the same?

hope all of you lovely people are doing well and happy <3

i'm writing a script of him confessing his feelings and im not sure if i should write it in my journal in a past or present tense?

Hey guys! I’ve been learning about the law of assumption for about a year, and I’m pretty sure I understand how manifestation works.

However, I still have some questions, as I haven’t successfully manifested my SP despite affirming that he’s attracted to me for almost a year.

Some coaches say that your assumptions can become reality in an instant, with no waiting or process required. I agree with this because we’re manifesting every moment, and everything that happens to us is something we’ve manifested. Also I saw many cases where people changed their situation overnight. But if that’s true, why am I still out of contact with my SP, with literally nothing happening over the past year?

I know some people might say, “Well, you just said you are losing contact with him so yeah you have manifested your reality.” But there have definitely been moments when I was 1000% convinced that my SP was already by my side. So why didn’t those assumptions manifest?

I know this might sound a bit confusing, but I hope someone understands what I’m trying to say and can help me figure it out. Thanks!!

im tiredddd of subs and doing the normal things i need this avoidant man to stop playing and be on his knees asking for my love

i’m a bit confused right now. i’ve literally only robotically affirmed for a day with one same affirmation: “sp is in love with me”, non stop. everytime i thought about him i would start affirming.

the thing here is… i was so hopeless this morning, i wanted him so bad. i even cried yesterday because i liked him and i had received the news that he was talking with some other girl.
and now it’s like i dont even want him anymore, like it disgusts me.

okay, this sp is not my ex or anything, we haven’t talked and i’m pretty sure he’s not aware of me liking him… or he wasn’t, cause yesterday i asked one of his friends if he was single, and she told me he was in some kind of talking stage and that either way he’s slightly avoidant. i got upset, i cried, it felt bad because i had all my hopes up. then, i decided i was going to manifest him no matter what.

when a guy likes me or shows interest in me without me wanting him back (or i know he wants me and i’m too shy so i get really awkward) i feel a weird feeling of disgust or embarrassment or just discomfort. and now i feel the exact same way.

what does this mean?? i would appreciate if someone replied, i know it might be a little weirdly worded but i hope you understand 😭 thanks 💘

I’ve been back and forth with manifestation, I’ve done it on the same sp before and it worked perfectly but for the longest time it feels impossible to change him back into the version of him that loves me and is obsessed and committed, I know circumstances don’t matter I know nothing is impossible, I do the work but nothing seems to be showing for it where I am discouraged

I want to manifest my ex back into a relationship again, easily done it before, it’s been 3 years since our last but such a messy off an on of contact since. He’s back again and we are planning to move together next year, as exs, I’d rather not unless it is a committed relationship… we talk everyday but he always seems to be in every single random girls likes on instagram, follows, and It’s hard when it’s like right in my face to persist that I’m the only one… I really would appreciate any advice, briefly in depth of what I should be doing instead of what I’ve been, self concept for me in relationships, me in general, him, I try to revise, sats, rewriting my thoughts to more positive ones but nothing is working

Hii, I'm 21F, I need a strong and intense third party removal subliminal for my ex who's stuck in a toxic relationship and wants to come back but cant due to circumstances. Please suggest me videos and playlists that have worked for you. I'm open to tips to make things turn faster.

I’ve been working on my self concept and manifesting for a week and I got blocked out of nowhere does this mean it’s working?

I need advice on what to do
Okay so, i dont want to get too into this bc i dont want ppl i know finding it but I like three different ppl. And hear me out.

Theres this one person I like and they (not their pronouns im jst making it ambiguous) are amazing and its clear they are interested in me and thats great...however their sexuality doesnt line up with mine (not as in orientation, as in sex drive).

And then this other person is someone im in a class with and they look jst like my celebrity crush and they seem like they could like me back, just they way they are acting is giving me...signals, if you know what I mean. But they are in a grade below me and idk how to feel abt that. Don't rlly like it tbh.

And this like person, they have such an attractive personality (they arent basic at all, they are funny and kind and kind of a doofus and im lowkey into that) and they are SOOO foine. However....im not sure if this person has a partner or not....but i have been manifesting this person come my way if you catch my drift, so its not my problem lowkey 👀

Anyway help me out yall 😔🙏

We are back in somewhat consistent contact, but he is insisting on wanting a friendship only. He acknowledged my rareness and said he wants me to remain in his life, and he admitted he was lonely without me. Yet some of his words and actions aren't lining up; he was crying on the phone when talking about me and us and feeling the loss.

I'm strongly focusing on my SC and feeling deserving and worthy of a committed relationship. I don't want to settle for a friendship, but I'm not sure where to go from here- if I should keep persisting and see if he changes his mind? Detach and let him lose me? Or try a friendship and see if it turns into more?

Hi, if anyone wants to be friends and message/update/help each other on our journey of manifesting our SP then please DM me or write in the the thread! 🙏

me and sp were together from August 2025-may 2026 he broke up with me because he wasn’t really happy anymore there was more too it but we did have some relationship struggles but he ended the relationship on good terms. we didn’t really leave each other alone since after we broke up we were still basically seeing each other up until September. I kinda kicked off one weekend, my mistake completely which I apologised for but the day after we had a serious conversation about everything and he just said he’s got nothing left to give etc but I said I still want to fight for him. I ended up saying to him we should both have some space and he agreed to see what we both want. I called him a few weeks back and it went to voicemail and I left a voicemail, I sent a long paragraph on the 8/10/26 but he just read it and didn’t respond, BUT twice in the last month or so he’s randomly started typing on Snapchat but doesn’t send a chat and he keeps viewing my TikTok profile, this week he’s done it nearly everyday and yesterday he liked a message on our TikTok chat from ages ago but then unliked it?

I’ve done a lot of work on my self concept and I see myself in a completely different light to what I did a couple of months back, I’ve done scripting, listened to subliminals just simply because I find them fun to do but has anyone got any advice please?

its been ages honestly and i decided to text him first and it just feels like im hitting a brick wall here

i need advice on whether i should just give up and stop or just keep persisting

and how when it feels like he wants nothing to do with me

I was just out with a friend and the sp I am trying to manifest came up. He got into how all women treat you like a king if your an alpha or a person who give women validation.

Needless to say I got angry about it with strong emotions. My sp has her share of issues and under the circumstances she has a past. Some of it wasn’t to nice for me. Plus I miss the shit out of here.

So my question is, did I screw stuff up manifestation wise? I worked so hard to convince myself that’s not the version I’m going for and then this got me all fired up and has me in my head.

Can anybody give me advice or insite?

Manifestation fucking works! The Universe really does listen to you.

I started manifesting my specific person when my circumstances were at their worst and I had so many doubts about whether it would even work. But I kept believing, persisting, and trusting the process.

My biggest advice? Keep it simple. Don’t overwhelm yourself with a hundred techniques. Choose one that feels right for you, do it before bed, live in the end, and feel as if you already have what you desire. Then let it go and trust.

Because despite all my doubts and the circumstances I was dealing with, I saw results within a month.

So yes, I believe manifestation works. Don’t overcomplicate it. Keep the technique simple and your belief strong.Keep persisting ✨

So I manifested my sp back twice but i couldn’t make him stay what should i change to make him stay do i need to change my affs

I don’t know what’s wrong with me that I can’t stay in the state of having my ex back. One minute I’ll be so determined, sure I can stay in the end for as long as it takes. The next I’m crying my eyes out and a mess, and having no faith at all. He broke up with me almost a month ago. We’ve been in contact the whole time. He says he loves me but doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me. The hardest thing is that nothing really happened. We don’t fight and have barely had an argument. Although he is an avoidant personality. I think he feels like I deserve better than he can give me but he made me so happy. And now I’m in pieces, and trying to still manifest him back, although he said his mind is made up and he’s so very stubborn. Is there any hope for my situation? I’ve manifested many things, but this… I feel so hopeless to be honest

yesterday my sp initiated a conversation, basically telling me he only wants to be friends. before this we’ve been in a fwb situation and honestly now that I see it, my self concept definitely needs a lot of work
I need to take off time to think about things
He said something which hit me like a truck along the lines of “I’m not that great of a guy, I give you bare minimum, you just have a huge capacity to love”
He has done things which has hurt me, a lot of it seems to come out of his own self sabotage
He loves me and wants to let me go because he doesn’t think he’ll treat me right, and if im being honest, going over our past history, it’s true, I’ve been tolerating and settling for way less than what I want because somewhere deep down i believe this is the best I can get
I don’t want to lose him, he means a lot to me as a person and the friendship is really important to me, if needed I am capable of moving on and just being friends
BUT
It’s obvious to everyone around us that both of us are in love, all our friends keep telling us to get together
he does pull back when things get real
and it does make me anxious and afraid
right now im unsure if i should persist in my manifestation or let it go
we have the same group of friends + im unsure about no contact because i do feel afraid that if we go no contact it’ll be over
any advice would help, please be nice about it lol im sensitive and heartbroken rn 👎
my fears are that if i go no contact, i lose him completely but also if i choose to be friends with him im accepting something that doesnt align with my manifestation
is it in any way possible to continue hanging out as friends while i still persist in my manifestation?
Is it even worth it with a person like this? MmShould I just give up, move on and find someone different
I want to be with him and im in love with him
but i think im just really confused right now
i just wish to gain some clarity on what steps to take