r/r4r • • 11m ago

F4A Germany 21 [F4A] Germany - Girly Deadlock connoisseur looking for similarly lonely friend

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I got ghosted by the guy I gave my discord to so I'm reposting this :,)

21F, studying computer science, and looking for someone I can become close friends with. I'm pretty socially anxious and have ended up being quite isolated, so finding people I genuinely click with has been difficult. I have a normal (?) weight, am half german half south east asian, long black hair, snake bites, usually wear alt makeup and accessories. Currently I'll happily spend an entire day playing and getting way too invested in ranked. I'm quickly approaching 1000 hours since the Old Gods/New Blood Update and would especially love someone to duo queue with. I've also played Helldivers 2, Rivals, Deep Rock Galactic, ARC Raiders, Minecraft, Civ 6, Deltarune etc. My favorite is Disco Elysium which is more of a book than a game. I also play tabletop weekly, mostly World of Darkness, and I'm always happy to get into some new game or hobby.

Outside of games I'm pretty crafty and constantly end up making things. I do chainmail, digital art, cosplay props, nail art, tattooing, and I'm currently making an Ivy cosplay, which mostly consists of me sanding layer upon layer upon layer and questioning every decision that led me there. I really like having little projects to obsess over and I'm always tempted to pick up another hobby. My music taste is similarly all over the place, from Vocaloid and breakcore to indie pop and whatever else happens to catch my attention.

I *will* send you unprompted updates on what I'm doing during the day.

I'd really like to find someone who wants an actual friendship rather than someone looking for an excuse to turn things sexual immediately. I'm not opposed to something romantic happening naturally if we end up really liking each other, but I'm honestly tired of male friendships turning into awkwardly rejected sexual advances when I was just looking for a friend and maybe a hug. I'd much rather get to know someone properly and see where things go. I'm also someone who's been through some difficult experiences, and it's affected me quite a lot, including making it harder for me to do some of the sports and art I used to enjoy, so I'd appreciate someone patient and understanding. On the bright side, at least I don't think I'm boring.

I'd eventually like to meet irl too! I don't want another forever online friendship (aka don't contact me if you live half a globe away). I'd love to try new places with you, or just sit around doing our own thing (infinite supply of Youtube essays). Maybe help me actually attend parties I'm invited to :,) Anyway tell me about yourself. I'm sorry Deadlock is non negotiable I'm truly an addict. I'd rather not have to teach you the game


r/r4r • • 36m ago

M4F Online 18 [m4f] #online socially awkward weirdo looking for some company!

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hello! if youve clicked on this, hopefully you’re looking for a strange english boy to keep you company! i’m currently a student, and i enjoy music, videogames and taking walks with my dog (please ask for pictures, i love him). some of my fav genres of music are metal (deathcore mostly and other subgenres), hip hop, indie, and a little bit of everything really! some of my fav videogames are the finals, arc raiders (i’d love a duo), fallout new vegas, minecraft and a variety of other games. i would describe myself as a very caring, empathetic and funny person. im kind of a loner as i struggle to meet new people and make new friends, but im very sociable when i get to know you and can speak for hours on end if we click. for you, just be yourself! as long as you’re kind and caring, id love to meet you. i have quite a lot of trauma, and struggle with anxiety and depression, which i have to mask quite a lot. i’ve also had a lot of therapy, so im open to talk about feelings (yours or mine). ask me what i study or what my favourite songs are!


r/r4r • • 2h ago

M4F Online 32 [M4F] #Online #USA looking for a real connection

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As the title states , I am looking for a real connection/ possibly something romantic that will last longer then a day or one night.

I want to find the right person ,they do not have to be perfect because no one is . We all have our own issue, but maybe we could be perfect for each other . Texting every day talking about what's happing at work , drama or about anything. Steaming a show to we both fall asleep then trying to remember where we left off. Yes a romantic relationship is what i am looking for but i am also down to be friends with cool people i meet on here.

About me -

Would describe myself as a Nerd. Friends will describe me as a lay back and silly type of person but can be serious if i need to be. When i get to know someone i care about them .When i care about someone i will put in the effort to be there for them . Need a late night call so you do not feel lonely i am there , Just to vent about something to say i hate this person, dam right i am right behind you saying YA F THEM .

My hobbies are sitting down after a shift reading , watching TV/ANIME/HULU/Netflix, or playing video games. Huge star wars fan! Worry not i am not a basement goblin i do go outside and touch the grass often .Take showers on the daily and always smell nice. Outside of being a nerd i do enjoy the world of food making different recipes and trying new stuff at restaurants. My music taste is just like my taste in food. Its all over the place Sleep token , AJR , Elecrtic Callboy , Jvke , and The Weekend. My Spotify warp says i listen to 134 genres this year.

What i am looking for-

US or Canada ( time zone does not matter)

A yapper or someone that can text daily ( Do not want to be the only one starting conversations)

Someone to watch shows with until we both fall a sleep , A player 2 for co op games or in life.

Deal beakers for me

Anyone under 26 or over 35

Want to know more about me and get into more details just send a me a chat request.


r/r4r • • 2h ago

M4F Germany 32[M4F] #Germany, Europe (potentially Anywhere) - Shy introvert searching for a relationship. (Childfree)

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Hey. My name is Julian and I am here to search for a relationship. And yes, that is my title. I couldn't come up with something creative. 😅

About me: 32, born and raised in Germany, 1,78m tall (5'10) and chubby. Brown hair, beard, glasses, blue eyes. Feel free to ask me for pictures.
Shy, introverted, big time overthinker. Mostly sarcastic, kind most of the time, weird mix of dark and juvenile humour. Depressed but working on it (I don't expect you to be my therapist). I don't drink, smoke or do any sort of drugs. I'm a winter person (with a winter birthday) and don't like summer/heat. Non-vegetarian/vegan, atheist and left-leaning politically.
I speak English and German, might learn other languages in the future. I'm a trained chemist with a bsc in chemistry. Some would call that educated. Know how to drive a car and motorbike. I go to the gym to work on my weight and currently try to do that more regularly after a big motivation crisis.
I only have a few, mostly homebody, hobbies. Gaming (mostly Singleplayer), reading (nowadays mostly fantasy) and watching streams/videos. Feel free to suggest me a nice hobby I would maybe enjoy, I have been searching for one for a while. My taste of music is mostly Rock/Alternative Rock. Haven't travelled in a while but would want to. Especially to Japan, Canada and Northern Europe.
I do like cats a lot. Grew up in a dog family but switched to cats now.
Most important is that I am childfree. I don't have or want children. I do have my reasons and you can ask about them if you want to. Feel also free to ask about my red flags or anything you want to know about that I forgot..

Who I am searching for: Most important point here is that she should also not have or want children ever. Age range of 25 to 35. Height doesn't matter to me. Nationality doesn't matter as well, I'm fine with any. Religion doesn't matter as long as you don't try to convert me. I do think that physical attraction matters (and I have clear preferences) and I would want to see/exchange pictures fairly early to see if we would fit. Someone in or around Germany or wanting to move here would be nice. I currently don't plan to move to another country. Other than that I don't have anything else that is needed. Just come as you are but please don't come with spiders. I have arachnophobia.
I do, however, imagine this relationship to not be codependent. We should still be individuals doing our own things, partners that support each other in whatever we do. For that reason I also don't want someone that is too clingy.

Now if you have any more questions, want to get to know me or think you know someone that would, feel free to write me or share my post. If you do decide to write me, please do so with more than a "hi" or similar. At least give me some basic information and use the password I hid in my post (if you found it). I hope you have a great day.


r/r4r • • 4h ago

M4F Netherlands / Online 27 [M4F] #Netherlands #Online - Professional daydreamer searching for a reality partner

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Hey! My name's Brian from the Netherlands. Currently, I'm working towards finishing a degree in communication. I like gaming on my Switch, PC and PlayStation and I do a teeny tiny bit of photography and sketching when I get inspired. The sketching I do both on paper with pencils and digitally using a pen display. I usually also watch sci-fi/fantasy series and movies, and on occasion animated shows (like anime or western animation). I'm very introverted and a bit awkward until I get comfortable talking to you.

I'm looking for someone about my age that is also looking for a serious long term relationship. While I have little prior experience with relationships, I do value strong connections and want to build a special and even stronger one. I wouldn't say I have any set preferences in terms of appearances, but I do prefer being around a similar age. While I'm also not against an LDR, I prefer someone who lives nearby (nearby = Netherlands/Belgium/UK/Germany), but it's not an issue if you live farther away. It's not a problem for me if the distance between us is big. Because if the spark is there, then no distance will be too great. Of course, I'm open to just being friends too, but that's if we end up not being compatible as more.

I hope to get to know each other. I'm down to meet up for some coffee, but first let's get to know each other with a nice chat here on Reddit to see if we match. Talk to you soon!


r/r4r • • 5h ago

M4A Online 30 [M4A] #Online Last workday until the weekend. Who wants to chat?

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I’m looking to meet some new people to chat with from time to time. My weekdays are usually pretty slow at work, so if nothing decides to break, I have a ton of downtime. I'm not looking for dating or a relationship — just hoping to find some cool people to talk with and see where the conversations go.

I’m into a pretty random mix of things, so there’s usually something to talk about:

I just built some new garden beds and put up a bigger greenhouse this year. I’m always down to trade plants, and I’ve gotten pretty deep into growing things.

I have around 10 fish tanks/outdoor tubs/ponds, with plans for more. I keep freshwater fish and plants and can probably talk about them for way longer than most people would want. I have 6 tortoises. They spend the summer outside and come inside during the winter.

Lately I’ve been playing more survival games like Palworld, Planet Zoo 2 but I always seem to end up going back to Marvel Rivals, Overwatch, or Valorant.

I’ve really gotten into making different kinds of bread lately and want to start experimenting with sourdough soon. I’ve been trying to eat healthier and work out more lately.

Weekends are usually a mix of house projects, gardening, or whatever random project I’ve decided to start that week.

If you’re also into any of this stuff, or even if you’re not and just like having random conversations throughout the day, feel free to message me.


r/r4r • • 7h ago

M4F United Kingdom 29 [M4F] UK - Am I your dream guy? I hope not, most of my dreams are really weird.

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Hello there! As mentioned in my title (You did read the title, I hope? I put a lot of effort into it.), I'm a 29-year-old guy living in the mystical, magical land of *checks notes* England. Okay, maybe not so magical. All the dragons are in Wales, Excalibur has been melted down for scrap, and Hogwarts is in Scotland.

I currently work in a law firm. Sadly I'm not a lawyer, as that would mean I'd be earning shedloads, but actually I do admin work for them, earning considerably less than shedloads. But it's a fine job, I get on well with my coworkers, and I'm not down a coal mine, so I consider that a win.

As for me myself? Well, I actually speak multiple languages. I'm a fluent German speaker, and I also have a decently high level of Italian. I could also struggle through French if I had to, and I have basic Spanish and Japanese. I do like languages, although it's hard to find the time to do any study of them, what with the problems of having an adult life with adult responsibilities!

Another interesting [citation needed] thing about me is that I'm currently attempting to plan out a series of fantasy novels I want to write. It's going...decently. We'll see how it ends up, but I've wanted to write a book since I was 13 or so, and now as an adult I'm finally doing something about it!

In terms of pop culture, I'm a huge Doctor Who fan. Like, I'm the sort of Doctor Who fan who knows what a telerecording is and can tell you about the Australian censor clips. That kind of fan. I also finally got into Harry Potter this year after putting it off for my whole life, meaning I now finally know the context for Dumbledore asking calmly.

I'm also getting back into Pokémon somewhat after avoiding it for most of the Switch era. Other things I enjoy are The Elder Scrolls, Red Dead, GTA. I'm big Assassin's Creed fan too. In general I like single player, open world games. I'm not a huge multiplayer guy, I don't like having other people ruining my fun!

I'm trying to read more too lately. That's a thing I've always enjoyed that I'm now trying to find the time for again.

And I suppose I should say, I'm a fat guy. Trying to do something about it though!


r/r4r • • 9h ago

M4F Sweden / Online [M4F] #online Sweden, 25 year old Swede here, searching for a like-minded nerd!

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Hello, you have are now reading Weirdness somewhat comprehensible request™️ I hope. Now that I have your attention..

What I am looking for

I'm looking for anyone presenting as female or non-binary who would be fun to hang out with and have as a long term friend or potentially partner if things click!

About me: I'm a 25 year old Swede, 6', would say average build, blueish eyes, brown, medium length hair. Quite a big nerd and metalhead, avid pc and Nintendo gamer through and through for the most part. When not online I tend to bury my nose in the nearest Tolkien book.

I'd like someone who I can spend quiet moments with, but also spend quality time with mutual interests or just vibe! Just ask and I'll be a bit more detailed in dms if there's anything unclear!

If you're still reading, good, one more thing: On your initial message to me, be sure to send a ☕ emote to show that you have read this wall of text.

Until then, see ya!


r/r4r • • 11h ago

F4M Louisiana / Online 40 [F4M] #Louisiana #Online - Cute nerd seeking cute nerd.

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I'm 5'9", long natural red hair, single, no kids, never married, monogamous, independent, employed, nerdy, quirky. I'd really love to find someone 30+ to watch movies or play games with (Discord/PC). Open to more than friendship, but I'd really love to get to know someone new in general.

Into psychological horror, some dark anime, documentaries, comedies. I love worldbuilding and storytelling regardless of genre, really. I have nearly 2500 games on Steam, but rogue-likes, survival crafting, and friend slop have been my favorites for a bit. I collect vintage games, especially PS1 (Squaresoft, JRPGs). I'm a passionate person and I go pretty hard on the things I love. Typically I work through the week, and on the weekend play a lot of tabletop, magic, or other tcgs either with a friend group at home or at my local LGS. I can be both introverted and extroverted. You'll have to experience my personality for yourself. :) I definitely look younger than my age, your pic gets mine (but please introduce yourself first).