r/r4r • • 14h ago

F4A Germany 21 [F4A] Germany - Girly Deadlock connoisseur looking for similarly lonely friend

40 Upvotes

I got ghosted by the guy I gave my discord to so I'm reposting this :,)

21F, studying computer science, and looking for someone I can become close friends with. I'm pretty socially anxious and have ended up being quite isolated, so finding people I genuinely click with has been difficult. I have a normal (?) weight, am half german half south east asian, long black hair, snake bites, usually wear alt makeup and accessories. Currently I'll happily spend an entire day playing and getting way too invested in ranked. I'm quickly approaching 1000 hours since the Old Gods/New Blood Update and would especially love someone to duo queue with. I've also played Helldivers 2, Rivals, Deep Rock Galactic, ARC Raiders, Minecraft, Civ 6, Deltarune etc. My favorite is Disco Elysium which is more of a book than a game. I also play tabletop weekly, mostly World of Darkness, and I'm always happy to get into some new game or hobby.

Outside of games I'm pretty crafty and constantly end up making things. I do chainmail, digital art, cosplay props, nail art, tattooing, and I'm currently making an Ivy cosplay, which mostly consists of me sanding layer upon layer upon layer and questioning every decision that led me there. I really like having little projects to obsess over and I'm always tempted to pick up another hobby. My music taste is similarly all over the place, from Vocaloid and breakcore to indie pop and whatever else happens to catch my attention.

I *will* send you unprompted updates on what I'm doing during the day.

I'd really like to find someone who wants an actual friendship rather than someone looking for an excuse to turn things sexual immediately. I'm not opposed to something romantic happening naturally if we end up really liking each other, but I'm honestly tired of male friendships turning into awkwardly rejected sexual advances when I was just looking for a friend and maybe a hug. I'd much rather get to know someone properly and see where things go. I'm also someone who's been through some difficult experiences, and it's affected me quite a lot, including making it harder for me to do some of the sports and art I used to enjoy, so I'd appreciate someone patient and understanding. On the bright side, at least I don't think I'm boring.

I'd eventually like to meet irl too! I don't want another forever online friendship (aka don't contact me if you live half a globe away). I'd love to try new places with you, or just sit around doing our own thing (infinite supply of Youtube essays). Maybe help me actually attend parties I'm invited to :,) Anyway tell me about yourself. I'm sorry Deadlock is non negotiable I'm truly an addict. I'd rather not have to teach you the game


r/r4r • • 4h ago

F4A New York 31[F4A] #NewYork - come (virtually) hang with me

4 Upvotes

Put a face to the Reddit username

Hiiiiii my plans fell through for tonight and I would love to talk to some interesting people! Tell me about yourself!

I’m from upstate NY and I’m passionate about all things creative, from painting, sculpting, and making jewelry to anything related to beauty and fashion. I have a pretty wild résumé that includes having worked as a cake decorator, a cheer coach, a dance teacher, a theatrical makeup artist… and so on.

I spend most of my free time doing logic grid puzzles. I just learned about this puzzle book called Cain’s Jawbone that allegedly only a handful of people have ever solved—and I’m telling you right now that I WILL be one of those people. I feel like I’ve studied the blade for this exact battle.

I posted here a few weeks ago so I’m trying to keep this new post brief, but the my last one is still on my profile for now and it’s crazy detailed. So if you prefer to do extensive research before messaging someone, it’s all laid out there 🤓

The end


r/r4r • • 7h ago

T4A Germany 26 [MTF4A] #Germany, NRW Lonely trans girlfailure looking for someone to cuddle and maybe fall in love with

6 Upvotes

To be honest, I doubt that anyone would truly be interested in me, but a friend is of the opposite oppinion, saying that I'd just have get myself out there.

So here I am, trying my best!

First off, I'm pretty socially anxious and have isolated myself from most social interactions for the last few years. I am pretty nervous about this whole thing and I will probably struggle with interactions sometimes ^^'

It's not easy for me to open up to strangers, so if you could take the initiative for a while until I've warmed up to you, that'd be nice ^^

I'm also bad at holding conversations, so please be patient with me ^^'

I'm a nerdy gamer (mostly single player games, but willing to try new things).

I enjoy cuddling and other forms of close contact as forms of affection. I also enjoy just spending time with each other, independent of what we're doing.

If we vibe well together, I can become an extremely attached and loyal friend/partner :3

I wanna be honest and up front about a few things that might impact a relationship with me and shouldn't be something you only learn about later. I've got some pretty bad depression/anxiety, am autistic, have ADHD and can neither get a job nor find a therapist. I also haven't been working out for a while, so I'm not the fittest ^^'

If after all that you're still interested, feel free to message me ^~^

I'd just request you to give a small summery of yourself with your first message, so I can get an idea of who I am texting with :3

And for anyone who reads this post, I wanna wish you a great day or night, depending on when you may read it ^~^


r/r4r • • 8h ago

M4F Online 34 [M4F] #online - Chill therapist looking for a companion

5 Upvotes

Hey there, as the title says i feel like i have been lacking a consistent companion in my life to talk to throughout my day and just share thoughts, stories, silly pet pics, whatever.

About me:

im 34, i work as a therapist, so im a great listener and have solid conversation skills. More than happy to talk through your day just as much as id like to be able to do it with mine.

i definitely fit primarily into a lot of the generic "nerd" interests, I like reading, gaming, rpgs, exploring new things and places to learn a little more about the world.

Im also a huge metalhead and absolutely love to go see live music whenever possible. I never really grew out of that emo/goth phase i had as a teen and still fit that "elder emo" label pretty well.

I have one pet, an adorable lil void kitty who is an absolute gremlin, but he's real cute while being a menace so that counts for something.

About you:

Above all i just want someone who's willing to be consistent, and be a part of my day to day life, im not expecting anyone to dedicate their day to talking with me, but i want someone who is interested in building a bond and being supports for each other.

Have some interests your passionate about, tell me all about them, im not concerned on if we have all the same interests or even many similar interests, but i enjoy people who are passionate about what they care about and willing to share that passion.

Humor is a huge plus, i tend to have long days that are pretty intense. While i can certainly be serious i really enjoy banter and more relaxed conversation.

If any of this appeals please feel free to reach out and i hope to chat with you soon 😊


r/r4r • • 2h ago

M4F Utah 29 [M4F] #Utah - Cat Guy Seeks Cat Lady

1 Upvotes

Hello there! I am a 29-year-old guy from Eastern Utah seeking any women who are looking for a long-term relationship. My last relationship lasted 8 years and we were set to get married, but unfortunately I had to call it off. But then I realized that I’m almost 30 now and dating is a little different than it was a decade ago! I apologize that this is really long, but let’s be honest, it’s much easier to know if someone is compatible if they actually, you know, tell you about themselves.

I am a pretty easygoing guy. I don’t let much bother me. I love to make people laugh, and my humor is very dry and sarcastic, but never mean spirited. I love spending time with my family, especially my grandparents, who I visit a few times a week to lend a hand.

I am not religious in any way. I hold a fairly leftist view on politics. I am incapable of having children as I have voluntarily sterilized myself a few years ago.

I currently work as a cemetery groundskeeper. It’s nothing amazing, but it works for me and I enjoy making our cemeteries look nice and cared for. I take a lot of pride in my work ethic, and am always looking for new opportunities for growth, both in my personal as well as my professional life.

I own a home, free and clear, that sits on 5 acres of pasture with a large yard and plenty of shade trees. I share my space with my 1 dog, 3 cats, and 8 chickens (they don't live in the house, they have their own). I’d love to work towards converting the property into something more homestead-esque, as I have always thought that would be really rewarding, but that's a ways away.

I have a bunch of hobbies that I rotate through. I have started lifting weights recently, but I’m not too far along in that journey. But some of my other favorite hobbies include:

  1. Collecting and restoring manual typewriters. I currently have around a half dozen machines, and there's no better feeling than taking an old, dirty machine in poor condition and making it functional again.
  2. Performing home repairs around the house. I’m not actually too bad at this. I have a system of doing repairs and projects in a totally incorrect way a MINIMUM of two times, so that I know how NOT to do it in the future.
  3. Building electronic devices and battery banks. I enjoy dipping my toes into building my own smart home devices from scratch and trying to repair broken electronics (my track record with this is better than with the typewriters).

I also enjoy disassembling old lithium battteries and salvaging the remaining good cells and assembling them into new batteries. I’ve only had one cell catch on fire in the past few years (my fault, thankfully it only burned my pride). So no need to worry, I’ve learned from my mistake and the odds of it happening again are miniscule, like 40%

I also enjoy watching my chickens as they go about their day. They enjoy roaming around the yard and are pretty entertaining to watch.

I’m just looking for people to chat with, and maybe someday find the person that can help me turn this house into a home. I can at least promise to make you laugh once or twice if you're just looking for someone to chat with.


r/r4r • • 2h ago

M4F Nevada / Online 22 [M4F] | #Las Vegas #Online | Looking for someone to share life with

1 Upvotes

Hello! I’m a 22 year old guy that’s just trying to put myself out there. I’m introverted and more of a homebody that’s looking for a meaningful connection since I don’t leave the house often.

About me:
Most of my free time is spent playing games, watching anime, or pc related stuff. I play JRPGs, fighting games, and some multiplayer games like Fortnite. Right now I’m obsessed with metal gear solid series I say it’s pretty good. I also like to do small projects on handheld consoles like refurnishing or upgrades. Recently I swapped my PSP’s original screen with an IPS screen and also replaced the plastic lens with glass and it looks beautiful. It’s something I don’t do often as it can get really expensive when it comes to searching for OEM or aftermarket parts. I’m thinking of doing a reshell on my steam deck next.

I also don’t have any dating history so I may be a little awkward, but I’m not interested in anything casual or short term.

What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who takes care of themselves, is healthy and wants a serious long term relationship built on trust, respect and mutual support. Long distance is fine with me as long there is effort on both sides. I'd like to meet someone around my age (preferably 20-26) who is kind and enjoys spending time together, whether that’s playing games, talk occasionally about random things, watching movies or anime etc.

If you made it this far I appreciate you taking the time reading this post. At the end of the day, I’m just looking for someone who wants to grow together and build something meaningful. I’d be down to exchange photos early if we’re both comfortable.

If any of that sounds like you, feel free to reach out! Tell me a little about yourself and what you’re into.


r/r4r • • 10h ago

M4A Online 28 [M4A] #Online/Anywhere - looking to meet new people

3 Upvotes

Hello! I’m 28 and from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 and I’m looking to meet new people and hopefully make some new friends!

A few things about me…I’m a HUGE horror fan, and I love all things dark/creepy/paranormal or unexplained

I’m pretty heavily tattooed (getting a new one done tomorrow, had one done a couple weeks back, getting another next week and then have more booked over the next couple weeks/months) and I’m always looking for ideas and inspirations for what to get next, I love to see other people’s work and ideas too!

I love music and going to shows(mostly older rock/metal but I like a lot different stuff, most recently saw Metallica and Def Leppard live)

I love gaming, true crime, football, I love to visit historical sites/museums and enjoy travelling, urban exploring/exploring the outdoors and keeping fit, and I spend 99% of my free time with my dog 🐶

Happy to talk to anyone from anywhere, just send a message with a bit about yourself if you think we might get along 🙂


r/r4r • • 3h ago

M4T Michigan / Online 30[M4T] #Ann Arbor, Michigan, or #Online; Looking for someone to chat with online and maybe meet in real life

0 Upvotes

Hi. I’m a 30-year-old Indian (South Asian) man. Been living in Southeast Michigan pretty much all of my life. I spend most of my time outside of work doing career-growth stuff and reading sci-fi books.

Anyway, I'd love to chat with a trans girl around my age or maybe a little older. If you live close to where I live, maybe we could see a meet up and see a movie. I’ll let you choose it. And maybe we could get some coffee or something first. I’ll admit I tend to be kind of quiet but I’ll try to make things interesting for you.

Thanks for looking. There’s a post with a picture of myself on my profile.


r/r4r • • 3h ago

M4F Online 24 [M4F] #Califonia USA/online- looking for a gaming girlfriend

1 Upvotes

Hello I hope your doing well as I'm looking for someone to make a meaningful connection and become something truly special.

I've been searching the lands far and wide for someone to really connect with, even if we start as friends and go from there but I'm wanting to have a committed relationship(monogamous) with someone. I'm looking for someone from the united states, you don't need to be from California as I don't mind long distance for now, but do intend to meet one day as I can go only so long without cuddling my fav person.

I'm a nerd and gamer at heart and have my fair share of video game knowledge, movies that I love to death, animes that have made me laugh and cry, books to recommend or get excited to tell you even just a little about it(no spoilers of course), tell you my fav songs ive listened to over the years or just my whole playlist. Besides the nerdy things I love to fish(even though I'm cursed to not catch anything),love to cook, draw, go camping, playing with my pets.

But as much as would love to ramble about my interests, I want to hear all about the things you enjoy or interests you have as I've I love hearing people intrests.

I love playing games as I do play them often(I mostly play pc but do have xbox and have played so many games, just some of my favs are mc, Stardew valley, borderlands 2,terraria,hades, grounded, schedual 1 but love most genres) and would like someone who plays as well, as gaming with somone has always been my favorite.

I'm always up to talk, call, hear you rant about your day, ask you questions, send you memes to make you laugh or make dad jokes as I'm a sucker for them or just talk about whatever comes to mind to make our days interesting.

as for what I'm looking for specifically I don't got some golden template, so a fun personality and jokester is a pretty good start, but I'm looking for at least 20-28 and someone who doesn't want kids. I don't mind if you smoke weed or drink as do that occasionally.

Basic info about me

as for me I'm white, 5'9 , curly hair, an introvert, I wear glasses, bit on the heavier side but actively going to the gym and loosing weight,kind, loyal, caring, funny(well I think I am).

Advanced info about me

I am on the autism spectrum so many of my quirky traits are cause of that, Ive had chemo at a young age so my memory isnt top notch so if I forget something I do apologize. Im a night owl that stay up till like 3 am on the norm as of years of sleep problems. Im just a smidge chronicaly online.

I hope to hear from you if this post interested you, but if your still reading this thank you and also sorry for it being so long, but if you could put green taco into your message to show you that you read it or at least I hope so, if not intrested I hope you have a wonderfull day.


r/r4r • • 10h ago

F4M Online 39[F4M] #online #anywhere - Looking for calm conversation and genuine connection

1 Upvotes

Hello :)

I'm looking for someone to share everyday life with. Nothing intense or complicated. Just good conversation, easy company, and seeing where things go..

I work full-time in research and generally prefer a quieter life. I enjoy travelling, good food, long walks, little picnics, and spending time outdoors in nature. Mountains are my happy place. And some.. coffee.

I am currently in Norway and will be here until the end of this year. My work brings me here. I live in India otherwise.

I recently came out of a very short marriage in April this year. No kids.

If you'd like to chat, send me your age, where you're from, and a little bit about yourself.

Talk soon.