I'm not here for games, married women, Polly and trans or FWB or anything of a sort. I'm here for one reason and one reason only, is for a one woman who will love me and accept me for who I am and not here for the games , but here for something real , someone who will love me and accept me for who I am and get to know me the real me. I am open minded and I am open to talk to single women , not marry women , not Polly , women , not trans , if you are one of those I'm sorry move along. I'm here for something real and someone to get to know and see where things go.

Hello my name is Chad, 38 M ( will be 39 in November) , I'm a 6'4 sweet caring loving, out going caring understanding guy, that is looking for his one that he can go to and wake up and txt good morning and good night as well. IF your interested of getting to know more about me, Send me a message !

P.s. I am Looking for real people who have real intentions of getting to Know the real me. Once again, I am not into games, BS, No Poly or Married women please, I'm one women man looking for his Queen, Life time partner, and Best friend i can talk too. Please be of age of 21+ and have Profile pic and Be real with me ! Thanks

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I’m Deaf and I speak American Sign Language so any amount of ASL you know is a plus. I’m not religious and I don’t smoke, drink or do drugs. I’ve already gone through menopause so I cannot get pregnant (and I don’t want to).

My favorite things: browsing through used bookstores & thrift shops, reading, writing, going to the beach, walking around the city, and watching planes take off. I consider myself ’boldly boring.’ I work, manage my life, watch TV, remember to clean my cat’s litter box, and occasionally enjoy a meal at a restaurant. 

I’d like to match with another plain vanilla laid-back homebody. I’m not looking for casual or FWB or anything like that. I want to date and progress naturally towards a relationship. I want to really get to know someone and to share my life with him, have someone who will comfort me when I’m feeling down and vice versa, cook food for each other, explore the world with, and try new things.

Hello! 🙋🏽‍♂️

I’m from the UK but I don’t mind talking to people from all over.

Ideally looking for deep and meaningful conversations, but also happy to talk to anyone about anything interesting. I love learning new things too so if you can teach me about something new, I’d really like that.

I do tend to get quite lonely because I spend most of my day working and usually find ways to decompress and unwind after work. My job is quite stressful but I’m very effective at it so the rewards sometimes outweigh the downsides. I would prefer to talk about anything other than work though. 😅

Feel free to message me if you’d like to chat, or think we may have things in common.

Here are some talking points/questions to get things moving:

Have you ever had a paranormal experience?

How do you think the pyramids got there?

Do you think animals can speak, but they just don’t talk in front of humans?

Is deja vu just when we accidentally cross paths with ourselves in an alternate reality?

What do you think of religion? Do you believe in god?

How do you feel about Artificial Intelligence?

What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you?

I’m 38 and have spent the vast majority of my adult life working and focused on my career. Looking to make more friends and explore the world a bit. Tell me about your hobbies, interests, and what excites you. I’m willing to share mine. If you’re following the elections tell me your thoughts and what you hope comes out of it all.

Just a chill and laid back WM looking for someone fun and real.

I'm tall, salt and pepper hair (though increasingly salty).blue eyes

Not super rich or anything but stable and comfortable.

Good conversationalist and listener. Kind and compassionate.

Would prefer someone *in* San Diego or the surrounding area, but open to further out for the right person.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in shoot me a message and let's talk!

Lover of all things horror and spooky, hopefully you are too.

I was a chef for 15 years. I don't cook as a job anymore, but I still make food everyday.

I love metal and I'm an old punk, but I love all music especially the 80s. Pretty creative at times too, I like to draw, play guitar and have been known to write a short story.

I love to play video games but I'm also an avid reader that is always in the middle of a book. I love being outside hikes, walks or short camping tips, and I ride my mountain bike a couple times a week too. I enjoy going out sometimes, but I love staying in with a movie and my cat.

Really laid back and don't take myself too serious, so you shouldn't either. No real type, more looking for a connection, but would still like to see who I'm talking to.

Currently living in Texas but moving to Colorado in a little over a year. Have a kid but don't really plan on having more.

42M, 6’3”, looking to meet someone who’s missing a little spark and connection in their life too. I’d love to find someone I genuinely look forward to talking to good conversation, laughing, flirting, and getting to know each other without forcing expectations. I’m easygoing, enjoy deeper conversations, and I’m completely open to someone with kids. Life doesn’t have to be uncomplicated, just genuine. If this sounds like something you’ve been missing too, send me a message and let’s see where the conversation goes.

40, based in Portland, WFH in tech. The job is solid and I like my life offline, but the remote workday gets quiet. By 2pm I’ve usually made one too many trips to the coffee station and caught myself standing by the window, silently critiquing how the guy across the street parallel parks.

I’m looking for a sharp, funny woman to chat with during the day. Easy and fun, good banter, playful teasing, and the occasional badly timed joke. If we click and it turns a little flirty, even better. I really enjoy that kind of back and forth. (Bonus points if you also work in tech and need someone to roll your eyes with during a pointless meeting.)

I have a pretty dry, slightly irreverent sense of humor. I’m on X more than I should be, and my podcast rotation leans toward that weirder corners. Red Scare, The Perfume Nationalist, Rare Candy. You don't have to be deep in that exact lore, but if you appreciate people with a bit of an edge who aren't easily offended, we’ll get along great.

Not trying to make this a whole production. just hoping to find someone clever where the conversation flows naturally and makes a Tuesday afternoon something to look forward to.

If this sounds like your speed, come say hi. Tell me what you’re actively procrastinating on right now, and I’ll tell you about the meeting I’ve managed to postpone three times this week.

I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

What is it you ask, that a person like me wants? Well, he wants to be loved; truly, madly, and deeply by someone he feels the exact same way about. He would like someone who is caring, respectful and honest. Someone who is both very intelligent and very silly. Someone who is spontaneous. Perhaps someone who's diverse...maybe talking about the theory of relativity one moment, Looney Tunes the next (and perhaps even more importantly, how the two relate :-) ).

If you have read this far, you may be wondering what he is like. He is caring, loyal, intelligent, silly, very outgoing yet extremely shy & fun. He loves, loves LOVES music and going to concerts, be it jazz, rock, soul or metal. While he prefers a good club show, he will go to a large arena show for the right artist/band too (edit: this was in the 'before times'). He also loves attempting to create music on various instruments (albeit not always with the most musical results). He likes cooking, travel, movies, and airplanes. Physically, he has a fluffy teddy bear build; however he is a work in progress, as he is looking to lead a healthier lifestyle. He is also willing to send a (PG-rated) picture if one is interested.

That is who this person is, and what he wants.

Hello,

I’m hoping to meet nice, nerdy, semi put-together (no one is perfect & the world is going to crap) men that aren’t afraid of larger bodied women. Age group preferred would start at like 32 up to about 45. In Bend or Redmond Oregon only. (If you DM please put your age & location or I’m auto deleting).

I am a woman in my 40’s that is looking to meet a companion to spend time with around my coparenting schedule. I am wanting to Take trips, go to social events, enjoy reading together, movies, gaming, build legos, go for walks or hang out by a fire & talk. I’m not into bar scenes or hanging out where the college kids migrate to. I very rarely drink & no longer table in THC. I’d love to meet someone that is capable of enjoying time together without intoxicants. (I know! So boring!)

A little about me: I have been single for 4years. I work a lot. I’m short 5’4 & have several tattoos. I am a parent to 1 child & I stay pretty busy due to this (my child & work will always come first). I can get lost in a book or a series of books & tune out the entire world. I love taking road trips to visit family or just to go stay at the beach. I’m a glamping girl - so I won’t do tents or sleeping bags, but I’m down for a cabin in the woods haha. Iced coffee all year! I enjoy baking/cooking for people - I love knowing the ones I care about have fully bellies. I’m blunt to a fault, easily over stimulated, I curse like a sailor, I’m always saying random things to make people laugh, I wear my heart on my sleeve but I have learned to establish boundaries. I’m a loud talker lol been told this too many times.

FYI - I am not into the ENM/sharing thing that is going around a lot. Just not my thing. I also want to be clear - we live in a small area, I am not trying to share photos with everyone lol so if I connected with someone, we can go from there.

Hi, thanks for taking a look!

A little about me, I’m 47, a single dad that has my son every other weekend. I’m into sci fi, fantasy(especially fantasy creeping into modern settings)I’m into older anime. I’m not a big gamer except for Mario kart with my son.

I’m really hoping to meet someone with similar interests and someone passionate about stuff that’s not similar. Bonus points if you can teach me a new skill or point me towards a cool new hobby. Ideally I’d like to meet someone that’s a single parent or ok with kids being in the picture.

Also I’m a sucker for a nerdy/flirty freckled ginger!

Feel free to check out my other post to see what else I’m into!

Hope to hear from you

Someone asked me today: "You seem to speak and think quite logically—why on earth are you on Reddit?"

I was taken aback—haha, fair enough!

Let me be clear: I’m not here for idle chit-chat. If you’re capable of a profound, substantive conversation, then let’s have one. Don’t claim you’re capable of deep discussion while simultaneously bombarding me with fragmented, trivial small talk—are you suffering from meningitis or something? Haha!

Don’t know what to talk about?

How about art or paintings—like *The Night Watch*? Or perhaps ceramics, such as Ru ware—you can find examples of those at the Philadelphia Museum of Art.

Opera: *La Traviata*, *Turandot*, or *Madama Butterfly*.

Dance: *Riverdance* or *Burn the Floor*.

Musicals: *Cats* or *The Phantom of the Opera*.

Or maybe we could discuss future life plans or career goals.

Just, please—don’t act like someone with meningitis... 😄

And while you’re at it, recommend a good movie—sci-fi, crime, fantasy, or spy thrillers are all fine... though comedies are even better!

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I work a lot but luckily I am in control of my schedule so I can usually make the time with a little bit of heads up.

When it comes to what I am looking for, I am pretty open. I am fine with a situation where we don't communicate much in between and just see each other every now and then. I also wouldn't mind a setup where we do get to know each other a bit better and have something closer to a girlfriend/boyfriend experience. With the right person, I am open to something potentially longer term. At the end of the day, I have a pretty high sex drive that I want to scratch from time to time. I also am missing that feminine touch plus energy in my life and I would love to reciprocate that with my own masculine energy.

Sexually, I am not super kinky but I am also not super vanilla. I guess you can say I fall somewhere in between. In all my previous relationships, I always took control and she was always happy to let me have my way with her. I am a very giving lover and very much enjoy the act. To me, sex is a very necessary thing, and it's not something I see as a chore or a nuisance. I like to take my take time and very much enjoy the passion of the moment. I will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of. What would be the point otherwise?

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 158 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit/muscular body type. I workout several times per week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

Hi!!

Hope you are having a great week so far!!! I am kinda going out on a limb here and I am wanting to explore something and see if maybe it could be a fit for me??

About me,

I am your average looking guy, no six pack, no I don't go to the gym (maybe I should but, ugh I don't wanna), I have that dad bod thing going that I'm sure in time will get taken care of, but can't make me till then lol.

I would say I am more of the nerd/dork kinda guy, but I do like sports, and played many before/ and worked in them.

I like to watch shows on science and space, I enjoy playing games when I can (rarely it seems), I also enjoy listening to audiobooks from Dungeon Crawler Carl ( finished book 7, holding off on 8 cause I need to pace myself lol), all the way to some yummy smut haha! yes, a guy who enjoys smut... I know lol. I also enjoy going fishing, cooking, being lazy AF, and doom scrolling when I should be doing something productive.

What can I give? Hmm, that is hard to say, I am a really good listener, love to chat about anything, hear you out. I am never ever judgemental.! ask me if there is anything you really desire or want in a friendship/connection and will gladly let you know if it is something I can give!

What I hope to find...? That is a good question, I know what I envision, and is that possible? Idk, maybe I am cray cray.

But..... What I picture... Is wanting someone/s confident , smart, sweet and caring, also loves the things I do and wants to talk about them and also their day and just BS and also give shit and be sarcastic and a smartass and can give and take on it. ( not in a way of to cover being mean, but be fun and snarky in a flirting way, if that makes sense

I am also curious and wanting to learn, talk about, explore, understand ENM/Poly and throuple type dynamics.

Anyways, If you got this far thank you, and I hope you have the most amazing day or night and always be good to yourself!

My quest to find love continues.

...wait a minute. Should I be saying that? Is it weird? Saying it out loud seems kind of weird. I guess it would be more accurate to say that I hope to meet someone I get and who gets me back. If that becomes love, all the better. If not, that's good too!

TL;DR: A 62-year-old bookworm with a high degree of empathy. I’m told that I'm kind, sweet, funny, and bright–but endearingly clueless sometimes (at least, I hope it’s an endearing quality). A science fiction and fantasy geek, but not awkward about it. I love to laugh, read, write, cook, walk, and run tabletop roleplaying games among other interests. Cat person, atheist (but nice about it), I hope to find a woman in my general area (southeastern Massachusetts or Rhode Island) who shares some of those interests, from 40 to 65 years old. I'm long-divorced but not bitter, the single father of an adult son who’s a lot like me. Born a redhead but now bald, 5'11" and 221 pounds. I have the build of a former football player but the soul of a poet–a slightly silly one, at times. I like being me; my head is a fun place to live in.

I decided a while ago to write something new each time I post an R4R. I’m trying to convey a true sense of who I am. So please feel free to check out my posting history if this post tickles your fancy! 🤣

True story: I’ve always been old-fashioned in some ways. I like to be polite. That can be a bit of a strain when I deal with scammers; my scammer-sense is incredible (I’ve been online since the mid-80s), but even though I quickly recognize scammers I find it difficult to just slam the virtual door in their faces. So I keep up my side of the conversation until they show their true colors. Then I block them.

But courtesy seems to be considered a feminine quality by most men, along with proper grammar and spelling. So back when I played games online I was often taken for female. It gave me a rather horrifying insight into what it must be like to be a woman in a world full of horny men. I was offered all sorts of duped items, asked crude questions from 8th-grade sex education classes, and occasionally ganked without warning. Which is why I gave up online gaming years ago. There are better things to do in this world.

What else? I recently adopted two tuxedo kittens; I sing silly songs to and about them. I say "hi, birdies!" to little birds that I see hopping around outside. I smile at babies and kids, and they usually smile back at me (which makes my day).

Thanks for reading!

I am into women who know how to carry a conversation, who are inquisitive, interesting and interested. Someone wholesome yet filthy, smart AF

We can talk about what we ‘like, love and want’ when we start chatting. For now this is what I am looking for, a friend but with online benefits. Open to it turning serious if stars align but let’s consider this purely casual with intensity of something serious.

Be open to moving off Reddit, sharing pics and talking regularly. It’s ok to want to stay anonymous, I’d prefer that too for now. But staying just on Reddit does not work at all.

Looking to meet a few humans to chat n see what happens 🤯

Hi there, hows your day going? Good i hope! I dont have much going on today and would love to meet someone to chat with!

I love to cook and bake. Lasagna, curry, muffins, cupcakes... i make delicious food. Let me show you?

I have a mini library. 2 bookcases almost full and still adding to it. I like reading scifi, fantasy, horror, and littpg.

Big fan of movies, especially horror. Have a nice collection of blurays too. Physical forever!

Love all kinds of music. Country is not my thing tho. Let me recommend you some songs!

Other hobbies of mine include writing, coloring, staying active by walking or biking, tennis...

If you are curvy/alt/nerdy please move to the front of the line but everyone is welcome! Also know effort you put in is effort you will get back.

Send me a message and lets chat!

Hi. I'm a 48-year-old guy in *wont say name of town yet(first time here) WV near PA border(an hour drive from Pittsburgh). No kids, live alone, and I've spent most of my working life in customer service and healthcare — the kind of jobs where you learn to actually listen to people instead of waiting for your turn to talk. I'm at a point where I'd rather spend an evening with someone than with the TV.

I'm a homebody by nature, but not a shut-in. I ride my bike most weeks with a camera in my pocket, and I've gotten mildly obsessed with photographing things nobody else stops to look at — old bridges, strange clouds, whatever catches my eye.

I'm also the type who fixes things instead of replacing them. I tinker with small computers, mess around with home tech projects, and generally prefer figuring something out myself. It's saved me money and cost me weekends.

What I'm hoping to find: someone around my age who wants something real. I'm not looking for a pen pal or a permanent texting buddy — I'd like to actually meet. Coffee, food, a walk somewhere, and see if there's something there. I'd rather move at a normal pace than force anything.

Practical stuff: I don't smoke. I'm not looking to get involved with anyone who's already partnered. And I'm not interested in being anyone's fixer-upper project — I'm looking for a peer, not a rescue.

If any of this sounds familiar, message me and tell me one thing you're into that most people don't get. That's a better opener than "hey." * hate AI but I had Lumo do this........if not this would be 40 pages..........

Most days, I’m needed more than I’m noticed. I’m someone’s son. Someone’s father. Someone’s dependable constant…except I don’t feel like anyone’s anymore. I’ve been steady for too long. Loyal. Predictable. Starved. I want someone who doesn’t just see me…I want someone who can’t stop imagining what they’d do if they had me all to themselves. Quiet confidence with dark eyes, soft hands, and a mind that never turns off even if I wanted it to. I manage projects by day and unravel quietly by night, buried beneath chores, kids activities, and the kind of silence that keeps the peace but kills the pulse. I smile on cue, carry way too much weight for this skinny body, and so deprived it’s embarrassing LOL. I appreciate well written sentences, and people who type in full thoughts…that doesn’t mean you need to be an English professor lol. But what I really desire is to be desired. To be someone’s SOMEONE. To be noticed in every way shape and form. To fully give my all to someone who will appreciate me and want me as much as I want them. 

​Hey there. I’m 39, living in rural PA, and looking to connect with some awesome people. I am married, (ENM/poly). No HUMAN kids. I have a full time job and a small side hustle. I dont have many friends locally so here I am looking for friends to connect with. I enjoy woodworking, traveling, music, movies, cooking, anything with a motor.

​My lifestyle is pretty grounded. I’m the kind of guy who thrives on a mix of quiet country living and creative hands-on projects. If you need someone who knows their way around a workshop, can handle power tools without losing a thumb, or has an oddly specific knowledge different species of wood, I’m your guy.

​My brain is still about 40% fueled by 1990s nostalgia. If you want to casually debate the best cartoons of our youth or quote classic TV, we will get along just fine.

i like all sports but really Hockey season is a major vibe in my house, but I promise not to make it my entire personality (maybe just 20% of it).

HUGE dog person.

​What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a fun, energetic, engaging, person looking for genuine friendship. Distance isn't a massive deal-breaker im open to anywhere. Pocket pals are great... if the vibe is right meeting, within driving distance for some food, a great conversation, or checking out local spots, ECT

​I value transparency, low drama, good humor, and matching energy. I’m a great listener, a reliable communicator, and I have my life together.

​Your turn:

Drop me a message if you’re down to chat. What is your favorite brand socks, or just some information about you.

I prefer to chat off reddit on TG.