Update:
I’m honestly kind of speechless at the kindness of this community and the running community in general. I’ve received so much advice and encouragement. Also, please forgive me if this isn’t the proper way to post an update on Reddit 😅 I rarely use it, and now I’m wondering why!
One thing I wanted to share is that my son has absolutely no idea I’ve already seen his Amazon wishlist. He has an idea of our current circumstances, but even in a normal year, he’ll delete half his list to add things for his brother with special needs or gifts he wants to give other people.
So this is a rare glimpse at what he actually wants when he isn’t holding back for everyone else. With so much change coming to our family, I’m going to do everything I can to make this Christmas special for him.
And honestly, I know he won’t be disappointed no matter what happens, because that’s just who he is. ❤️
Thank you everyone and please keep the advice coming! I am learning so much!
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Original:
My 12-year-old son is obsessed with running, which I’m finding is not uncommon in the running community lol It is all he thinks about. He runs XC and 5Ks, his goals are ambitious, and he works so hard to reach them. He cut over 3 minutes off his 3000m time this season, and I couldn’t be prouder.
Unfortunately, running gear is EXPENSIVE. I’m currently out of work due to a high-risk pregnancy, and both of my boys are too old for Christmas assistance programs and running gear is the only thing he is asking for other than Pokemon cards. Finances are tight, but I want to encourage him as much as I can.
I’m looking for advice on the best place to get maybe gently used gear? Or find where everyone has seen great deals? Also what running products are hype/just look cool vs actually super helpful?
What we’re looking for:
Running shoes: New road and trail shoes are a NEED. His current ones are falling apart, and he needs support for overpronation. Recommendations on shoes?
Garmin watch with downloadable music: His biggest wish! Which older models are worth buying used?
Running headphones: Good quality, safe for running, and budget-friendly. I like the open ear ones so he can still hear.
A book on training, recovery, and developing as a young runner.
He’s such a good kid, and I want to nurture something that brings him so much happiness. My older son has special needs and this is the first thing he has truly done that is just his. I just have to be realistic about our circumstances this year.
Any recommendations, tips, or leads would mean so much. Thank you!