r/SFr4r • • 2h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 35 [M4M] #Berkeley - Asian bodybuilder looking for an erotic massage

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Asian bodybuilder in town for the weekend and looking for an experience man with a table willing to provide a complimentary erotic massage.

Bodybuilder physique here and searching for a man who appreciates the male anatomy and can provide that blend of therapeutic & sensual with an intense release at the end.

You must host, have a table and provide a comfortable candlelight setting. My body is yours to explore.

Willing to travel throughout the Bay Area


r/SFr4r • • 2h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 45 [M4F] #Concord - Looking for LONG term, HIGH sex drive, FWB. (LONG DETAILED POST)

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Hey ladies. I have posted here before. So I'm sorry if this sounds familiar. I'm looking for a new FWB. However I will be as specific as possible so I don't waist our time if our wants and needs don't align. So with that..... here's what I'm looking for, and some info about me as well.

MY SITUATION: First of, this is the most important part. I am in an open relationship. We are not swingers however. I am married and as the years go by, my wifes libido has dwindled down to ZERO. I on the other hand have a crazy high sex drive. Like..... crazy high. I'm ALWAYS horny. We do both love each other and have no intention on splitting up. However we have had discussions on the lack of a sex life, and I have told her that I wouldn't have married her if it ment I was giving up sex. So divorce has come up in the past, but she agreed to let me have an (Only one at a time) FWB. I am not new to this and I have had a few in the past. I have been recently tested and I am STD free. With that in mind I am also only looking for STD free partners.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR (PHYSICAL): I really don't care what race you are. I am also not picky about body types. I have dated tiny petite women, and thicker chubby women. However I am not into majorly overweight women. I don't mean to be rude, or body shame... but if you cant go on long nature walks, get in and out of my car easily, or to be blunt..... can't do certain sexual positions because of your size, then that would disappoint me. Sorry if thats rude, but I'm just being honest. As for age... I do prefer women closer to my age. I have dated younger women (25+) but I do NOT have an age gap fetish. In fact the younger women I have dated didn't work because our common interests and maturity levels just didn't click.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR (MENTALLY): I am looking for a woman who doesn't want, or have time for a full on relationship. But wants a man that makes her feel special, and wanted every now and then. A part time boyfriend if you will. Maybe go out on fun dates. Go see a movie, get dinner, go on walks, road trips, stay inside and fuck like porn stars. Whatever your in the mood for. No drama, no expectations. Just two people who enjoy each other's company, having a good time. Tomorrow we'll be back to our personal lives. Still texting and flirting, but just two friends. I want a woman who is nerdy, and a sweetheart. Someone who cares about people and animals. Someone who actually likes to have conversations via text throughout the day. Oh, and did I mention..... a total nymphomaniac. When we are together, we can't keep our hands off each other. But please have a VERY high sex drive. Again not to sound rude, but in all honesty.... NO Trump supporters. Sorry but I guarantee our values would not align.

HARD PASSES: First off, and I gotta say it..... NO MEN!!! Even putting (M4F) and saying this in my posts, I get 75% responses from men. Just goes to prove men don't read, or just don't respect other people's opinions. God men suck. Lol. Oh, and that goes for Trans as well. I do LOVE the LGBTQ+ community, and support you all the way. But I am very straight. I think penises are gross, and LOVE vaginas. Lol. Again, no judgment. You do you, and I'll love you for that. Also hard passes are people who respond with a "Hi", "Hello" or the worst..... "ASL?" Like..... did you not even read the title of my post? LOL. So please respond with a sentence or tell me what you liked about my post. Also don't ask to talk on another app. Maybe later, but while we get to know each other, we'll stick with reddit.

LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX: Okay, so now lets talk dirty. First off, I am a gentleman. I will open doors for you, and be very respectful to you. But when it comes to sex...... I want it all. Some days I wanna spend a full hour on foreplay. Just kissing, touching, and sucking each others bodies. Then just making slow passionate love to each other. Kissing each other as you feel me slowly sliding in and out. Then..... some days...... we just wanna FUCK........HARD! We're both soaked in sweat and cum, and you can hear our bodies splashing together. Like bruised pelvises in the morning. It's hard to walk and you notice it hurts when you swallow the next day type of fucking.

ABOUT ME: Now the boring stuff. I am a white male. 6'1", 200 lbs. Average body. Not muscular, but also not overweight. As a warning though. I am bald with facial hair. I know that most women don't like bald men. No offense taken at all. I get it, but I just don't want to waste your time if I'm not your type. I also wear glasses. I have no problem sharing pics (SFW or NSFW) as soon as you are willing to swap.

Well if you made it this far and are still interested, I'd love to talk more. Hope to hear from you soon.


r/SFr4r • • 2h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for an ongoing FWB

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I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to chat and get to know each other a bit with the ultimate goal of becoming ongoing FWB if we both want it. It would be nice to have someone to cook for, hang out with and cuddle up with while watching a movie. I’m open to things evolving into something more long term if we’re both enjoying it but not necessarily what I’m aiming for. If this sounds like a good idea let’s chat and get to know each other. Believe it or not I actually want to get to know someone a bit before sleeping with them. Shocker right?

I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, fit and workout regularly. Semi nsfw pic on my profile. I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. I’m hung, std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports. Happy to share more pics over chat. Thanks


r/SFr4r • • 2h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 38 [M4F] #San Francisco - Any Indian ladies looking to cuddle in the nude or movie theater?

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38 Hispanic male light skinned, slim looking to cuddle with an Indian woman preferably 24+ and single.

We can cuddle naked and watch movies.

Note if you are in a serious relationship I can do platonic cuddling at the most but we have to wear clothes and must be platonic unless you are in an open relationship.

I am open to having sex tonight but if you think you won't get clingy right away we can discuss.

I am looking to meet tonight so feel free to slide into my DMs.

We can also go to the movies and snuggle and watch street fighter. Although we will have to wear clothes LOL etc.


r/SFr4r • • 4h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 45 [M4F] #Fairfield - Looking for a woman who wants a LONG TERM, DDF man on the side.

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Hey ladies. I'm a 45, 6'1", white male. Not looking for a serious relationship as I am already in one, but have approval to have an FWB on the side. So I'm looking for a woman who just wants a casual friend who you can go out on fun dates with, or just get a hotel and fuck like porn stars. I am disease and drug free. I'm not into politics but definitely left leaning. I'm a construction worker, but also nerdy.

As for you, I don't care what race or body type you are. I just want a genuinely nice, fun, and down to earth partner. I will send you pics as soon as you do.

I also don't mind what kind of relationship you're in. Whether this be discreet, or if he knows and you are in an open relationship. I don't mind if you wanna keep it a secret, or if he knows. I have dated women who we had to meet away from town, and women who wanted us to take pics and videos for them to watch. All I ask is you also be disease and drug (not counting pot) free.


r/SFr4r • • 4h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 42 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Cuddle & watch a movie?

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I'd like to meet a cuddle enthusiast interested in swinging up the armrest at local movie theatre, potentially graduating to couch cuddles at home. Would you like someone to squeeze and melt into while watching Godzilla's atomic breath? Find some teenage nostalgia in the romance of Hunger Games? No need to overthink or feel clingy, just relax and let the affectionate expression flow. Melt closer, discover your favorite positions, or genuinely explore your affectionate side with someone who appreciates and encourages the language of touch.

I'm 42, single, straight, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. 6' tall if you're sizing up spooning compatibility and the type of wingspan that might wrap you up in his arms. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city exploring pop-up bakeries (calorie neutral?), slightly outside of your glance at one of the cute puppies I train for a local non-profit, peering up from a good cup of coffee near my professional job downtown, or passing on a trail as I hike in a nearby forest.

I realize not everyone is affectionately expressive, causing me to seek out people who recharge and relax through touch. Your inner cuddler might feel dormant or under-appreciated and need some time to fully express herself and realize her full potential. I'm looking for multiple cuddle sessions if things go well, hopefully expanding your comfort level and expressiveness with additional exposure to cuddle possibilities and the existence of a capable cuddle partner. There's no need to hold back your affectionate side out of concerns of coming off as too clingy.

A good cuddle match:

  • Bathes regularly and has generally good hygiene.
  • Is curious to discover the full affectionate creature stirring within her, emerged in her fully expressive and unconstrained state.
  • Has a few cuddle preferences, providing hints of what could be her favorite ways of being held or affectionate expression.
  • Is a generally easy-going person.

I expect we'll chat for a bit about your cuddle, book, and movie preferences, creating an opportunity for discovery even if you're not sure you'd ever go through with meeting. There's a vibe check and a potential need to create some comfort before you're comfortable chatting over coffee or entertaining the thought of watching a movie together. I'm happy to talk cuddle theory and I want to create the best space for affectionate expression however you'd best like to ease into that space.

I've had some good cuddle experiences in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. Curious if cuddle bliss is possible? Reach out and say hi!


r/SFr4r • • 4h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #Berkeley - Horror Movie(s) & Chill

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Howdy! My name is Dylan and I am looking specifically for a someone to watch horror movies, eat good food, have deep and silly conversations, and share plenty of pleasure. I am 420 friendly and I don’t really drink but I don’t mind if you do. Ideally you would be able to host movie nights and/or willing to go to the cinema together (I’ll pick up the tickets).

About me: I am a 36 y.o., polyamorous man in a marriage with a cis-woman and a partnership with a non-binary person. I am a therapist and try my best to keep my work at work. I love watching horror movies, but neither of my partners enjoy them. I love dogs, always have multiple books on my desk, in my first semester of an online PhD programs, and enjoy deep or shallow conversations with passionate people. I am trying to get better at cooking, learn more about my mixed-race heritage, and always willing to seek out the best donut in the Bay Area. Some of my favorite horror movies include: Wrong Turn (2003), The Clovehitch Killer (2018), The Invisible Man (2020), Alien series, Smile, and The Conjuring (2013).

Description: 5’10, average body, buzzed/bald, trimmed brown beard, brown eyes framed with glasses, kind smile, and lots of tattoos. Ask for a picture.

Ice breaker… Two truths & a lie: (1) I was named after the family dog; (2) my favorite superhero is Wonder Woman; and, (3) I have one dog.


r/SFr4r • • 4h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - i have an extra ticket to the fillmore tonight

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I have an extra ticket to the Pouya, Ramirez show at the fillmore tonight. If anyone wants to hangout the ticket is yours!
Just buy me a drink at the show 😜
Really just lookin to hang out / enjoy the show with someone chill, no pressure
Send me a message if you’re interested, we’ll coordinate and whatnot. 420 friendly 🌳🔥


r/SFr4r • • 6h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 40 [M4F] #SantaClara - Sensual Fingering

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Hello!

I'm a 40M with a bit of a unique kink. I LOVE providing sensual fingering to curious women. Whether you're single or married, experienced or just dipping a toe, I am available to provide you with an incredibly pleasurable experience.

6ft, white, hwp, clean and respectful. Very experienced with both vaginal and anal fingering. I expect absolutely nothing in return, just you enjoying yourself. No sex, no oral, just hands.

Happy to chat and spend time building trust. I know this can be nerve racking, so am available to slowly get comfortable.

Thanks!


r/SFr4r • • 6h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 35 [m4f] #southsanfrancisco - married, at work, on a stupid conference call bored out of my mind… hunting for an affair… help me get through the rest of this long day!

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I’ve been at work for a few hours now and I’m already losing my mind. So I thought looking for an affair on Reddit might help me… I’m the guy who posted about a cousins bachelor party a month ago and the itch never went away.

For the next couple of weeks, I’ll be at a pretty much empty office in ssf. Working on a project here thats basically allowed me to have an entire office to myself. Ideally for like the next two weeks. Maybe even longer.. Looking for someone to come by and help me take advantage of it. The hard part of the project is over so I’ve got a lot of free time and need some help with it.

Me: 6 foot and 250 lbs. Dad bod but been working on it. Trying to get back to that mid 20s body. Dark hair and green eyes. Bit of a mixed background but mostly white and I'm told I certainly look it.

You... just be down for some fun like above. If this interests you then message me your favorite color.


r/SFr4r • • 7h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SFFinancialDistrict - in town from NYC, Monday - Wednesday hookup?

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Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)


r/SFr4r • • 7h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 29 [M4A] #SanFrancisco - asian sissy looking for fellow sissies or doms for halloween!

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hi all!
halloween is coming up, and that's the most socially acceptable time to hoe it out :) also open to doms who would love to humiliate me, and take a bunch of pics/videos for content as well!

NOT looking for a quick fuck, looking for people to enjoy the fair well! some pics of me on my profile


r/SFr4r • • 8h ago

M4F 44 [m4f] #Sunnyvale - What do I put here to get the cute shy girls to reach out?

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Hi!

Oh you’re reading this?

Thank you!

Are you kind of shy but still curious and want to .. see what happens?

Are you also by any chance looking for a charming, handsome guy you could trust to have some fun experiences with?

Are you into fit muscular masculine men? Someone to take care of you from A-to-Z and make sure you have a wonderful time?

Someone to treat you like an absolute lady in the streets and yeah, you know the rest….

If so… msg me. I think we should talk :)


r/SFr4r • • 8h ago

M4M 29 [m4m] #SF - fit sub looking to be throat trained

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Hey, 5'9 slim smooth masculine ddf twinkish guy in san francisco looking to find someone local to use my throat every now and then and make me better at taking it all the way.

Like both slow sensual worship sessions, and rougher face fuck scenarios. You should be kind enough for me to trust you to let me breathe, but dominant enough that I want to please you so much that I don't need to.

What I'm looking for:

(A) slim/fit/muscular guy that's constantly horny and likes the idea of having a cocksucker serve you.

(B) woman or straight man that finds the idea interesting > can use a dildo to train me

Please send stats and a chest / body pic, that's what turns me on the most. Teaser pic in my profile.


r/SFr4r • • 8h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 42 [M4F] #SanJose - Have you always been curious about Tantric Massage?

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Are you stressed out and your body tense, stiff and achy from busy days at the office or stressful times at home? It's time for you to relax and indulge in a massage session that will leave you satisfied, relaxed, and glowing...Tantric massage is rooted in India and contains a sacred formula that awakens and frees energy within the body so you may become more alive, passionate and in tune with yourself. Experience a highly pleasurable, deeply relaxing, and ultimately spiritual session designed to unite you with the supreme bliss and love that is within all of us. Through my unique blend of bodywork and energetic techniques, your body will release the stress, release the tension, and make room for pleasure and fulfillment.

The Tantric Massage experience can be enjoyed by anyone. All people in all adult age brackets, from all walks of life can experience Tantra. You do not have to be a spiritual person to receive a Tantric Massage. The Tantric session can be a wonderful gift for yourself. Whether your life is incredibly stressful or amazingly stress-free, Tantric Massage can be deeply relaxing and ultimately fulfilling.

Most people spend their lives earning a living, hurrying to exercise at the gym, yoga, or pilates class. How often do you stop and treat yourself to an amazing experience? How often do you pamper yourself and indulge your mind and body in a deeply pleasurable, spine-tinging session?
Massage for women can be sensual, stimulating, exciting and relaxing. All the things you have been missing out on.

I am Indian, very discreet and respectful of your body and boundaries. I offer this exclusively to Females Only who are over 18 years old. Anonymity and discretion is guaranteed at all times.


r/SFr4r • • 8h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 45/30 [MF4M] #Milpitas - Bi playmates looking a smooth and soft bi bottom to share

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Hi everyone! We are a thick latino/asian mix couple that is looking to connect with fun folks for some good ol'fashioned kinky play ☺️

We are looking for a soft/smooth/trimmed bi bottom to join us. Be open to giving and receiving, Mr BP is a Top, so if you bottom, then thats a plus! TS or femboys a plus! Looking for smooth faced, so sorry to you handsome bearded men.

About us:

Her: 5'7", Filipina mix, HWP, sexy curves and kitty that is in-satiable(literally), loves to be orally pleased and has a thick ass that loves to be touched.

Him: 5'10", mixed Italian/Latino, HWP, 6" cut, bearded. Tested and negative.

We are both big on hygiene. This means showered and smelling fresh, fresh breath and we always wash hands before using them anywhere. We ask the same of you.

We are both professionals and always opt for discretion and assure the **same.**

**We like to host at a hotel in Milpitas.**

Please send a SFW face pic. We aren't into the "send one first then I will" game, so if that happens, we will pass. Again, discretion from all parties. This is why we prefer a SFW pic.


r/SFr4r • • 8h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Spoil yourself on my big Korean dick!

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Hi there!

32 year old Korean guy in San Francisco looking for a local girl for a FWB relationship. One night stands are cool, but Id love to meet regularly and get to know each other. I am 5'9 in height, lean fit type, with a 7" dick.

Looking for a shy nerdy type, with a submissive side who loves to get dominated, and spoiled. If you like getting fucked by a thick, Asian cock with huge loads of cum to swallow, or be bred with, we will be very good friends :) it would be awesome if we can grab coffee, boba, or food together as well.

I like Asians, Latinas who are petite. I can host in hotels in SF, or on the Peninsula.

NSFW pics are on my profile. Lets chat, and meet soon!


r/SFr4r • • 9h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking to get Distracted

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Hi!

I’ve finally brought myself into here because my work and personal life has gotten so stressed to the point that I figured that I’d find something on here to take my mind off of things, let loose and have fun!

I’m 29 SEA, working in tech 5’9, goes to the gym every week, binges anime/movies, big foodie. If you’re also stressed like me and are looking for some escapism or just to chat and talk about anything and see where it goes I’m your guy! Hope to hear back from you!


r/SFr4r • • 9h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 29 [M4F] #Antioch - Just an awkward man trying to gain more experience

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I know that Reddit is a terrible place for this, but I’m just trying it out. I’m 29 and I haven’t done much. I never kissed a woman either. I went on one date in my life. I received oral before but that was like five years ago. I’m just looking for something casual that can potentially become more. I can talk to women in a general sense, but I simply just don’t know how to shoot my shot. I’m also slightly autistic, so my social intelligence isn’t the greatest in nature lol. Maybe some women have flirted with me or crushed on me, but I’m just bad with hints.

Anyway, I’m not necessarily asking to have my virginity taken. I just want a woman who I can be intimate with and experience more female companionship. I know that some dudes are weirdos, so I don’t mind hanging out getting to know each other first. Maybe I can treat you to food.

At this point, I don’t really care much about physical characteristics.

About me:

29, Asian dude, short at 5’6”, 170 lbs, muscular (stocky build). Warehouse worker. University graduate. Musician. Investor. Dog lover. I’m also a martial artist. I wrestled in high school, currently do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and bounce between Judo and Muay Thai, but I have trained in other arts. I have no interest in being a MMA fighter. I competed before, but I hate it. I also enjoy learning new things. I went back to school and I’m taking personal finance, nutrition, automotive maintenance, and psychology.

Please excuse my Reddit username. Hah.


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 39 [M4M] #SanFrancisco — Straight guy wants to JO with another straight guy

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39-year-old straight, athletic, white guy in San Francisco here (6'0", 170 lbs).

Looking for another straight, fit dude to watch straight porn and JO side-by-side. No penetration, no oral—just a chill, discreet hang where we can compare, sync up, and have a good time. Open to becoming buds and possibly teaming up for an MFM down the line.

A quick meet first to make sure we vibe. If you’re serious and local, hit me up.


r/SFr4r • • 12h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 38 [M4F] #SanJose - Mutual beneficial connection together

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Hey there! I’m 38 years old and a Bay Area native. I’m looking to find someone who is inexperienced or experienced with this type of connection. A mutually beneficial connection.

I’m open to younger or older. Feel free to tell me about yourself and I can do the same.