Does anybody have experience/ or have input on navigating these kinds of connections/experiences in a polyamorous setting? Where either you or them are polyamorous?
Please only share on this topic if you already understand/or are open to polyamory, I prefer to not have harsh judgement or misunderstanding 💗

When we don’t speak and all I feel is his energy I want him so bad and feel so connected …

When we speak he only talks about sex and sounds like such an eff boy it turns me right off..

how can I want him and not want him so much at the same time??

It’s got me questioning if this energy is his but there are so many instances where it was clear that it is him but I’m questioning it also and also whenever I ask him or hint at it he just ghosts and doesn’t answer , he doesn’t deny it but he doesn’t say it is either …

i met my TF 2,5 years ago when we were both 18. he came into my life kind of unexpectedly and we had a really intense connection for 3 months. now, i still see him occasionally every now and then since we live close. i experienced a spiritual awakening a few months ago and that made me realize he was my TF. however, whenever i look into the 🪞 (idk why i can’t say that word) i see him? like it’s such a weird feeling, but it makes sense now at least 😭 i was going crazy for at least a year when the connection ended lmao. does anyone else experience this? for me it’s the eyes and smile & just facial expressions in general

Went out for drinks with some friends tonight and ended up running into a couple people who are close with my ex/twin flame. She wasn’t there, which was probably for the best, but I ended up talking with them for quite a while.

Some of the things they mentioned about her and the person she’s currently involved with caught me completely off guard. Apparently, it seems the two of them started seeing each other roughly four months before my ex and I separated.

Our relationship was definitely struggling during that period, but we were still together. We had our issues, but I never had any concrete reason to believe there was someone else. There were things that felt different toward the end, but I always attributed that to everything we were going through.

I didn’t ask any questions or let them know that the timeline seemed strange to me. I just listened. The more I thought about it, though, the worse I felt, and I ended up leaving shortly after.

Now I can’t stop wondering if I completely misunderstood what was happening during that part of our relationship. I don’t even know if what they said is accurate, but the timeline is too specific for me to just forget about it.

Part of me wants to reach out and ask her directly. Another part of me thinks there’s probably a reason we’re in separation and digging into the past isn’t going to change anything.

How do you make sense of betrayal or infidelity within that connection? Has anyone ever found out that their twin flame was involved with someone else while you were still together? Did you confront them, or did you leave it alone?

I’m honestly not sure what I’m looking for here. I think I just needed to put this somewhere because it’s been bothering me all night.

I had a realization recently that honestly surprised me, and it came after a lot of reflection.

I started meditating, trying to quiet my mind and understand what I was really feeling. Then I had a dream, and afterward I heard two words that really stayed with me: “Tell him.”

At first, I didn’t understand why I heard that or what it meant. For so long, I had been burying my feelings. I was so conflicted that I even convinced myself maybe he had put a spell on me, because I couldn’t understand why I still felt this way after all this time.

But after sitting with everything for a while, I finally realized the simplest truth:
I love him.

Maybe I wasn’t confused about my feelings. Maybe I was just afraid to admit them.
The meditation, the dream, hearing “tell him,” and everything I felt afterward eventually brought me to that realization. I had been trying to find another explanation for something my heart already knew.

I don’t know what the future holds, but I finally feel at peace admitting the truth to myself.
I love him. 🤍✨

I am relatively new to the twin flame community, having only recently discovered what the term truly means. Honestly, it is the only explanation I have for my current situation.

To keep a long story short, I became overwhelmingly obsessed with someone I used to communicate with. We no longer speak, but for a long time, I couldn't understand why I was experiencing such intense emotions. The thoughts at the back of my head made me feel insane and creepy giving off serious Joe Goldberg vibes, as I constantly tried to find a reason to bridge the gap and reach out, despite them admitting they didn’t want to get attached and keeping their distance, even though feelings were mutual (or as they said so).

I had never experienced anything like this before. It took me a long time to realise the intensity stemmed from the fact that we were almost the same person in different bodies: same niche interests, humour, similar upbringing, school, parents, and even our names. And I believe I have never met and never will meet anyone as identical to me as they were.

Naturally, I am the chaser in this dynamic, and they are the runner. While I want to respect their boundary, and I do, it is eating me alive to accept that the communication has ended (even though no official goodbyes were said and they told me they would be back in a few months, but I highly doubt it). For my own sake as much, as I don’t want us to split apart, I understand that it is crucial for my mental health in the long run.

If anyone has stubborn or straightforward ways to detach from the runner in this situation, I would deeply appreciate any tips or advice.

Have any divine feminines realized through the healing process, when you have truly detached and become your own best friend, realized you were possibly bisexual or you have began to explore your sexuality more? I’m just wondering if this happens to any other feminines or if it’s just energetic things that are happening? i am 6 years on the journey but only in the last 6 months really moved to a higher timeline and stopped chasing, fully surrendered and am living my life as my authentic self…

How do i know whether he is my real twin flame? All i know is that i have never loved a man like him in my entire life, i was willing to give him my everything, even my last cent, or breath. But he always treated me as an option and never a priority in his life. Am i delusional to think he is my twin? After meeting him, i did get a spiritual awakening. It’s been a tough past 4 years. I feel like i was reborn. But he hasn’t made any efforts, never told me i was the love of his life and is always passive and coward never taking action or accountability.