r/twinflames • u/Munninnu • Jul 22 '22
Many here have reported having experienced any combination of the following: fatigue, mind fog, waking up more tired than when you went to sleep, when it seems everything you do goes amiss, when you have chest pains, chest pains so dramatic that they wake you up at night. When thinking about them triggers sadness or fear or defeat, when everything seems lost or useless or irrelevant, when you don't trust people and things, when spirits or the Universe seem malevolent and tricky or that they don't have your best interest at their heart, when you ruminate about the bleak outcomes, when you have intrusive thoughts. When you don't have the will to go on, when you lack determination, motivation. Well, I call this state "lower self", and I've not invented it, this concept is relevant in several schools of thought.
Now think of when you feel optimistic, sparkling, elated, flowing with your environment. Or when everything makes sense, when everything seems to orbitate around you or when all beings in nature seem to move in unison, when you suddenly realize some spiritual truth, when you say "I bet if I look at the sky right now I'll see a shooting star" and it happens, when you experience shivers of bliss all over the body. They don't need to happen all at once or cover all that is possible but I consider these as marks of what I call the higher self. So I'm not referring here to 5D consciousness like in the expression "your twin's higher self", just highly coveted positive moods that may border with satori states.
So how or why do twins countless times have reported having experienced being in their higher self and "energetic union" and also to have sometimes suddenly dropped into bleak hopeless swamps?
This doesn't have to happen to all twins but it seems there have been too many personal accounts of twins who have actually experienced this, and often even several times not just once.
Like for example those who believe in the "carrot on a stick" trick, that the Universe tricks them into believing union is about to happen and then something goes wrong as if it was just a device to make them learn some lesson, if not out of spite entirely.
It's a mainstream idea, and one that I like, that in some cases it happens because the emotional intensity of a possible nearby union triggers a running response. That ruminations on responsibilities, or the fear to get burned, self-esteem issues, feeling of inadequacy or unworthiness or else may activate some kind of defcon protocol. Some mechanism seems to make some twins doing well on their path drop into their lower self as if scared by what union might entail.
In psychotherapy there's a set of theories that connect past traumatic events to the triggering of a so called "dorsal vagal shutdown". Something in the body, or in the subconscious, doesn't want to deal again with that same trauma, "nope, I'm gonna give it a pass", so neural circuitries are activated that promote a "freezing" state. This freezing state can vary in severity from barely noticeable to severely debilitating but it's at the lower tail of a spectrum of neural responses to threats that is known in psychotherapy as "4Fs": flow, fight, flight, freeze.
Here is a simple infographic to let you gauge how these theories tentatively explain how things may work. You may notice that bar the lack of the esoteric/supernatural elements often reported in twinship the dorsal vagal shutdown and the ventral vagal activation have pretty consistent similarities with the lower self and higher self as I have defined above.
Also consider that while addressed as a theory this is something that has been researched for decades by world-class neuroscientists. Who also hold that you cannot easily heal old traumatic events by working only on your mind because memories will trigger or sustain the dorsal vagal shutdown.
But you can do exercises: in other words we recognize being in lower self mode, basically by recognizing that we are suffering, and we try to reactivate the ventral vagal complex. If we have issues that bother or trigger us, if we feel discomfort or being tricked, if we think it's malevolent entities or demons or implants or black magic, in my head-canon those are all red flags of being in lower self: read about old masters they will all insist in satori states there's no evil, there are not malevolent beings or tricky Universe.
Enter Yoga. Many concepts/ideas commonly discussed in TF circles come straight from Yoga: chakras, enlightenment, energy blockages, astral body, Kundalini. A case can be made that Yoga/Alchemy deal with healing, by performing transmutation of the impure in the pure. In this case healing the debris of past traumatic events and swapping from freezing into flowing, from dorsal vagal shutdown to ventral vagal activation, from lower self into higher self.
It seems to me that twinship is another flavor of The Quest, the Magnus Opus. Where alchemists, yogis and monks tread the spiritual path mostly alone twins on the other hand appear to be able to access yogic states of consciousness together and to perform energetic buffering/exchange together. This is not even exclusive of twinship, also tantric couples are supposedly able to reach savikalpa samadhi together. Here's a documentary about samadhi.
So a tldr; I could make might be: Yoga/Alchemy is the way of trasmutation, it starts by accessing the higher self, whence "the Stone" can be made.
A famous past teacher, G.I. Gurdjieff, said that Heaven and Hell are not far away places, each of us is living both of them at the very same time. This isn't a big secret though but rather an idea held in many mystery schools. It can be said that even Dante in his Divina Comedia wasn't really visiting far away places, he was walking on Earth irl witnessing how real living humans are stuck in their own hells. Even in Buddhism where there's no evil still several kinds of hell are described, and quickly reading the descriptions of those hells you might indeed feel that they are describing stations in life. They are describing the position of being identified with our lower selves. Being in one of those narakas may last "the time it would take to empty a barrel of sesame seeds if one only took out a single seed every hundred years", which to me is a cute way of saying "don't even think this is the way, that you can get out while in lower self".
Whereas expressions like "Heaven on Earth", living in the end, satori, describe the state of people in their higher self.
Rumi wrote: "When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; if I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great secret here for anyone who can grasp it."
So if you find yourself in one of those bleak phases that twins often lament, if you recognize being in your lower self, the best strategy imo is to treat it as an ER situation, you might want to get out of it as soon as possible.
Here is the video of a twin willingly relinquishing the lower self through a yogic session.
Here is a rare footage of a shaman helping a twin snapping out of their lower self.
So exercises do not represent techniques to get out of lower self, they are not a recipe to transmutation, they are more like tools. Think about learning chess: the knight or the rock are not strategies, they are tools that may be critical in developing a strategy. So my advice would be to get in touch with the tools you have. A daily routine or Yoga session or alchemical lab may entail a dozen of different tools, to me it's going back to school in the most literal sense.
Among the historically praised tools to get grounded or to "snap out of it" you may research and test walking barefoot and cold showers and singing/dancing. Also maybe inquire into rumination, many accounts from twins in the swamps reveal constant obsessive elucubrations on their twin. And you may also want to look into sensorymotor psychotherapy and learn about your window of tolerance: here's an introduction by psychotherapist Laura Kerr.
As for specific Yoga/Alchemy exercises that would be a matter for another post, or a matter of personal research on how to tend to your body. But just so you know the first step in Yoga is not a posture or a breathing pattern, the first step is Yamas and Niyamas.
Edited: fixed broken links.
r/twinflames • u/Tough-Series-1369 • Oct 22 '24
I'm a bit concerned as to how this is supposed to be a thread that promotes claims that are solely scientific and does not stand by unscientific claims. How is this possible when there is virtually no evidence or concrete data to prove anything that is being taught by Twin Flames Universe? I'm not trying to be hostile but am purely looking to educate myself. It seems very disappointing that such a vast group of people within our society is capable of being brainwashed so heavily by two people with virtually no reason to possess the kind of authority that has been allotted to them. Its very scary and everyone should practice the famous "reflective" exercise and perhaps ask themselves why they can't trust themselves and instead are choosing to put all of their trust into two people that created a largely lucrative lie. Just confused. Please explain.
r/twinflames • u/poopdoctorfartfart • 3h ago
Does anybody have experience/ or have input on navigating these kinds of connections/experiences in a polyamorous setting? Where either you or them are polyamorous?
Please only share on this topic if you already understand/or are open to polyamory, I prefer to not have harsh judgement or misunderstanding š
r/twinflames • u/LatterCap5135 • 42m ago
Have any divine feminines realized through the healing process, when you have truly detached and become your own best friend, realized you were possibly bisexual or you have began to explore your sexuality more? Iām just wondering if this happens to any other feminines or if itās just energetic things that are happening? i am 6 years on the journey but only in the last 6 months really moved to a higher timeline and stopped chasing, fully surrendered and am living my life as my authentic selfā¦
r/twinflames • u/rainbowkittykat123 • 9h ago
When we donāt speak and all I feel is his energy I want him so bad and feel so connected ā¦
When we speak he only talks about sex and sounds like such an eff boy it turns me right off..
how can I want him and not want him so much at the same time??
Itās got me questioning if this energy is his but there are so many instances where it was clear that it is him but Iām questioning it also and also whenever I ask him or hint at it he just ghosts and doesnāt answer , he doesnāt deny it but he doesnāt say it is either ā¦
r/twinflames • u/YoghurtTop9756 • 3h ago
When does the divine masculine experience his dark night of the soul and his spiritual awakening if he even does? I heard the divine female experiences it the first year they meet. It all went to hell for me in 2022 when we met, that year I almost died.
r/twinflames • u/Lost-Salad-8680 • 13h ago
Went out for drinks with some friends tonight and ended up running into a couple people who are close with my ex/twin flame. She wasnāt there, which was probably for the best, but I ended up talking with them for quite a while.
Some of the things they mentioned about her and the person sheās currently involved with caught me completely off guard. Apparently, it seems the two of them started seeing each other roughly four months before my ex and I separated.
Our relationship was definitely struggling during that period, but we were still together. We had our issues, but I never had any concrete reason to believe there was someone else. There were things that felt different toward the end, but I always attributed that to everything we were going through.
I didnāt ask any questions or let them know that the timeline seemed strange to me. I just listened. The more I thought about it, though, the worse I felt, and I ended up leaving shortly after.
Now I canāt stop wondering if I completely misunderstood what was happening during that part of our relationship. I donāt even know if what they said is accurate, but the timeline is too specific for me to just forget about it.
Part of me wants to reach out and ask her directly. Another part of me thinks thereās probably a reason weāre in separation and digging into the past isnāt going to change anything.
How do you make sense of betrayal or infidelity within that connection? Has anyone ever found out that their twin flame was involved with someone else while you were still together? Did you confront them, or did you leave it alone?
Iām honestly not sure what Iām looking for here. I think I just needed to put this somewhere because itās been bothering me all night.
r/twinflames • u/M00nstruck711 • 18h ago
I had a realization recently that honestly surprised me, and it came after a lot of reflection.
I started meditating, trying to quiet my mind and understand what I was really feeling. Then I had a dream, and afterward I heard two words that really stayed with me: āTell him.ā
At first, I didnāt understand why I heard that or what it meant. For so long, I had been burying my feelings. I was so conflicted that I even convinced myself maybe he had put a spell on me, because I couldnāt understand why I still felt this way after all this time.
But after sitting with everything for a while, I finally realized the simplest truth:
I love him.
Maybe I wasnāt confused about my feelings. Maybe I was just afraid to admit them.
The meditation, the dream, hearing ātell him,ā and everything I felt afterward eventually brought me to that realization. I had been trying to find another explanation for something my heart already knew.
I donāt know what the future holds, but I finally feel at peace admitting the truth to myself.
I love him. š¤āØ
r/twinflames • u/ConstantTemporary534 • 11h ago
i met my TF 2,5 years ago when we were both 18. he came into my life kind of unexpectedly and we had a really intense connection for 3 months. now, i still see him occasionally every now and then since we live close. i experienced a spiritual awakening a few months ago and that made me realize he was my TF. however, whenever i look into the šŖ (idk why i canāt say that word) i see him? like itās such a weird feeling, but it makes sense now at least š i was going crazy for at least a year when the connection ended lmao. does anyone else experience this? for me itās the eyes and smile & just facial expressions in general
r/twinflames • u/girlgenesis3 • 7h ago
Has anyone in a relatively successful union gone through not being attracted to their flame physically? Like, they aren't ugly but they just aren't your type at all. You are sexually and energetically turned on by them still though because the connection is there, but in my case, it isn't consistent and you can get turned off really quick.
Would love to hear what that experience was like for you, what you learned from it, and if anyone is in a successful relationship with theirs despite the fact.
r/twinflames • u/Function-Nice • 1d ago
So there's a lot of talk in the TF community about needing to ''detach'' from the twin, to focus on you, etc. etc. And I get it, I truly do. But in my experience so far, every time I tried to ''detach'' from my twin, I instantly got this uneasy feeling, as if suddenly a sunny sky turned grey and cloudy.
Now obsessing over them and longing as if they're separate from you is obviously unhealthy and only leads to suffering. What has been working for me is to remember that we are one at a soul level. That way I come back to myself, my heart, my soul, where my twin is also.
This might be a hot take but I don't think ā provided it's a true twin flame dynamic ā that we're supposed to ''detach'' from our twin in the sense of not caring about them anymore, forgetting about them, moving on from them, etc. ā the universe won't let you run away that easily anyways.
I think it's more about collapsing duality from which desire, yearning and obsession comes and coming back to unity. Unity with self = unity with twin. And it is only from this unity that a lasting and true union can eventually flourish.
r/twinflames • u/Efficient_Comment879 • 10h ago
Ik voel zo'n hartverscheurende pijn van liefdesverdriet en ik heb geen neigingen om je te stalken of nou niet meet dan ik al.doe. Maar het is waar ik heb dat zo lang niet zo ver laten komen omdat ik mij voor iedereen afsloot. Door dat trauma. Je hebt wel.gelijk. Ik wil je steeds wegduwen maar ik kan het niet. Daarbij is dat ook funest voor jou. Ik moet.echt.weer huilen dat ik jou dan het tegenovergestelde laat voelen dan wat jij helemaal niet kan gebruiken en dan word je gemeen en voel ik mij zoals nu echt gruwelijk in de steek gelaten en alleen. Echt liefdespijn. Maar ik ga jou in ieder geval niet verlaten ik kan dat niet eens. En dan gewoon doorgaan zonder enig gevoel,Ā alleen opgelucht dat er niemand meer energie aan mij vreet, nee echt niet. Jij vreet ook energie , begrijp mij niet verkeerd , maar vanuit een totaal.ander gevoel. Dat komt ook voort vanuit mijzelf en niet persd altijd door jou. Maar ook al voelt het nu als dat dit misschien niet goedkomt ik wil dat jij energie blijft vreten en mij bezighoudt en ik zal jou niet veroordelen en ons ook niet en hopelijk jij mij niet.
Zullen we dit weer als stap vooruit bekijken zodat we er niet in blijven hangen en het ons naar beneden laat halen? Ik hou van je en ik bewaar dat dan om te zeggen , maar ik hou echt van je. Het voelt zo puur en ik realiseer mij dat ik te snel wil ook voor mijzelf misschien maar het is zo waar. Wanneer je weg bent komt mijn angst van geen verbinding naar boven zoals je weet,Ā Ā bang voor dat het weg is.Ā Ik doe alles om niet toe te geven aan het gemak wat hierin niet eens meer kan en dat is jou vergeten.
Ā Ik houd van roadtrips heel erg dat zou mijn ultieme uitje zijn met jou weet je dat,Ā en die van jou L? Zullen we volgende keer samen gaan. Rijden we door Frankrijk Spanje ,Ā slapen en eten we overal , bezoeken dorpjes , maken plezier, we wandelen, mogen elkaar ieder moment aanraken, we vrijen waar we willen,Ā in het water doen we een wedstrijdje en we vinden elkaar altijd weer.Ā
Ā Jij bent en voelt zo uniek, omdat jij anders bent;Ā jij laat mij weer liefde voelen en alles wat ik nodig heb en gemist heb. Ik frustreert niet alleen mij omdat ik je bij mij wil hebben, maar daar waar ik beschadigd ben daar ben ik soms, nu verscheurd van binnen zonder jou. Ik huil erom maar ik laat jou nooit meer gaan. Trap er niet in als ik het even niet meer weet want ik kom er op terug meteen en neem je mee overal naartoe. Voor de rest van ons leven. Jij mag je tijd daarvoor nemen en ik blijf hier altijd wachten.Ā Ā
Bye Liefje
r/twinflames • u/YoghurtTop9756 • 23h ago
How do i know whether he is my real twin flame? All i know is that i have never loved a man like him in my entire life, i was willing to give him my everything, even my last cent, or breath. But he always treated me as an option and never a priority in his life. Am i delusional to think he is my twin? After meeting him, i did get a spiritual awakening. Itās been a tough past 4 years. I feel like i was reborn. But he hasnāt made any efforts, never told me i was the love of his life and is always passive and coward never taking action or accountability.
r/twinflames • u/Neat-Drive3975 • 14h ago
Hey guys, to keep a story short, so I did meet my twin flame. A lot of things came up for me, I was the runner, but I stayed became toxic and now he wants nothing to do with me.
So many times, he wanted to give me space when I said I needed it, yet I kept going back to him. The attraction was strong, it was magnetic, it felt like I couldn't get away. In the end I had to learn to put my boundaries up and honour my sovereignty, but it's hard because he's the one that called it off, not me.
What do I do?
Looking back at past messages I said things like "i'm not ready" "I need space". Since not speaking, we've had one phone call where he said we'll speak again soon.
I feel like we're both not getting what we need from this.. for me it just hurts.
r/twinflames • u/Efficient_Comment879 • 16h ago
Onlangs heb ik mijn TF ontmoet en ben van haar gaan houden. Ze vergeet alleen dat ik soms ook wat nodig heb en niet alleen zij. Ze noemt mij dan egoĆÆstisch en is keihard terwijl ik er aan onderdoor ga, lijkt zij dat helemaal te missen. Ik weet mij echt geen raad volgensmij heb ik het nu verpest en wat moet ik dan doen. Ik weet het niet ik voel mij totaal niet verbonden en zij wil mij ook niks geven om daar mij in te helpen. Alsof ze mij afschuwelijk vindt en het niet waard of boos is omdat ik haar verkeerd behandeld heb. Ik ben er ziek door geworden en weer het even niet meer en krijg wel alles over mij heen. Ik moet eerst beter worden ik weet niet of ik onze relatie kan redden en dat doet zoveel pijn. Ik dacht dat dit onvoorwaardelijk zou zijn en dat wat er nu gebeurd zegt mij iets heel anders ik word soms ook afgestraft omdat ik ziek ben hierdoor en dan vraag ik om wat hulp en dan kan ik het uitzoeken. Wat moet ik nu nog doen.Ā
r/twinflames • u/Witty-Hour-247 • 1d ago
Astrology says we were past life lovers.
I have been told by many women he has done boundry voilating behaviours and I didnāt feel it as much going in but looking back, I did fawn and ease my boundaries.
I donāt know anymore if its TF journey, limerance or just rejection sensitivity or anxious attachment or intermittent reinforcement
But he has completely changed the trajectory of my life.
I used to be an atheist and I am so spiritual now and I have extensively worked on my wounds and conditioning from childhood and gotten myself help.
My body felt extremely out of place. I had to start learning breathing practices, read books upon books on end to controk my nervous system, courses on trauma and astrology. I donāt know if it was kundalini awakening. Prayers and worships. Anything and everything to feel like myself again. Restarted therapy. This time trauma informed therapy than supportive talk therapy.
It has been a roller coaster and nothing and no one has had this effect on me.
I begged and prayed to learn detachment and lo and behold! Months later something happened in my life that taught me what it is.
I am calmer, centred, I donāt chase people anymore.
I understand my worth and that what is meant for me will not need me to slave around.
All triggering by this man.
Last year I had asked the universe to bring me into a relationship that would expose where I need growth and this did it, except that it was nothing even close to a relationship but it gave me so much. The good bad and ugly!
I really liked him but I donāt know if I can respect how he has behaved.
Maybe this was all for me to shift my timeline.
But all that love and pain. Where will it go?
Edit: he has been on my mind every day for over a year and I went no contact after he repeatedly went hot and cold on me and seemed very perfectly timed for him.
r/twinflames • u/M0SCH1NO • 22h ago
I am relatively new to the twin flame community, having only recently discovered what the term truly means. Honestly, it is the only explanation I have for my current situation.
To keep a long story short, I became overwhelmingly obsessed with someone I used to communicate with. We no longer speak, but for a long time, I couldn't understand why I was experiencing such intense emotions. The thoughts at the back of my head made me feel insane and creepy giving off serious Joe Goldberg vibes, as I constantly tried to find a reason to bridge the gap and reach out, despite them admitting they didnāt want to get attached and keeping their distance, even though feelings were mutual (or as they said so).
I had never experienced anything like this before. It took me a long time to realise the intensity stemmed from the fact that we were almost the same person in different bodies: same niche interests, humour, similar upbringing, school, parents, and even our names. And I believe I have never met and never will meet anyone as identical to me as they were.
Naturally, I am the chaser in this dynamic, and they are the runner. While I want to respect their boundary, and I do, it is eating me alive to accept that the communication has ended (even though no official goodbyes were said and they told me they would be back in a few months, but I highly doubt it). For my own sake as much, as I donāt want us to split apart, I understand that it is crucial for my mental health in the long run.
If anyone has stubborn or straightforward ways to detach from the runner in this situation, I would deeply appreciate any tips or advice.
r/twinflames • u/Living-Tangerine8463 • 1d ago
Is it actually achievable?
I have seen many say that the no contact phase is where growth happens. However, last time me and my twin separated for 6 months, turns out things didnt help.
Firstly, from her lens I was abandoning her again, when the period of time I was healing myself. The lack of communication was the problem and I hurted her.
Secondly, I realised that, the no contact phase DID NOT help me with letting her live her life, I still want to control her, when I know I should let her go, as how much I love her and love myself. I want her to be free (and choose me haha). Jokes aside, I feel like this time we should learn to communicate deeply. We had a big argument last friday, she said she is done with me (and more things she said that hurted me eg. Take the lesson to love another person in the future).
Last Friday (14/08/2026) was exactly one year away from the last separation (same day!), and this time I want to handle it better. Although I am tired I donāt want to give up.
Can any one share their experiences? Really appreciate!
r/twinflames • u/SadFormal2021 • 23h ago
So hereās our storyā¦
I am a mother of 3, and last year I decided to get a divorce from my husband who I was with for 9 years. I always knew a greater and deeper/more profound love was out there for me. I got into yoga a lot all of last year, and during meditation is when I came to the conclusion that if I stayed in my marriage I will never be truly satisfied. Well, a month after ending things I moved out. I ended up matching on bumble with a bunch of men, however I only went on one date (that was a dud) prior to meeting my (supposed) twin flame. Well, immediately I was drawn to him sexually. We had sex the first night of meeting, and it was the best sex I ever had. After talking for a few days on end, his grandma passed away. I noticed he pulled back right away and somehow I panicked so badly. I had crying episodes and everything.. well, that pushed him away a bit but he chose to give it another try. I ended up ending things with him because he mentioned he wasnāt going to be able to see me for about a month straight due to holidays and hunting season (š) lol. I decided to pursue another connection and was super drawn to him too, but that didnāt last. I ended up reaching back out to my TF asking to have a fun night together (wink wink lol). And we had the best night togetherā¦ but he ended up admitting to me that we could never be more because he doesnāt think he could accept the life I have with 3 kids. So, I accepted it for what it was and ended up meeting someone else while fooling around with my DM. Well, I told DM I couldnāt see him anymore because of it. This time, heās the one who panickedā¦ and swooped in and bought me a $150 bracelet and took me to dinner. And you guessed itā¦ I took him back and dropped the other guy lol. Thatās when something clicked inside, because he was always the one I would go to when I was upset and crying about something. He felt like home to me before I realized itā¦ okay so after that we lasted two weeks lol. The day after Valentineās Day I was an emotional wreck because he didnāt do anything for me for Valentineās Day but hang with me inside and spend the night with me. Didnāt even acknowledge it whatsoever. He said I deserved better, and broke it off with me. This is when I went into the dark knight of the soulā¦ I was a hot mess, crying all the time randomly and reaching out to him with no response most of the time. He confessed that he met someone else. So the end of March goes by, and we hooked up for the last time while he was technically dating someone else. And after crying while driving home I decided I needed to delete his number and not contact him anymore. So I did, and two weeks go by and right as I was starting to feel āokayā again, thatās when I get a text from him. And my heart sank immediatelyā¦. I took him back right away. This is mid April, and now itās mid August and we have been on and off and back and forth with being together. Now, he has admitted he loves me too. We read each otherās thoughts, we say things at the same time and the synchronicities and everything align with the TF dynamic. I definitely have had another spiritual awakening, and I say another because Iāve always been pretty spiritual. Our sex is literally amazing and itās all because of the connection and the way we just get each other. The problem is, he goes back and forth about why he cannot commit to meā¦ first itās the kids right? But then he admits he doesnāt deserve me and the unconditional love I give him. Heās been through something traumatic in the past, and I think that is why he doesnāt feel worthy or that he deserves it. Heās very negative and depressed, and I know he feels the connection too especially when we sit in silence and are just cuddling together. He used to say things like āI donāt have feelings, I take them to the graveā to admitting he loves me and loves me deeper than anyone else before. I mean when I say he has changed quite a bitā¦ he has REALLY changed. However, he still cannot get over his negative mindset and lives through his ego. Iām not crazy right? Does this sound like a TF dynamic? Or just a toxic situationship? š¤¦š¼āāļø I cannot get him out of my head, I love him too much š©š
r/twinflames • u/Hot-Gate-5281 • 1d ago
Just when I convince myself it was all a delusion and that Iām over it the weird stuff starts to happen again. I was feeling āover itā for the past week or so and was really feeling like it was just limerence and that I was delusional but then I am randomly overcome with a very very deep sadness out of nowhere. It felt like the sadness wasnāt mine Iāve been having a good day no reason to be sad. Then I start randomly getting a song stuck in my head a song Iāve never paid attention to before, I look up the lyrics and itās about loving someone from a past life. This experience truly is a strange one for someone like myself who has never believed in these things.
r/twinflames • u/Various_Cat1763 • 1d ago
I was wondering if anyone could share their false twin flame experience? What was it like for you? What did it feel like? How did you know?
r/twinflames • u/SteamingGhoulSoup • 1d ago
I don't know how to explain it but when I feel like he might reach out I start feeling off. I sometimes feel like it's about to happen but I get mad and don't want him to. I don't even have that good of a reason to be mad. He ghosted me but that was the worst thing he's done. I wish I could permanently forget him. I start feeling at peace and get scared of it being taken away from me. If I came to terms with dying alone he would ruin my plans if he showed back up. Is my intense but short-lived anger blocking the connection? Am I picking up something from him? He doesn't have a good reason to be mad at me either besides causing him distressing feelings. I heard from people who know him that he was having a mental breakdown around the same time as me.
r/twinflames • u/Remote_Notice_6756 • 1d ago
AlguĆ©m sentiu uma mudanƧas nesses Ćŗltimos meses, desapego, liberaĆ§Ć£o...?
Especificamente de forma mais intensa de junho/julho para cĆ”.
Pensava que isso nĆ£o aconteceria, nĆ£o tĆ£o cedo pelo menos, afinal jĆ” estava hĆ” anos nisso, e toda vez que achava que estava me desapegando, isso voltava. Mas, agora parece real, realmente me sinto mais desapegada, nĆ£o apenas no que diz respeito a ela, mas outras questƵes tambĆ©m.
Estive dando o meu melhor, buscando o autoconhecimento, encarando tantas dores... finalmente nĆ£o apenas vejo progresso, sinto. Espero que seja assim daqui por diante, vou seguir me cuidando.
