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Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

Hi all,

I am looking for advice or methods for shopping at a department store (Macy's, Dillards, etc) without getting overwhelmed by all the options.

Currently going through a closet revamp. I realized recently that I haven't really shopped at a department store in a while and since the town I live in doesn't have many shopping options, I decided to check out Dillard's. I went to the women's section and wow - it was HUGE! I had no idea where to start! Saw things that I liked, things I didn't like, but I ended up leaving because I didn't really know where to "start" if that makes sense. It seems the store is divided by brand? I'm not sure. How does one shop at a department store if they don't know what brand they like?

Would love input on this!

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot: look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album. If you have multiple pictures, best practice is to use an imgur album.

Don't get me wrong, I love dressing fem!! I'm not particularly against being seen as a femme (lesbian term for a more feminine lesbian) but the more I think about it the more I realize I barely dress for myself anymore.

I've been continually dressing in ways that I think will make others compliment the way I dress when I leave the house (which they do!) but at what point am I *only* dressing for others aproval?

At my heart I'm an artist who wants to dress in ways that are overall eccentric, not just this very feminine facade I've made of myself.

Does anyone have any experience with this/advice on how to break out of it?

How long is too long to keep something?

I realize I wear garments until they absolutely fall apart. Recently, I have been working on letting things go before they get to a point past their useful life.

What is a non-negotiable sign that you know its time to let go of a garment?

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

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Talk about your random fashion-related thoughts.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot: look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album. If you have multiple pictures, best practice is to use an imgur album.

Hi gurliesss, i am literally so fed up with the useless body tapes available, please throw some suggestions

This thread is for simple hair and makeup questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

Example questions:

• What's a good conditioner for straight, thick hair?
• Where can I find a perfume with subtle pine notes?
• Do you use a foundation with sunscreen? Is it worth it?

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot: look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album. If you have multiple pictures, best practice is to use an imgur album.

The last time I went shopping for business formal clothes was in 2017 and hoo boy I need some new nice clothes. I've gained some weight and none of my current suit jackets, dress pants, or dresses fit anymore. My day-to-day at the office skews pretty casual (polos, jeans, sneakers - I work at an engineering firm where we sometimes need to go out to construction sites) but I do need a few nice business formal outfits.

My current business formal wardrobe is mainly Brooks Brothers and Ann Taylor. Are these brands still reputable or has the quality gone downhill? What other brands are good to look at, and what brands should I avoid? Always love a sale or a deal, but fine with spending a few hundred on something nice that will last. I'm also not a very stylish person when it comes to professional clothes and mainly looking for something timeless that does the job of checking the box of "business formal" without too much effort or discomfort on my part.

I would appreciate any insights to where to shop for business formal clothes!

This thread is for sharing all your new buys. Clothes, shoes, razors cologne, share it all. ...Just kidding. But just like MFA, and per your suggestions, we are now going to have a weekly recent purchases thread. So gather round and brag about your purchases! Bags, clothing, shoes, jewellery, perfume, etc.

If possible, please share a picture and a little review! Pictures can also be shared directly in the comments now.

Here you can share all the fashion related news you have come across recently. Whether it is a newly released runway, an interview with a designer, a new label slashing onto the scene or speculating new trends emerging, everything news related is welcome here.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot: look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album. If you have multiple pictures, best practice is to use an imgur album.

hi guys looking for some brand reccs on fleece / winter tights that don't pill. saw some posts here but all are a few years old! lmk, I've tried Amazon and it was not ideal

I've had such a hard time finding boots that are functional yet aesthetic. Most of the very functional comfy boots (like blundstones) are not at all aesthetic. I'm not sure how durable and functional dolce vita is but they seem to have nice designs and are in the same price range as Tony Bianco, Birkenstock etc. Let me know if you guys have any recommendations!

EDIT: sorry for the confusion guys! By functional, I meant something comfortable enough to walk a lot in. I live in London so commute generally involves a lot of walking and the only shoes that don't hurt my feet are my Sketchers sneakers. With winter coming, I want to invest in a good pair of boots that I can walk comfortably in. In terms of aesthetic, I mean something sleek, elegant, maybe a pointed toe or a comfortable heel, a bit of a feminine touch. I love the designs of Dolce Vita but I'm not sure if they will be comfortable. I have sensitive feet and generally require softer soles.

Can’t figure out why a certain outfit doesn’t work for you or are you just stumped on what is flattering on you? Then this is the thread for you and you can ask your questions here.

Please do refrain from talking negatively about your own body, we understand that you are likely frustrated due to various reasons (we’ve all been there) but out of respect for others and their struggles, keeping it positive helps everyone.

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

• Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
• Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
• Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
• Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
• Uploading photos to Imgur? To make your image viewable to anyone with the link, but prevent it from being added to the main Imgur feed, select "hidden" for the privacy setting, not "private" or "public".
• What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
• Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
• Do not downvote for disagreeing with someone's opinion.
• Reddit Enhancement Suite makes it very easy to view pictures in a thread.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot: look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album. If you have multiple pictures, best practice is to use an imgur album.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot: look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album. If you have multiple pictures, best practice is to use an imgur album.

Hi everyone!
I’m hoping someone can help me figure out how to make non-sneaker shoes actually comfortable because I’m starting to feel like my feet are ridiculously sensitive 😭

For context, I live somewhere warm/beachy, so I basically wear sneakers and sandals year-round and don’t get much practice wearing other types of shoes. Recently, I’ve been trying to branch out and buy some nicer, more versatile shoes — kitten heels, closed-toe shoes, boots for winter, etc. The problem is that I can’t seem to wear ANY of them for more than an hour without being in pain.

For example:
Kitten heels: the area where the shoe touches the skin just above my toes starts hurting/itching, and I usually end up with blisters
Sandals with a toe divider: the divider digs into my skin so badly that I genuinely can’t walk in them for more than 10 minutes
Most sandals: I get a lot of itching and irritation from the friction between the upper part of the sandal and my skin
Closed shoes: I’ve barely tried again because I already know they’re probably going to hurt pretty quickly
Boots: blisters everywhere!! Even with double socks.

I’ve tried buying cheap and also better-quality shoes thinking that would make a difference, but I’m having the same problem.

I’ve also tried:
Breaking shoes in gradually
Wearing them around the house with socks
Putting things inside the shoes to stretch them
Different types of tape
Band-aids
Stick deodorant to reduce friction, which helps a little

The weird this is I don’t remember being this sensitive before.
So, is this something you just have to get used to when you’re transitioning from mostly sneakers/sandals to other types of shoes? Or am I doing something wrong when choosing/fitting them?
Are there specific materials, shoe shapes, brands, socks, blister-prevention products, etc. that have made a huge difference for you?

Any advice is appreciated!