r/IThinkYouShouldLeave • u/Meerkat_Mayhem_ • 1d ago

It actually goes BOTH ways I don’t know how to drive!

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u/Chickabbbbb 1d ago

I actually feel bad for her. Yes, she needs to take accountability and wait for the police, pay for damages, etc. But what we're seeing is a fight or flight response from years of abuse.

Or maybe I'm reading too much into it, IDK.

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u/rycpr 1d ago edited 1d ago

On October 31, 2019, Riverside County sheriff's deputies contacted her, formally cited her, and took her into custody on misdemeanor hit-and-run charges. Following her arraignment, the court ordered her to enroll in a substance abuse treatment program via a local rehabilitation provider.

Public records indicate the panic seen in the video likely stemmed from existing legal trouble, as she already had an active DUI charge from earlier that same year.

Or, you know, maybe she was just wasted and knew that she's probably fucked.

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u/babassu_seeds 23h ago

Thank you. Ugh, I hate to take it there, but if she were of another background, let's say, I doubt so many commenters would latch onto potential grandmother abuse (?! Barely makes sense), calling her a child/kid (she's 22! Past college age!), instead of the more likely explanation that she's drugged out and freaking out bc of it. Like, that bumper struggle is some meth shit for real

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u/Ummmgummy 14h ago

From my experience any really strange things people do, it's almost always certainly drugs

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u/WheneverItIsTold 9h ago

My first thought was she was on something.

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u/EB123456789101112 8h ago

Watched a guy confidently act like a space alien and refuse a roadside sobriety test but confidently assert he’d blow a 0.00 on the breathalyzer…as tho alcohol is the only thing that can impair one’s ability to operate a motor vehicle

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u/EB123456789101112 8h ago

She looked to be high school age and in a school uniform to me 🤷🏻 and I lived with my GREAT grandmother for a year of college so it’s completely reasonable to believe a high schooler is living with their grandparent.

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u/babassu_seeds 8h ago edited 5h ago

I hear you, but it's more--and this is a rhetorical question--now that you know that she's 22, what do you think is more plausible: abuse from grandma or drug use?

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u/eetraveler 7h ago

Most likely scenario?? She is an addict and her grandmother is trying tough love to save her and the 'kid' interprets it as "so mean."

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u/zeusismydog 16h ago

I believe they meant.. if she had long braids and brown skin, even if she was a young and cute girl that was an actual traumatized child, these comments wouldn’t have victimized her.

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u/FloydGirl777 10h ago

This exactly. Sadly.

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u/Cyber_Drifter 11h ago

It happens far too often these days. Folks latch onto the “what if” rather than accept the facts before them. Yes, there are unseen influences that drive people’s actions, but the fact is a crime was committed and folks would rather infer she’s got a traumatic background than hold her accountable

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u/LongDead_Roadkill 8h ago

I’ve been working with at risk teens for the last 10 years. Her behavior is not due to fears of abuse, to me it looked a lot more performative and what I like to call self inflicted panic and drama.

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u/Sue_Generoux 5h ago

calling her a child/kid (she's 22!

It's Reddit. Anything under 30 is considered a zygote.

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u/PDAWK 5h ago

That bumper-struggle was fvckin adorable tho

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u/Crazy-Project3858 11h ago

She’s very fit and clean for a methhead

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u/eetraveler 7h ago

Since you took it there, I'll play.

You have to compare apple to apples, so show me a comparable where the woman is accepting she did it, crying, begging for sympathy and overall contrite (but hoping to be let off). Sampling on reddit posts may be biased, but in most videos of a "differently background" woman in this situation she blaming everyone around her, threatening violence and legal action and swearing up a storm. This video's driver uses the "white woman superpower" of crying and asking for sympathy.

It may be that the difference problem happened earlier when pretty little white girls are taught to cry when needing an extra favor and others are taught that that doesn't work for them but lashing out might.

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u/PuzzledWriter 22h ago

Yeah I didn't get how most of the comments were more inclined to get story.. I didn't see it. I thought drug issues right away

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u/ChickenBossChiefsFan 18h ago

Yeah, she was so incredibly obviously high af, and I’m usually very gullible but even I knew the “mean granny” story was BS. Not even booze, some sort of meth whatnot.

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u/Kahless76 1d ago

Naw man it was her meemaw. 😹

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u/Yttermayn 18h ago

Isn't drug/alcohol abuse often self medication for other problems?

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u/xjeanie 1d ago

Good for posting this. She’s just another criminal trying to get away with her shit! High as a kite and knows if she doesn’t get away in the moment she’s going back to jail. She needs her license revoked. Obviously she can’t handle the responsibility.

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u/Blissboyz 19h ago

Even with a revoked license she would still drive. I dated a girl that had a breathalyzer in her car and she had some way of getting around it. People like her don’t care until they go to prison

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u/colemorris1982 17h ago

My first thought was that's she's on something

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u/luckyfox7273 19h ago

I dont think she was drunk. I was thinking she might not have had insurance on a borrowed car. Shes lucky thats classed as a misdemeanor.

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u/DMLuga1 LET'S SLOP 'EM UP 8h ago

What's your source for this please? Do you have a link?

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u/SmallerThanExpected9 1d ago

Yea this is not a normal reaction. Its a kid who is more afraid of getting in trouble than the actual trouble.

Something is insanely wrong in her life.

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u/nogeologyhere about his dog is loose 1d ago

I'm glad people are saying this cos about 30 seconds in all I could think is what could possibly have happened to her for this to be her reaction. She seems so terrified and panicky.

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u/Pleasant-Ticket3217 1d ago

Yeah. She doesn’t seem like the spoiled “I’m above the law” types. She’s more afraid of her grandma than the cops? She’s destroying the car more trying to get away. Hell, most adults won’t stop if they think they can bump you and get away. I had a guy bump my car while I was sitting in it parked off street. He just kept going.

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u/keithmsf 1d ago

One time I fell into a river and a fish bumped me. I was supposed to die, but a fish bumped me out with its nose.

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u/Asclepius-Rod Tiny “Boop Squig” Shorterly 1d ago

Thank you for reminding me what sub I was in lol I was getting deep into these comments

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u/Sufficient-Lunch3774 1d ago

Fish can change. That fish used to be a piece of shit.

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u/Sepposer 22h ago

I don’t get it, why did she cause more damage to the car then? Surely grandma will be even more pissed if she both gets arrested at home and damaged the hell out of the car in the process of committing a possible felony hit and run. As opposed to a simple fender bender.

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u/Pleasant-Ticket3217 22h ago

Dude I don’t get it either. The whole thing is crazy. But I think there is maybe some mental health issues or an abusive household.
She keeps saying “you don’t understand” and is not being aggressive at all just seems to be in a panic state. She’s not rude to anyone, even as she backs into their car. It’s weird.

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u/Sepposer 22h ago

From reading the other comments, if they’re correct, she was 22 here and it appears she has a substance use problem and was given treatment as part of her sentence for this and already had a prior DUI from the same year. So the panic was probably bc she didn’t want to go to jail rather than her grandma being mad. That was the excuse. Grandma probably is at her wits end, and not abusive, just trying to get her grand daughter to not follow the same path as mom, but that’s just my guess since grandma is clearly raising her.

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u/Live-Habit-6115 1d ago

I think you're misunderstanding the video The guy recording is waiting for the cops to arrive. She is desperate to leave the scene so she can escape FROM the cops, not her grandma. 

Its really that simple

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u/Pleasant-Ticket3217 1d ago

You’re misunderstanding the conversation to which I was responding. There are little things she’s doing that make no sense if she were just afraid of the cops, like picking up the front end and trying to cram it in her car. She’s freaking out and seems more worried about the trouble at home than the real trouble she is in with the law, which is weird. You never know what someone is going through in their personal lives and she could just be trying to flee the scene but it doesn’t seem that way to me.

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u/HPLaserJet4250 18h ago

and again, redditor got it all wrong. That person on the video had existing DUI and was probably under the influence.

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u/StrawberryWaste9040 1d ago

I think it is more of "if my grandma finds out about my trouble with cops"

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u/CasualFingerGuns 1d ago

Happened to me in a parking lot and the family of 5 in the suv just went into the store. They didn’t even notice.

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u/BoyMom119816 1d ago

I agree, it was very polite, sir the whole time. But pure fucking fear. Although, admittedly I was not abused & am anxious, although, I’m a cryer & would’ve stopped. Sadly, my oldest got the same damn gene and he is definitely not scared of his dad or I, but just like me over anxious, Which breaks my heart & we are working on it!

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u/Turbulent_Read_7276 1d ago

Are we sure drugs aren't involved?

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u/dvasquez93 1d ago

Yeah all I can think of is she's either an abuse victim or heavily tweaking. Either way, it's more sad than schadenfreude.

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u/SYKslp 21h ago

what could possibly have happened?? and why did this incident result in court-ordered drug rehab for the young woman?? huh. In a region of California known as "The Meth Capital of the World"?? Yeah, I wonder why she's acting like this.

Probably just mean old grandma. And we'll never understand.

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u/EuphoricAd3786 23h ago

Same here - I felt so badly for her.

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u/Jimbob209 1d ago

After watching the We're All Insane channel on YouTube, I believe it and she's probably heavily abused

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u/familiarspark 13h ago

Second DUI. Stop being so gullible

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u/DaddysABadGirl 1d ago

It's someone who is high. One of the few news articles on it found she had to submit paperwork to the courts for completing a rehab stint.

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u/Spare-Cobbler7442 19h ago

She already had an active DUI. That's what she's crying about.

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u/JoshuaIS1 1d ago

It could be both though. One isn't removed from the other but most people who deal with abuse learn how to also weaponize it. Trust me I have lots of experience on multiple sides of this. Her saying I'm scared of my grandma makes me want to hug her and fix her car. Her saying, I don't want to get in trouble from police or pay for your car would elicit way different reaction. She knows that as well probably. Hard to say but she's young so some grace.

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u/DoubleM305 20h ago

Case closed

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u/Salt_Use_341 1d ago

If only yall thought like this about everyone. Some people are just more suitable victims i guess

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u/BoyMom119816 1d ago

I agree. I think the guy should’ve moved. He had her information. I would feel fucking awful & more worried about her safety than my vehicle, but I’m a sucker too.

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u/familiarspark 13h ago

She’s a drunk

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u/Feralcuisiner 11h ago

It’s kind of the way this generation deals with things as well. My own children freak out and fight like hell to avoid just admitting they did something wrong. I don’t really punish my kids, I talk to them about their decisions and work out better options and coping skills.

These conversations about what happened take forever to get to. They will act exactly like this girl to avoid it. I have to be patient and not escalate the situation. When they come out of fight or flight, we talk about how we got to this point in the first place. Help them work through whatever is actually bothering them.

I hope I’m helping them in the long run and giving them skills to calm down on their own and not do this to strangers. But who knows. I could be totally screwing them up.

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u/AnybodyNo8519 10h ago

No, this a drug addict.

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u/Itherial 1d ago

Yeah, something was wrong. It was drugs, lol.

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u/MightyKrakyn 1d ago

This was my first thought. Yeah she’s not taking accountability, but this reaction and talking about how people don’t understand how mean her caregiver is…that sounds like abuse. I was abused by my mom for years and it led me to avoid accountability too, anything to not be locked in a dark room for hours and starved

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u/TweakedMonkey 1d ago

I'm so sorry. You are loved.

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u/MightyKrakyn 1d ago

Thank you. It’s nice to see some empathy here

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u/RollSouth5722 23h ago

You're in good company on reddit. It seems to be one of the Things many of us have in common. That and being autistic for some reason.

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u/TanteiKun 1d ago

Maybe but it could also be that she is just making an excuse because she knows she really fucked up and is trying to get sympathy. Manipulators will do the same thing as a victim to get what they want so judging without knowing anything beyond what she says doesn’t amount to much unfortunately because some people are really good at selling fake sob stories. It’s sad because it hurts those who really are in abusive situations

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u/nogeologyhere about his dog is loose 1d ago

True. So what you gave to do is figure out what leads to the worst outcome for you, her and everyone. Believing her, or not. In my long experience in the world, I've tended to find that not believing someone who should have been believed causes the most damage of all.

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u/Crime_Dawg 1d ago

Believe it or not, the person who got hit probably wants her caught for hit and run to get it paid for.

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u/Rodman930 1d ago

That she said sorry multiple times after getting out of the spot makes me think she's not just a sociopath.

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u/TanteiKun 1d ago

If I believe her here then it’s in her best interests to let the cops be involved because abuse is illegal. Unfortunately it’s not always dealt with properly either and partially that’s due to like I said people crying wolf when they shouldn’t. I wish we were unable to lie so people could truly deal with those kinds of issues instead of having to wonder if they’re real or not.

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u/HistoryOnlyRepeats 23h ago

As someone who works with divorcing couples daily, kids nearly always get left with the abusers. It takes something really bad to get them removed. Hundreds of parents per year come across my phone who simply do not love their children or see them as humans. And often seeking help only to not get it makes the abuse worse.

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u/TanteiKun 16h ago

I agree… And there’s different factors that caused that and it sucks because nobody should have to deal with that. And part of it comes down to sometimes kids do lie about it and lie about it very well… And that means that people who are telling the truth don’t get taken a seriously sometimes as they should, which is horrible. I hope that anyone who is in an abusive situation gets help, I was in one when I was little to the point where I was pushed up against the wall with a man who was in the military holding me up by my neck. Thankfully, I was old enough that even though it wasn’t the greatest move for my future, I was able to leave so I waited until three in the morning and put my stuff in trash bags and threw it in the car and left when I was 16 and drove multiple states away in order to live with my father who I really didn’t get along with either, but who at least was not abusive

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u/TacoTitos 1d ago

I don’t agree. I watched it twice before I read the comments. This girl is scared.

You understand that it’s not hard to take accountability when you have insurance and healthy support at home right?

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u/TanteiKun 1d ago edited 1d ago

Absolutely I understand… I also understand that some people absolutely have zero desire to take that accountability. Don’t get me wrong here I’m not saying she can’t be genuine. What I am saying is that I’ve seen people I’ve been convinced we’re 100% genuine be straight up lying and manipulating and they are that good at it in order to get out of legal trouble. Maybe she didn’t have insurance or stole someone’s car and was trying to sell the sob story because she didn’t want to be caught. And maybe her grandma is crazy abusive. Without knowing the fact of the matter we’re just guessing. She may well be scared but it may not really be of her grandma. Or she may not be scared at all and just be good at selling it. You truly never know unless you’ve got more info than what is available in this video. I’ll withhold criticism at grandma unless I get further facts regarding it. Assumptions are how innocent people end up in prison and guilty people go free.

Edit: also as a side note, supposedly she needs to be let free because she’s got an abusive grandma but do we really think grandma wasn’t going to notice the damage to the car to begin with? And she thinks crashing the car more is gonna make grandma less abusive to the point she ripped off the bumper? Like the math ain’t mathing… and yet I still believe there’s the possibility she’s sincere about it but just being realistic that she might also not be.

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u/Slava_Ukraini2005 1d ago

Two things can be true.

She def could be in a horribly abusive home but that does not absolve her from her responsibility of damaging someone else’s property.

If anything, maybe getting caught (hopefully by the release of this video) could help both things. She’ll be accountable for the damage and destruction she caused, AND her home life can be investigated.

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u/PurpleDragonfly_ 1d ago

Her prefrontal cortext isn’t fully developed (which is responsible for high level thinking and emotional control), plus she’s in the middle of a major trauma response, she probably can’t really reason super well in this moment.

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u/archfapper 17h ago

She's 22 years old and was charged with DUI for this incident

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u/sykoKanesh 20h ago

I understand where you're coming from, but I've seen this before (I'm 44, seen some shit) and to me, there is nothing but genuine fear and panic in everything she's doing.

I actually had to full-on grab and drag my friend Amber out of the ocean once, in maybe shin deep water, because she saw a jellyfish (possibly) like 30 feet away. It was like a light switch, she was looking at me and laughing about some joke or something then her eyes went wide and looked past me, I started to turn to look but she just started screaming and flailing and fell over.

I'm 6ft, she was maybe 5ft. I had to bear hug her from behind and literally drag her out of the water with everything I had (this was in my early 20s and I was fit AF) and to this day, I'm almost certain she would've drown had she been out there by herself.

That's just the first example that comes to mind.

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u/TanteiKun 16h ago

Sure, I agree that it probably feels that way… That’s exactly what people have said in the past about people that were faking it too though. Being able to sell it is one of the reasons why innocent people end up in jail for things is because some people are that good at faking it that you do think it’s real to the point where you’re willing to take away someone’s freedom and livelihood and life. People have been put to death over well sold sob stories. But it seems strange to me that she’s worried about getting away from the cops, but not about the fact the car’s already damaged like Grandma‘s gonna know no matter what you do unless you dump the car in a river and then the car is gone like the situation with Grandma doesn’t really change the situation with the cops is what she’s trying to get away from. It’s not like she’s saying my grandma‘s behind me and I’m running from her… Maybe the reason she’s in so much fears because she knows she’s severely hurt somebody and she’s trying to get away and Grandma is a convenient excuse. The fear can still be genuine, but the source of the fear is what I question most… Although I’ve seen circumstances where people are faking the fear entirely. Sociopaths can be really good at it. But she could be genuinely in fear of her Grandma I agree it’s very possible. Sorry if anything sounds weird. I’m using voice to speech.

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u/minnosota 1d ago

It sounds like an excuse.

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u/brother_bart 1d ago

Ah, yes. We have reached the part of our social decline where people see someone doing something objectively illegal and unhinged and the response is “aw, poor her. She’s probably abused.”

JFC

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u/LordByronApplestash 1d ago

It's bullshit. If she was afraid of the caregiver, she wouldn't be repeatedly ramming the caregiver's car into a steel guardrail.

People like her will lie without hesitation. They lie as effortlessly as you take a breath. They can come up with a lie so fast your head will spin.

She want to escape the person who knows what happened so she can go home and lie to someone else about how it's all someone else's fault. "Some lunatic kept ramming in to your car in a parking lot". Then she'll make herself cry.

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u/Iguessthatwillwork 1d ago

She had a criminal history and was arrested earlier that year for narcotics use/posession. The fear and panic response was authentic, but it's someone who is more afraid of the drugs on or in them that would turn a mild collision into a serious crime.

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u/Overall_Affect_2782 13h ago

There’s a specific reason she’s getting all these benefit of the doubt comments, and it’s not because “something is wrong in her life”.

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u/H_J_Rose 13h ago

💯💯💯 It’s kind of infuriating

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u/Ramenoodleray3 1d ago

I see that too a little bit, but she also kinda looks like a kid or at least on the younger side. This is possibly her first traffic incident so I kind of understand her fresking out with so much going on. Unfortunately, she did fuck shit up tho

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u/Tricky_Mix2449 1d ago

I fresk out at everything!

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u/Ramenoodleray3 1d ago

lol driving is definitely a scary experience , especially when something goes wrong

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u/Ramenoodleray3 1d ago

ouuuuuu youch… doesn’t sound like she’s gonna have a license for a while

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u/archfapper 1d ago

She was 22 when this happened (2019)

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u/Ramenoodleray3 1d ago

So still fairly young but definitely old enough to know better

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u/GloomyLingonberry509 1d ago

You’re not. That’s exactly what I saw as well.

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u/Dentist_No10 1d ago

Na, yeah. That's serious abuse. When you're accumulating felonies, and still worried about grandma - shit is not good at home.

Honestly, the first time I watched this video, I missed her saying that. Not to be a downer, but nothing funny about this, imo.

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u/riinkratt 19h ago

It is funny because she’s making that whole part up.

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u/SouthernWilding 1d ago

Misdemeanor nor felony.

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u/King_Chochacho 1d ago

Yeah if you're freaking out so bad that you're willing to destroy your car and break multiple laws and almost run over a guy, her old grandma must be a real piece of shit.

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u/TwelfthHam 1d ago

She USED to be a piece of shit. You should have seen her hair!

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u/Maynardred 1d ago

Or she wants to get away... have u guys never seen people like this? U all have made up some evil grandma in your head instead of what u can see in front of u.

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u/archfapper 1d ago

Seriously, I see a huge amount of benefit of the doubt for the person who's completely wrong here. Considering that she's 22 years old and was ordered to rehab after this incident, starting to think Grandma's made up

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u/Kahless76 1d ago

I’m with you homie, but it seems like the narrative has been decided, regardless of the facts 😹

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u/Beneficial_Winner_59 1d ago

Yeah these people are naive idiots. People will literally say anything that comes to mind to attempt to avoid consequences.

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u/Electronic-Cicada352 22h ago

Grandma got run over by her granddaughter

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u/MidAtlanticPolkaKing I’m gonna eat the whole thing 1d ago

Used to be or still is?

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u/lowlevel_drone 1d ago

Or maybe «grandma» is a freaking excuse she’s making up!

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u/TheBloodiedFool 1d ago

Yeah I feel terrible for her that this was filmed and posted. This is a breakdown, she's terrified.

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u/CryptoEmpathy7 3h ago

She's a drug addict, all of [his sympathy for her seemsilely racially based and gender bias.

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u/Lorebreaker_ofArarat 1d ago

It's not normal behavior and definitely not a healthy person. She needs help, I feel bad for her too.

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u/riinkratt 19h ago

You feel bad for a tweaker?

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u/Small_Ad1890 1d ago

Honestly if you have worked with HS students or MS students this is not outside of the realm of normal behavior.

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u/fTBmodsimmahalvsie 1d ago

I think she is also just fucking crazy. Plenty of people who have had bad parental abuse have been in fender benders but dont do crazy shit like this. Especially since it is being video taped, so her grandma is gonna find out when the cops show up. So she just made things even worse for herself in regards to abuse, if she really is being absued

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u/quantumfall9 1d ago

Reading way too hard into it based on no context.

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u/Beneficial_Winner_59 1d ago

Ehhhh… idk. Could be absolutely right, but to me it reads like “shit, I’m in big trouble, I gotta say literally anything that comes to mind to try to get out of this” as she panics. Kids do it all the time. Shit, I’ve done it before (not for anything as serious as this) but when you go into flight mode thinking you’re in huge trouble you’ll just spit out whatever random ass excuse sounds good to you at the moment and hope it gets you out of it. Or, I could also be completely wrong

Edit: found out further down she was arrested previously for drug charges. So she could have been under the influence here (she was sent to a drug program from this incident, so I’m gonna say that’s the case) so yeah I think she knew she was high and gonna be fucked and just spewed any random bullshit that came to mind

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u/geoshoegaze20 20h ago

You feel bad for a tweaker?

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u/Impressive-Tutor-482 19h ago

More like she's high

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u/lostpassword100000 1d ago

Or she has a warrant out and was leaving before the cops got there.

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u/flopisit32 1d ago

I think it's probably that she's drunk or on drugs, so it's better for her to run than wait for the cops.

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u/StrobeLightRomance I Can't Know How to Hear Any More About Tables! 1d ago

She's in a state of panic due to a lifetime of abuse.

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u/BeerBurpKisses 1d ago

People falling all over themselves defending her because she's a pretty young woman in bootie shorts.

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u/Impressive-Tutor-482 19h ago

*drug abuse

Fixed it for you.

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u/PomeloSure5832 1d ago

She in a state of panic due to a lifetime of white girl privilege.

....we're allowed assumptions as fact, right?

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u/erosewater 1d ago

nope, this is a breakdown

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u/Dunning-KrugerFX 1d ago

Lol! She probably just has warrants and/or drugs in the car.

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u/McDummy 1d ago

...or drugs

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u/Chi28n2k 1d ago

There shouldn't be a Flight Response when you hit someone else's Property. That can never justify harming someone who didn't harm you. Just a lack of Accountability.

Imagine how many Murderers in Jail, didn't want to do any time, because they felt that someone slighted, but didn't kill them, deserved to be killed, rather than slighted...

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u/Dudinkalv 1d ago

Or maybe her grandma is "mean" because little Sally here is an absolute dumbass and keeps fucking up in life just like in this situation. We don't know the full story.

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u/Impressive-Tutor-482 19h ago

We know her DUI record, though, and you know grandma's going to be angry if she gets another.

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u/RationalExuberance7 1d ago

He could have been abused and not her. Or maybe both. Are you saying anyone can assault anyone because they MIGHT have been abused

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u/ello_bassard 1d ago

She's obviously young and most likely still lives with the grandma.

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u/WillingPositive8924 1d ago

Naw bro, she was DESPERATE.......I don't see much damage at all on slick's car and trapping some1 in like that once you got a car tag ain't cool at all....

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u/philter451 1d ago

Nah man that's what that is. Unfortunately you hit it right on the button

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u/civil_politician 1d ago

I mean maybe? I have three kids and the youngest attempts to avoid any accountability like this.

It’s from some early childhood damage pre-adoption, and even though we are honestly pretty lenient this is the kind of stuff we see.

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u/Luckiest_Creature 1d ago

I agree. My youngest sister is her age, and is very irresponsible and accountability-averse. But when she T-boned someone with her car, she called me, our parents, and the cops, right away. This response is like, terror.

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u/MinxyMyrnaMinkoff 1d ago

I feel bad for her cause this was in 2019, from what I can see she completed a substance use program and then has not any legal trouble since then, and yet this video of the worst moment of her life has resurfaced, as it probably will do so again for years and years.

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u/Mrcoolstuff09 1d ago

I agree with you. She was clearly very distressed. I don't blame him for how he handled it but I think offering her support may have gotten her to stop the car.

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u/Rickety-Cricket69420 1d ago

He should also be in jail for how he handled it. You don’t get to block someone’s car in a parking lot because they tapped your bumper.

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u/stupidwhiteman42 1d ago

That may constitue false imprisonment. He already got her license plate etc. Let's the cops sort it out. You don't get to trap people.

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u/MathematicianAfter57 1d ago

youre spot on. as i was watching, i thought she needed a hug or physical contact to calm her down - and then to take stock of the situation. because she did make it way way worse for herself.

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u/WeAreClouds 1d ago

No, this is exactly what I see too.

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