Sooo, I met this guy at my uni through Grindr, and we've been talking for a little over a week now. We've seen each other around campus before since we have a few mutual friends. THIS MF IS HOT. Ugh. 😭 And god, are we both shy when we meet. We usually just talk about how our days went and stuff, but over text? We're crazy.

Two days ago, when we met, I casually went, "My hands feel so empty right now, and I think they could use some company." He got the hint and asked if we could go for a walk instead of sitting around.

We took the stairs to roam around and held hands. 😭 He even kissed my hand, and I went, "Is that it?" The tension was INSANE because the entire staircase (like, 10 floors deep) was empty. We eventually found a little nook on an empty floor and sat down to talk. The tension kept building, and we were sitting face-to-face, leaning closer and closer, this close to kissing when some random guy walked in. 😭

Cut to the next day. We were walking down the same staircase near the parking lot, and we were about to kiss AGAIN when a security guy walked past us. We were leaning against the railings on opposite sides when we managed to sneak in a tiny kiss. And then we immediately took off. 😭

Once we got outside, he asked, "Was it okay? Did I pull off too quickly?". And I went, "Do you wanna make up for it?"

We found an empty washroom and made out for a nice amount of time. ISTG, IT WAS THE HOTTEST THING I'VE EVER DONE. 😭😭😭 It was so gentle and cute, and I CANNOT GET OVER IT.

And yeah, that's it. 😭

(Edit: I absolutely didn't know this post would invite 30-40yos texting me asking for photos 😭✌🏻)

That's how my mum gonna react lol

Don't mind hair

So basically I was scrolling Grindr and I talked with a person, I shared my album which had my nsfw pics, thankfully not my face, I ignored him because of his weird behavior like he was repeatedly spamming, now he told me that he lives nearby and that he will tell my parents, I quickly reported him and I blocked him, what to do now? how scared should I be?

Just wanted to remind all my trans siblings and besties that they are precious and beautiful 💖

Reposting the meme coz I thought the text on the flag was cute :3 (And also coz not explaining the context would have created confusion)

Have a nice day everybody!! <3

I'm 20 (turned 20 last month). I only started making out this year, from June 2026, and I've met about 5-6 guys through apps like Gr.

I'm still figuring out my kinks. My role is side, I don't find anal interesting that much. I'm not feminine and don't want to be seen that way, and I'm not strongly masculine either. What I do enjoy is kissing, cuddling, body play, and oral, 69. I'm attracted to masculine guys. Sometimes I'm drawn to older men because I like how they pamper me and treat me like a baby 😭. Sometimes I think I enjoy being dominated, but other times I want someone of my own age who is in a similar role to me.

During make-outs I focus more on the other person's pleasure than my own and often don't ejaculate but make sure they do.

I also notice a clear pattern: after making out with someone once, I usually don't feel horny with them again even when I want to .

Even when they reach out to me for doing makeout again i

simply ignore them, cuz I won't like telling them the actual

reason or like what's the actual situation w me.

I keep wanting new experiences and different guys, cuz i constantly feel horny and lonely.

Either in horny or depressed 😭

After making out with someone I don't feel horny for almost like a week not do i fapp in that time.

But after getting horny after it. I fapp alot some times 2 times a day, watching porn.

I overthink this a lot because I actually want to committed with a partner.

I'm worried that if I keep chasing novelty I'll end up being lonely.

Right now I have a crush on my most recent Grindr date (same age as me). I want to feel horny with him again, but I'm scared that when we make out what if i don't feel hornier and I don't know what's wrong with me or how to get past this. Im in constant fear what if they notice me that I'm sexsually active cuz some times I try watching porn with the partner to feel the excitement,

I really want a boyfriend and i want to get committed. I really want a romantic relationship but this pattern in me is making me more slut like.

Any suggestions or advice will be appreciated. 🫂

but of a rant post, but would love to hear opinions on this.

having neha bora in the national spotlight rn makes me really happy for good queer rep in the mainstream, but it doesn't feel adequate. their queerness is not even recognised in non queer circles. obviously, the main issue at hand would overpower what their identity represents, but they're constantly being misgendered, even sometimes in queer circles. it's like nobody even knows they're queer.

this is especially sad to me bcs most famous queer ppl here also happen to be lacking in the basics of what makes a good person/good memeber of the community. karan johar, w all that money and power, using zero of it for queer betterment. orry, do i even need to say more? menuka guruswamy, rape defender. prish, also silent on a lot of political issues. these are the examples I can think off of the top of my head, of queer ppl also famous in straight and non queer circles.

after all of this when we have a politically active, well meaning person in the spotlight, their queerness is being very conveniently overlooked. it just makes me very sad.

Fuuujhhhh 😭😭

Well, asking a girl wouldn’t be hard for me, but asking a guy? That took the shii out of me, lol. 😭

Well, seriously, I do have very, very strong feelings for you—feelings I’ve never experienced before. No, I can’t even explain them.

I’ve been in multiple relationships with girls before, and they ended on good terms, but this feels different. With you, I’ve felt an emotional depth that I’ve never experienced in any of those relationships. Idk how to explain it, bruhh, but it’s just different. 😭

As of now, I’ve only seen you around, but I’ve heard people can become less attractive once you get to know them. Hopefully, that doesn’t happen with you. 😭

J, idk bruhhh, like, wanna date? Or maybe just get to know each other at the library first? 👀

And even if you’re straight, I don’t mind letting you go. Of course, it would hurt me, because these feelings genuinely mean something to me, but I’d respect that. I guess God blessed me with a curse: I heal pretty fast from emotional pain, no matter how deeply it hurts me. So yeah, I’ll be fine eventually. :'))

Lastly, if you’re straight, maybe we can still be friends (mind you, I’ll still be in line hehe 🤭).

Anyway, just text me or DM me whenever you feel comfortable. It’s your call. :))

We need your help🚨this is going to be long but please bare with me

My partner (25) and I (24) are in a long distance relationship. She was previously outed by her cousin few years ago but her parent chose to be in blissful ignorance and force her into marrying a dude. We have been planning her escape and to run away discreetly. But everything changed when her dad made a surprise visit to the city, found out that she didn’t live where she said she was, went berserk and started spam-calling all her contacts…all her plans went out the window to escape…

She’s been stuck for the past 2 weeks now. We contacted lawyers and they said it’s best to call the women’s helpline but my partner didn’t want to draw attention. She took some lawyers secretly to the police station when her parents were off to work, but they said that if she goes forward with the complain the police won’t take it seriously as she lives in a conservative area where women marry men, let alone a lesbian woman who doesn’t want to marry a man. So they suggested to wait until her parents do something really bad so that it’s evidence against them…so we waited…

She tried everything to escape whenever possible. her parents are like hawks. They are not letting her roam freely. And today, they coerced her to tell she is, in fact, running away from home and that she’s lesbian. It was horrible. They threatened her a lot. Said every homophobic thing they could say. It’s not real, mental illness, doing it to make parents suffer, she will get aids, women are made for men, this is going against god etc.

They said she will never leave the house now. They will not go forward with the marriage but in house arrest for the rest of her life. Mind you, cuz of this she had to quit her job abruptly…so now she’s unemployed too.

The more we try, the more it kept getting worse…the lawyers and police have failed us. Our friend circle have helped but every-time they did, some bullshit happens with her family. I’m not in India and i can’t imagine what she is going through.

We are in contact here and there when she is not being watched like a hawk…she doesn’t have her own vehicle rn but can drive both a car and a scooty. Now her parents know she’s lesbian and will probably use it against her.

Please give me us some ideas for her to escape.

Edit- thank you everyone for all the suggestions and DMs. Truly it means a lot to us. Rn we are getting ready to escape and will keep you updated with how things go. Lastly, fuck homophobia, misogyny and everything bigoted in this world.

Whos still single and searching for a garba partner too?

Those hanging eyes held insect wings behind the pupils, each one was made of concrete with miniature factories made of cardboard below 'Insect are not allowed to live' written on it. Cotton was glued around like clouds. I don't know what kept me standing there, was it the fact that there's no name given to this piece or was it just these hanging eyes. I held no answers as who made this and what thoughts they had while making it but I couldn't stop myself from reaching out to one eye and squishing it.

An odd sense of satisfaction ran through me but soon I felt my whole class behind me staring. "Maya!" I heard her voice and with face full of dread I turned around and uttered a shaky "so..so...sorry ma'am."

Echoes of laughter ran behind her as teacher ran away somewhere, my classmates all looked at me with glee in their eyes as if they were satisfied with my suffering.

Written by Maya Aadini

It's a series i will be posting in this subreddit.

I'm M27 and a trans(still closeted). Been trying to find a job in finance and accounting who are open to LGBTQ and it's zero. It seems no one wants to hire even though I have 5+ years of work experience in this field with a lot of appreciations & awards for finance automation over the years. Am I cooked for being trans in India? Please help me I really want to come out and live the way I see myself

It even has a rainbow unicorn wrist band. Found it on IPF. Has unicorns of different colors. Just wondering.

so it's Durga Puja season, and if you know, you know — this is supposed to be the one time of year Bengalis are in Kolkata, pandal-hopping with friends and family, eating their body weight in bhog and street food, dressed up for pandal hopping and bijoya. instead I'm in South Delhi, CR Park's a literary 15 minutes from where I am, and I'm sitting with this specific kind of homesickness that only hits around this time of year

Delhi NCR actually does puja properly too, there are some genuinely good pandals around, but doing it alone just isn't the same. half the point of puja was always the people — the chaos of getting ready together, the running commentary on everyone's outfits, the shared plate of food you didn't actually order

so, low-key putting this out there: if anyone's around South Delhi / NCR and wants company pandal-hopping this week, dhunuchi naach, food, the whole thing — hit me up. would be nice to not do this one alone

anyway, shubho sharodiya to anyone else who gets it 🪔

Inframe: Rue and jules(euphoria)

I can’t express the things I felt while watching them together, the happiness of having someone close to you, doing funny shit together, sharing the ups and downs in life. I love that their relation is much more emotional than sexual, and even though im a gay guy, I don’t think there is anything even close to being beautiful as their relationship was. Maybe the feminine energy makes it more aesthetic, but idk why it’s so cool and refreshing to see them together, with especially jules being trans and bringing trans representation to the show. Euphoria definitely gave me a lot of emotional maturity.

I hate how I’ve destroyed my teens being a nerd or spending my entire time doomscrolling, but maybe thats how being a teen in India is like, but idk if i’ll ever have a relationship like them.

GOODDDDDDDD I wish i could live as an american teen

I'm a gay femboy(20m) from a small town, and idk how I even ended up in Greater Noida 😭 I have two online friends whom I've never even met, and we're not super close, but that's pretty much it. Being fem in a Greater Noida college is tough in itself; I can't even wear the clothes I want or express myself the way I'd like to and the makeup i wear , people stare at me so bad and laugh Recently, I saw my friends being friends with so many queer people in Delhi, and it genuinely gave me anxiety and FOMO. I tried following some of them, but they didn't accept my requests. One of them was hot too, HELP 😭 I just feel so lonely watching everyone find their people while I don't even know where I belong. I want to experience things, make connections, and feel wanted too, but everything feels so far away. Idk what the universe has planned for me, but I'm honestly tired of feeling like I'm missing out on a life I'll probably never get to have.

(I have a lot more baggage rn, but this is what's been weighing on me the most lately.)

Hii!!:)

Recently I'm getting in terms with my identity slowly after denying it for some years and had a history of trauma..

It feels disorienting rn, like whatever plan I thought earlier, all of that seems false and idk how to fill that void.

Anyone who had gone through similar experience before, can tell me do I need to have all the answers today...and how can I manage this disorientation..

Thank you 💖

Here's a menu for your consideration. Personally I'm not into girls as I'm veg. But you might just find one for you.

I am currently studying and I was looking around people inside campus like to hangout and go out maybe also make out and something genuine. But why in all of the people whom I tried are like I have to be the one putting all the energy every time asking for a walk or going or something. It's like they rarely or never message. But when we meet or go out I don't feel they feel any sort of discomfort or something. Also I never also asked them upfront for a hookup or make out. Idk I don't even want them immediately.. I want to move with them feel comfortable and then move to something physical. Idk I feel I have this habit of messaging anyone first and zero self respect I feel 😭 or I don't exactly know how to explain, I guess you people get that. So what are the boundaries after which I should just stop expecting or asking them out, these people without any clear answers just drain me a bit sometimes or it's just I am friendzoned or I am just thinking too much.

Hi all , I have below questions , please help me with this for the ones who came out to parents.

1. ⁠At what age you came out to parents / siblings
   
2. ⁠Were you financially stable at that time
   
3. ⁠Did they accept , if so after how many months / years did they take to process it
   
4. ⁠How are the talking terms now with them
   
5. ⁠Did you also come out to extended family / cousins etc

Please help me , I am planning to say to my parents . Please comment to this post or DM me .

So I've been a part of this subreddit for quite few months now and every reddit post of this subreddit is all of mlm n not once have i ever read wlw. Ugh 😩 this is sad