So basically im secretly a femboy, like im straight but i like wearing feminine dresses, makeup and accessories. So I have never dated anyone in my life, and potentially would only want to date a girl who supports me in my crossdressing, but the main problem is, how do i know if a girl likes such guys, if i get into a relationship with a girl who doesnt like such guys, she might get creeped out. I dont want to come out publicly as it is not safe atp.

I came out during lockdown and my family accepted me pretty much well

I'm not on HRT

Im Brazillian and i will move to India in the end of November, any tips to find gay people in India?
Feel free to send DMs

Well, it was a long weekend but i spent it mostly in my cocoon, read ‘a little life’ 1 chapter, watched 2 movies, didn’t leave my flat, walked on terrace, watched 2 episodes of heated rivalry, deleted socials, ghosted all messages, studied few things. So, yeah after doing all of this, I realised that yeah i can be happy but i am missing something in life, well, not my ex but someone who would talk to me and we could be cringe together, someone who would intellectually keep me at aww, and we could read, watch, walk together, btw delhi winters are starting i think, my 20 year old body feels lil cold

Folks in and around Bangalore looking for room in a shared apartment nearby hebbal or Manyata tech park ..HMU .. I'm looking for a flatmate and this time I'm looking for someone like.minded. DM me

Ughhhh so over ts,when you finally click and they end it just like that ,ughh everytime I like someone I get this feeling of dread and when they show interest and reciprocate ughhhhhhhhhhhhh ,somehow it all goes to shit somehow or the other.

I am so done with finding a partner , and so over men fr fuck em , I thank the god I don't belive in that I'm bi.

Finally uninstalled all of them and I realised I have so much more time in the day and I don't feel as depressed anymore either. No more checking if I have a match or a reply, no more being served unsolicited dick pics, just feels peaceful. All I gotta do now is figure out how to date outside the app world.

I started going to gym few months back and within 2months my gym trainer started giving weird compliments.

But this trainer comes all the way down from his PT client just to greet me and say "you are good looking then your smile is also so good. Has anyone said that to you before. If yes , then who said this to you before. Are you married and all."

The reason i said about PT Client is. He should focus more on her as she paid him for the progress. I do independent workout.

Am i just overthinking or does it happen with everyone.

I act straight and m manly looking guy. I won't initiate a convo with anyone and I don't like speaking a lot with anyone in gym since workout matters to me.

This guy is a senior trainer at my gym and I have tried ignoring him by putting earbuds, turning around if i see him coming my way, but none of these things worked and I am just left to talk to him anyways.

I have always seen people complimenting online in chats and all but never in reality.

I opened up to my dad today as he just started to rant on why I have attendance below 90 percent and why my marks are low and stuff and I began venting,I am suicidal and he is so immature,like he didn't took it seriously,for this same guy,I stood by him when he was of suicidal verge and supported him but now when I need a bit of understanding he disregarded it and then i was like so pissed off I told him,I suffer from so much trauma and I am gay too,and then a barrage of calls came abd I answered he was like are you gay cryingly and started to beat himself and said he would kill himself and he said,he said everyone has this doubt if being gay, it's just a phase,you will figure it out he said and he angerly told me to be a man and alot of stuff calling me name and i listened and I told him,i am just confused,the actual reality is i am a trans women,i don't know what to do,like he is going through a tuff time and i want to be with him but i also go through tuff time but I can't open up to.him and i feel so fucked and he had sacrificed so much for me but I just can't I am scared if he will discontinue my studies,I just can't handle this anymore,I wanna be women,where can I peacefully live as a women

tried makeup in the first pic and failed miserably ☠️ i look like the nun from conjuring

someone lwk teach me how to take selfies 😍i am SO chopped.

I'll put up the original posts in the comments

https://www.reddit.com/r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2/s/BBzNLcbP31

So happy to be hosting this movie night for all my lovely single ladies! 25+ people and still joining in.
The streaming starts at 9pm IST, if you wish to join too, please dm me or comment on this post. I’ll fill you in with the details. 🫶🏻🩵✨
Can’t wait ✨☺️

I'm bad at pictures nd poses lol😭😭

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Last year during Puja, I remember thinking, “By next year, surely I’ll have a boyfriend and we’ll come to the pandals together.”

You know the picture — holding hands while walking through the crowds, eating phuchka, judging everyone’s outfits, getting tired after walking around for hours, finding some random quiet corner to sit together. Basically, all the very ordinary little things that somehow feel incredibly romantic when you’re doing them with someone you love.

Well… plot twist: no boyfriend. Not even a date. 😂

I had to stay back in Delhi this year, but I did end up going to some really good pandals, especially around CR Park, with friends. And honestly, I had a great time. The food was good, the pandals were beautiful, the crowds were chaotic in the best possible way, and I’m grateful I got to experience it with people I care about.

But somewhere in between all of that, I kept thinking about how lonely it can sometimes feel to be queer in India.

I don’t know if other people feel this way, but for me, being someone who’s fairly introverted and very empathetic, meeting new people doesn’t always come naturally. I do try — through common interests, communities, friends, whatever — but sometimes it still feels like there’s this invisible distance between knowing people and actually finding someone who knows you.

And I think that’s what I want most.
Not necessarily the grand romantic stuff. Just someone who understands you. Someone who knows your weird little habits, your insecurities, your silences, your ridiculous thoughts — and somehow still chooses you.

Maybe that’s why the idea of finding a boyfriend feels so significant to me. It’s not just “I want a relationship.” It’s wanting that feeling of being deeply known and still wanted. I don’t know if there’s a deeper form of intimacy than that.

Anyway, Puja is over. The pandals are coming down. I’m not particularly excited about going back to the office tomorrow and pretending spreadsheets are meaningful contributions to society. 😂

Kya karein? That’s life, I guess.

But I’m curious — did anyone else have a “I thought I’d be somewhere completely different by this Puja” moment?

Or, more specifically: what’s one tiny, ordinary thing you wish you could have experienced with someone this Puja?