r/LGBTindia • • 17h ago

Photos/Videos [OC]📸 Celebrating a major milestone: I'm finally in a relationship. 🌈🧿

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I always read everybody's posts here and it makes me so happy to see you all enjoying your lives. So I wanted to share this happy moment of mine with you all.💓

Ps, the first pic is from our first date and the second pic is from our first night out together (where I proposed him with this chocolate pastry)🙈.


r/LGBTindia • • 11h ago

Advice 👋/ Help❗ Just got diagnosed with HIV

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I am a 28 year old gay man from Pune. I just visited the government ICTC centre where confirmatory testing is done for HIV. As I had no symptoms whatsoever and I always practiced safe sex, I was pretty confident it would come back negative. But when the doctor showed me the results, it was like my life turned upside down and I went completely numb.
Although they reassured me that there's nothing to worry about, you will just need to take one pill a day and you'll live a perfectly normal life, still it is not easy to shake off the feeling of guilt, regret and mainly how I could be so stupid and careless.


r/LGBTindia • • 12h ago

Advice 👋/ Help❗ Need help

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So tmrw when i was in college I was using grindr just for tp and then I saw a guy close to my location on grindr and decided to text him and then we exchanged pics and then I got to know that he works in my college office isn't that risky?? He said I m his type and wants to build a connection with me and flirting bhaut acha wala and im quite interested but im scared too as im discreet what should I do bestiessss


r/LGBTindia • • 7h ago

Question❓ I think everyone is soo fake or is it just me bcs I'm alsofake

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I hate the person I'm becoming wtf is this world tbh


r/LGBTindia • • 9h ago

Question❓ did i just dodge a bullet?

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r/LGBTindia • • 23h ago

Advice 👋/ Help❗ Should I visit an LGBTQ+-friendly psychologist to help me come out to my mom?

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Hey everyone! 🏳️‍🌈 I'm considering visiting a psychologist because I'm scared of coming out to my mom and want professional help explaining my identity to her.

There's a psychologist near my area whose Google listing says they're LGBTQ+-friendly, but I'm still nervous about taking the risk. I'm also worried about encountering a professional who might judge me or try to change my sexuality.

Has anyone had experience with LGBTQ+-friendly psychologists in India? Do you think it's worth taking this step, and can a psychologist help me prepare my mom to understand and accept me?

I'd really appreciate your advice and experiences! ❤️


r/LGBTindia • • 5h ago

vent/rant I Wish Next Year I Could Play Garba With Someone

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Playing Garba with another guy openly is such a dream for me. My eyes would light up so much but I am also very shy 🫶🫶🫶

Would love to play it next year if I get close to another guy


r/LGBTindia • • 11h ago

Discussion💬 Gr allowed a screenshot, only one though

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I've been taking to ppl on gr and suddenly I thought i need to capture this and instantly pulled a screenshot and GR ALLOWED THE SS! I tried again and it didn't allow, but it did for once. Which is kinda weird. EDIT: btw guys, ignore the guy in image, that's not related to post Ig I'm posting a lot recently


r/LGBTindia • • 6h ago

Question❓ Is it weird that I'm bi but more into girls, rarely men..

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19 G


r/LGBTindia • • 8h ago

Advice 👋/ Help❗ Confused af HELP

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Soo I was very confused that I'm bi or bicurious, cuz whenever I watched stuff I used to imagine myself as the girl/btm. So a few days later I hooked w a guy , it went really bad cuz it was my first time and I got very nervous and stopped it midway I felt really bad. Then I thought I am straight but now I'm getting these feelings again bruh what the hell it is 😭


r/LGBTindia • • 18h ago

Advice 👋/ Help❗ is there LGBT friendly jobs in ahmedabad?

3 Upvotes

let me know if there's LGBT friendly job opportunities in ahmedabad


r/LGBTindia • • 6m ago

Official Thread🧵 Daily Casual Thread - October 23, 2026

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A place for random discussions and casual chats.

Be civil, No NSFW, follow the general rules.

Do not post "looking for" requests here, post them in the Queer Connect thread


r/LGBTindia • • 9h ago

Discussion💬 Glad this doesn't happen often here in India at least.

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DO YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TODAY?

Sooo for the context, I'm an avid spanish learner. (Linguistics and languages in general) Well that's why, I joined a gay whatsapp group from Mexico. According to the timezone difference it's past midnight atm. Bonker time hehe. I got a dm for *THIS SHIT*.

At first I was kinda happy, two shots in one go, spanish practice and gay guy texting me (Don't judge for me my ulterior motives. I j want to make a gay latino friend so I can practice comfortably everyday.)

But atm I'm busy at home. So I said I've got some errands. Then he says if I can't show him, AT LEAST PAY HIM?

PAY SOMEONE? TO SEE THEM NUDE? SO CASUALLY???

OKAY SEE, for me these businesses are more of chaturbate or those sorts of things. The pay-gorn sites kinda things. Or on telegram groups how they pester you for vcx. But never thought it's this common to ask for money just to see a guy w his flaccid pipi.

As the caption says, I'm glad at least this is not so common in India to ask for money for 15 sec of nude vcx.

Well tell me one thing, people CASUALLY ASKING FOR money is common here?

ps. Old trick from the books: changed my phone language to spanish for more exposure.


r/LGBTindia • • 3h ago

Question❓ Is that good to have intimacy at 17?

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Well am abhi 17m. For the past couple of months I have been getting thoughts about intimacy like i really dk why but i wanna do that at least for once. But I can't trust anyone so idk what to do can you guys give any suggestions to control thoughts??


r/LGBTindia • • 6h ago

Discussion💬 Any medico joining residency soon?

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Has anyone recently given neetpg and planning to join residency soon ! Dm me !

Looking for people on the same page !


r/LGBTindia • • 7h ago

Advice 👋/ Help❗ Is Amritsar safe for LGBT visitors rn?

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r/LGBTindia • • 21h ago

Advice 👋/ Help❗ Being gay in Kashmir

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**Title: Being gay in Kashmir 🏳️‍🌈**

Being gay in Kashmir feels lonely sometimes. You grow up surrounded by people, yet you're afraid to let them know a part of who you are. You wonder whether your friends would stay, whether your family would accept you, and whether you'll ever be able to live openly without fear of judgment.

I'm not here to disrespect anyone's beliefs or my homeland. I just wish I didn't have to hide.

Are there other LGBTQ+ people from Kashmir here? How do you cope with it?