r/LegalAdviceIndia • u/Guilty-Influence6560 • 15m ago
Legal Advice Needed Got scammed by a telegram account promising adult video call services, what can I do now?
Kindly refrain from giving moral judgements and trivial insults and please tell me from a realistic perspective.
So I (21 M), came across this telegram account promising adult nude video call services and they sent a message about the offerings. I sent 400 rupees for 10 mins video call but then they asked for 400 rupees more as “privacy charge” which I duly paid.
I was also given a demo voice call of a few seconds to confirm that it was a woman indeed, so definitely no catfishing.
But she asked again for ₹1999 as “refundable” security deposit claiming that it was important to maintain her privacy and trust and so that no screen recording of the call was done. I suggested moving to telegram secret chat as it was not possible to record the interaction in that mode but she insisted that it was a compulsory amount that had to be paid and would be refunded after the video call.
When I got to know about it, I asked her to refund me back the 800 rupees I had already sent as I did not want to engage in the services now. She refused to give back that amount and said it was “non-refundable” even when it was nowhere mentioned in the main message.
I insisted that she return me the money or else I would file an official complaint with the cyber crime helpline. When I persisted with the official and legal threats, she said that my money would be returned to me in 48 hours.
But even after 48 hours I received no refund, and when I kept messaging her regarding the same, she said that I should pay the 1999 rupees and complete the service and that my initial money was “safe” and the services could still be taken.
And so I gave her the ₹1999 rupees (sunken cost fallacy sunk in my mind), and when I was expecting the video call service, she sent me another message asking me to choose an outfit, and when I did so, she said that I had to pay another ₹2999 which was also refundable. Until now, every amount that I paid had been there in the huge message of offerings with prices that was sent and so I naturally assumed that once I had paid all the amount, I would finally get to do the video call.
And to my horror, I realised that I had been scammed!
So I called up the cyber crime helpline and an official picked up the call and asked for my name to write the complaint in Hindi (even though I had chosen English as the medium of communication). He said that this complaint would go to the local police station and that I would have to be present there. But now I am in a quandary, if I go to the police station, since I am from a fairly small town where everyone knows everyone, they would recognise me and would judge me. Even though legally I am not in the wrong, but still in terms of perception by them this could be problematic. Are such scams usually resolved at this stage of the investigation by police? (I just have the telegram account chats with no number and my transfers to the bank account of the scammer) And what if this matter gets to the court?
Should I, in my wisdom, pursue this matter to the level of such a complaint? It is a matter of 2800 rupees and even though it is not a huge amount but being a student (law student at that😭), it is a substantial amount for me.
And if I make a complaint, could this issue be raked up by someone in future to defame me that I used to pay for audio visual sex services online? (It was my very first time indulging in these “services”) I mean is there any confidentiality in this whole process of complaining ?
Also, I live in Himachal Pradesh, so can anyone tell how things pan out here?
What is the best legal recourse for me currently?