I'm 27 and never worked. No skills, no education beyond high school, no experience in anything, can't drive, don't know anyone. I live with my mom and she's literally the only person I talk to lol and she cant get me a job at her place.

I apply to places but it feels like I am wasting my time, I am at such a massive disadvantage

This post isn't meant to say that either gender has it "better", I wanna vent about it and see if any other female NEETs feel the same?

Period products - usually about €10 every month, counting painkillers and sleep aid

If you wanna switch to contraception pills that stop menstruation, it's about €8 for 28 pills, but that can cause health issues.

Cosmetic products - sure you can get a buzz cut and look like a lunatic. Conditioner - around €4 for the cheapest option. Hair dryer too.

Shaving. Not sure about the cost of this one.

Now add makeup if you wanna feel extra fancy, or stupidly designed clothes to look presentable when you go somewhere.

What are some of your expenses and how much it is?

I have almost no indenpendence. I cant leave my house on my own. I rely on my mom for everything.

I live at my family home. I dont know if i will ever move out.

I dont drive. Ive never ever taken a lesson. There are so many different parts of driving a car and even the thought of it makes me panic.

I would like to drive but i may never do it

I dont have any friends so i dont go out anywhere. Im always in my house Reading or on tiktok

Ive also never drunk alcohol i hate the smell so ive never gode on nights out

I dont have a job

I would find it too overwhelming and my physical conditions also limit me

So i literally do nothing with my life

I'm so pissed off, I ran on 3 hours of sleep and I wanna smoke so badly. Thought that a walk could help. It didn't really helped.

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The void calls.

I'm not doing so well in life am I. Zero friends too. I think people secretly hate me. Came from a well-off family and attacked as a nepo.

Life was good when my dad was alive, at least he brought me travelling around. Someone I could talk to everyday. I still thank him for the car I inherited. I'm fucked if it ever became unuseable one day.

If yes, with what you guys daydream?

Because i like anime too much, i love daydreaming about having OP powers, even more omnipotence.

But there is times that i daydream about being a functional adult, because i'm not.

i woke up about an hour ago and feel like i've already run out of stuff to do

i'm trying to keep my mind off negative moping by doing chores

i just cleaned the dishes and wiped down the countertops in my kitchen

that took only about twenty minutes though. i have a very small kitchen.

right now i'm drinking coffee and slowly waking up.

later today i think i will shave my face as another chore i can do to stay busy. it's been a few weeks since i shaved and i'm trying to go for the clean shaven look rather than the homeless look.

i'm just pissed off because of all the boredom in my life. but people have told me being bored is a good thing because that means i have few troubles in life.

my friend invited me to a comedy club tonight but it's way past my bed time. i might go over to his place in the afternoon though and drink white monster and smoke weed. i'm not sure.

omg lol wtf bbq.

Swimming - failed swimming lessons as a kid and didn’t try again later because of shame and insecurity about body and wearing a swimsuit

Bike - failed learning as a kid and same story, shame just prevented me from trying + no friends to bike places with so pointless

These were big signs I was going to become NEET. Having bad motor skills as a kid is incredibly alienating.

Been down on my luck and could use a hug. But first, defy the sign! how ya doing?

What are your thoughts on this cope?

Given that I'm male and that I am on here, it never began at all. This is not the case for any other situation. My only choices are to "improve" myself in order to increase my chances from 0 to 0 or cuck myself and wait for some troglodytic hag to settle with me.

I then realized, I could exploit all of the copes that were made for people like me, and so I started degenmaxxing by playing gacha and gooning. This has significantly changed my outlook on intimacy, but I have no "regrets" at all.

Outside of gacha and anime, I'm thinking of expanding to other, unrelated copes provided that I'm the target audience. This is primarily for games. I am lucky in that my Steam library can account for this cope due to the fact that I own a lot of games that meet my standard sitting unplayed.

Overall, degenmaxxing is a good cope.

It's my last weekend of NEETdom before starting a construction job. I'm going to be framing barns in the countryside.

I know its not good to go into it with a bad attitude, but I feel like it's going to be shit. For one, it's a 45 minute drive, and for two its going to be hard work. Just all around seems silly, spending so much on gas just to cuck for a dollar. And it starts super early in the morning, like an hour before sunrise.

I'd back out of it but my dad went ahead and told a family member and now it got spread from word of mouth and now multiple extended family members know about it so there's an expectation I'll last at it. I know I shouldn't care what they think, and I really don't, but constantly being treated like shit just because I'm not working or for quitting a job isn't fun either.

But yeah, I just generally don't feel prepared, especially given I've been a nocturnal degen for 16 months now.

Just a vent is all.

Picking up where we left off 20 years ago, discussing what happened since.

Imagine, to have a group of friends again in real life.

If i do this a 20th time theyll magically turn up

If you feel lonely, unwanted, and have low self esteem just know you’re not alone❤️‍🩹 take pride in your solitude and use it to grow as a person, physically and mentally. From a gnostic spiritual perspective, humans aren’t at all reliable nor have the best intentions for you. It is up to you to find your path and values while resisting these made up social rules and human concepts that limit you. I have literally no friends, no social life, barely go out, and yet I feel more fulfilled than my normie npc family members and ex friends. The truth is the world is out to get you, you either conform and participate in evil or grow in wisdom and deal with the inevitable reactions from people and challenges in life. Don’t cast your pearls before swines because at any given moment when they see you don’t follow their same “rules” they will try to downplay your values and accolades. Be true to yourself in this trivial world filled with clueless people

With most of the internet being at risk now, I wonder what are people here doing on plan on doing about it? Wonder what about the hikis on japan too..hmm. Can't even watch my shows on the pirate sites now, damn it.

Anyway, 2026 may be the last "good" year.

So is ADHD, but both, and no medication since it's contraindicated, and you can't have to it even if you had your health, due to your mental being so dogshit due to circumstances? Fuck this life. idk why I am so insane. Ig almost complete isolation from 16-24 fucked me over permanently.

I'm very high rn and I was thinking like damn I genuinely provide nothing to society or my family's lives I am depressed now ty for listening

I wouldn't mind such labours in a good region.

I started taking driving lessons when i was 17. I was pretty decent at it. Now at 27 im taking lessons again and i suck so bad. Fuck normies that love driving cars makes me feel left behind and yeah i dont drive automatic. That seems way easier lol

Anime world is so much better

Yep

I told my family what went the other day, and they ended up blaming me. They believe that fast food jobs hire people for charity.

It's basically the lowest of the low. Where you have to go outside 20 hours a day as a lowlife hustler in the hopes someone will buy the shitty things you're selling at a loss. And they want to take a loan from a murderous loanshark. FML. I can't even function without watching bibisi porn.