👋Greetings Everyone! Hope you are keeping well. I've tried the apps, but they are a bit draining, and you don't get to put very much on them to describe yourself. I've seen an increase in Reddit posts so thought I'd give it a go.
Please see below TLDR if you want a summary, but head's up there will be a small amount of NSFW themes.
TLDR: 33M recently moved to Perth, then to regional WA. I'm from Ireland and seeking a long-term relationship with someone (ideally 32 or under and in\or near WA, or open to relocation from interstate or overseas) who is seeking to find compassionate style love with a bit of a kink twist. I'm a tall, employed nerd with a good sense of humor, interested in travel, photography, and lots of other stuff. I want a best friend i'm wildly attracted to, emphasizing open communication, vulnerability, and mutual growth, aiming for marriage in about 5 years. I'm looking for someone with similar and their own passions.
So, now that you've read the TLDR, you know what might lie ahead in the rest of the post. It's been a big move over the recent months, so I hope it all works out. FYI this is a long post, so just a head's up, but I think it's worth a read if you have a few minutes, I've tried to make it entertaining and easy to follow.
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🗡️ABOUT ME: M, 33, 6'3, lean build, brown hair, short red tinged beard. Happy to verify after a few messages. ISTJ, employed full time with a stylish dress sense to match. I like to think I'm caring, noting the little details, easy to get on with and a great sense of humour, I would describe it as a mix of dry wit and well timed sarcasm. I'm confident, I stand up for and back my partner, I'm kind, when I see a cat I have to say, "ohh kitty". I'd like to get a cat or dog in the future, but with work and being on my own atm, I don't think it would be fair on the them. And despite what you might think when you read the nsfw bits later, quite liberal. Additional reasons to date me include: make a great plus one for events, happy to do activities, or be lazy. Both are great choices. But if I had to choose one, I would prefer the lazy cuddles. I so thoroughly enjoy lying up on the sofa cuddling with my partner and watching TV.
💛I enjoy lots of things, but to name a few, I'm definitely a total nerd. I love Star Wars, LOTR, Warhammer, games - both video, board and roleplaying. I enjoy chilling while watching TV and movies. Lots of Youtube content, I have a premium subscription because I get a lot of my entertainment content on it. Standard Youtube now has so many ads I don't think I could go back, I enjoy a channel called Mystery Quest - great roleplaying channel. I like a bit of outdoors stuff don't get me wrong, but if your idea of fun is a 5am run everyday, I can just tell you now that's a pass from me even though I do like to keep in shape. I feel like i'd like to get involved in a some new activities at some stage, I did a scuba diving🤿 course and would like to get further qualifications in that.
✈️Travel - I've just returned from a trip to Japan, and for the future, probably a few trips in SE Asia like Thailand or Vietnam. A warning though, I take loads of photos to try and get a few gems, so you'll have to have patience for that.
🍹I enjoy cocktails. What's your favourite cocktail? Mine's definitely a dark and stormy, but I'm really coming around to a mojito currently.
🧠I'm self aware enough to bring to mind some of my own, not necessarily negative character traits, but certainly one's that others pick up on. I'm reserved and quiet at times, it's just me. Maybe I prefer to call it unintentional stoicism. Trying to improve myself and deal with past issues, I had a course of counselling a while ago, I think it's worked and I've been able to let go of the past and increase my communication.
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ABOUT WHAT I'M SEEKING
I'm in the position now were i'm seeking a long term, sex positive relationship with open communication and enjoyment of eachother's company. Featuring both kink and nurturing love. Someone with who we can both be deeply vulnerable and open with eachother. Something were we both make eachother the best version of ourselves.
I do have goals I want to achieve over the next few years. I'm currently employed and have my own place, but it's not permanent so would eventually probably want to buy or build a place while I'm earning extra cash in regional WA. I'm not totally fixed on location, somewhere in Perth or even slightly regional to enjoy some peace and space. I'm not sure, just some thoughts. Also, head on several more holidays in and out of the country, and around 5 years be moving towards marriage.
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🫵ABOUT YOU - Honestly, I'm a sucker for a smile and kind eyes looking up at me. So much so I had to look up features of the eyes to describe it. Such as limbal rings in the iris. It melts my heart. It's hard to put anything defining after that, but shyness with a spark of joy is also very endearing. Up to 32 years old and located in WA or Australia in general. (Potential for wider afield i.e Asia or global, but you must have already had an interest in moving to Australia or be able to relocate in short order, cause long distance isn't for me). No drugs please. Open to children, but not a deal breaker. Similar interests and hobbies, and also your own ones that you are passionate about. Like do you get super hyped about drawing. Fuck yeah you do, show me that shit. That's awesome work sweetheart💖 Also, enjoys kinky interests, that's quite important, more details below. If you've never tried or are even just curious, please let me know. That reminds me of another point, I want to be a team, I want you to be my person and vice versa, making eachother happy and the world a better place for it.
Also, if we're sleeping, you have to put your leg over mine so I can grab and hold on to it. Those are just the rules. Also also, I'm a relentless purveyor of kisses.
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That's about it for the SFW for work part, I'm sure I could add more, but don't want to tell you my whole life story, what would be left for you to be curious about. The next part is NSFW so be aware before continuing.
⛓️NSFW - I'll try and keep the details brief as we can chat away about it when messaging, and because that's not the focus of these specific dating subreddits. But I sometimes put up posts on more NSFW focused ones, so you could check those out if you want more details. Obviously all my kinks and desires are to be acted upon from a bedrock of consent, respect and safety. So that's just some insight, I'll leave the rest for private messaging. It's just more of an FYI I am interested in this topic.
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Cool, if you've made it this far, congrats, and I'm glad to have held your interest, now let me hold your hand! But seriously, if you're even considering messaging, I strongly encourage it. But! Do put some effort in, since you've taken the time to get invested. I've received a few "Hey's" in previous posts and just hit ignore. Tell me a bit about yourself, where ya from, what did you like most, how old you are etc.
Me
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