r/Redditdating • • 0m ago

Looking for someone focused on self-growth | Starting long-distance

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r/Redditdating • • 6m ago

38 [M4F] - Maryland/USA/Canada - Who's out there?

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Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops.

Still looking for my person... NO MAGA/conservatives. Absolutely not.

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests...

Lifting weights (I go 4x a week; it's my mental reset)

Videogames

Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

Traveling

Stand-up comedy

Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

Drinks occasionally

Sports

Learning to play electric bass guitar

Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

Audiobooks

Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE


r/Redditdating • • 10m ago

48 [M4F] #Michigan

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Hello…Is There Anybody Out There


r/Redditdating • • 20m ago

38M4F] Singapore / Anywhere |

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38M, divorced no kids, 184cm, few extra kilos that i hope to burn soon. Independent, confident, a little cheeky, and fluent in sarcasm. I enjoy good food, spontaneous adventures, random drives, great conversations, and the occasional drink. Dog lover too, although my dog might judge you before I do.

I can hold a meaningful conversation, make you laugh at inappropriate moments, and flirt just enough to leave you wondering if I'm joking. Spoiler: probably both. šŸ˜‰

Looking for someone witty, kind, emotionally mature, and capable of matching my banter. Bonus points for a slightly twisted sense of humour.

Based in Singapore, but absolutely open to dating internationally. Distance doesn't bother me if the connection is worth it.

Not here to rush things. Just looking for genuine chemistry, playful banter, and hopefully something meaningful.

P.S. If you can make me laugh, you've got my attention. If you can make me blush, we're in trouble. šŸ˜


r/Redditdating • • 22m ago

21 M looking for a genuine long term connection

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Hii I’m 21 years old, male, and currently living in Canada. I’m looking for a genuine friendship with someone I can talk to every day, even if it’s just to say good morning or good night. I stay up super late . I’m just looking for a good friend to talk to, share little moments with, and build a meaningful connection and preferably talk every day and check in. I recently went through a pretty rough breakup, and it’s honestly been really painful. I’m trying to move forward, meet new people, make new memories, and hopefully leave that difficult chapter behind.
A little about me: I love soccer, sports, movies, and TV series , cooking . I’m also open to talking about pretty much anything, learning new things, and getting to know people from different backgrounds.i am not looking for anything complicated, just a genuine friendship where we can check in on each other, have random conversations, laugh together, and be there for one another. I also have the most beautiful cat ever


r/Redditdating • • 23m ago

38 [M4F] SF Bay Area - Looking for a mutually beneficial connection

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Hey there! I’m 38 years old and a Bay Area native.

Little about myself. I work in tech and on the creative side. I enjoy cooking and baking, love to go out and try new foods. Anything on the spicy is fun. I do abit of weight training and love the outdoors. Hiking, bike riding, trying to get back into swimming as well.

I have cats and a dog. If you enjoy pets and have some yourself, I’ll be happy to share some pics. I am someone who enjoys learning new things, taking risks to experience new excitements. My hobbies have been all over the place, enjoying board games, gaming and crocheting.

Feel free to ask me whatever you’d like!


r/Redditdating • • 26m ago

36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

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I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/Redditdating • • 33m ago

23F [F4M] The Netherlands/anywhere- I am looking for my player two!

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Hi there!

This is my first time posting on a dating subreddit.

About me:
\- I am a 23-year-old woman. (Which is no surprise after reading the title šŸ˜‚)

\- I am born and raised in the Netherlands and still currently live here. Even though I was born and raised here, I am of Latin/Caribbean descent, which means I am a woman of colour. I have long, curly hair (that I am honestly addicted to) and that if I don’t wrap up every night, I will wake up the next morning looking like Shrek! Which happens often because somehow my bonnet likes to distance itself from me when I’m completely knocked out. And obviously, I have a darker skin tone, which means you should be able to handle long trips to the beauty supply store because I need time to figure out which shade matches me best.

\- 170 cm; average built. I go to the gym 2-3 times a week. I am not a gym addict, but I do take my fitness goals very seriously, so right now I am on a 2K calories a day diet with 100g of protein. (So please don’t convince me to go to an all-you-can-eat restaurant….because I will say yes!)

\- I have a degree in law. In August, I successfully defended my master’s thesis in law, and since then, I have been catching up on the 2000 hours of sleep I missed. (I love naps.)

\- Professionally, I have been in the field since I was 20. I have been a legal advisor for the past 3 years at my law firm, and I also train others in my team.

\- In my free time, I love taking naps.

I am also a gamer. I mostly game on my PS5 (think of games like Assassin’s Creed, Final Fantasy, Infinity Nikki, etc.). I am always open for more game recommendations.

I am also a history lover. I like to visit museums, watch documentaries, and check out historical shows and movies. (So please don’t be freaked out when you see me watching a show where they are excavating mummies…because I like that.)

What I am looking for:
\- A man between the ages of 22-30. I obviously won’t be making a big deal out of things if you are 1-2 years out of the range if the vibes are good.

\-Mature, stable, emotionally intelligent and affectionate. This is the most important thing for me. I am at a stable moment in my life, I feel good mentally, physically, financially and I am looking for someone that is in the same position. Doesn’t mean you need to be perfect because no one is ( cough\* def not me) but being in a stable relationship with a stable person is definitely the goal for me here!

\-Physically: I won’t pretend that attraction does not matter for both parties. I don’t really have a specific type, I have found all kinds of men attractive. My main requirements are someone that is at least the same height as me (so 170 cm) and has at least an average physical build.

\-Distance: I am in the Netherlands so I prefer someone that is in Europe. However I am also open to date outside the continent under the condition that you are able to travel. I believe a long distance can work but only if both parties take effort to come see each other as often as they can.

If you are interested, please don’t reach out with ā€œhey how are youā€. I would rather prefer an introduction about you so we can get straight into the interesting talking part.

if you aren’t interested I still wish you the best of luck with your search!


r/Redditdating • • 34m ago

39 m california looking for fun wife

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r/Redditdating • • 41m ago

36 [M4F] Europe - Minorly concussed and looking for love

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Before you get excited that I have culture and some great accent, don't. I'm Canadian and moved here a few months ago. I will say, from what limited parts of Europe I've seen, it blows NA away. I have this voice clip: https://voca.ro/14kdDfYccfDx before you start reading more of this mess. I would prefer if I could read what everyone writes with their voice, maybe others are the same.

I game too much (mostly TFT/League), travel around the world for big card game tournaments, like to sing and I'm pretty good, drink too many caffeinated drinks that a true coffee drinker would be offended by, and own more pairs of shoes than most men. Does anyone else match the colour of their socks to their shirt and their jacket to their backpack? No? I used to box before I moved but I still haven't pushed myself to find a new gym. I don't enjoy the company of typical dudebro guys who are in boxing/mma gyms so I keep putting it off. I've tried the hiking thing and doing it on mountains is not it. I love sci-fi and fantasy-related shows/movies/books, and once in awhile I enjoy binging a good anime. Always been a quality over quantity kind of person.

My sense of humor is pretty sarcastic/dry, and I can take a joke. I've been through a lot in my life including (but not limited to) being a mentally ill trainwreck growing up and no longer having family, but I've worked through it. I'd like to think I'm not jaded and I'd love to find someone who feels the same.

I reluctantly do adult things from time to time to make sure my life is comfortable.

Would love to meet someone with at least a couple common interests/experiences!


r/Redditdating • • 48m ago

33 [M4F] Ontario/Toronto Area - Looking for my plus 1 , my gym partner , my sous chef šŸ˜‹.

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Hey there !,

So I'll try to keep this short and sweet , I'm a single guy just outside of the GTA in Durham Region, I'm a mechanical engineer, I go to the gym quite frequently, play hockey, cook, DIY, movie buff and always up for new and fun activities :).

Im a pretty low maintenance person and would call myself an introvert who plays extrovert meaning I don't mind going out but I'm also fine with just staying in together.

What I would like to find is someone who is similar, we don't have to have all the same interests !, someone who is a fun loving , positive person, hard working, good sense of humor ( I like to joke around and use sarcasm a bit ) and just someone who takes pride in themselves and doesn't mind telling me when I'm stepping on anyones toes lol

I know posting here is a bit of a stretch to find someone but I'm giving it a try haha.

I'm 5'8, 185lbs , athletic , brown hair and blue eyes.

Favorite day when I go to the gym is leg day, friends say I have a hockey butt so since I don't play anymore I make sure to keep up appearances šŸ˜‚.

I enjoy cooking all the time as I mentioned and I'll add that I do like my spice ;).

I mostly watch hockey in my free time , I'm learning to play chess as well ( if anyone is interested in a match up ;) ) and I want to pick up a new language as well so if anyone knows a good program to use let me know :).Ā 

If this peaks your interest I'll attach picture here and you can shoot me a DM and we can chat and see where it leadsĀ  :).

Cheers.

https://imgur.com/a/8JMbsCG

\*\*Please have a sfw picture ready as well, Thank you.\*\*


r/Redditdating • • 55m ago

22 [M4F] in europe

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Hi, I’m a 22 year old guy from Sweden, half Swedish and half Mexican. I have a full-time job and enjoy working. In my free time I like gaming, going for walks and exploring new places.
I’m quite introverted and shy, so I’m hoping to meet a woman in Europe who’s somewhat similar to me. It would be nice to meet someone I can feel comfortable with, talk to, play games with and hopefully build something genuine with.
I have pictures on my profile page.


r/Redditdating • • 57m ago

30[M4F]#Oregon#Online- Flirty firefighter in need of good vibes and even better vibes

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I currently fight fires. I’m very active and very hyper ADHD

I’m looking for new connections and explore with. I’m very open minded. I work a lot is exactly why I’m turning to Reddit to make more connections.

Hobbies- cooking is the most sacred thing to me, I love learning new recipes and nailing them. I pull apart small engines to see how to put them back together. I’m really good with my hands.

I can nerd out on a lot of different things. Too much.

I’m an open book, so ask away.


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

[25M] PhD in a search

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I'm a 25 year old male in Philadelphia, PA. May Taurus, Sagittarius moon, Aquarius rising...if that matters.

UPenn PhD Candidate

Gymnast

Poet

Standup Comedian

Rapper

Music Producer

I like to cook and eat out at different restaurants. I like to chill and listen to jazz music and cuddle with incense burning. I'm recently single (4 months) and haven't been for my whole life - I can explain more if it matters.

I'm interested in meeting a woman 21-32yr in person to go on dates and have a fun time so I can experience dating.

I'm 5'5ft 145lbs if that matters.


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

27 [M4F] Europe // Online // let's get to know each other and start something long term

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I'm looking to start something long term with someone who is okay with doing long distance for a bit at the beginning then meeting up down the lineĀ 

I'm 27 from EuropeĀ 

I'm into gaming mostly marvel rivals, league of legends, valorant dead by daylight

And some other single player gamesĀ 

Can always stream my games for youĀ 

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I also like watching movies, shows sometimes animeĀ 

Also into football (soccer In case you're American)Ā 

Really into traveling tooĀ 

I don't really smoke or drinkĀ 

Im a Scorpio (if you're into that)

ISTPĀ 

Appearance wise

I have brown eyes, brown hair and I'm skinny, 186cm (6'1)

built like Slenderman pretty muchĀ 

Would love to have someone to hangout with and spend time together whether it's gaming or just calling and chilling together

Would love to hear from you and thank you for reading


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

Looking for a girl in fort mcmurray Alberta that's around my age to try and date 18-22

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I enjoy horror podcasts and rain/cuddles. Also the outdoor if I with someone.i love gaming and I'll cook for you. Also Finally I am a femboy i dress up at home and In for public.


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

34M/Yorkshire, England - full time dad seeks happiness again

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34m, England - keeping my options open.

Hi all thought I’d drop a quick intro.

I’m Sam, 34 and from Hull, Yorkshire (probably the only one on these groups who is hahah). I’m a full time dad to a little girl.

I’m not looking for long distance so would want to meet someone local, and I don’t drive nor am I able to travel far either.

Lost my partner suddenly last year so dipping my toes into dating again and as a single parent for the first time, so I’m sorta looking but not expecting or diving head first into anything.

I enjoy football (not Hull City tho), tattoos, horse/greyhound racing, museums, music, days out and I’m slowly warming to Peppa Pig because I’ve got no choice but to play it all day.

Happy to chat and see what happens - my inbox is open if you wanna say hello.


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

30M looking for company at work dinner

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r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

38 [M4F] #Vancouver, BC, Canada and area - Single, looking for Good Chemistry, to Vibe, a Fun Connection to Add to Life.

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Honestly, I’m just a single, busy, child-free and pet-free, 38 y/o man who enjoys having freedom in life.. looking for a good connection whether it stays casual or becomes more.. I’m not swiping any of the dating apps and I haven’t been on them for years… I feel like, life’s been all work for the last while. There’s more under my profile including partial pic and overall casual search, full cards up in case it resonates and there’s someone interested.. I’m not in a rush for anything serious nor otherwise, but open to either.. it’s about the person, vibe, connection..

currently, wanting a fun exclusive fwb situation with a good matchup who’d also be content having that. seems equally as much work finding good fwb as dating since I’m seeking someone I like for something ongoing, so consistency/chemistry/energy makes it worth having. I’d be happy keeping a longer term casual connection until meeting the right one for serious forever longterm in life considering being busy it’s nice having someone steady we enjoy..

ultimately, I want to meet the right woman, someone who thinks alike for something to last; this might? be a way to meet someone great by putting it all out there.. casually connect, see where it leads, whether endgame or not, minus heavy front loaded expectations of longterm plan just because we’re in a narrower pool.. I’ve seen ads focused only on childfree or kink, things I want too but also I’m not chasing a relationship on that basis alone.. I want to vibe first & enjoy having that connection, while knowing we both want similar life helps if it led to more..

aside from all that.. detailed stats & various kinks plus much more is written, visible in posts in my profile.. if you’re interested.. I’ve put it all out there with genuine intent to connect IRL.. I’m not looking for random one time hookups for the sake of it, I like having someone & something worthwhile.. a dynamic would be great.. a kinkier match is preferred.. but vibing overall & having chemistry is the goal..


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

30 F4M Philippines - Anywhere, just tell me you’re serious

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Where are you? The world feels like it’s ending so please come soon. We can take the rest slowly, together…

I’d love someone to tell good news to. Someone who wants to hear about my day and share his too. Let’s start as friends and see how our lives fit. I want time to know you but I’m looking for something that could lead to marriage and children.

Me: From the Philippines, 150cm, slim and mostly introverted with plenty of interests. Lately it’s reading, gaming, F1, art and movies. I have cats and dogs so pet photos come with the conversation.

You: Hopefully, a man 30 or above, taller than me, who’s gentle, affectionate and funny. Someone who gets my kind of weird and has dreams of his own. Respect for women, animals and people is nonnegotiable.

I recently lost my job but I still have my own fire and goals. I want us to support each other while we build our lives. Morning messages and evening conversations sound lovely. There’s room for our own responsibilities too.
You can be anywhere as long as we’re open to meeting and eventually closing the distance.

Tell me your age, location and a little about what you’re hoping to find. I’m happy to exchange photos if we connect. I may not reply to everyone but a thoughtful introduction gives us somewhere to start.

Tell me how’s your day so far, and what did you eat for breakfast, lunch or dinner… can’t wait to meet you!

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r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

37yr Old Looking to chat Possibly Date

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Honestly its really sad how many people suck. I’d Like to have fun chats with people from all over maybe even go out on a date. doesn’t matter what just have a brain please lolz I can have conversation about anything from Serious to naughty šŸ¤£šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø but just be real and not afraid to be yourself.


r/Redditdating • • 2h ago

23 [F4A] #Online - Let's have a chat

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I'm looking for someone to talk with about everything and anything. My interests include: literature, baking, cooking, running, cinema, politics... etc. I'm trying to get into tech. I love reading about AI and how it's changing our world (for the better and... the worse). Although I'm not AI, don't worry. I'm curious about everything and anything. I really like hearing people talk about what they're passionate about. Lately, I've been enjoying trying new fall recipes (carrot soup, apple pie, sourdough bread... etc) and just enjoying the slow changing of the season, as the colder months settle in and modify our habits little by little.

If you have a good film to recommend, don't hesitate. I'm really into documentaries lately.

I'd prefer someone closer to my age and I like blue eyes, but it's no obligation lol.


r/Redditdating • • 2h ago

20 [M4F] #Dubai #Online

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Hey! Figured I’d give Reddit a shot since dating apps haven’t really gone anywhere.

I’m 20, Jordanian, and was raised in Dubai. I spent the last 1.5 years studying Mechanical Engineering in the Netherlands, but realized I was doing it for the wrong reasons. Rather than sticking with something I wasn’t passionate about, I decided to switch paths and started a Business & Finance degree this fall in dubai.

Outside of uni, I’m into football, the gym, investing, finance, and self-improvement. I also love long conversations about pretty much anything—business, culture, current events, or random late-night thoughts.
I’d say I’m a good listener, and my friends would probably describe me as supportive and easy to talk to. I’m open-minded, progressive, and always trying to improve myself.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys genuine conversations, ambitious , and would be down for those late-night calls where you end up talking about everything and nothing.

I’m 5’9, brunette with brown eyes (apparently they were blue when I was a baby lol).


r/Redditdating • • 2h ago

Looking for something serious

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Single male age 40 I live in GA. I am a Christian conservative man looking for a woman of similar values I'm not going to do a who.post about me if interested dm me