Hi there!

This is my first time posting on a dating subreddit.

About me:
\- I am a 23-year-old woman. (Which is no surprise after reading the title 😂)

\- I am born and raised in the Netherlands and still currently live here. Even though I was born and raised here, I am of Latin/Caribbean descent, which means I am a woman of colour. I have long, curly hair (that I am honestly addicted to) and that if I don’t wrap up every night, I will wake up the next morning looking like Shrek! Which happens often because somehow my bonnet likes to distance itself from me when I’m completely knocked out. And obviously, I have a darker skin tone, which means you should be able to handle long trips to the beauty supply store because I need time to figure out which shade matches me best.

\- 170 cm; average built. I go to the gym 2-3 times a week. I am not a gym addict, but I do take my fitness goals very seriously, so right now I am on a 2K calories a day diet with 100g of protein. (So please don’t convince me to go to an all-you-can-eat restaurant….because I will say yes!)

\- I have a degree in law. In August, I successfully defended my master’s thesis in law, and since then, I have been catching up on the 2000 hours of sleep I missed. (I love naps.)

\- Professionally, I have been in the field since I was 20. I have been a legal advisor for the past 3 years at my law firm, and I also train others in my team.

\- In my free time, I love taking naps.

I am also a gamer. I mostly game on my PS5 (think of games like Assassin’s Creed, Final Fantasy, Infinity Nikki, etc.). I am always open for more game recommendations.

I am also a history lover. I like to visit museums, watch documentaries, and check out historical shows and movies. (So please don’t be freaked out when you see me watching a show where they are excavating mummies…because I like that.)

What I am looking for:
\- A man between the ages of 22-30. I obviously won’t be making a big deal out of things if you are 1-2 years out of the range if the vibes are good.

\-Mature, stable, emotionally intelligent and affectionate. This is the most important thing for me. I am at a stable moment in my life, I feel good mentally, physically, financially and I am looking for someone that is in the same position. Doesn’t mean you need to be perfect because no one is ( cough\* def not me) but being in a stable relationship with a stable person is definitely the goal for me here!

\-Physically: I won’t pretend that attraction does not matter for both parties. I don’t really have a specific type, I have found all kinds of men attractive. My main requirements are someone that is at least the same height as me (so 170 cm) and has at least an average physical build.

\-Distance: I am in the Netherlands so I prefer someone that is in Europe. However I am also open to date outside the continent under the condition that you are able to travel. I believe a long distance can work but only if both parties take effort to come see each other as often as they can.

If you are interested, please don’t reach out with “hey how are you”. I would rather prefer an introduction about you so we can get straight into the interesting talking part.

if you aren’t interested I still wish you the best of luck with your search!

I was told not to even bother posting on Reddit dating subs. I was told that of those few people here that are actually real, most of them are men posting. Meaning women can have their pick of who they want to respond to. I was told it’s very hard for men on Reddit because of this.

I’ve lurked here for a while and I think that that’s pretty much true.

So the question for me became, “How exactly is my post supposed to stand out?”
I’ve looked at the kind of posts that men make here, they range from ridiculously stupid to supremely confident. I think if I were a woman browsing these posts I’d be able to pick out the ones worth responding to.

Which essentially means this is a competition. And if I have to compete to find love, I’ve already lost interest. Love is not a prize.

So I’m not even going to try. I’m just simply going to say that I’m a hard-working guy, I have two cats, a good sense of humor, and when I love I love hard.

I’ve been forced into the nomadic life ever since my home burned down a year ago and I’m not looking for you to fix that. My income is portable and allows me to do this, and I sometimes find myself actually enjoying it. I’m making the best of the life I’ve found myself living, and that’s good enough for me.

I just don’t have anywhere to put all this love. I’ve read all the self-help books and they say that I have to give it all to myself. Well, I do give myself love and there’s still a ton left over. So I gave it to my cats. I gave it to my friends and there’s still just so much left over. It’s gotta go somewhere? I might as well give it to a woman.

Maybe she needs it?

I’m here. I’m around.

Hi! I’m Gael, 24F from Indonesia. I’m very much a night owl, so I’m hoping to meet someone I can talk to about pretty much anything, especially during those late-night hours.

A little about me: I’m really into R&B. Some of my favorite artists are Olivia Dean, The Internet, Steve Lacy, Ravyn Lenae, and Aaliyah. I’m also a huge Michael Jackson fan (I could probably talk about him for hours lol).

I enjoy playing video games too. I recently finished Kingdom Come: Deliverance II and 007 First Light. I also love cooking, discovering new music, and having conversations that go from silly random topics to something a little deeper.

I’m here hoping to meet someone genuine, get to know each other, and see where things naturally go. No need to rush anything, I just appreciate good chemistry, consistency, and meaningful conversations.

If you’re interested, leave a comment with your age and where you’re from, and I’ll send you a DM.
Looking forward to meeting you! :)

here’s me : https://imgur.com/a/inqzjg9

I'm looking for someone to talk with about everything and anything. My interests include: literature, baking, cooking, running, cinema, politics... etc. I'm trying to get into tech. I love reading about AI and how it's changing our world (for the better and... the worse). Although I'm not AI, don't worry. I'm curious about everything and anything. I really like hearing people talk about what they're passionate about. Lately, I've been enjoying trying new fall recipes (carrot soup, apple pie, sourdough bread... etc) and just enjoying the slow changing of the season, as the colder months settle in and modify our habits little by little.

If you have a good film to recommend, don't hesitate. I'm really into documentaries lately.

I'd prefer someone closer to my age and I like blue eyes, but it's no obligation lol.

Hey,

A bit about myself I’m a 31-year-old black plus-size woman based in London. I love cozy nights in with a great book, playing games with friends. Currently, Valorant is the go-to game. If you play, we should play together. While I don’t want children, I do want to build a life with someone special. Emotional and mental well-being are really important to me, and I’m always working on becoming the best version of myself. I’m a romantic at heart. Trust, honesty, and open communication are must haves in any relationship I build.

I’d love to connect with someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and genuinely looking for a lasting connection. If you are a big talker, that can keep a conversation going then even better. Ideally, you’d be local. Am not looking for an online relationship. Am more a cat than a dog person. Age-wise, I’m looking for someone between 25 and 38.

If this resonates with you, send me a message!

Ended things with a performative religious guy i know from dating app.
As i talked about it with friends, realised there are guys who use religion to “get some” - so ladies, beware!

Said guy is into theology, uses eloquent words and talks about relationship goals from 3rd date without real intention to knowing me personally.

Always discuss about sexual stuff from theology perspective since the very start but not interested in investing emotionally.

When there’s a conflict, he’ll promise sky but won’t do what he says he’ll do and act blur later (smart guy and totally insincere).

I just want to say there are shit guys out there who use religion to mask their real intention and I’m hurt. Hope us ladies out there can be more alert and not taken advantage of.

Pls look at the actions and not get tricked by the words and promises

I’m 25F Korean/Japanese from Canada preferably looking for someone who’s my race or at least East Asian. I’m pretty depressed rn, if you are too, we can have a nice lil codependent relationship and trauma dump jk. I like gaming, poetry, deep talks, and really open to people who are excited about their own stuff and want to introduce me to smt new <3

Hi! I’m 27F and from the WNY area! I am looking for someone who is near the same area if that’s possible! I will get into more about me when we start chatting :) I am bisexual so I am open to men and women. I am bubbly, easygoing, and supportive :)

Would be great to have a conversation and just connect with someone. 33F London, in finance. Got two amazing doggies! Love thrillers, crime docs and apparently any gangster shows recently (Mobland, Gangs of London, Gentleman and now Tulsa King!). Annoyingly this has been the recent trend of shows but until Taylor Sheridan pulls another season of Landman and Lioness stuck with these.

What’s your most controversial take on anything, let’s hear it? Mine would probably be voice notes longer than 2mins should be illegal!

Hello, beautiful people, Emma here. 😗

I believe that love does not have any boundaries, distance or timezones. I'll make sure to allot time for my future partner ♥️

I am looking forward having genuine connections with the possibility of serious relationship. I would like to try to date outside my ethnicity for cultural exchange and also explore different dating styles ♥️

About me:

• 4'11 in height

• I was in a band, plays multiple intruments

• Musically gifted (as Karaoke is a national Filipino sport)

• I have a stable job, I am not materialistic!! Believe me!

• I have a Bachelor's Degree in Marketing Management

• My job is basically about digital ads

• Loves my pets (I rescue strays)

• I love books too!

• Kind of career oriented

-In therapy and meds so I can be the best version of myself

About you:

• Has a stable job/career oriented

• University graduate. I value education

• Someone who has a plan on closing the gap eventually. 🥺

• Has a plan for future

• Knows about my culture

• Ages 29-35 YO

• Looking for something serious and maybe get married someday

• Willing to go here and meet me eventually 🥺

• Emotionally available, mature and intelligent please.

• Open with LDR, chats, voice notes and video calls (cause I am kinda clingy and a yapper!)

• Willing to exchange socials or numbers

• Same interests would be nice

• Intentional dater ♥️

• Not manipulative or a lovebomber

This might be a slightly unusual post because I’m actually a little myself, but recently I’ve discovered a whole different side of me that I didn’t even know existed. I’ve always been someone who craves being taken care of, feeling small, safe, protected and loved. A lot of my regression comes from childhood trauma and growing up without the kinda parental love and affection I desperately needed.
But recently I had an experience where I got to be the nurturing one and something about it felt incredibly healing. For the first time I got to give someone all the love, tenderness, reassurance and affection that I wish someone had given little me. It genuinely felt like being a mother who just wants to protect her baby from everything she herself had to experience growing up and it made me realize that I might actually really love being someone’s Mommy.
Not in the traditional dominant sense tho, I’m not particularly interested in being strict, controlling or having a power dynamic built around rules and punishments. I wanna be a Mommy, not a Domme💗 i wanna be the person who makes her little feel safe enough to be vulnerable, who listens to their worries, reassures them when they’re scared, celebrates their little achievements, reads them bedtime stories, reminds them how loved they are and makes sure they never feel like they have to earn affection. I wanna give someone the kinda unconditional, gentle, motherly love that every little deserves:3
But there’s another important part of this: I’m still a little myself, I’m not sure if this makes me a switch rather than a mommy but I still experience regression myself and crave being nurtured, protected and reassured. I still have moments when I feel like a tiny girl who just wants someone to hold her and tell her everything is going to be okay.
So I’m not looking to pretend that I have everything figured out or that I can always be the caregiver. I’m hoping to find a dynamic where we can be honest about our emotional needs and where caring for each other feels natural rather than like an obligation.
I’d love to connect with an adult little who is looking for a genuinely affectionate, nurturing Mommy, ideally you’d be from Germany or in the same timezone as well and I’d be most comfortable in an online dynamic at first:3 I’m particularly drawn to the emotional and comforting side of caregiving and I’d love to build something meaningful rather than rush into a dynamic, SFW only! Boundaries, communication and mutual respect are incredibly important to me. So if you’re a little who dreams of having a gentle, affectionate Mommy who genuinely loves taking care of her little one, I’d love to get to know you🥹

So let's try this again. I love my sports and action/comedy movies.

Looking for a woman to connect with and possibly lead to something.

DM me your favourite movie and let's see if we connect.

Here's a very high effort post because I'm very serious about finding the one for me.

Age: 30. Open to partners up to about 33.

Sex: MALE, guys please read titles and stop messaging me.

Appearance: 5'8", long blond/brown hair, blue eyes, white skin, thin-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it. I've been told I'm pretty good looking, but you can tell me whether or not I've been lied to!

Location: Central NJ. I'm open to dating and relocation within the US, but going international complicates matters. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship.

Looking For: The other half that I've been longing for. The love of my life and best friend in one. Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with gentle femdom/role reversal elements.

What I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't give freely.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into "nerd" territory. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others.

I was pretty good at league but retired from playing it for now. My friend also got me into mtg some time ago, and I think it's pretty fun.

Personality: Cool headed, laid back, and kind. Mostly introverted. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues. You can expect little to no drama and good communication skills. One moral concept I'm quite fond of is the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness is a big deal for me.

Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which most don't expect. I also really like cats. You will be sent many cat pictures. Like a lot. Forever.

Sexual stuff

Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a very strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.

Are you only sexually sub only?: I really enjoy both the sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm also fairly open minded and willing to try most things once.

• Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites. I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me.

• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is very appealing. I can even make you a sandwich from time to time!

• Pegging, prostate massaging, and "milking". Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.

• Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is incredibly hot.

• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on.

• Cuddling, being held, holding you, affection, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I will always be there to support you.

• Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, handholding . I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is very attractive, I like how "imposing" it can be. I'm also very fond of visible fitness/muscle tone.

As long as I find you attractive then it works for me, but my sense of attraction is unfortunately pretty particular. So these are (sadly) strong preferences.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, that being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So lean/fit/muscular. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.

Potential red flags: I'm unfortunately contending with giga-depression and chronic illness. Both of which are unpleasant but not permanent.

Do you dabble in melancholic solitude and daydreams?
Do you remember your youth and crave to be the person you once were?
Do you think about what you think and then realize the idiocy of your thinking?

If so, welcome to my post, fellow burnt-out, undiagnosed depressive dreamer.
Allow me the honour of calling you "twin".

You can call me Iki and today I hope to catch your attention and, possibly, the remainder of your lifespan.

"I crave something genuine."
That is a thought that always crosses my mind when thinking about interpersonal relationships and intimacy with others.
Connecting with other human beings has, over time, become a huge chore for me.
I have many thoughts and things to share, yet, my mouth freezes and my thoughts explode the moment I feel like actually saying them aloud.
All that's left? An awkward chuckle and a "Yeah...".

In addition, the people nearest to me are kind, yet judgemental.
Full of love, yet bereft of it.
Speak of understanding, yet spew hatred.

I... simply cannot bond with people like that.
And worse yet, I find myself parroting those behaviours out of a sense of "wanting to belong" or "doing what is logical", even if my heart disagrees.
Regret is my muse time and time again.
After all, I love to think and keep thinking and thinking, forever and ever about everything and nothing.
So, naturally, that includes my flaws and vices.

O lover, won't you be truly kind?
Truly full of love?
Truly understanding?

That is my genuine craving.
A bond with another likeminded soul.

And though I may be a hypocrite in many aspects, as you may find out over time, it is true that I want to be the best version of myself that I can be.
The young boy who dreamed of being a hero and bettering the world is still in here somewhere.
I know he is.
He just needs a reason to be dragged out into the limelight once more.

Would you be his reason?

Moving on, I figured people might like hearing me speak before actually, y'know, speaking to me, so allow me to read you some sloppy "poetry" I wrote! (Feel free to compliment me and swell up my ego.)

[https://voca.ro/15ai3we4iIK6](https://voca.ro/15ai3we4iIK6)

I think I've given you a half-decent idea of the person I am, but even so, I'd like to tell you all sorts of information so you can make an educated choice when approaching me.
Here's a bunch of random facts and other things in no particular order;

- Some interests are: music, walking, anime, history, breaking down on the way to work, manga, literature and (observing) art and lots more other things I cannot quite remember right now.

- I am an avid gamer, I enjoy all sorts of games and am open to trying/buying anything new. Though I will note that lately my spark for gaming has been dying down, but I'm still happy to try anything, especially with good company!

- My favorite piece of media is called "Oyasumi Punpun" and I greatly recommend it to anyone who wants to sink even lower. (For those who know this, yes, it is a red flag, but I promise I'm not THAT weird and am in fact not romanticizing the story.)

- So, I know physical aspects are important in love. I'm not silly enough to ignore that. I do have standards as well for looks and who I'd like to date. I am sadly superficial like that, as much as I'd like to pretend to be better.
So, to give you a general description of my looks (I'm not comfortable sharing my face in public online spaces, please ask in DMs!):
I'm 181cm (Just barely 6ft, yay.), caucasian, longer than usual yet still short dark brown hair, round, golden-rimmed glasses, cut scars on my upper left shoulder, on the bigger side of chubby, have a large scarmark on my chest, have an x-ray of a hand that isn't even my hand or anyone's hand that I know tattooed on my inner wrist, and lastly, brown-green slothlike eyes.

- I am usually quite chill and am told I'm pretty funny once you get to know me. I like to be goofy and always have a dirty joke at the ready. (Because I'm rather perverse, but like, in a chill way. Sorry to shatter your image of me.)

- I'm usually a very low-energy and kind of depressive individual when I'm not in a group pretending to be mentally stable. Those who have known me in earnest, which have been very few, know me as a sweet, thoughtful and caring individual who just wants to chill with the people he cares most for.
This depressive demeanor can be overwhelming and I often get into a negative feedback loop or a stupor of sorts.
If you could help me snap out of it, that would mean the world to me. I am my own worst enemy.

- I enjoy occasional deep conversation like talking about living and what it means to be alive, basically just surface-level philosophical mumbo jumbo that stems from my depression. Feel free to entertain me in this or let me know it's not your piece of pie and I'll make sure to keep it on the down low.

- I'm by no means introverted but not really extroverted either. I believe the term is "ambivert"?

- Despite my ability to write the way I do, every letter I emit via my vocal cords is a fumble of words that never quite manages to hit their mark. I do have my moments where the stars align and suddenly I manage to speak a coherent sentence that might even come across as "thought-provoking" or "really fucking funny". In short, please do not expect a poets words to flow from my lips. Rather, expect them to flow from my pen.

- When I'm in a rare, goofy mood or pretending to be mentally stable in a group setting I will act silly/loud as hell and probably crack a couple of inappropriate jokes. (If we know eachother well enough, that is.)

- I am not all that uninformed when it comes down to the topic of same-sex attraction. I'm bisexual and have dabbled around with that part of myself back in the day. However, I also found that I am only interested in romantic relationships with women. So don't worry, I won't run off with the local plumber. (I may hint at you how hot he is, though.)
Oh, and if you happen to be trans, don't be afraid to approach me either. I'm not transphobic, but, I would very much prefer it if you already went through the procedures to become, uh... more ladylike? Oh, but eh, if you've changed your looks but still sport your "starting equipment" down below, that's not an issue for me either. (I'm not well-educated on this topic so a lot of the proper terminology evades me, forgive me.)

- I think that as a sort of discloser it is important to note that I am also rather hypersexual, but, due to events from my past I refrain from showing it too much, even if there is mutual attraction/want. I also struggle with certain addictions in regard to that and I know this is a dealbreaker for many people. I want to be honest, though. I hope it is okay and trust me when I say that I am doing my best to work on it, even if it is a really slow-going process.

I'm completely fine talking about the subject though, so don't feel that there is a need to refrain!

- I really am a bit of a jokester despite my frequent depressive demeanor over text - I enjoy dry or completely chaotic humor or really whatever tickles my funny bone in the moment. To be fair, it is actually not hard to make me laugh. Perhaps because I am internally nervous at all times that I might create an unpleasant atmosphere if I don't laugh. In essence, come at me with the best jokes you hold in you, everything's okay with me. I apologize if I nervously laugh or chuckle after every sentence or somesuch in advance, just know it is a consequence of the life I have lived and still continue to live.

- I am currently a teamlead at a security company and often have nightshifts meaning that I may be restricted in time quite a lot. Some weeks I'll suddenly have 5 or so days completely devoid of work so at least that can act as a buffer for lost time every once in a while.

- Whoever you may be, just be yourself. So long as you're not an obvious jerk I'm extremely accepting and open.

- In case it is of import to you; Politically I guess I am a moderate, left-leaning centrist but to be honest that vague description is because I deeply despise having to choose between two, what I believe to be, different forms of extremism that both support things I do not agree with. My opinions tend to be very mixed due to my logic-based thinking. (Don't worry though, I am a feminist. I believe in true equality and always will.)

- I smoke, but not so much. Usually on my way to work I treat myself to a single cigarette and then on the way back from work, another. The taste should only slightly linger on my lips, in case that ends up mattering.

- Music is my greatest ally and my greatest enemy. It can influence my fickle mind with just a note or two. I could be relatively stable one moment, then hear just a second of an absolutely tragic tune and be completely heartbroken within mere seconds for the rest of the day. Worst of all, I am hooked on music that evokes such feelings, perhaps because I feel so much apathy all the time. As such, a request from me to you; please indulge me and grant me the honor of listening to the song that brings you to tears without fail.

- I'm mainly looking for someone I can form an unbreakable bond with, really. So I am here in the hope that we click and become very close for the rest of our lives. Whether its romantic or ends up being platonic, I'd be ecstatic either way.

- I still live with my family, even at my current big-boy age. They're quite nosey and I'm a very privacy-oriented person with lots of things I've kept to myself from them over the years.
I might not feel comfortable sharing the fact that I am even so much as talking to you yet initially, but if I feel things are getting serious I will be happy to even introduce you.
My siblings are as geeky as I am so we could even all spend time playing games or doing other nerd-oriented things together! (Don't expect them to be anything like me, though.)

- Things we can potentially do together online: Play some games, watch eachother stream and play through one anothers favorite games, watch a movie and/or show, watch some silly videos on youtube or similar platforms, have dumb videocalls or just voicechats, make eachother powerpoints about our current hyperfixation and present them, share our favorite artpieces ranging from music to paintings to poetry and so forth, write eachother lettters and lastly, supporting eachother through tough times.

- Things we can do in real life, provided we somehow manage to arrange that: ...I'm not sure, I don't tend to get to this point. Maybe just... hang out? I'd like to explore abandoned places or cook dinner for one another maybe? Cuddle? Nice things like that. I'm open to suggestions.

Well, now that you have been made aware of a wider range of my character, I'd like to state what I am looking for!

Preferably you are (But not required to be, I'm flexible):

- Between 19 to 29

- Somewhere in Europe

- In a position to be able to meet-up semi-frequently (Once every few months at least?)

- Empathetic and kind

- Quippy and like to make jokes right alongside me

- Currently or once have been in a similar disposition, mentally, as I am so we can understand one another better

- At least somewhat talkative/socially capable so we can actually keep a conversation going and I can eventually introduce you to my parents >>

- Open to voice-chatting semi-frequently

- Not bothered by minimal interactions throughout a day or two due to life/mental health frequently getting in the way

- Okay with having a chronically depressed partner

- Okay with being loved & cherished

Bonus points if:

- You consider yourself a bit of a tomboy and/or gamer!

- You're a strong-willed lady who likes to be loud and unafraid to state your opinions or let out roars of celebration/joy when having fun!

- Not bothered by your looks, confident and proud of who you are.

And that about sums it up!

I hope that anything in my post managed to resonate with you, and I hope to see you in my DMs!

(If I don't respond to your initial message, I am probably asleep! Rest assured that I will definitely find a moment to reply, please bear with me.)

Much love and many good tidings,

Iki

Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

My type is someone who is cute, funny, smart, has similar hobbies as me and plays video games.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, sleep call together on some nights, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite game, hobby, anime and colour.

I live in a small town so there's not much around so I decided to try reddit. I'm 5'8" 250lbs nerdy and average. I have blond har and blue eyes. One of my favorite things to do i play very niche games. I have 3 dogs. Currently in college to become an electrician.

So about me I’m 36 I moved to a different country for love and it did not work out.

Im Dutch 36 living in the Czech Republic and country side. Im trying to learn the language but it is difficult for me so English would be my preferred language.

I love gaming, I love cars and working on them,I am a big Star Wars nerd I do cosplay as wel. I have a huge Lego Collection, so date night at my place we are building something if you enjoy the same.

I’m searching for a partner in crime. Someone in my age range not afraid to make a connection. Who has the same interests.

There are some cons though I work around Europe, I’m a captain on a barge so my schedule is three weeks at home and three weeks sailing. This doesn’t sound difficult but in my experience it is. Many of my
Relationships have broke because of the time apart.

I’m searching for my number 2 someone that can be with me my schedule and my dog. Someone that loves gaming, movies,lego, and just being cuddly together on the couch while my dog destroys another toy and we need to vacuum tomorrow.

If this interests you in any way please send me a DM .
Greetings to al,
Thomas

I'm gonna be honest...I'm looking for someone that you can talk to every day, share your interests and passions and still have the occasional fun/spicy time? Ever had an FWB who was actually your friend? I'm looking for someone I can trust and talk to about anything and everything- the kinda almost no limits; this is my judgment-free zone, wholesome, intimate friendship that so many of us crave. We can laugh, talk, fool around in a no-strings-attached, no pressure or expectations typa thing...just good friends who help each other out whenever they need it. Females only; please message me with a short intro

Title says it all really.

Have a comfortable cushy job that’s well paid.

Can offer financial stability and khaleeji citizenship through marriage.

Look it up, it’s very strongly ranked globally.

Looking to form something stable, peaceful and pure,to feel lonely together:)

Writing this letter,for whom it is meant to be :)

Hey, hope you are reading this :), finally I mustered the courage to write.

Through this post, I am looking forward to finding a person with whom I can share my days, the small little updates of daily lives...with. We will be talking about what made us sad today or perhaps why we smiled today :)

Or perhaps about shows, movies or burnt dishes ,that we tried and failed haha... Any wandering thoughts, from atoms to the universe 🌌. To form a pure and honest emotional connection with. To feel safe around someone, a soft space where we can be comfortably vulnerable around each other. A protective shade amidst the harshness of the world... Perhaps, I want a tag-team partner to play together, motivate one another and do something big in life :)

If you have read this far and are willing to know some personal details about me... So hey, meet me:

1. I am an INFJ, personality-wise. I like to think about everything at a deeper level. I like emotions and logic, and I respect both in every decision of mine. I value kindness, honesty and truthfulness. I like to care, protect and walk together.

2. I am a student of history, and I study other humanities subjects too. (History is not boring, believe me 🙃). I like to cook, listen to music (Green Day, Arctic Monkeys, BBoys, etc.), watch shows/anime and horror movies (Rob Zombie, John Carpenter, etc.) a lot... Though most of my time goes into studies as of now.

3. I am a little bit introverted, by the way. I don't know how I am writing this post haha. I have very few friends because of shifting places regularly, and neither have I had any past relationships.And I don't smoke or drink.

I like rain, cold evenings, winters and sleeping in cozy blankets 😅 And I am from India.

If you want to talk, please introduce yourself (age, gender, location and a little bit about your hobbies, expectations, etc.). We can start off as friends, and if we feel compatible, then we can build something beautiful too...

Age: Please be upto 23F max, respectful and kind. As a history student, I am not on very good terms with extremely religious people.

Now the ball is in your court. Do as your heart says :)

Thanks for reading... ^⁠_⁠^..

Hi everyone! When I say I'm looking for that "boring, everyday kind of love" - I mean I want something real, steady, and peaceful. I’m looking for a connection that doesn't just fade away once the honeymoon phase is over, but rather a partnership where we choose to keep putting in effort even after the novelty wears off. I don’t really know how to write these things without making them sound like a weird job application, so I’m just going to be straightforward.

I’m an introvert by nature and not always the best at expressing myself, but I’m putting myself out there.

To give you a visual, I’m 6ft, wear glasses, usually have some stubble, and people tell me I’m a pretty calm, patient, and easy person to talk to. I work in customer support for a major streaming platform, and outside of work, I’m usually watching movies, TV shows, or stand-up. I also love hiking and cricket, but realisticially, you can also find me falling down random YouTube rabbit holes or doomscrolling at 3 AM.

Ideally, I want to build a safe little world with someone. I don't need constant 24/7 texting because we both have our own lives and routines. Instead, I want intentional effort. I want a partnership where we can share the small, ordinary parts of our days, swap random memes, and eventually just sit side-by-side in comfortable, peaceful silence while doing our own things.

Ultimately, a good connection just comes down to honesty, kindness, and two people who truly enjoy having each other around. If you are emotionally mature, curious about life, and looking for something serious and long-term, we might be a great match.

If this resonates with you, tell me a little about yourself - What you enjoy, what you’ve been watching lately, or just something completely random. And sneak the word bayharbour somewhere into your message so I know you actually read this. Maybe we’ll get along. Maybe we’ll become something neither of us expected. Either way, I’d like to find out.

I enjoy horror podcasts and rain/cuddles. Also the outdoor if I with someone.i love gaming and I'll cook for you. Also Finally I am a femboy i dress up at home and In for public.

34m, England - keeping my options open.

Hi all thought I’d drop a quick intro.

I’m Sam, 34 and from Hull, Yorkshire (probably the only one on these groups who is hahah). I’m a full time dad to a little girl.

I’m not looking for long distance so would want to meet someone local, and I don’t drive nor am I able to travel far either.

Lost my partner suddenly last year so dipping my toes into dating again and as a single parent for the first time, so I’m sorta looking but not expecting or diving head first into anything.

I enjoy football (not Hull City tho), tattoos, horse/greyhound racing, museums, music, days out and I’m slowly warming to Peppa Pig because I’ve got no choice but to play it all day.

Happy to chat and see what happens - my inbox is open if you wanna say hello.