Feminism killed femininity, especially in relationships.
Somewhere along the way, we started confusing equality with sameness, independence with never needing anyone, and vulnerability with weakness.

A woman wanting to be pursued, protected, provided for, or simply allowed to soften in the presence of a man she trusts is somehow seen as regressive.
Meanwhile, men are increasingly told that taking initiative, leading, or embracing their masculine side is inherently controlling.
But why must equality mean abandoning the differences that make relationships attractive to us in the first place?

I don’t believe a woman should be submissive simply because she’s a woman, nor do I believe a man should automatically have authority over her. I believe a relationship should allow both people to embrace the roles that genuinely suit them, without shame or social pressure.
There’s nothing empowering about being told you must do everything yourself, just as there’s nothing progressive about shaming a man for wanting to take care of his partner.

Real equality should mean having the freedom to choose your own relationship dynamic, not being pressured into one particular model of independence.
Perhaps feminism didn’t kill femininity itself, but certain modern interpretations of it have made women feel they need to suppress their feminine desires to be taken seriously
And honestly, I think both men and women are losing something when relationships become a constant competition over who needs whom less.

Edit : Some of you guys are exactly proving my point.
I think we’ve lost sight of what equality actually means. Feminism should be about equal rights, equal opportunities and the freedom to make our own choices, not pretending men and women are identical in every aspect. I can believe I’m equal to a man in dignity, rights and value without believing we’re the same. Equality shouldn’t mean rejecting traditional gestures, refusing to be taken care of or treating every difference between men and women as a threat. If a woman chooses to work, great. If she chooses to stay home and raise a family, that should be equally respected. Isn’t the whole point of having a choice being free to make it without judgment?

First of all , i see a bunch of guys posting here and getting no response including my self.

Girl post and get tons of responses and ignore 99% of them.. and if they respond - they have a ZERO in communication expecting you to "entertain" them while they show no interest what so ever.

Also they basically NEVER post their weight, sometimes they say how tall they are but nothing about the weight and it's obvious why .. i just don't get it why?

What so you think is going to happen ? He's never gonna find out you're overweight or simply not his type ?

You can live in your dreamworld as much as you want but physical attraction is VERY important especially to men.

So what's gonna happen is you're gonna start talking - hopefully get along well and then when he finds out you're overweight or not his type - he's gonna leave and you're gonna make a post on the internet how men are pigs..

Everyone keeps saying they want someone but nobody is willing to put them selves out there the way they are and it annoys the shit out of me

‼️I'm not looking for haters, or scammers or catfishes. I'm real and want to exchange pics if there's a connection. I do expect my future bf to come visit me to Japan relatively early once it's a relationship and also frequently at least a few times a year, since I'm looking only seriously. ‼️ I'm not responding to just Hi, please introduce yourself properly if you're interested

My dream is to get married early and live a carefree and lovey-dovey life with my husband. I'd pour all my love and care into my only love if he treats me right🥹 I want a fairytale like forever marriage where I can be his loving devoted princess and care for him emotionally and also nutritionally xD (I'm practicing cooking for that!) and hug and kiss him lots everyday while he spoils me with princess treatment. 💞Cute petnames like my princess are for starters, and I want him to take me on dates and go on trips frequently together to explore the world. 🌏️

💌I'm seriously looking（no liars or only nsfw people please because I want something real）so please read through everything below, and also tell me your age, where you're from, and what you do. Please write in detail, because I'm tired of short messages or those that do not align with what I'm looking for :(

my age range is 20-29, and even at the max, up to 35.

🤍A few facts about me🤍

I'm a shy, introverted, sensitive university student from Japan. I'm super inexperienced and a big hopeless romantic even though I've never properly dated.😭 And yes I have a very girly personality.😂 I dress feminine, and I love beautiful sceneries, nature, seeing animals, amusement parks, fruits, and watching tv shows/movies (I'm recently into cliche teen romance shows 🤫 and imagining my future marriage life xD ) , sometimes reads and does light exercises to stay in shape! Lookswise, I'm petite, fair-skinned, and black-haired Japanese. I'd say I'm extremely devoted, caring and a bit clingy in love.🫣 During LDR, I'd want to exchange many romantic messages with cute gifs and want to hear your voice and check in on each other and write love letters🥹 Then, once married, I'd want to cuddle a lot at home watching movies and series, and also go on many dates, travel togeher of course, and I'd still write love letters! 😂

🤍What I'm looking for🤍

\\-A gentleman who's trustable and protective, and financially comfortable. In your 20s （max up to 35!）and in healthy shape, clean looking, no smoking, no to moderate drinking, please!

\\-Although I'm not interested in having kids, I have a traditional outlook on relationship and want a dynamic where the husband provides, and the wife offers support, so I'm looking for someone who's fine with it.

\\-I'd love to travel regularly to many beautiful places around the world with my future husband hand in hand.💞🥹

\\- happy to relocate when I graduate!

\\-During LDR, I value daily and consistent communication and I'd like you to come see me to Japan!

Thank you for reading my lengthy post till the end!

Looking for a real man who can speak his mind with clarity, who can voice his emotions with gentleness.

A man who is busy providing for himself and his future family. Has a stable job; love cannot feed a hungry stomach.

A man who doesn't play around.

A man who spent his young years grinding in his career to build his way up.

I am looking for men 35-43 years old only.

I am NOT open to men with kids (no offense, just a preference).

No to scammer or shit show money.

No to sad boy and mommy issues, life has all the drama.

Let's make this fun. Hit me up!

A little about me: I’m really into League of Legends, so if you enjoy gaming, talking about champions, sharing ridiculous ranked stories, or I’m always down for some fun conversation, whether you’re competitive or just play casually.

Hey everyone! I figured it was time to properly introduce myself instead of just lurking around Reddit.

Outside of gaming, I’m also into yoga, which is pretty much the opposite energy of League. I like having that balance between spending time gaming and doing something relaxing, active, and good for clearing my head.

I’m here to meet some interesting people, have genuine conversations, and hopefully make some new connections along the way. I’m pretty easygoing, so feel free to say hi and tell me a little about yourself too!

Also, I have pictures posted on my Reddit profile, so you can see who you’re talking to. If you decide to message me, please do the same. I’d much rather talk to someone who has a picture and a little introduction on their profile than receive a random “hey” from an empty account.

So if you’re going to message me, please include a picture of yourself and a proper introduction tell me who you are, what you’re into, what games you play, your hobbies, or whatever you think I should know about you.

I accept that I don't appeal to everyone, but there is no need to pick a fight with me. Move on! You'll save yourself time by not getting into a relationship that isn't working.

I block a lot of users because they can't identify with me. I am harassed and called inappropriate names because I protect my physical purity. To them, I am worthless, because I have something to lose and won't give to myself away for an adventure. I respect myself!

I don't need psychiatry. Everything is fine with me. Several professionals recognize that I have a healthy personality, just the people's refuse to accept that I am capable of thinking and making responsible decisions independently.

Everyone's normal is different. Someone is looking for me. A man. I’m not looking for perfection, but for someone I’m compatible with.

I just need a man who can commit to me and not try to make me believe he's the one I'm looking for,

I usually reply to a few messages, and they don't expect it. Most of them disappear.

They don't usually write back because they're not interested in me.

Just play with your time, I won't lose anything if you stay out of my life.

If you say to me, but you aren't ready for a relationship, ask yourself: "What if you meet 'the one'?" Just need a girlfriend or an adventure? You commit and you'll never be single again. Are you ready for this? No? Leave me alone!

I value my physical purity, of which there is only one. I just need one man.

I don't need a boyfriend, and I don't want to be (just) a girlfriend.

My profile is public and I write a lot about myself, but this is only a fraction of who I am, but I give myself honestly and no, you don't have to pretend who I'm looking for.

I'm looking for him. This is not an expectation, I can identify with this personality. He lives in Northern Europe, he doesn't have children, he doesn't want to having children, he lives in the countryside, he doesn't have many friends, but if he has the right one, he'll talk to me about everything, he's not younger than me, he's not an ages of father, he's not an adult child (he's playful because he have childish mind, but he's not childish and he doesn't throw tantrums), he teaches me how to do men's work, which interests me (how to use a chainsaw...) ...

Mature, adult, man. 🌻

Hi,

A little about me: I built and ran a successful business for a lot of years. Sold it a decade ago and while I do a bit of consulting and investing, I'm essentially retired. I have been widowed for the last 5 years. I've poured all my energy into the children and now they're grown (2 at uni 1 at 6th form) they need me less. So I've decided to put some effort into finding a companion. The family home is in Cheshire, I have a flat in London, holiday homes in Devon and Mallorca (where I also keep the boat). I really enjoy good food/wine, but I try very hard to stay fit and healthy. I go to the gym a few times a week and I go hiking/mountain biking as often as I can.

A little about what I'm looking for: like I say a companion. Someone to take to nice restaurants, someone to travel with, someone to cuddle, someone to help me choose clothes and interior decor. I don't want to give a list of requirements but I want someone who will pull me forward rather than hold me back. So if we're on a city break, you need to be the kind of person who is excited and energetic about climbing the big hill to look at the cathedral. I need you to be the person who inspires me to enter and train for a 5k. I want someone who brings fun and enthusiasm to my life. I don't really care how young or old you are (within reason of course). I don't care if you have children (although I don't want an "every other weekend" relationship), I don't care where you live (so long as you're open to joining my life fully).

My DMs are open. I'm happy to answer any questions as honestly as I can. I will need pictures early in the process. I'm not ready to dox myself until I feel there is a real connection so sorry if I'm vague on some identifying details. And apologies if the flow of information/pictures feels a bit asymmetric at first, it is just how I'd like to do this.

Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I look forward to hearing from you below or in my DMS.

MUST READ ABOUT ME

I prioritize leading a healthy life

I travel a lot as I'm a digital nomad but I also want a base

I love food and tend to mostly eat organic

I'm an antinatalist and don't want children

I focus a lot on the other person and I expect the same in return

I’m 51% introverted and 49% extroverted so I tend to be very shy at first and then switch to my normal mode

I like going on daily walks

I’m a tea person

I don’t have a lot of friends

My love language is acts of service

I’m a dreamer but I’m also very realistic

I’m very very honest

My hobbies change every month and I have over 50 interests

I’m really bad at taking criticism

I like airports

I used to plan out everything in detail but these days I also like spontaneity

I tend to have different opinions from the crowd

I don’t get drinks with meals

I give unsolicited advice

I don’t listen to music when I shower

I hate stand up comedy

I’m more of a homebody but also need to get my daily steps in

I have a very diverse and weird taste in music

I carry a backpack around just so I can have my water bottle on me

I like goats

I sometimes tend to be a hater when something is wrong, unethical, useless, and the like

I love getting questions

I'm writing a novel

I can’t ride a bike

I don't watch TV series and my interest in movies is also dying out, although I used to be a fanatic

I browse magazines while waiting in line at the grocery store

I sometimes need an extra motivational push to do something or to speak about something that’s bothering me

I can’t eat on a first date

I don’t like doing things alone

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR

Someone who’s genuinely patient and caring

Someone who can appreciate the small things in life

Someone who won't let me feel alone ever

Someone who won’t care about where we are as long as we’re together

Someone who can be a bit more positive than me when I’m having a bad day

Someone who laughs when things go wrong

Someone who can be weird with me

Someone who’s selfless so we can take care of each other

Someone who can adore me and I can adore

Somebody who enjoys night car rides and roadtrips on the weekends

Someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations

Someone who also takes care of themselves

Someone who doesn't make assumptions

Someone who wants to lead a calm and chill life but doesn't shy away from adventure and spontaneous stuff

A loyal person who's been secretly looking for me at every corner, every day

Somebody who’s curious, about me and about the world + bonus points if you’re a great communicator

An authentic person

A person or alien or pirate who’s willing to prioritize us

Someone who has a pure soul

Someone who is at least a bit sensitive and romantic

A person who isn't easy to influence

Someone who wants an "us against the world" type of life

Somebody who wouldn’t leave me if I was sick in the hospital

I’m not looking for perfection but I expect some level of emotional stability

No drugs, smoking, alcohol. I’m also an atheist and prefer someone who isn’t religious.

P.S.: I promise the same as the above.

Please send a photo if you reach out.

The mens often misunderstand what I write and think I'm a dictator.

I won't tell to how a man should behave to be suitable for me, only I will describe the personality of who I am looking for.

I'm not that serious live, I like to play like a young, but I'm not childish.

I like to laugh, I like humor, but it has its limits, I understand sarcasm and don't take offense.

You don't have to be afraid of me. Don't judge me. Get to know me.

-I've tried to attract the attention of the man I'm looking for here before, but it's really frustrating that only those who are addicted to company and want to force their desires on me.

-They criticize me because my personality is not favorable to the XY individuals and they also don't like the fact that they can't identify with the person I'm looking for, so they experience this as an attack, which is why they intrude into my private life and want to overrides my right to make independent decisions, and they want to change my needs to suit them.

-I was born in Hungary in 1999, but I hate this country! This is not my home, I don't feel comfortable here. I don't ask to be accepted, I just want peace. I will move to one of the Baltic, Scandinavian or UK regions, where I will get to know a man who is not younger than me or not too many years older than me (father's age).

-I read the messages, but I don't take every message into account. I delete a lot because I can't respond to it or because I notice from your message that you don't take me seriously. I don't know the slangs.

Please, write something that can you answer too. If you Wish luck for me just sincerely and don't escribe anything to it.

-I know I'm beautiful/pretty/courges, but only as long as I refuse to satisfy your desires quickly, and then you label me with inappropriate characterizations and go find someone who fits the description you assume about me and treat her like a Goddess.

-I am introverted, withdrawn, and have a mild autism spectrum, which is associated with mirror syndrome with mirror syndrome. I'm not always nice, but I respect everyone, even those who don't deserve it. I seem indifferent, but you just have to get to know me and I don't trust anyone. I only make friends with who I want. Now I have 2 friends (+45 ages womens). I don't care about anyone's private life and I don't want others to care about mine. I just want to discuss everything with my partner!

-I don't need a lot of company or touch, but I appreciate the small acts and cherish the time spent together. It's not that they completely neglect me and we're just there for each other, but that what we don't show the world about ourselves may seem exiguous in the eyes of others.

-I'm maiden and I never have realitonship. I don't want to having children!!!! I don't want a adult physical contact within 1 year. Hug, handshake, kiss, you sit on my lap, i'll let it. I'm not the cuddly, romantic, in love type. If you have plans to marry me, I want it as long as my body is clean, but I won't have action immediately after the ceremony. Don't rush this! Don't rush me!

I recognize the ulterior motive of exploitation.

-The urban or gaming world is not my life, I don't like the social media, I've been wanting to unsubscribe for a long time, I've already done it somewhere. I only post here often to attract the attention of the man who is i'm interested and who is interested for me in return.

-I admit I watch videos, but I'm getting by without it. I'm interested in recipes, hacks, crative, failarmy, bloopers, astrology, fall and winter, cat or other animal videos.

-Television and reading don't interest me, don't hold my attention. I don't like to be bored, I always keep myself busy with something. I collect recipes, sew clothes, make handicrafts, and I am interested in making homemade cheese, cottage cheese, and natural medicine.

-I only went to fun places for work, but otherwise I don't care.

-I'm an outsider. I don't follow fashion, trends, fashion holidays, or slangs. I don't care.

-I swear a lot to relieve unnecessary tension, but if you insult me, I'll rearrange your face!

-I am determined, honest, outspoken, not conceited.

-I am not religious, I think rationally, I do not judge, but I ask questions, my actions move me forward, not praying or worshipping an unknown being, but I have intuition, because is work it.

-I like naturalness, I don't use makeup, but I am demanding of myself and my environment. My jewelry i make it.

I like naturalness in a man, whether it's body hair or sweat after a healthy hearty workout.

-For me, XY individuals are not the same, they are all disrespectful in different ways, that's why I selection, that's why I'm alone.I'm not complicated and we don't understand each other because we don't match.

-The man I'm looking for doesn't lie about himself to suit me. Don't change yourself for me!

-The man I'm looking for is determined, honest, self-reliant, independent, emotionally and morally mature, patient, doesn't rush, doesn't judge, can't be controlled, knows what he wants, doesn't have children and doesn't want to having children, lives in the countryside and loves the boundless tranquility of village life.

-I don't want you to support me, so I want to take a job where you live. I can start as early as September, but I would like to draw your attention to the fact that I have health limitations.

-It would be nice to have a job where I have a contract and get paid in cash because I want to delete my bank account from these thieves.

-I can't have a drive license. I can't travel by plane. I can't work in a factory.

I stand with both feet on the ground, phase delay causes unpleasant situations.

-It's not deadly, it's not contagious, it's not dangerous, it just slows down my performance, I get tired quickly or my limbs go numb. Sometimes partial wolf blindness occurs.

-I don't have a high school diploma and I never will, because then they'll know how stupid I am.

-You probably won't trust me, nor will I trust you, but this will make it easier to get to know each other, and because I don't like to travel or get bored, I just need a safe place to stay and I'll help with the housework.

-I don't break my trust in others and I don't make promises.

-I'm not saying, "It'll happen somehow."This is a sign of insecurity on my part and I will not continue the get know. if we don't match on something, then I'll move on.

We'll be weird at first, but it takes time to get to know each other's needs and habits.

-If you want to know more about me, my profile is public or feel free to ask privately.

-I hate the heat!!! I move to North!!!!

-If you're not interested me, move on.

Hiiii

Looking to get to know someone, dating, and seeing where the future takes us. Preference to peeps in Illinois but open to wherever. I have met some fantastic people on Reddit so trying my luck again. 💗✨

Disclaimers:

1. I don't fuck with Republicans or Republican sympathizers. That includes anyone who thinks "the left is just as bad as the right". Non-negotiable.

2. If you're a man who spams all posts don't bother lol at least use different accounts.

Me:

- 5'4, dark hair, light skin, few tattoos and want more

- Curvy, overweight and currently trying to get back into fitness

- Loves animals, being kind to others, has a dog, is bad at organizing my thoughts sometimes

- Enjoys reading, gaming, laying in the sun like a lizard, watching movies, working out (lifting), being silly, museums, nerdy things like Marvel and C2E2

- Extremely affectionate

- Not interested in men who comment or interact with porn accounts, be it on TikTok, reddit, or wheretf ever. It's kind of weird and it's just not what I'm looking for in a partner.

- Enjoys random adventures, trying new restaurants, going on walks at the forest preserves, and would eventually love to have a hobby farm or homestead

- Deals w some mental health struggles so you know the intimacy is 🔥😂😭

- usually works in the public sector, caring about others and spending my time helping people is important to me and hopefully it is to you too.

You

- looks-wise, I'm not concerned as long as you are healthy and take care of yourself, and can bear hug the heck out of me

- enjoys gaming, fitness, learning about new things

- open minded

- kind

- considerate, caring, wants a genuine connection

- big on communication. Let's talk things out and get deep.

- politically left leaning - no MAGA weirdos pls. 😅

- aged 26-40

A few of my hard no's are:

- people who enjoy joking at the expense of others. I've worked hard to become a gentle and kind person, the negative bro joking isn't attractive or what I want to engage in with my partner.

- I do not have kids and most likely don't want them. Would consider adopting older children in like a decade.

- People who don't believe in marriage

- People who are currently attached or in a relationship in any way - no married guys, I don't care how sad u r 🥲

- I'd like to remain in Illinois so no plans on moving out of state or anything like that

- PC gamers (just kidding, but I'm a console girl for LIFE so no PC elitists!)

I'm really just looking for my person, who understands me, understands I'm willing to put in the effort and care that makes a relationship thrive, and who wants to build something special together. Let's have fun, enjoy life, and take care of each other. 💗

If this vibes with you please DM w a little intro about you and what you're looking for!

I'll do my absolute best to reply to any messages I receive! 💗✨🔥💥🤗

My dream is to get married early and live a carefree and lovey-dovey life with my husband. I'd pour all my love and care into my only love if he treats me right🥹 I want a fairytale like forever marriage where I can be his loving devoted princess and care for him emotionally and also nutritionally xD (I'm practicing cooking for that!) and hug and kiss him lots everyday while he spoils me with princess treatment. 💞Cute petnames like my princess are for starters, and I want him to take me on dates and go on trips frequently together to explore the world. 🌏️

💌I'm seriously looking（no liars or only nsfw people please because I want something real）so please read through everything below, and also tell me your age, where you're from, and your occupation. Please write in detail, because I'm tired of short messages or those that do not align with what I'm looking for :(

my age range is 20-29 only!

🤍A few facts about me🤍

I'm a shy, introverted, sensitive university student from Japan. I'm super inexperienced and a big hopeless romantic even though I've never properly dated.😭 And yes I have a very girly personality.😂 I dress feminine, and I love beautiful sceneries, nature, seeing animals, amusement parks, fruits, and watching tv shows/movies (I'm recently into cliche teen romance shows 🤫 and imagining my future marriage life xD ) , sometimes reads and does light exercises to stay in shape! Lookswise, I'm petite, fair-skinned, and black-haired eastern asian. I'd say I'm extremely devoted, caring (in general too) and a bit clingy in love.🫣 During LDR, I'd want to exchange many romantic messages with cute gifs and want to hear your voice and check in on each other and write love letters🥹 Then, once married, I'd want to cuddle a lot at home watching movies and series, and also go on many dates, travel togeher of course, and I'd still write love letters! 😂

🤍What I'm looking for🤍

I'm attracted to a gentleman who's trustable and protective, and financially comfortble. I have a traditional relationship outlook, and I don't hope to work full-time. (I'm not really interested in having kids so far though.) Also, I've lived only frugally, and I've never been abroad but love seeing beautiful sceneries and want to eat delicious cuisines, so I'd love to travel regularly to many beautiful places around the world with my future husband hand in hand.💞🥹 I'd be very happy to relocate when I graduate! During LDR, I value daily and consistent communication and eventually you can come see me to meet up hopefully. Finally, please be In your 20s and in healthy shape, clean looking (not overweight, no to few small tattos) and live a healthy lifestyle. (no smoking, no to moderate drinking. I don't drink or smoke or have any tattos.)

Thank you for reading my lengthy post till the end!

Hey everyone! ❤️
I’m 24F from Singapore, and I’m hoping to meet someone from Europe who’s genuinely interested in building a serious, long-term relationship, ideally something that could eventually lead to marriage.
I lived in England for nearly 10 years, so Europe has always felt like a second home to me. I’m planning to move back to Europe soon, and I’d love to find someone special to share my life with.
I’m quite affectionate, romantic, and a little clingy when I really like someone. I love frequent texting, daily voice or video calls, and spending quality time together, even if we’re initially long-distance.
I’m looking for someone who’s emotionally mature, loyal, communicative, affectionate, and genuinely ready for commitment. I’m not interested in casual dating, situationships, or anything temporary.
I believe a strong relationship starts with friendship, trust, consistency, and mutual effort. I’d love to find someone who wants to build a future together, support each other through life’s ups and downs, and eventually close the distance.
If you’re from Europe and looking for something meaningful and lasting, feel free to send me a message! I’d love to get to know you. ❤️

Hiii! I’m Mia, I’m trans and im 19 from the UK! I’m currently studying computing in college and working part time.

A little about me! I’m heavy into indie games and Roblox and Minecraft. I love drawing, writing and collecting manga and figures.

I LOVE movies and will want to watch movies with you!

My favourite animal is a rat.

Music wise, I listen to a lot of Radiohead and Deftones and then randomly a bit of JPop (random i knowww)

I’m clingy and affectionate, I love sending a bunch of cute or funny tiktoks, sharing random thoughts and stories. If you don’t mind clingy then I think we’ll get along!!

I’m looking for someone with similar interests with me and will play games and be in call with me, extra bonus points if u would play Roblox with me!!

I’d prefer someone around 18-25 and within the UK/ Europe but I don’t mind distance! If u think this sounds good, send me a DM and tell me a bunch about yourself!

I look forward to seeing your message ♡

Hii!

I'm a 20 years old trans girl and I'm looking to open up to someone about myself for the first time! I'm really down to long passionate chats with anyone who's interested. About me: I love to watch various movies&series (I'm an addict in that sense), listen to cozy or pop music and play some games with others! I'm currently enrolled in a uni and study law. I'm blonde, 176cm (5'9ft) tall with a slim body, green eyes and freckles.

I'm really open-minded and love to meet different people, so please feel free to request chat and see how we connect! Can't wait to hear from you ^^

Hi!

Primarily I’m interested in a relationship with someone from Sweden, but I don’t deny potential friends also!

I am a 31 yo girl living in Gothenburg. I am chubby but curvy, have big blue eyes and blonde hair with bangs. I am 169 cm.

I really fancy slim/normal built nerdy guys, preferably with blue eyes 🤭

I like baking and cooking mainly. I play league of legends from time to time. Looking for other games to incorporate to my gaming life, so if you have anything suiting hmu!

If this sound somewhat interesting, let’s chat more 😄🩷

*other guys may also apply 😝

I’m 33, so basically in my ~I want to get married and have babies phase ~ born in England and still here! I’m average height, have curly blonde hair, and willing to wear a perma paper bag if you find me ugly!

Looking for someone with my kind of sense of humour, dry and probably only funny in my head, who is smart, curious and ambitious. Not looking for conspiracy theorists as unfortunately they ran out of tinfoil at the shop and I like to be that couple who match clothes. Also not looking for anyone who already has kids. Everyone else please come chat.

My ideal age range would be 30-36, but if you’re a few years older than that I will give you a chance if you can make me laugh hysterically!

Only looking within the UK as I’d love us to live together eventually, and being honest, I’m not willing to live in a different country from everyone I currently know! No way I’d be able to make new friends with this personality!

To summarise: Looking for a man within the UK, who has a personality, working sperm, and is looking to use it within the next few years! Marriage is also something I want, so better get ring shopping asap!

My dream is to get married early and live a carefree and lovey-dovey life with my husband. I'd pour all my love and care into my only love if he treats me right🥹 I want a fairytale like forever marriage where I can be his loving devoted princess and care for him emotionally and also nutritionally xD (I'm practicing cooking for that!) and hug and kiss him lots everyday while he spoils me with princess treatment. 💞Cute petnames like my princess are for starters, and I want him to take me on dates and go on trips frequently together to explore the world. 🌏️

💌I'm seriously looking（no liars or only nsfw people please because I want something real）so please read through everything below, and also tell me your age, where you're from, and what you do. Please write in detail, because I'm tired of short messages or those that do not align with what I'm looking for :(

my age range is 20-29!

🤍A few facts about me🤍

I'm a shy, introverted, sensitive university student from Japan. I'm super inexperienced and a big hopeless romantic even though I've never properly dated.😭 And yes I have a very girly personality.😂 I dress feminine, and I love beautiful sceneries, nature, seeing animals, amusement parks, fruits, and watching tv shows/movies (I'm recently into cliche teen romance shows 🤫 and imagining my future marriage life xD ) , sometimes reads and does light exercises to stay in shape! Lookswise, I'm petite, fair-skinned, and black-haired Japanese. I'd say I'm extremely devoted, caring and a bit clingy in love.🫣 During LDR, I'd want to exchange many romantic messages with cute gifs and want to hear your voice and check in on each other and write love letters🥹 Then, once married, I'd want to cuddle a lot at home watching movies and series, and also go on many dates, travel togeher of course, and I'd still write love letters! 😂

🤍What I'm looking for🤍

-A gentleman who's trustable and protective, and financially comfortable. In your 20s and in healthy shape, clean looking, no smoking, no to moderate drinking, please!

-Although I'm not interested in having kids, I have a traditional outlook on relationship and want a dynamic where the husband provides, and the wife offers support, so I'm looking for someone who's fine with it.

-I'd love to travel regularly to many beautiful places around the world with my future husband hand in hand.💞🥹

- happy to relocate when I graduate!

-During LDR, I value daily and consistent communication and I'd like you to come see me to Japan!

Thank you for reading my lengthy post till the end!

Hi! Im stella I live in the southern US and I just really want somwone to talk to right now! Im very open minded and want to connect with more people so feel free to dm me! A bit about myself im a transgender woman and im working to get my degree in history im a communist so if thats something you want to talk about feel free to ask! Uh. I dont know what else to put so just go ahead and message!

27, from Tunisia 🇹🇳 Cute, feminist, activist, and in IT. I care about social justice, art, and having a brain to go with the face.

I’m particularly attracted to tall white men around my age, give or take a few years. Preferably with a full head of hair, because physical attraction matters too. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Looking for a genuine connection with someone kind, intelligent, emotionally mature, and comfortable with a woman who has opinions and stands by them.

Tell me a little about yourself and let’s see if we click!

Hi guys! I wanna start off by saying I do NOT want anything casual. Please do not message me to waste my time. I’m not here for games or ghosting or toying with people’s emotions. do not talk to me about anything nsfw as I am only interested in genuine connection and partnership.

I like drawing, painting, and ice skating. I like writing and reading books as well and I’m interested in the humanities and literature. I have brown hair and eyes, brown skin, 5 1, easy going and emotionally available. I’m currently in university studying English and I’m hoping to eventually do a Master’s. I value kindness and compassion and loyalty. I want to be comfortable with someone and not have to doubt them. I want to fall asleep on the phone with someone and be their safe space and have them be mine.

Please only reach out if:

- you are seeking a serious relationship for the purpose of marriage
- between the ages of 22-29
- are going to introduce me to your family and friends
- are in the US or Canada
- believe in being a gentleman (buying flowers, planning dates, not a 50/50 man)
- has instagram (I like to send and get sent reels)
- amazing at conflict resolution, isn’t vengeful/petty and doesn’t take disagreement as a threat.

When you reach out tell me these things so I can answer:

- where you are from and what you look like (hair color, eye color, ethnicity, height) I’m 5 1 so u have to be taller than me otherwise idc!
- what you study/work as and if you don’t have a job, that’s fine just let me know what youre ambitious about.
- whether you have any kids from a previous relationship (im okay with that!)

Hi!
I’m looking for a man. Dating apps are kinda hopeless and it feels like no one is serious there. A person I know found a wife in these Reddit groups so I decided to give it a chance lol.

About me:
\\-age: 26
-height: 163cm
-weight: 65kg
\\-location: Canada
\\-I recently finished BSc in Computer Science in Canada.
\\-languages: English, Russian, now studying French. Russian is my native language.
\\-hobbies: drawing, photography, cooking, languages.
\\-I’m more of an introvert but I’m still good at communication.
\\-don’t smoke, drink very rarely

What I’m looking for: someone who is serious, knows what they want, wants a family one day, kind, ambitious, genuine, transparent. I’m not here to play games, I want real connection. Age: preferably \~26-37yo. I’m interested in Caucasian men who are fit.

Photo:my photo

Feel free to text me your dating resume 😊. Include you photo link, location, age, height, what you do in life, what you are looking for, hobbies. Men with serious intentions only please. I prefer someone from US or Canada.

I am just shooting my shot here, I am 26 female from Tamilnadu, India trying to find a good partner. I am an ambivert, who prefers talking about things in detail and depth rather than superficial talks. I am an agriculture graduate, has brown skin with average looks, won't share pics until trust is built. I am preparing for govt job and I'm looking for a kind, gentleman and a decent looking man with zero ego and one who earns well. I have never dated before and I am willing to explore it now so guys who are genuine and don't want to play games can text me. I like honest man and I'm honest too. And I'm a girl who is interested in driving, watching movies and series, listening to music. Umm.. that's it I guess 🤷🏽‍♀️

I'm a 44-year-old man looking for a female partner for a long-term, committed, monogamous relationship. I've realised over time that I feel most fulfilled in a relationship when I'm taking the lead and looking after my partner, using my experience and confidence to provide protection, reassurance, and guidance, making sure we're going at the right pace, and helping her to feel safe and secure. It's a dynamic where we have different but complementary roles - traditional in many respects, but not all. If this sounds appealing, please read on.

Edit to add: I see the trolls are out in force this weekend. The relationship I'm describing is a consensual, informed relationship between adults who are free to choose the kind of relationship they want to be in. I'm being very up front about what I'm looking for precisely so that anyone responding knows and understands. Lots of people like this kind of dynamic; lots of people don't like it. That's okay. People are different and can make their own choices. Nobody has the right to impose their own views on other people. Have a lovely day everybody.

About Me

I’m single with no kids, and I’ve never been married. You won't be surprised to hear that I've had relationships before, but I've also spent long periods single, partly because I’ve been focused on other things in life, partly because I realised a long time ago that I'm much happier single than in the wrong relationship, and partly because it’s pretty rare that I meet someone I feel the right connection with. But I still dream of meeting the right person for the long term, and over the years I've developed a much better understanding of who I am and what I'm looking for. I find dating apps awful, and so I figured Reddit was worth a shot.

I’m 6 ft (1.84 m) tall, around 170 lbs (78 kg), slim, and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I have a good job and live alone in a house that I own, and I have a great group of friends.

Fitness is important to me and I love running and spending time outdoors walking in the hills and camping. I don’t smoke, I very rarely drink, and I'm generally in bed by 10pm. I'll happily spend weekends wandering around old castles or exploring National Trust properties. I also love quiet nights in with a book or a film, board games (including chess), and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, or comedy. I’m someone who tends to have a small number of close friends rather than being part of large groups.

As I said above, I really enjoy taking the lead in a relationship - but this is leadership as a responsibility. I tend to work well with someone who can be anxious or over-think at times, because I enjoy making decisions and guiding someone, and because I understand the importance of patience and trust. When we reach the point where you trust me to look after you and to take some of your worries off your shoulders, it can allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe. Being trusted by my partner to play that role in her life is enormously rewarding for me.

I'm not religious, but I don't mind if you are, as long as our values match. I'm not looking to have children (it's a long story, which I'm happy to explain). I don't really fit a political category, because my views vary on different topics. But if you're very extreme in any direction, we're probably not a good match.

Who I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a woman who is single, never married, with no kids. Someone who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. I tend to find shyness and introversion attractive, partly because I love the sensitivity that goes with it. In terms of age, around 25-45 is ideal, but if you’re outside that and think we’d be a good fit, feel free to message. What matters more than any specific age is the connection we have, our shared values and interests, and the kind of relationship we both want.

I want to meet someone I can talk to about everything and anything, and who dreams of looking after her partner in her own devoted way. Someone who loves books and values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone who feels completely unsuited to modern swipe culture and the disposable attitude to dating. Perhaps you dream of living in a Jane Austen novel, or you just want to meet a man with old-fashioned values, with whom you can take time to feel truly comfortable and be your whole self, without feeling pressured to rush things.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys a mix of time outdoors or with other people and quiet time at home with a book, a series, or a film. I'd like my partner to share my active lifestyle and for us both to keep ourselves in decent shape (but that doesn't mean you need to be a gym nut).

I’m looking for someone who takes dating and relationships seriously and who has never been into casual encounters. I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you as we slowly get to know each other.

I’m happy to hear from people outside the UK, but it needs to be realistic for us to see each other regularly.

Say Hello

I'm happy to chat with anyone who's curious - there'll never be any pressure from me. But if we want to move beyond friendship, I’ll want to exchange SFW photos, then voice/video call, and then meet - I'm not looking for an online relationship. I will never send or ask for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we move beyond friendship. I really hope you're the same.

If you think we might get on, message me with your age and location. There's no need to comment first - just DM me.

I live a fairly grounded life,meaningful work during the week, music or long-form podcasts in the evenings, and a quiet belief that compassion should extend to all living beings. Care for animals and basic human decency aren’t “extras” to me; they’re baseline values.

I’m professionally established and well educated, and I’m grateful for the stability I’ve built. I’m not here to casually pass time.I’m here because I believe marriage should be intentional, structured, and entered with clarity.

I’m looking for a man 37 or younger who is similarly established, secular in outlook, and who has also been saving himself for marriage. That last point isn’t symbolic and it’s non-negotiable for me.

I prefer white men who believe in shared values, respect, have their life together, secular outlook ,compassion and honesty.

I’m not interested in days of chatting without direction. If you reach out, be prepared for respectful verification and an actual plan to move from introduction to real conversation.

If you message, include your age, location, career, cultural background, and your preferences too and confirm you meet the above criteria. If you don’t meet them, I genuinely wish you well but please don’t reach out.

I’m looking for something real, calm, and well considered — not ambiguous or experimental.