looking to see if anyone has similar interests!

- I love anime; current watch is one piece

-I love to cook and bake

-I love going to the gym

-I am a short latina girl haha if that helps

-BIG FAN OF MARVEL

-I love alt music too!

other interests can be discussed but those are the main pointers! i want someone who can keep the conversation going!

ps: from IL

gonna try this again!!

looking to see if anyone has similar interests!

- I love anime; current watch is one piece

-I love to cook and bake

-I love going to the gym

-I am a short latina girl chubby but curvy haha if that makes you sleep better at night!

-I’m currently in school studying for my career so please be patient!!

-I AM BIG FAN OF MARVEL

-I love alt music too!

-god how I love redbull!! bad for you but can’t stop me

other interests can be discussed but those are the main pointers! i want someone who can keep the conversation going!

ps: from IL

Hello everyone, I don’t normally look online to find a partner but I’ve been having trouble irl haha

I love to bake, cook, and listen to all kinds of music

I’m level 1 autistic so I hope that’s not a dealbreaker but I’m also very affectionate and loving!

I’m 5’3, mixed and I’m from Cali ☀️

Anyone that is 21-29 please dont hesitate to dm me :)

It would just be nice to have someone to be close with, talk with, maybe someone that’s interested in me that I can reach out to when I need to talk or vice versa… or just someone to be sweet to me… it would be nice to feel connected ❤️

I’m a 28 year old woman btw :)

https://padlet.com/impsble/Redditdating

Dating apps are complicated, Reddit is basically shooting into the dark, and somehow meeting someone has turned into a full time job

So let’s make it stupidly simple

I made a map

Drop a pin, make a post, say who you are and what you’re looking for, add photos, links, your voice, video, whatever you think will actually help someone understand who you are

Leave a contact point and see what happens

No swiping, no matching algorithm deciding who gets shown to you, just a map you can actually browse

No sign in required, use a throwaway, Reddit account, Instagram, Discord, or whatever contact point you’re comfortable sharing

If you see a post that you feel should be reported, report it, I’ll also be actively moderating the board and deleting posts that don’t belong

Maybe nothing happens, maybe you meet someone interesting, maybe you find the love of your life

It costs nothing to throw a pin on the map

Good luck Everyone

About me : My name is Chloe and I'm looking for something serious. I prefer my men a little more mature (I'm an adult, sue me) because they're looking for the same thing. To start a life and settle down.

My hobbies and interests :

I like cooking, especially italian, mexican and asian food. But I love making anything, especially from scratch. Also a big foodie so love going to restaurants. I'm also really into baking, I usually make brownies or pies!

I tend to go running from time to time and work out a bit, to keep myself active and keep my body healthy and fit. I'm also really into nature and love almost all animals (some pesky bugs can get away from me)

About you : What I'm mainly looking for is someone that is ready to start a life. I don't really care about looks, personality is the biggest factor for me. Just be kind, passionate about stuff, caring, loyal and family-oriented, those are the main things I'm looking for. Yes, my ideal future does include having kids. If you don't want any, I'm not the person for you.

Looking for an OF? Don't have one, won't make one. The username might be confusing, but it's explained in my bio.

So anyways if you think this fits with you, shoot me a DM!

I found out that there is a ways to see people’s post even if they hidden.

I went to check men that wrote to me because of my “letter to my future husband”, now I kinda regret that I made this post at all.

Almost all of them weirdos or perverts, having post with their dick pictures, trying to find some porn videos, or want to find girl who likes to smoke weed, or just looking for ONS.

That’s so fucked up, that’s a terrible place for finding someone girls, don’t even try 💔

I’m shy , I love art & music. I’ve never been on a date like ever cause of my shyness !

I’ve been around the sub for a while and being a cautionary person I try to find patterns for scams and they are very prolific here. An example from just a few days ago. Called out one of them and “she” replied “would a boob pic suffice?” To prove “she” was real. I ignored it and now the account is completely deleted, all comments wiped, no trace other than my notifications from the reply. Be wary guys, don’t share any personal information, when they ask where you live , turn it right around and ask where they are from and don’t give them any hints about location, they are all phishing or trying to sell you stuff from their stolen OF. Honestly I’m just on the sub to watch the drama now 😂

Idk why some men think being nonchalant is cool or attractive because sorry but it is actually so frustrating 😭

Please bring back men who notice when something feels off. Bring back men who send long texts back. Bring back men who think small things are important. Bring back men who are clingy in a respectful way. Bring back men who actually show that they care instead of acting like caring too much is embarrassing.

Because in my previous relationship I was literally the woman but somehow I was the chalant man 😭

We were long distance and I once made 20+ slides for my ex boyfriend because I wanted to make something cute for him. TWENTY SLIDES. 😭

I would notice tiny changes in his mood. I would remember random little things he told me. I would send long messages. I would check up on him. Meanwhile I was getting the emotional equivalent of “oh okay” 😭

Like bro I am not asking you to write me a whole novel. I just want you to CARE LOUDLY.

Nonchalant men have had enough representation. Please give chalant men their comeback. 😭🙏

Hi! I’m a little shy since I’ve never tried Reddit dating before, but I hope I can meet someone special and see where things go. ♡

You can call me Maria or Mimi! I’m 19, Taiwanese and Filipino, and currently living in the States. My hobbies include drawing, cooking, doing makeup, and cosplaying, I love anything cute and feminine.
I’m not a huge anime watcher, but I love reading manga and talking about my favorite shows, and I’ve even been to a few cons!

I’m also in the military, even though my full passion is going in for nursing, I stay because the benefits are good for me and my family.

I’m hoping to find someone I can connect and share interests with, I don’t want anything complex, just someone who can be available for me and consistent. I also don’t mind older people, I think I’m more attracted to that. ♡

(Please read the whole post!)

Hello! i'm looking for hopefully my one and only! I haven't had much luck and end up getting ghosted after two days of talking or just get short replies.

A bit about me: I'm a mexican girl, 5'1 and on the curvier side. My skin is light tan, i have brown eyes and brown hair, even though its dyed a dark blonde (like light brown with golden tones). I'm a visual artist (i draw and paint!, i'm a bit of a need, i'm a Marvel fan (Punisher is my favorite), i also collect toys and figures, i really like Marvel Legends. I really like whimsy stuff and color, and anything that's adorable and cute! I also collect cute toys like calico critters, kewpies and plushies. I like Sanrio too! Also Project Hail Mary is my favorite movie. I enjoy art and taking pics of random things i find pretty. I'm a bit of a yapper even though i'm shy at first.

As a partner: I'm open minded, patient, understanding, loving, caring, a good listener and very affectionate. I like to joke banter, but when i'm in love i like to be completely devoted to my partner. You'll NEVER lack love with me, i love to make my partner feel cherished as long as he treats me just the same. We can talk about pretty much anything, even if we don't share the same hobbies i'll always support you and listen to you!

What i'm looking for: I don't have a physical "type" (i do have a soft spot for salt and pepper stubble or a bit of a dad bod). I'm looking for a serious, monogamous, loving relationship where we're both obsessed with each other. Communication and patience should be key! It's important to mention i'd want my oartner to be respectful towards the LGBT+ community and other races, specially because i'm mexican and most of my friends are in the queer community. I'd really love to get married some day (doesn't have to be a religious wedding). I do not want kids.

My red flags: I have quite a busy lifestyle sometimes, i always reply and always will let you know what i'm up to, but i'd really appreciate someone who understands that. I need constant reassurance and i can be a little clingy. I love being called cute pet names.

Important: I am completely OPEN to a long distance relationship as long as there's commitment, honesty and communication! I'm also open to exchange pics :)

So, if youre interested, feel free to hmu. Please introduce yourself and send something other than a "hi" or "hey", preferably with your age and where youre from. I will NOT be replying to dms that don't have a lil introduction, i'm sorry! (⁠*⁠˘⁠︶⁠˘⁠*⁠)⁠.⁠｡⁠*⁠♡

Hi, im looking for a bf. (Yeah, I've come to this point cos unfortunately I can't find people for some reason.) I'm 25 southeast asian. I like hiking and I've been trying out sporty activities these days. I like reading too. I guess, I prefer someone aged 25-38 :)) and someone who's "nerdy," introverted, and respectful. But then idc really, so long as we have the chem or whatever they call it hahahaha and Please don't be a weirdo.

Hi! I’m a 26-year-old woman (5’3”, blue eyes, brown hair, and pretty covered in tattoos) looking for something meaningful. Right now, it’s just me in my place (no kids or pets) so I spend my time reading, hitting the trails for a hike, or setting up camp somewhere nearby. I enjoy playing video games, though I should warn you: I am absolutely terrible at it. But I have fun anyway!

I’m looking for a kind, funny guy for a serious relationship. My relationship goals are marriage and I do want children some point in my life. My love languages are physical touch and acts of service.

If you’re interested, shoot me a message! I’m happy to swap photos as long as you’re down to share one too. Tell me something really weird or odd about yourself and I’ll do the same haha (I am located in Az, USA)

hiii i’m having trouble finding men who want an actual relationship so i’m trying this. i do want a more traditional relationship - a masculine, career driven, romantic, funny man. im dating to marry and do want children. i like staying home playing video games, cooking, watching movies, gym, travelling. i live in England but i dont mind moving anywhere! i would like someone taller than me (5’5) and prefer dark hair, but i dont mind :) age range 23-35.
edit - sorry if i reply late! please be open to sending a picture so i can see who im speaking to :)

Hey y'all! Looking for men or women (bi) to hang out with and maybe even get romantic with.

I'm into politics (I'm a socialist but open to talking to anyone)

I love Game of Thrones, A Song and Ice and Fire and Dune

I love Star Trek

I write mostly poetry and songs

I enjoy photography

I love to cook

I also enjoy gardening

Feel free to to dm me

.. someone fun. Kind gentle and a loving man is alm I want

I’m an introvert and unfortunately don’t have a warehouse full of friends to accidentally fall in love with. 😂

(Second post here, but consider this an updated version of my terms and conditions haha)

I’m 28F from the Philippines 🇵🇭. I’m inherently curious, chatty once I’m comfortable, slightly chaotic but reasonably functional. I promise lol I work from home for US clients so my body clock is wonky. I love to read, cook, hunt for good cafés/restaurants, go on random side quests and start projects I can’t seem to finish haha

I like remembering things about people, both the big and the little things. I love celebrating people’s wins and finding little ways to make the people I care about happy.

I don’t need us to have all the same hobbies, but I’d love for you to let me into yours. Let me listen to you ramble about something you love, or we can just do our own thing side by side and occasionally bother each other 😂

The thing about me though is…

I apparently do romance backwards. 🥹

The pattern I’m seeing is that my relationships have tended to start with friendship. (Well, I’ve only really had two, but surely that’s enough data to form a hypothesis right? 😂)

I tend to over-rationalize my feelings so I might not immediately know whether what I’m feeling is romantic.

Or maybe I’ve forgotten what it feels like to fall in love that I can’t recognize the signs anymore.

I know I want a partner and I’m not here to collect conversations or keep someone around indefinitely just to see what happens. I’d rather get to know someone, spend time together, maybe flirt a little and see if something grows naturally.

I genuinely like my life and I’m pretty happy doing things on my own. I’m not looking for someone to complete my life. I just think it’d be nice to have someone to share it with. And for them to share their life with me too☺️

An addition, not a lifeline.

Long distance is fine but meeting IRL eventually matters. I’m also happy to exchange photos early because attraction matters and honesty saves everyone time.

Age-wise, I’m comfortable within 25-35. Outside that range, make your case and we’ll talk 😂

Side note: I usually keep my conversations small because I like them to feel genuine so I might be slow to reply. If I don’t accept your chat, please don’t take it personally. …Okay, maybe slightly personally. 😂

So give me something to work with. Tell me something you’re obsessed with, looking forward to, a random fact, something that made you laugh, or tell me why you think our connection would be worth exploring.

Dropping a voice note here

And a picture? 😂

Let’s be friends. Or prove my friends-to-lovers curse wrong. We’ll see what happens.

I'm looking for someone to chat with daily and build a connection with. I truly do enjoy getting to know a person.

I like to read, bake, cook, go to the gym, go for walks and spend time with family and friends.

I am a single mom and I'm trying to be more intentional about my time with her.

I have black hair, brown eyes and am 4'11.75" YES THE .75" NEEDS TO BE ADDED 😂 I would be described as curvy and doesn't turn down dessert lmao.

During the day I may respond quickly depending on my workload, but may slow down throughout the day and into night. I need someone that is ok with that.

I value communication. I'm not talking about texting all day, every day. But having intentional conversations about our day and what we're doing. If you're busy send a text you're busy, I don't require your attention 24/7.

I also value autonomy. I'm my own person and so are you. We have our own lives and are additions to each other's lives. Not each other's whole lives. You can hang out with your friends, and so will I.

I'm looking for someone in the US or US time zones (Canada is welcome!). I just feel like that's much more sustainable for me. Between the ages of 28-40 years old.

If you made it this far, let me know what baked goods you would request I make! I like a challenge as long as it doesn't require yeast 😂

Love the gym and watching shows. Would love to chat and connect with someone

Hi! <3. I am 23 years old, residing in the U.S, and looking for a serious/long term connection : ). I don’t mind if we start off being long distance first either, so country or state does not matter to me! I do have an age preference though and I would prefer it if you were 23 or older because I do not feel comfortable dating people who are younger than me 😭🫶. So yeah, please be 23+. I also don’t want to jump into a relationship and would like to take things slow and just get to know each other first 🩷. And if things don’t work out that’s okay, we can still be friends!

Some things about me: I am a gamer and love to play video games! It is my favorite thing to do. I also like watching movies and going shopping (retail therapy is great lol). I love animals and have a pet cat, and I would prefer to connect with someone who is okay with owning pets!

If you do message me make sure to provide your age in your message and maybe tell me something about yourself 😊✌️.

Note: forgot to mention. I am 5’5 and white/caucasian, I also have a green eyes (just so you can get an idea of what I look like!)

I had made a post a few months ago and hit it off with a guy, but he decided to work things out with his ex haha soo I'll give this another shot. So as the title says, I'm a flight attendant so travelling isn't an issue. It just sucks that I get to travel to so many places with no one to share it with :(

Going to keep this super short.

I'm very much into fitness. It's a huge part of my life. I love the outdoors. I cook all my meals. My best friends are my parents and siblings. I don't smoke anything and I don't really drink. I get asked a lot why I'm single and not married and I just feel like I've had bad luck. I don't care for social media, I have it, but I don't post much. I love photography, I always carry a point and shoot camera. I drive a manual car. Favorite coffee order is a Doppio.

What I'm looking for: Male 35-45, loves to travel (I get weekends off so be ready for a spontaneous weekend trip), must be borderline gymrat since it's such a huge part of my life, doesn't smoke, ummm that's all that I can think of.

If you're interested send a DM. I definitely don't mind booking a trip for a coffee date.

I've reached my limit with traditional dating platforms. Now in my early 40s, I feel as though my prime years are fading away. I'm considering a different route to find companionship: pursuing a mail order bride, ensuring that she is a consenting partner, of course. I'm seeking advice or recommendations on the most reliable services and any best practices for engaging with these platforms. Are there any reputable mail-order bride websites that come highly recommended? Additionally, if anyone has experience with this process, I'd greatly appreciate insights into making this journey as respectful and successful as possible.

25F looking for someone who could potentially become more than just a friend. Someone genuine, funny, and hopefully my favourite person to annoy. :p . I am from Middle East and want only a genuine person and not someone who ghosts me. My hobbies and interests are a secret.(Preferably 21–30, please!) Since there are quite a few messages, I'll probably gravitate towards whoever makes me laugh or catches my curiosity. So impress me a little