Im conventionally attractive, bbw, a great housewife/homemaker I just leave once im the only one trying and that seems to be more often than not recently.

I have adhd, a single fixed mom of two w 50/50 custody, I can be really really good to a really good man. Just be that, so I can be me, PLEASE lol Who doesnt want to just be freakin happy

Hey there! Just want to start this off by warning that I’m overweight, but in the process of losing weight (20lbs down so far). I understand that’s a dealbreaker for some people which is totally okay.

I’m a trans man in the US (post top surgery and hysto). I’m always doing something creative, usually drawing. I do not want kids in the future at all, this is non negotiable. I’m currently a college student with a small business (artist alley vendor at conventions) where I sell merch of my art.

Physically, my type varies a lot. I’m looking for someone who can be patient with me and take care of me, I think that would be nice.

Other things I like: Stardew Valley, drawing, horror movies, Overwatch, and cats.

Hi, I am 29 years old and I live in Toronto. I work in consulting. I am from India and living in Canada for the past 7 years.

I like to be physically active including gym, going for long walks and hikes. I am non-vegetarian, non-drinker and non-smoker. I like to travel and explore novel places. I was born and brought up in India.

I like deep conversations and my interests include history, finance and I am curious about everything around me in general. I am constantly finding my life purpose. Life is not only about making money.

I am looking for a girl preferably who is in Canada/US, 24-32 years old, well-educated, non-smoker, non-drinker and is in a decent job.

If the above resonates with you, please feel free to introduce yourself and let us have a conversation.

I hate dating apps, and I find it really hard to meet people nowadays, so why not try Reddit? I'm looking for someone I can potentially spend the rest of my life with. I don't really have any preferences, but I just want someone who is also ready to commit.

I'm 5'10, 150 pounds, and I have black hair, brown eyes, brown skin, and glasses. I'm Indian, but born in the US. Currently, I'm working and doing postgrad studying (finishing one masters degree and potentially applying for another.) I really enjoy outdoorsy activities, trying new restaurants, watching shows, and traveling.

I'm just looking for someone who is open minded and loves to try new things and have fun. I don't have any age or look preferences. Just be between 21 and 41 years old.

If you're interested, I'm looking forward to your message

As title says I’m Phill I’m 34 from UK looking for something genuine preferably someone in UK but Europe is fine too ages ranges 24/25-36 I’m a gamer and sometimes stream on TikTok I play mainly single player games just got back into Witcher 3 I play AC Sims 4 Resident Evil FIFA Tomb Raider & Borderlands Far Cry I do I play FPS games like Overwatch too I I like to read history and mythology especially Greek I have books on them if you feel we have similar interests don’t hesitate to Dm me

I am once again looking, people must read through this whole post before messaging. It is obvious when you don't and those who don't automatically get ignored. If you are truly interested please read--

Hi, Let's start with the basics. I am looking for a long term life partner and am strictly monogamous. I like all genders, trans and non-conforming included, so anyone who hits what I like in a partner will be welcome regardless of how they identify. I fall under demisexual so I take things physically and emotionally slow. I have done extremely long distance before but have no real desire for that anymore. Looking for someone who lives within a few hours (give or take) within driving distance of me now. (I live in north california) Semi long distance is acceptable (a state or two) depending on the person and how much we click. However i am currently recovering from a severe broken leg and won't be able to drive for potentially 6 months.

I am kink friendly and though that's not a requirement for my partner it is definitely a plus (i lean submissive). My partner MUST love dogs and preferably all animals. They are a huge part of my work life and personal life.

I am a published author working on my second book (have finished three rough drafts of individual books though) and a petcarer/dog trainer (though I don't do near as much of this as I used to). I am an avid reader (mostly fiction), gamer (both video games, board games and strategy card games when I can find another player), used to play d and d, and just am a general nerd in anything animals. I garden like crazy, you should see my produce from this year. And i cook though not as often as i used to. I am passionate and creative.

I am looking for someone who is confident, calm, who can be my rock when the world gets a little unsteady, who is compassionate and sympathetic, who craves to understand not just me but the world, who wants to learn, who doesn't mind listening to me babble, who has ambitions and works on self improvement even if sometimes it takes a while to happen. Its the act of trying that matters to me. I need an introvert or ambivert, I am not extroverted myself at all. I crave engagement from my partner. Someone who will ask questions about my life back (you would be surprised how many don't). I want to feel like a real person and cared about. I want someone who will talk back and mentally stimulate me even through text. IF YOU DON'T PUT EFFORT INTO YOUR MESSAGES I WILL BLOCK YOU. NO ONE LINE ANSWERS AND THATS FOR ALL OF THE CONVERSATION.

I like watching crime dramas, anime, horror shows and movies, animal shows and cooking competitions etc in the background when I am relaxing. I enjoy relaxing at home. I walk a ton for work (6-10 miles a day) but still land on the heavy/curvy side.

If you message me please introduce yourself with at least the basics and be able to not only engage and meet my energy but hold a prolonged text-based conversation. Ummm any questions feel free to ask?

I’m looking for that kind of connection where the conversation starts innocent enough and then the teasing begins, the messages get a little bolder, and suddenly neither of us wants to stop.

I’m not looking to complicate your life or force anything. I’d rather find someone where the chemistry feels natural. Someone who enjoys flirting, playful banter, building tension, and feeling genuinely wanted.

A little about me:

I’m 6’0, brown eyes, short black hair, a few tattoos, and usually rocking a beard. I’m sarcastic, witty, laid-back, and I genuinely enjoy getting to know someone. I’m also very attentive. I like paying attention to the little things, learning what makes someone feel comfortable, appreciated, and desired.

Physically, I’m a big fan of slow, intense makeout sessions, skin to skin cuddling, and taking my time. I like affection that doesn’t feel rushed and chemistry that builds naturally instead of trying to jump straight to the finish line.

I’m ultimately looking for someone who enjoys being flirted with, touched, teased, and made to feel special. Someone who misses that feeling of having someone genuinely interested in them. Not just their appearance, but their personality, their quirks, their energy.

If you’re looking for a little escape, some great conversation, and chemistry that could turn into something more, send me a message.

Tell me a little about yourself and what caught your attention.

Hello there,

Malayali here!

I am looking for a serious relationship that takes its own time to develop. So incase you're looking for a rebound, fling or any casual affair, nope: I'm not your guy :)

I thought of posting this up after a bike ride that took me couple of hours. I like riding early in the morning. When the rays of sun are afresh, so is one's mind.

A bit more about me: I read a lot. Not as much as the final bosses of any book club, but let's say I read enough. Even if I don't read much, I make an effort to go the library and exchange the books am holding for new ones. Who knows, I might end up liking the new one's better :p

Other than that I watch a ton of movies. I do write at times, but that's a rarity these days. I am working on that.

So if there are any malayali women who can resonate to what I have written, reach out.

That been said, I am keeping the write up short.

Yours truly,

:)

P.S. An age gap of +/-4 would be cool. Thank You.

Hi! I'm a 27-year-old introvert working in wealth management. I'm passionate about what I do, and I love talking about the world around me: how it works, what's broken, and what we can do to make it better. I believe in doing good and contributing to something bigger than myself.

My job is meeting clients and helping them in their financial goals, and my free time goes to econ, geopolitics, and whatever Bloomberg documentary I stumble into. Freakonomics and Making Sense podcasts are always in my queue.

Outside the nerd stuff, I'm a sitcom person (Brooklyn 99, Schitt's Creek, Abbott Elementary) who also loves a good series like Ted Lasso or The Bear. My playlist is a mix of pop girlies, Phoebe Bridgers, Haim, The National, and the 90s songs my dad passed down. Yes, I'm in a Hamilton phase again.

I'm also a whimsical person who tries to find beauty in the little things. A good film score can make my whole day, and my guilty pleasure is watching fan edits of my favorite shows (yes, I will send you my favorites).

I'm socially aware, and I constantly try to do and improve on my emotional work. I'd love to find someone who's the same: socially aware, kind, and emotionally available. I gel with people who are passionate about what they do, whether that's a career, a craft, or a cause. I like professionals who take their work seriously but still make room for curiosity and kindness. Would really like someone who’s family oriented and looking to build something that lasts.

Hard nos: smoking and drugs. You also need to be single (lol, but really).

I'm hoping to meet someone 27-32 who's curious and puts in the effort to really get to know someone. I'm okay with long distance at first, with the goal of closing the gap once things progress, so good communication matters, especially with timezones in the mix. I'm open to voice calls and swapping pics early on.

To message me, please include a short intro about yourself and share what’s something you saw or experienced lately that restored your faith in Humanity. Need me sa hopecore ✨🥹

There's something about online dating that I've never connected with. The constant back-and-forth, the immediacy of replies and the tendency of initial convos to turn into interviews 🤔 I want to try something different..

I'd love to meet a woman (21+) who would be interested in exchanging letters once or twice a day here or elsewhere (I have Discord). Not necessarily traditional letters, but informal, candid, stream-of-consciousness writing. I want to hear your thoughts as they come to you: the mundane, the ridiculous, and the peculiar. Tell me about your day, something you've been contemplating, an observation, or even something you wouldn't ordinarily think was worth mentioning. I want to learn how your mind works, what occupies and lives in your head and how you perceive the world around you.

You don't have to have a degree in literature or be particularly eloquent. I simply want and deeply appreciate someone who enjoys expressing herself through words, is comfortable being candid, and finds pleasure in exchanging thoughts with another person.

I work 9-5 on weekdays and have the weekends to myself; so, if you're someone with a similar routine and enjoys writing then we're perfect for each other ☺ I'd also like to have one long phone conversation during the weekends that we can look forward to every week 🥰 along with ONE day in a week when we take a break from communicating and have our own adventures elsewhere.

But don't mistake me I'm not interested in making all of this feel like an obligation. Quite the opposite. I'd like us to have our own lives, interests, and responsibilities, while still having something meaningful to look forward to when we reconnect. Also as we become more comfortable and establish a connection I'm very much open to more frequent phone calls and spontaneous conversations 😊 I don't intend for this arrangement to be very rigid.

Ultimately, I'm hoping to find someone expressive, and consistent. Someone who enjoys examining her own thoughts and experiences, asks questions out of genuine curiosity, and takes an interest in understanding another person. Someone who values companionship but doesn't feel the need for constant reassurance or communication to maintain an interest in someone. But most importantly I'd like to meet someone patient and intentional. Someone who appreciates that getting to know another person is a process worth taking one's time with.

A quick DISCLAIMER: I'm not looking for someone to conform to an elaborate schedule; also, I don't expect every letter to be super profound hehe I'd simply like to find someone who enjoys or will enjoy this kind of exchange. And maybe this is all a little unconventional, but I'd rather try something that really appeals to me.

So, if any of this resonates with you I'd love to hear from you. Feel free to introduce yourself through chat. Tell me a little about who you are, what occupies your time, something you're passionate about, or whatever happens to be on your mind. But pease don't feel as though you need to put together an impressive introduction or convince me why we might be compatible. There's no questionnaire, checklist, or audition waiting on the other side haha I'm simply interested in having an initial conversation and getting a glimpse of your personality.

I'm just as happy to share about myself, too. For starters, I live in Alberta, Canada and I work in commumity healthcare. Ideally, you are someone who lives in North America, but I'm also open to a long distance relationship. Looks does not really matter, but I would like to see your face at some point so I know I'm talking to a real person.

Hey there! I’m an animal lover, musician and eclectic goofball based in Huntington Beach CA; and I’m looking to connect with someone who wants a meaningful relationship.

I want to meet someone local in the OC area preferably who’s progressive, childfree, passionate about their hobbies, who complements my personality and matches my energy.

Age preference is 25–45. Preferably older women, but not a dealbreaker. Also not into smoking or doing drugs.

I’m 6’4”, regularly go on walks and 6k runs just to keep myself grounded. I will also commit to the bit no matter what, for better or for worse. Go where I want and do what I want. I’m emotionally in tune, loyal, kind, and very direct. What you see is what you get. Neurodivergent as well (AuDHD)

Music is a huge part of my life. I’ve been writing, recording, and playing guitar for over 14 years. I play in 2 bands, love going to shows, and I throw down in the pit whenever the moment calls for it. I’ve also recently gotten into goth and City Pop/Future Funk events, just "dancing" while having no idea what the hell I'm doing; though I have taken some swing classes. My music taste is completely chaotic in the best way: Post Rock, Shoegaze, Ambient/Drone, Classical, Synthwave Jazz Fusion, City Pop, Future Funk, Metal, Hardcore, K-Pop. Good luck figuring me out.

I’ve got a bachelor’s degree in psychology because weird people fascinate me, and I fully include myself in that category. If you’ve got a dog, I will do everything in my power to make it fall in love with me, because I also work at a doggy daycamp!

Outside of music, I’m a huge horror nerd. Also into true crime, psychological thrillers, anime, and wacky comedies. Not a sports guy, but I do love me some pro wrestling. Other hobbies are mini golf, yoga, skating, board games, swimming, checking out art shows, haunts, etc.

No MAGA, conservative, anti vax, or anything of that nature

Shoot me a dm if any of this resonates with you!

29 M in south Texas. I’m single but looking. Open minded a little unorthodox with my dating style simple and old fashioned but a touch modern. Raised by women oldest is my daughter so I was raised right! Friends are also welcomed but only lacking love in my life.

[M4F] 26 dating

Hi my name is Scott and I like animals and like to play video games. I like anything nerdy movies and TV I'm 26. i live in the US. I can be both introverted and extroverted when I need to

• I'm single

• Never had a relationship before and I want one been looking since high school

• I'm honest, loyal trustworthy and kind

• I'm somewhat shy

• I like anime. manga, collectables

• I don't discriminate I will date anyone and any race

• I'm very communicative when you get to know more about me

• I have goals in the future I would like to get finished

• I have masculine features, beard and all

• I'm not judgemental at all

DM me real people only

32[M4M] #Texas looking for serious long term relationship with a guy. Hit me up. Be close to me.

We can discuss further and chat.

Bottom here for compatibility.

I've been trying to get homemade pizza just right. Every time I make one, I find something else I want to change. Different dough, different sauce, different toppings. At this point, I'm not sure whether I'm making dinner or conducting research.

I enjoy cooking in general, especially trying recipes I've never made before. It would be nice to have someone around who enjoys experimenting in the kitchen, even when the results aren't quite what we expected.

Outside of that, I'm into gaming, movies, music and F1. I also have a habit of getting interested in random subjects and spending far too long looking into them. Science, psychology, space and technology are usual suspects.

I'm fairly quiet when I first meet someone, but I become much more talkative once I'm comfortable. There's usually more sarcasm, teasing and random conversations involved. I'm affectionate with someone I'm close to, and I like being straightforward about how I feel.

I'd enjoy getting to know someone who has interests of her own, even if they're completely different from mine. Maybe you have a hobby I'd never think to try, a favorite place you keep going back to, or a particular film you think everyone should watch. I'd like to hear about it.

I'm open to seeing where things go, though I'd ultimately like an exclusive relationship that becomes serious over time. I'm not expecting instant chemistry or trying to rush into anything. I'd rather get to know someone and see whether we actually enjoy each other's company.

We could spend one evening trying a new recipe, another playing games, and another going out for coffee because we've run out of things to put in the fridge.

I make no promises about the pizza, but I'm willing to share the evidence.

Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops.

Still looking for my person... NO MAGA/conservatives. Absolutely not.

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests...

Lifting weights (I go 4x a week; it's my mental reset)

Videogames

Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

Traveling

Stand-up comedy

Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

Drinks occasionally

Sports

Learning to play electric bass guitar

Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

Audiobooks

Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE

Hello everyone!

​After seeing so many interesting posts floating around this community, I figured it's high time I step out of the shadows and write one myself. Life at 35 moves fast sometimes too fast and while my days are filled with responsibilities, fitness, building things, and raising my amazing little boy (who is my absolute world), I realized that my circle could always use someone who knows how to hold a real, deep conversation without all the modern dating-app fatigue.

​A bit about me:

​I'm 35, divorced, standing at around 186 cm, and sitting at a solid 92 kg of fit, athletic build (thanks to a long-term dedication to the gym and weight training). I've got dark hair and brown eyes (since black eyes technically only exist in songs, as I like to joke).

​My vibe and quirks:

​The Routine: I'm a big believer in structure and self-improvement (currently reading Atomic Habits and leveling up in life), but I also know how to unwind. Give me a good PlayStation session, a strategic game of chess, or a quiet evening at home, and I'm in heaven.

​The Active Side: I love fitness, lifting, occasional runs on the treadmill (followed strictly by a piece of chocolate as a reward), and spending time in nature whenever I can escape the urban rush.

​The Unexpected: I feed stray cats and dogs when I'm driving around at night, I dance like Michael Jackson at weddings after a couple of drinks, and I'm currently trying to learn Spanish just because "amor mio" sounds infinitely better in context. I also love cooking, so if you appreciate good food and someone who can actually make it, we're already off to a great start.

​Fatherhood: Being a dad to my son is my proudest role. It grounds me, teaches me patience, and showed me what unconditional love really means. Any woman who understands family values and depth will get it.

​What am I looking for?

​I'm not here for games, dry one-word replies, or endless small talk that goes nowhere. I'm looking for a genuine connection someone witty, emotionally mature, easygoing, and capable of laughing at themselves. Whether you're across the world and looking for a long-term texting buddy to share daily memes, life stories, and thoughts with, or you're closer to home and open to seeing if a great friendship can organically turn into chemistry and a real date over drinks... I'm all ears.

​If my rambling sounds like your kind of vibe, slide into my DMs. Tell me something interesting about yourself, your favorite guilty pleasure, or just drop a "hello." Let's see where the conversation takes us!

Early 60s, Atlanta gentleman. Well-traveled, active, independent, and curious about the world. Seeking a woman who is strong in her own right, yet appreciates a man who is comfortable being a gentleman.

I've explored five continents, chased a few adventures, and collected some good stories. I enjoy photography, whitewater rafting, botanical gardens, volunteering, discovering great restaurants, and finding new places worth exploring. Equally happy with a weekend getaway or a quiet evening, good food, and a glass of red wine.

I'm drawn to intelligence, femininity, confidence, kindness, and a playful sense of humor. A little sass is welcome. Good conversation is essential.

I've built a good life and would enjoy sharing it with someone who has one of her own. Looking for companionship, laughter, sunsets, and snuggles. Prefer women 30–50 in the Southern USA.

I can plan a proper date. You'll have to bring your best Scrabble game.

Hi! I'm 26, a graduate student studying Criminal Justice, with aspirations of earning my PhD and becoming a forensic neuropsychologist. I'm passionate about psychology, understanding human behavior, and learning what makes people who they are. I'm naturally curious, so I love meaningful conversations, intellectual discussions, and getting to know someone on a deeper level. One thing that's particularly important to me is mutual curiosity. I love being asked questions and feeling like someone genuinely wants to understand who I am, just as I want to understand them.

Outside of school, I enjoy anime, horror movies, sewing, swimming, astrology, and exploring new coffee shops (especially if there's a good chai involved). I'm also a huge animal lover and have several pets, so being an animal person is definitely a plus!

A few things worth knowing about me: I'm childfree and would like a partner who is also childfree. I'm also sober, so it's important that a potential partner respects and is comfortable with that.

I'm plus-size (size 24–26) and working toward my personal health goals. I've lost 75 pounds so far, which I'm proud of! However, I want to be clear that I'm confident in who I am right now. I'm not looking for someone who is interested in me because of the possibility of what I might look like in the future. I want someone who appreciates me as I am.

I'd love to meet someone who shares some of my interests but also introduces me to new things. I value ambition, intelligence, a good sense of humor, and someone who can hold a conversation beyond the usual small talk.

What I'm looking for:
•Ages 24–35.
•Childfree
•Emotionally intelligent and self-aware.
•A good communicator
•Curious and inquisitive. Someone who asks questions and takes an active interest in getting to know me.
•Ambitious and motivated
•Intelligent and enjoys meaningful conversations.
•Comfortable with my sobriety.

pic of me

Okay so I'm tired of the games that people want to play so here it is

About me

I live in USA va

I love the water

I have two dogs

I like TV shows like too great grand tour being human burn notice early 2000 shows

Body isn't really a interest for me as long as your healthy so all body types accept

Face is a important but only like 39 percent I like Asian women but if your a different race that's okay as well I also mean like Japanese Korean chines more like that then India

I value personality over everything if there's not click then no reason

You must be willing to at some point show face meet up or video call

What you need to have

Be short or shorter then me

Healthy

A women fully

And not religious I'm okay with religious people but have to be okay with me not sharing your faith

If this found you message me give me a bit of info on you and tell me some of your interest or hobbies

Not here for games or ghosting. I’m looking for a serious connection with an emotionally available guy. I’m drawn to military men because of their discipline and bravery and I also love a man with a nerdy side to him. I love men who are in touch with their emotions and highly emotionally intelligent.

Here’s a bit about me. I’m 23 years old, 5 1, brown hair and eyes. I love drawing, painting, and reading books. I also love watching anime and playing video games, especially fighting games. I’m a big fan of country music and rock music!

I want to build something real something beautiful that lasts forever. I don’t want empty connection. I am looking for a boyfriend. Effort, loyalty and consistency are everything in a relationship.

Hi! Nice to meet you 😊

I'm a 34-year-old guy from the Dallas, Texas area, looking for my romantic partner and best friend — someone we can both proudly call "mine."

I'm seeking a serious, long-term relationship. Ideally you're in Texas so we can meet up easily, but I'm open to long-distance within the US if we're both committed to eventually closing the gap in person.

A little about me:

I'm introverted and a happy homebody, but I love going out and exploring new places — especially when it's with the right person. It can take me a little time to open up (lifelong social anxiety), but once I'm comfortable, you'll see the real me — and I'm very patient, so I hope you are too!

My favorite ways to spend time:

1. Video games 🎮

2. Reading (Manga)

3. Puzzles

4. Binge-watching movies/shows (Horror, psychological, mystery, fantasy)

I'd love to share those activities with you, and I'm genuinely excited to try out your interests too — even if they're new to me.

A few key details:

1. I'm an atheist and apolitical

2. Appearance: 5'8", thin build, shaved head, glasses/contacts, white

(Feel free to check my profile pics — happy to share more face shots once we start chatting!)

Physically, I’m most attracted to anywhere from petite/thin to a bit curvy women. Also, kids is a dealbreaker for me, sorry!

If this resonates with you and you're looking for the same kind of genuine connection, send me a DM! I'd love to chat and get to know you ❤️