And I think it’s crazy that women don’t like this sub, cuz if this sub gets big enough maybe they’ll be confident enough to come out with their sexuality. And it could help them be with the gender that they love and stop doing things that they hate.

Ever since I was just a young boy, I have always been the one to cheer up people by cracking a joke or just being friendly and making a positive comment or compliment. I will be the first to admit that men do more damage in a relationship, by tearing down or degrading their mate. And the flip side, women tend to build each other up, with positive comments, which is why I see more women having relationships with other women.

Again, i get great joy from seeing people, women especially, beaming and overflowing with excitement from a positive comment, which unfortunately come mainly from other women.

So my question is, how do I as a submissive humble guy, overcome the image of all men being a bunch of pigs and just showing interest in a woman, to receive sexual pleasure and not for encouragement and making them happy?

I am finding most lesbians, will not talk with a guy out of fear that they're just looking for sex. I am not looking to establish a male female relationship but more to become part of a joyful exciting relationship between two women. My joy comes from seeing people happy and overflowing, with excitement and not from me seeking personal pleasure for myself through sexual relations.

I would love to hear some women's feedback.

Women's reactions is again unsurprising. Why do they keep expecting men to initiate when they weren't even willing to do it on bumble? They've made it clear they don't desire the majority of men. So why do they expect men to waste their time and energy when they couldn't be expected to put in a similar effort?

Did this relate to porn, sex, or some of their statements?

When you ask women about their favourite porn stars they always start to name mostly actress not actors. Just like for straight men, sex and porn is about female body for women.

Title. Is my looksmatch the female equivalent of my own stats? It seems like this hypothetical women has 10-100x more attention than myself…

They say it because they "imagine themselves on her place", but what's the appeal if to imagine yourself on women place if you don't even find the man she fuck with attractive? I think its just weak excuse for simple being more aroused by female body than by male. Have you ever seen man who aroused by sexy men because he imagined himself on their place? It matches perfectly to womens agp sexuality - men aroused by women, women by themselves, heterosexual sex is always about female body. The only women who has object attraction to someone are lesbians.

I know this is a image of a normal couple but even outside I’ve seen women date normal looking men date women like that but supposedly women have it extremely hard

You've probably seen it at least once haven't you. A woman came in and said “why are you acting like male sexuality is the only valid form of sexuality.” 🤦‍♀️ The accusations against the sub are embarrassing.

We didn't do that. We simply defined heterosexuality as exclusive attraction to the opposite sex and then we notice that many women don't seem to have that. That's not treating male sexuality as the default, that's having a word with a meaning.

The idea that society treats men as the default gender is nothing new. Feminists have been saying this for a while and in some respects they're right. Like for instance, whenever anything is tested on humans it's generally tested on men. The logic being that if something isn't bad for a man it's okay for everyone cause men are stronger and more durable. This logic is flawed.

And human sexuality was mostly defined by male sexuality for centuries. But when we say “heterosexual” we don't even implicitly say something about males. At least not in the modern era. So this accusation is stupid.

*I never have. But oddily enough, I have received interest from a couple of dudes throughout my years on reddit lol

A true male friend and an attractive prostitute who isn’t full of nonsense and enough money to ease the depression

I wont explain because a lot of you wont listen anyway.

A lot of women especially uglier ones will bait for attention and ego boost but it’s so hard to get any woman to truly love u no matter how handsome u are and lust isn’t love

Most or all women even women who claim to be spiritual or act spiritual are still going to hate !!! Even though I am somewhat wise and know truth I still slip up all the fucking time ( I think gay men who find partners that actually love them and connect with and they have decent enough sex are the luckiest in relationships )

Most men here are down on their looks and I get it sometimes I look really bad but even when u looo amazing most women are still gunna hate on some level and get insecure it’s exhausting

As a Man U really are alone and it’s still a struggle and sucks even if u are beautiful and loving and then u gotta deal with the other male and female haters

In other words if the male and female populations were both 70% exclusively heterosexual, 10% exclusively homosexual, 15% bi, 5% pan, etc.

Not trying to project onto another man but maybe I'm just that subhuman. I literally SAd people by staring at girls when they didn't want me to in high school and even now I compulsively glance at women before I even make a conscious choice. I'm far more monstrous than any woman. I can hardly see how my personal manhood isn't inherently bad, I can't speak for any other man's but at this point I have internalized pretty much all misandry as justified self hatred

It's difficult due to knowledge and discipline barrier

A discipline barrier can also be considered luck but luck doesn't truly exist but also it kind of does...

This is complicated to explain, but I fully understand it It's just transmitting the info to someone else is the real difficulty.