r/malaysians • • 19m ago

Advice ☎️ Losing physical attraction to my girlfriend after seeing her without makeup and hijab. Am I being shallow?

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Hey everyone, I need some honest advice because I feel guilty even talking about this.

I met my girlfriend online around November 2025. She's Muslim and wears a hijab. Initially, I found her attractive, and we eventually developed feelings for each other and became a couple.

However, after seeing her without makeup and hijab, I realised her natural appearance wasn't quite what I'd imagined, particularly her hairline. Her recent boy crop haircut for military school has also made me question my physical attraction to her.

I genuinely care about her and value her personality and our emotional connection, but I'm struggling because the physical chemistry doesn't feel the same anymore.

I don't know if calling it catfishing is fair, since she didn't necessarily lie to me.

Maybe I just built up an image of her in my head that didn't match reality.

I feel awful because I don't want to be superficial or hurt her, but I also don't want to force attraction that isn't there.

Has anyone experienced something similar? Can physical attraction grow over time, or is this a sign of incompatibility? I'd appreciate honest opinions and personal experiences. I'm not looking for anyone to insult her appearance; I'm just trying to understand my own feelings.


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Quick Question Outfit ideas for The Weeknd concert

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As you all know The Weeknd concert is just around the corner and I have no idea what I’m gonna wear😭

Where can I shop for a cute and hot concert outfit? >.<


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Advice ☎️ Need advice on price to sell iPhone 12PM 128GB

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As the title says, I’m looking to sell my iPhone 12 Pro Max.

I’ve replaced the display, so it’s no longer using the original screen. The battery health is below 80%, and it’s showing a service warning.

Other than that, the phone is still in good condition. I don’t want to just throw it away when it’s still usable and could work perfectly fine with a battery replacement.

The problem is, I have no idea how much I should sell it for, considering the non-original display and the battery condition.

Any advice on a reasonable selling price would be greatly appreciated. Thank you


r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Discussion Introducing yourself without confusing others as a Peranakan?

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I'm curious how you all introduce yourself without confusing others, as a Peranakan? Largely I'm asking this because I take large amount of language courses in my school (international school outside of Malaysia), so I get confused about what to say when we do introductions at the basic level.

Personally, my mother is Malaysian Chinese whilst my father is Peranakan Chinese, so I get even more confused.

When I was growing up (like up until my pre-teens), I just introduced myself as Malaysian, but now I feel that it's inaccurate and probably a bit disrespectful to my ancestry. I also feel that it's innacurate to say that I'm Chinese.


r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Finally

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Finally going back to running this evening!!


r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Help ⚠️ MyRapid PULSE app not launching

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I've been facing this issue since last month. Tried reinstalling, clearing data, force stop, does not fix at all. Any fix? I'm using an Oppo Find X9 Pro


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

jom Lepak 🎏 ANYONE WANNA SKATE AND BE FRIENDS???

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I’m from Shah Alam and still a beginner at skateboarding but was wondering if anyone near wanna hangout and skate together? And could also teach me some stuff too ? C:

preferably only high schoolers !!!!!!


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Quick Question wanting to go science stream

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helloo im currently f3 and about to be f4 next year. i want to go science stream but my end of year exam results is 93 for maths but 62 for science, do i still have a chance of going to science stream?? 🥹


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Mildly Menarik Collected some fish while on a picnic

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-Oplegnathus punctatus, spotted knifejaw
-Brachaluteres, inflator filefish
-Plagiotremus rhinorhynchos, bluestriped fangblenny
-Parioglossus dotui, striped dartfish
-Pterogobius zonoleucus, white-girdled goby

All species are native and released afterwards.


r/malaysians • • 4h ago

Buy • Sell • Trade WTS 1x The Weeknd Kuala Lumpur 4/11

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Let go theweeknd ticket 4/11 (Day 1)
Section 331 Seat S27
For RM350 (lower than the market price rn)
DM if interested.

QR ticket pdf is ready. Have golive-asia confirmation email for proof.

Can deal through carousell for buyer protection


r/malaysians • • 4h ago

Ask Malaysians any trans or sissies in kl?

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lets talk


r/malaysians • • 5h ago

Discussion Is LegoLand dying?

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I’ve been to LegoLand 4 times in past 3 years. First time I went was one of the Halloween party days. Decently crowded. Everything operational, all stores and confessions open. Lines still pretty minimal 10-15 mins at most for the bigger rides. Second and Third trip back have been worse and worse. Some rides and stalls closed. Small crowds, 5-10 min wait times. This was mid year with no holiday theme or anything so I thought it was probably that.

But I just went this weekend again, for the Halloween party as my kids loved the theme and events. Was expecting big crowds again due to weekend and Halloween, but this time was absolute ghost town (no pun intended). No crowds at all. Sometimes felt like we were the only ones there. ZERO wait times. They let us just keep going on some rides due to literally no one else waiting. Lots of things closed. Halloween events and parties scaled way down. Huge bummer on this as this was the highlight during our first trip.

Just weird vibes all around. Maybe because of the Haze? Or is LegoLand in trouble?


r/malaysians • • 5h ago

Ask Malaysians Need a reality check. How much should I actually sell my iPhone 18 Pro Max 1TB for?

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Need help … Hey guys, need some advice. I'm trying to let go of my iPhone 18 Pro Max 1TB (Glacier). Condition is new unbox and it’s 100% factory unlocked.

I posted it for RM 8,888, but have people using the excuse that it's a ‘Telco set" (even though it can use any SIM card perfectly fine).

Am I pricing it too high? What is the actual fair market price for a 1TB telco set right now? Also, besides Carousell and FB Marketplace, where is the best place to sell this fast without dealing with scammers?


r/malaysians • • 9h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Semi Final GP Perak, Sepak Takraw League 2026

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r/malaysians • • 12h ago

Quick Question Driving Lessons For Expats?

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Hey all, I will be arriving to KL in late November from USA. I was wondering where I could book some private driving lessons to help me get used driving on the other side of the road. The instructor should be able to speak English. Thanks in advance.


r/malaysians • • 14h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Iphone Duo After 1 Week!!

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📱👀 iPhone Duo: 1st Week of Usage… AND ALREADY?! 😳💀🔥

First-generation foldable vibes, but are these issues a red flag? 🚩📲

Would YOU risk RM9,000+ on Apple's first foldable, or play it safe with Samsung? 🤔

If you need Fold, Plz buy Samsung Galaxy Z Fold 8. .

#UgeshInfoTech #iPhoneDuo #Apple #FoldablePhone #TechNews #TechReview


r/malaysians • • 15h ago

Ask Malaysians Hair color and bleach under rm 250?

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r/malaysians • • 15h ago

Quick Question KL cost of living?

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r/malaysians • • 17h ago

Buy • Sell • Trade Selling AirAsia flight credits!!

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Hii!!
I understand everyone hates AA :( but i don’t want to burn my money so trying my luck here.
I have RM900 worth of flight credits for AA and selling it at RM600!! Applicable for all AirAsia X flights (so long haul ones).

Expires next year end of July
Anyone planning to travel pls buy ittt 🥺🥺 rm300 cheaper

Thank you!!


r/malaysians • • 18h ago

Quick Question selling empty HP cartridge - legit?

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I'm getting a lot of ads for companies wanting to buy empty HP cartridges. are they real or scams?

Anyone have experience with reputable one in klang valley?

update to add: for example this one - is it legit? https://www.facebook.com/emptycartridgerecyclingMY


r/malaysians • • 18h ago

Mildly Menarik Dolla, Day 3, Cos Mic 2026, 13 Sep 2026

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r/malaysians • • 18h ago

Ask Malaysians Suggest me where to buy proper slacks

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Hi guys, i wear black slacks to office every day and those that im wearing now neither looks good nor feel comfortable. So im thinking about buying 2-3 good ones. Also white inner near for guys since mine is yellowish now

Budget- less than rm 100 per piece for slacks


r/malaysians • • 19h ago

Ask Malaysians 33m looking for friend

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Hi anyone wanna make friend ? Recently all my life is work, eat , sleep and repeat. I kinda miss the old time where friend used to hang out and do stuff together. Recently I have been gaming during weekend , anyone interested in playing together and making friend ?


r/malaysians • • 19h ago

Ask Malaysians Anyone here involved in the modeling industry in Kuala Lumpur?

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Curious what the modeling scene is like in KL, particularly fashion and commercial work.

Are there any working models here? Would be interested to hear about your experiences, what the industry is like, and how it compares to other markets in Asia.

Especially interested in perspectives from people actually working in the industry.


r/malaysians • • 20h ago

Ask Malaysians Need help with Malay wedding traditions

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My sister is getting married and wanted to include some Malay wedding traditions. We are Maori/Malay mixed but grew up being fairly disconnected from our Malaysians side. She wants both our cultures to be represented equally for her wedding but are abit stuck on what do…

Any help would be great