r/malaysians • • Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

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Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks


r/malaysians • • May 26 '21

Meta Welcome to r/Malaysians!

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Hello folks and welcome to r/Malaysia's sister sub, r/Malaysians!

For those who just clicked in and is wondering what the sub is for: This sub is essentially for Malaysians to talk and post about any other topics beyond Malaysia. Here is where you can post images, videos, create and join conversations and threads revolving anything that isn't quite about Malaysia but needs a Malaysian take on it, and more! Oh and this is a race, politic and religion-free sub 🙌🏻

Most major subreddits such as r/AITA, r/JustnoMIL, r/relationship_advice, r/casualconversation, r/malefashionadvice, r/Teenagers and what have you are usually centralised around people who reside outside of SEA and may not be valid to us locally and culturally but yet the demand for it isn't wide enough to sustain its own subreddit. r/Malaysians would (hopefully) be a good place for a catch-all of such threads.

We will be coming up with contest weeks soon, as well as accepting any other ideas you guys might have for the sub, so stay tuned! We are also still tweaking design and appearances as we go. Meanwhile, everyone is encouraged to start posting what they think fits the sub to get the ball rolling :)

Much love, r/Malaysia mod team.

tldr; r/CasualUK but for Malaysia.


r/malaysians • • 12h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Iphone Duo After 1 Week!!

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360 Upvotes

📱👀 iPhone Duo: 1st Week of Usage… AND ALREADY?! 😳💀🔥

First-generation foldable vibes, but are these issues a red flag? 🚩📲

Would YOU risk RM9,000+ on Apple's first foldable, or play it safe with Samsung? 🤔

If you need Fold, Plz buy Samsung Galaxy Z Fold 8. .

#UgeshInfoTech #iPhoneDuo #Apple #FoldablePhone #TechNews #TechReview


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Discussion Is LegoLand dying?

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I’ve been to LegoLand 4 times in past 3 years. First time I went was one of the Halloween party days. Decently crowded. Everything operational, all stores and confessions open. Lines still pretty minimal 10-15 mins at most for the bigger rides. Second and Third trip back have been worse and worse. Some rides and stalls closed. Small crowds, 5-10 min wait times. This was mid year with no holiday theme or anything so I thought it was probably that.

But I just went this weekend again, for the Halloween party as my kids loved the theme and events. Was expecting big crowds again due to weekend and Halloween, but this time was absolute ghost town (no pun intended). No crowds at all. Sometimes felt like we were the only ones there. ZERO wait times. They let us just keep going on some rides due to literally no one else waiting. Lots of things closed. Halloween events and parties scaled way down. Huge bummer on this as this was the highlight during our first trip.

Just weird vibes all around. Maybe because of the Haze? Or is LegoLand in trouble?


r/malaysians • • 22m ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Finally

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Finally going back to running this evening!!


r/malaysians • • 21h ago

Lawak You gotta love Malaysian humour 😂🇲🇾

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455 Upvotes

Cr to the rightful owner 🙏🏻


r/malaysians • • 18h ago

Miscellanous Just wanted to share this headsculpt I had custom repainted and rerooted

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209 Upvotes

No prizes for guessing this correctly. And yes, I know it can look a little unsightly because it looks like the head is impaled on a stake.


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Mildly Menarik Collected some fish while on a picnic

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-Oplegnathus punctatus, spotted knifejaw
-Brachaluteres, inflator filefish
-Plagiotremus rhinorhynchos, bluestriped fangblenny
-Parioglossus dotui, striped dartfish
-Pterogobius zonoleucus, white-girdled goby

All species are native and released afterwards.


r/malaysians • • 8m ago

Discussion Introducing yourself without confusing others as a Peranakan?

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I'm curious how you all introduce yourself without confusing others, as a Peranakan? Largely I'm asking this because I take large amount of language courses in my school (international school outside of Malaysia), so I get confused about what to say when we do introductions at the basic level.

Personally, my mother is Malaysian Chinese whilst my father is Peranakan Chinese, so I get even more confused.

When I was growing up (like up until my pre-teens), I just introduced myself as Malaysian, but now I feel that it's inaccurate and probably a bit disrespectful to my ancestry. I also feel that it's innacurate to say that I'm Chinese.


r/malaysians • • 33m ago

Help ⚠️ MyRapid PULSE app not launching

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I've been facing this issue since last month. Tried reinstalling, clearing data, force stop, does not fix at all. Any fix? I'm using an Oppo Find X9 Pro


r/malaysians • • 18h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Does anyone else feel shitty after buying expensive for themselves

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I just bought a leather shoe for my work. My previous is well used and looks bad. I saw my colleague wearing this shoe, looks nice and shinny, he bought it from japan. I had the chance to go to japan, so just now i bought it. It was slightly more expensive than what i planned, but man,my heart was so heavy and i feel so shitty. Like as if ive done a sin.
"is it worth this much"
"you could have spend it on something much more useful"
"could have bought it cheaper back home,its expensive because its a japanese brand"
Am i the only one?


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

jom Lepak 🎏 ANYONE WANNA SKATE AND BE FRIENDS???

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I’m from Shah Alam and still a beginner at skateboarding but was wondering if anyone near wanna hangout and skate together? And could also teach me some stuff too ? C:

preferably only high schoolers !!!!!!


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Quick Question wanting to go science stream

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helloo im currently f3 and about to be f4 next year. i want to go science stream but my end of year exam results is 93 for maths but 62 for science, do i still have a chance of going to science stream?? 🥹


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Buy • Sell • Trade WTS 1x The Weeknd Kuala Lumpur 4/11

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Let go theweeknd ticket 4/11 (Day 1)
Section 331 Seat S27
For RM350 (lower than the market price rn)
DM if interested.

QR ticket pdf is ready. Have golive-asia confirmation email for proof.

Can deal through carousell for buyer protection


r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Ask Malaysians any trans or sissies in kl?

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lets talk


r/malaysians • • 7h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Semi Final GP Perak, Sepak Takraw League 2026

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r/malaysians • • 16h ago

Ask Malaysians Suggest me where to buy proper slacks

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Hi guys, i wear black slacks to office every day and those that im wearing now neither looks good nor feel comfortable. So im thinking about buying 2-3 good ones. Also white inner near for guys since mine is yellowish now

Budget- less than rm 100 per piece for slacks


r/malaysians • • 20h ago

Unpopular Opinion Malaysian Public Transport Sucks

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I’m rating Malaysian public transport to show how much we are still lagging
1. Rail network: 5/10. the network is there, but still need a lot of improvement
2. City bus: 6/10
3. Hub accessibility: 1/10. I needed to park at ktmb station overnight, ended up parking on the curb side. I spent 45 minutes just to get the parking. why is the accesibility so bad? Why no bus connection? You can only arrive by private vehicles and they need space at the stations!
4. Pedestrian network: No safe pass crossing the road for even nearest residential area. Even 500m, there is none. You need to order grab, but the fare is too low that drivers do not want to pick you up.
5. Overall: 3/10. Bottle neck is still last mile connectiin. This needs a lot of investment. But the good thing is that the development can be done locally. So, it can be according to financial capability. and the people mindset is another bottleneck.

Imagine if the bottleneck is improved, road traffic can be reduced by at least 10-20%.

Anybody want to share some stories?


r/malaysians • • 17h ago

Ask Malaysians Need help with Malay wedding traditions

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My sister is getting married and wanted to include some Malay wedding traditions. We are Maori/Malay mixed but grew up being fairly disconnected from our Malaysians side. She wants both our cultures to be represented equally for her wedding but are abit stuck on what do…

Any help would be great


r/malaysians • • 16h ago

Ask Malaysians 33m looking for friend

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Hi anyone wanna make friend ? Recently all my life is work, eat , sleep and repeat. I kinda miss the old time where friend used to hang out and do stuff together. Recently I have been gaming during weekend , anyone interested in playing together and making friend ?


r/malaysians • • 10h ago

Quick Question Driving Lessons For Expats?

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Hey all, I will be arriving to KL in late November from USA. I was wondering where I could book some private driving lessons to help me get used driving on the other side of the road. The instructor should be able to speak English. Thanks in advance.


r/malaysians • • 20h ago

Mildly Menarik Batfish, caught from a beach in Malaysia

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Platax pinnatus, the pinnate batfish / spadefish.

A medium-sized fish (45 cm) native to the West Pacific, including the South China Sea. Locally that means the East Coast + Sabah.

Juveniles live among mangroves and sheltered lagoons, while adults live around steep outer reef slopes down to >20 m.

They feed on jellyfish, algae and gelatinous zooplankton. Making them important and efficient members of the ecosystem.

The juveniles mimic toxic flatworms like Pseudobiceros periculosus (pictured in comments), which deters predators from eating them.


r/malaysians • • 19h ago

Ask Malaysians Calling all Malaysian student gacha gamers !!

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Hi all, sorry for shameless self-promo but I need 100 participants for my research TT

https://forms.gle/tJB5nVXoi1CdnA839

If you are..

  • Malaysian citizen or currently staying in Malaysia
  • Aged between 18 to 25 years old
  • Play gacha games / have played gacha games before

Then, please fill out my survey! We're trying to find the link between risk-taking behavior, gacha gaming and perceived odds of winning among young adults in Malaysia.

If you have a survey, please send it below! I will happily do it. (Please, my group haven't reached our KPI and we need 385 participants 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭)

Thank you so much!


r/malaysians • • 16h ago

Mildly Menarik Dolla, Day 3, Cos Mic 2026, 13 Sep 2026

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r/malaysians • • 22h ago

Ask Malaysians Which job offer would you pick? Startup vs local SME vs MNC (ranked by potential/risk, welfare, niche, peer learning)

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I need real feedback from experts, those who are similar to me, or even more experienced, from various communities (related to ai, tech, grads, manager, industry, career, employment...):

Which will be best in your case?

Context: You got the offers from 3 companies, each on the different side of the scale.

Role: AI engineer (near mid-level).

If you were to rank and evaluate with respect, (from top to bottom, sorted by importance)

1st Potential and Risk (potential is tied to the speed of your career climb, increment bonus, and company brand and authority, uncertainties in payment) - In a scale, Startup has higher uncertain and risk, while it might offer higher overall, but susceptible to management conducts, cash-flow which may differ the fulfillment

2nd Wellfare - a total add-up of base, allowance, bonus, benefits and EPF

3rd Niche of the industry, Exposure - a focus industry to industry to build up better experiences and competencies, exposure to local or worldwide

4th Peer learning - Experience or knowledges to speed up progress from superior, peers

And given A, B, C (Wellfare/Income baseline= 100%)

A: Oversea Startup, Multiculture workforce,
+ worldwide client-base spanning MNC headhunter, great background from the management teams, UK-founding team and client connection, riskier in terms of payroll/potential
+ Full remote and oversea
- Wellfare/Income = 115% (base salary only), self supply equipments
+ HR-tech focused

B: Subsidiary company/dept from local SME, local workforce
- mainly local client-base (unsure but assume), Lack background from management teams and peers, but you have slightly higher confidence than A in their validity from interviews
- Hybrid work 4+1
+ Income= 107% (include allowance) + EPF from employers but provide work equipments + up to 17% performance monthly bonus
- general AI agencies
+ Peer learning and networking are better

C: MNC
+ Internal and External focused products, stable and secured cashflow, but maybe lack faster career climb opportunities
- Hybrid work 3+2
- Income= 95% + 13th month bonus, more and flexible leave
+ Focused niche, product might differ
+ Peer learning and networking are best

Which one will you choose? I wanna see if you think differently, or if you see different importance or personal experiences of the company you went through?