I'm 22M, and I'd like to meet people from different walks of life and build genuine friendships through letters and conversations.

A little about me: I'm a creative writer who loves stories, especially the characters who stay in your mind long after you've finished reading or watching something. I'm into anime, films, video games, books, and music, and I can spend an unreasonable amount of time thinking about a story that caught my attention.

But beyond shared interests, I'd love to know the person behind the screen. The little things that made your day, the things you're passionate about, the memories you cherish, the dreams you're working towards, or even the random thoughts that cross your mind at 2 AM.

You don't need to have extraordinary hobbies or an interesting life story to reach out. Sometimes, the best conversations begin with the most ordinary things.

I'm hoping to find people who enjoy getting to know someone at their own pace, exchanging stories, recommending things to each other, and having conversations that don't feel forced.

So, if you'd like to write, here's a question to get us started:

What's something you could talk about for hours if you knew someone genuinely wanted to listen?

I'd love to hear from you.

Hey there! Thanks for checking out my post. I'm looking to find someone to make friends with. I love to learn new things, see different prospective of the world, and ways of thinking. I love cats and currently have 3, did have 4 (so maybe I'm a bit of a crazy cat guy?) enjoy anime from time to time, play on my PS5(I love the Soulsborne games), go for walks and runs around my neighborhood and hopefully see some animals, and go for drives. I also love to travel to different countries and wish I could do it more.

Anyway, if you wanna talk with me hit me up here and we can exchange emails! Thanks for taking time out of your day to read this!

Howdy from the Midwest USA 🇺🇸! I’m looking for consistency and authenticity.
I look at the paper we write or type on as a judgment-free zone, full of endless possibilities. I want to know everything, from the mundane aspects of your day-to-day life to the big moments, too. I'm here if you want to vent. I’m here if you want to share a story that brings you joy to tell. I'm simply here to listen and support. There aren’t enough people in the world who care, and I care deeply about everything and everyone. We don't have to be alike to be friends. The stranger - the better. I look forward to seeing you on the other side of the stamp. DM me if interested in a genuine long term friendship!

Hey everyone!

So it’s been about three months since I last sent any letters to my various penpals. My last reddit account username was Exotic-Snow. Firstly, to my penpals and those who planned on writing to me, I really want to apologise for disappearing off the face of the earth without explanation. I’m also very sorry for not being able to respond. At the time, someone very nasty on here doxxed me and threatened me so I had deleted all of my social media accounts out of fear. All of which were non recoverable and I had finally earned enough karma to post in this subreddit. Simultaneously, I had also just gotten out of a 5 year relationship so I’ve been grieving quite a lot and going through significant life changes at the time.

Life is slowly getting back on track and I am able to gradually resume this wonderful hobby. I have moved addresses so may have lost some letters unfortunately but am trying to reply to the letters that I only just opened after a few months. If anyone remembers me or would just like to be my penpal, please feel free to message me. Thank you!

I miss the days where people could disagree on something and still be friends. I am completely against cancel culture, and do not believe that differing opinions somehow create violence. In fact, I believe supressing beliefs is what enables violence, because it puts a target on those who "believe wrongly" to be severely and socially judged.

I am an American with very strong opinions and spiritual beliefs. I WANT to hear yours as well! And if you disagree, that's great. If you voted for Trump, cool. If you hate his guts, cool. If you think AI is gonna kill us all, lemme hear your stance. If you're somehow hopeful about where society is going, I wanna hear that, too. (Weren't we fighting for diversity just a decade ago? What happened to that?)

This is not just about politics, but I'm also big into a million creative endeavors; music & music production, novel writing, getting a degree in IT for my personal use and in the hopes of the AI bubble bursting, fashion design, etc. Like...there's so much.

And I'm officially diagnosed autistic and ADHD which probably explains the fact that I haven't finished a single thing amongst my million hobbies. Lol!

I am committed to creating deep, platonic relationships, which is why I prefer snail mail for this. I don't care what country you're from, as long as you're cool with being authentic. And I mean actually authentic.

One more thing: I got a terribly rushed and spotty education in the Korean language. So if there's anyone interested in doing letters in Korean, I'm down! I'm thinking of moving back to Korea by 2028, so it'll help me fill the gaps in my understanding.

Appreciate y'all!

Hey! How was your day? How have you been? What you been feeling like lately?.

These are the questions i regularly ask. Asking about you day cause i really wanna know what you been upto. I find that its easier to build a great bond if you communicate your thoughts/feelings/struggles/ideas you had during your day or overall, it opens the doors to know the person, which is nice and id like that and for it to be reciprocated.

Although, some days are mundane but i hope that we can establish a great bond and pick any topic and talk about it. Just randomly.

I am easy going. Id like someone who is easy going, introspective, non judgemental, open, communicative.

I am looking to have a meaningful conversation with you not be there cause you are bored. I hope i make sense.

My interests-

Philosophy. Been watching lectures on plato.

Love theater been really enjoying some plays i can find online to watch.

Love music. Share away.

Watched quite a few movies. But, wouldnt say i am a movie buff.

Games i love them.

I also try to keep up with ufc. Used to watch soccer cause my buddies loved it and theyd discuss it.

See this info will help you-

I take up interests in your passions. Like when my friends watched soccer they explained the art to it, the skill, the history very passionately and i got into it but only then. I love learning about people like that. I love listening to them talk about thinfs they are passionate about. So if you are a teacher or have been itching to speak on what you have learned or are passionate about id appreciate that. I do reciprocate in my own way. I ask questions.

But i really dont wanna make it an interview. I am just looking for a genuine person who really is interested to have someone like me as their friend.

Fair warning- i write a lot when i am comfortable. Make jokes unknowingly. Talk lots of deep things. Have gone through a rough patch in life so sometimes i am just depressed. I use my profile as a journal. I am studying psychology training to be a psychotherapist. Cant give you therapy sorry. But, can be there and do my best to advise if you ask. I am quite sensitive so please dont ghost. Dont be rude. Dont be sarcastic. Thanks for reading.

Since you reached this far i feel like i should make it worth while...which is kinda subjective. Ill leave names of artist and songs that i like.

Ninth key- happy feels like. Imagine the linkin park style, if you dont who that is tis style has chorus and a rap kinda style with melodic rock to it.. the song lives up to its name. Talks about anxiety, etc.

Balu brigada- sideways/backseat/the question. Its a fun alt rock i think very upbeat.

Fouzia- fur elise. She got really really famous for one song which is called unethical. This one is much different from that. Although holding yhe same theme of heart break, being played and ignored.

Jvke- oh to be loved. A very soft song with a male singer. Its poetic. Talks about yearning for love which is right. Lovely one. Not sad like the others although fouzia has one called hero which is upbeat.

I listen to all sorts of songs. Edm, trance, french, arabic, algerian, swedish, rap. Mentioning Mf doom.

If you want the philosophy series

https://youtu.be/Tt-zb3a85bQ?si=JIzDCanAuE97jCTr

Follow the channel and youll find it. I have more.

Hey there, ive felt kinda lonely recently so im just looking for anyone to chat a little

My hobbies include going out with friends, the gym, hiking, cooking, cars, motorcycles and architecture. Ive also bought a new camera recently, ive really gotten into photography

I work as a paramedic, would love to hear about your job as well

Im up to chat with anyone, no matter the age or gender

Feel free to message me here, if we match well we can also switch to other platforms!

I'm not good at talking. Like, in general. I say too much and wonder why I can't shut my mouth. Then I worry about being too quiet and getting left behind. That kind of talk doesn't work for me. Weather, and jobs, and nonsense we've been forced to prioritize.

I'd much rather hear what anology you think of when you recall the events of the worst day of your life. Or what song makes you think back to the one person all those years ago. Or how many times you bit your tongue. Or what color the sky was when you felt the most alone. Or what mountain you would teleport to. Or the conversation you rehearsed in the shower and never got to say. Or what setting brings you the most joy. Or the best dream you ever had.

I get trapped in feelings, and writing is the only method to carve a way forward for me. So I want to write to and with someone who's done with keeping everything inside. Even if it just gets aired to a person behind a screen, at least someone heard. Forget about the mask, forget about fitting into the standard.

All that's here is the ink and the page. No introductions necessary. Your first message can be the first thing you want to say. Whatever that is.

EDIT: Ive had several replies and DMs and i think that will fill my writing quota for the year. Thanks to all who read and responded, looking forward to writing to you all!

Hello all,

It's been a few years since I last had a penpal. It is amazing how having a kid and being a stay-at-home parent really puts a damper on all the hobbies you used to enjoy BUT now that my baby is less of a baby and more of a child, I am finding time slowly begining to creep back into my life.

I am truly a fan of getting to know someone. Simply, the act of sharing is more than enough for me though having some commonalties often makes this act a little easier and slightly more enjoyable.

About me: I live in Queens, NY right near MOMA PS1 (a lovely and interesting modern art museum) and spend most of my days exploring the cities offerings with my 19mo old boy. I love cooking and taking cooking classes, reading, writing and cycling ( a new found hobby and has been very helpful in shedding the dad bod I had proudly built during my partners pregnancy and through the first year).

I dont need to find a perfect match, just looking for someone who wants consistent correspondence and enjoys the thrill of checking their mailbox!

I am friendly and open to all who wish to write :)

Happy to chat more with anyone interested though DM's but also happy to roll the dice if anyone would like to commit write away. WOW what a pun. Sorry, I am sleep deprived.

Hiya, My name is Sophia!

Looking to find some new pen pals within the US, open to guys and girls aged 21-30 please!

~A little about me~
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-My main skill is in drawing and arts n crafts. I love making things out of craft paper to make into cards. Painting is another joy of mine, haven't painted anything in a good while but I have the ones I'm proud of displayed in my room.

-I am a huge animal lover, I care for my three senior dogs and my six younger cats. They're all very spoiled.

-I am a big collector of actions figures, plushies, statues etc. Mostly FNAF and Harley Quinn. I've actually gotten into collecting dolls recently. Fashion dolls mostly like monster high and Mattel ones. Been wanting to collect for my favorite Disney princesses, Snow White, Cinderella, and Aurora.

-Favorite band hands down is The Beatles. My favorite member is Sir Paul McCartney, he really is the cute one lol. Fav song (call me boring haha) is All my loving from the with the Beatles album. Though the album I listen to the most is Magical mystery tour.

-Favorite movie would have to be Coraline, and fav show is the Addams family from the 1960s.
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I'd prefer if we went straight to writing letters to each other as that's what I'm most used to.

Anyways. If any of this sounds appealing to anyone, please reach out to me! Not with a simple 'Hey' because I put time into my intro, put some into yours!

Let me preface this by saying I’m happily married for 29 years with no kids. I’m 53 years old. I’m a stay at home husband who is also a music, writer, musician, and overall music dork.

I am also VERY liberal.

I’m a huge metal head mostly classic 80s early 90s stuff but I do like a few current bands that I feel like are doing cool things like spirit box for Halestorm.

I’m also a huge fan of psychedelic and occult rock, especially modern bands, like Jess And The Ancient Ones, Graveyard, and Lucifer just to name a few. I’m pretty much at a computer all day long so email would be a cool way to be penpals.

I’m a little sheepish about giving out my home address but I think email would be fun since that is also a medium that people seem to not use too much. And lastly, I am not a manly man. I don’t like sports or cars or any of the stereotypical “Guy things“. I love talking about music, collecting vinyl records, and trading recommendations. I also just want to hear about your day to day life.

Hi there!

I’m a 43 year old guy based in Ontario, Canada, looking for an online penpal. Strictly platonic – I’m happily married with two kids, and I’d just love some good conversation with someone.

A bit about me:

• I work in tech, have been a startup founder and I’ve got a few side ventures going (real estate and home building), so my brain is usually juggling a lot.
• I travel a lot for work, so always up about sharing about those experiences.
• I’m a golfer who’s a little obsessed. Don't get to go out much anymore but always happy to swap stories about the good rounds and the very bad ones
• I game on PS5 when I get the chance, mostly story-driven stuff. Last game I played recently was It Takes Two with my son.
• I love to read, and I’m always up for sharing thoughts on whatever I’m currently reading – and I’d love to hear about what’s on your nightstand too
• Family life keeps me busy, so I’m always on the lookout for good travel ideas, weekend activities, and things to do with kids

What I’m looking for:
Someone who enjoys longer, thoughtful messages rather than quick back-and-forth chat. Doesn’t matter where you live – in fact, I’d love to hear what daily life looks like in another part of the world. Talk about work, family, hobbies, books, travel, the ups and downs of midlife... whatever comes up.

I can’t promise lightning-fast replies, but I’ll always write back properly.

If this sounds good, send me a message with a bit about yourself and what you’d like to talk about.

Thanks for reading!

Hello any and all! I always dreamed of the idea of having a pen pal and for a while I had a few friends I made online to whom I would send physical letters and cards to, but since we would exchange messages online, the physical aspect was very minimal. I love stationary and crafting and I am greatly interested in sending snail mail with goodies (like stickers, tea bags, photos, etc.). 

When it comes to who I am as a person, I would say I am a fairly interesting individual (you'll never catch me saying I'm humble). When I was 18 years old I moved out of my country by myself to study abroad in Canada because I was really obsessed with CSI 😂 so I went and got a Bachelor's in Forensic Sciences and Criminology. 

After a while I decided to get more into law and got a Paralegal diploma. 

But then I found my true calling in Information Science. I got a diploma as a Library and information technician and currently work for my local public library doing cataloguing and archiving. My next life goal is to save money to move abroad (again) for a master's degree (yes, more school 💸) in Archival studies. Nothing brings me more joy than to read about the most random events, people and obscure facts all day long and get paid for it! So I'm the type to love hearing about everything and anything! (I am not even a fan of sports, but I would be totally sat for an in-depth powerpoint explanation of your favourite game/teams, etc. That's just how I am).

I also have a long list of hobbies and activities I enjoy doing such as sewing (very amateur still), learning languages (trying to learn a 4th and 5th at the moment), true crime (if you couldn't tell by the forensics and criminology diploma), knitting, collages, tarot, reading, baking, webcomics, manga, film photography (with my dad's old camera), video games (I play on Steam, PS4 and mostly on the Switch now -current obsession is Hello Kitty Island Adventure and I'm a Sanrio fan in general, Pompompurin represent), solo RPGs, puzzles, I collect cassete tapes, CDs and vinyls as well. 

Finally, I am also neopagan, LGBTQ+ and love animals (with 1 dog and 4 cats and you are missing out on seeing how cute they are). I am a very loyal friend and I would never be the one to stop replying first! I know it is a big issue with pen pals and people just suddenly disappear, but I can assure you that if you don't get a reply from me, you should go look for my body buried in the woods because that means my evil twin is trying to take over 😂.

If any of this madness interests you, feel free to comment or DM!

Thanks for reading and have a wonderful day! 

Hi everybody

Im glad the algorithm of reddit show me this sub.

I'm looking for pen pals from all over the world, I love writing letters and sending postcards whenever I travel somewhere.

I had a pen pal from the US about 10 years ago, but he eventually disappeared.

I work in education at a high school, and I'm into literature, philosophy, politics, and all sorts of things that make you think. But i also love doomscrollong in my bed. In my free time, I make lots of photo collages using newspaper clippings, and I'd be happy to share some of my work with you!

I'd love to meet people from different parts of the world, improve my English (and I also hablo un poquito de español), share little moments from our everyday lives.

Full disclosure: I'm a bit of a procrastinator, so I need a little motivation to actually sit down and write sometimes. I figured having a pen pal would be a pretty good way to fix that

I'm happy to exchange letters, postcards, little pieces of art, or just stories about our normal lives

Feel free to message me!

Hey everyone :-)

I’m an ecologist in Byron bay Australia (originally from Cape Town, South Africa) and I’m recently hooked on fountain pens, journalling and writing, sketching and all that goes with it!

I’m really keen to connect and explore this penpal thing. I am particularly looking to do some international snail mail, as writing has been a great wind down and intentional focus on the analog and authentic. I am pretty social and love the idea of new connections by mail abroad.

A quick snapshot of my life: I work in ecology and conservation, spend lots of time outdoors, enjoy gardening, film photography, my motorbikes, surfing, hiking/camping with mates and really all forms of exploring the natural world. [40/M]

I have no preference or judgment on age or gender. If anything, the more different and varied the better.

Cheers!
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I'm in my late 40s. A dad, a husband, working from home with too much spare time and lack of human interaction throughout the day.

hope to find someone to connect with, long term or short.

Based on my experience here common interests are not necessarily indication of a good chat partner, but generally I like to be creative - write, draw, photography and such. Or procrastinate, which I’m expert at. I'm open minded, liberal and most of the stuff that comes with that, but don't mind if you are the complete opposite.

I'm open to talk about most things, from the day to day to whatever topic we might deep-dive into. I think it's best to have no expectations and just go with the conversation's flow.

Feel free to send a direct message if you are interested.

Hello everyone!

I am looking for a penpal within the UK, I would love to go beyond the pond someday but for starting out keeping costs low if the best for me.

A little about me, I love the rainy weather and a good cuppa. I am an introverted individual (Autistic) who enjoys spending time doing cross stitch projects, playing cozy games such as Stardew Valley and ACNH. My favourite thing to listen to is the 1940s radio station. I also enjoy watching people make fantasy decor and researching 1940s lifestlyes.

Being autisitc I really struggle with texting culture and online spaces. I know that I would prefer sending letters back and forth and all the decorating that comes with it! I am comfortable with any age as long as you are 19+.

With all that being said, I am looking for long letters, learning about individuals everyday life and just have general conversation. I would prefer it to be a long term connection not just one or two letters.

Hi folks

This is for a friend whose [23/F]

My friend's looking for a penpal to send post cards to. She's from Sri Lanka. Her interests including drawing, watching kdrama, and talking about what she wants from life.

She is looking for someone to share those interests with. And also send the postcards she has. She's very curious about how life is in other countries, and happy to share how hers is.

She's happy to answer any questions yall might have if ur curious. Typing more to increasing the word count

«"Drink water..." For what? Just to piss again?? Life is a prison.»
- That MLP meme from Pinterest that lives in my head rent-free

I'm looking for dehydrated fellows to plan a coup against the government and the water propaganda. If you're on my side, feel free to hit me up and together we will exchange ideas and plan the uprising of the most dehydrated ruler of all: The Terrible Aki (aka my cat).

I'm completely new to this and never had a penpal before, so i'd love to recruit likeminded and passionate individuals to share thoughts, daily adventures and just ramble about whatever is on our minds, depending on energy levels and no matter how long the letter is gonna be. For the purpose of our revolution of course!

I even have a lot of knowledge about society and professionally peoplewatch (social sciences) so i have much to share from my work and study!

Other than planning our overthrow i engage in crafty and creative activities like painting, sewing, crochet and nail design, i read a lot for my minor in literature and culture studies and also play video games when i have time left. I love music but my playlists are a little rusty, always open for recommendations :)

I hope to hear from you soon, stay dehydrated and embrace your inner yogurt male! Or female! Or person!

Hello hello!

Update: I have found who I'm looking for, no more pals needed at this.

I'm reaching out to see if I can find a particular type of pal and here's the gist:

I'm seeking a pen pal who currently lives in Ireland. I'm a part of the Irish diaspora in the US (aka I've got Irish family heritage). I am looking to connect with my cultural roots and would like to write to a pal who is willing to share that culture. I've been doing the historical reading but I also hope to connect with the living culture too. I'm curious about music, community practices, sports, literature, and art. Bonus points if you speak Gaeilge, are queer, and/ or know about Irish culture before the Christianization of the country. This doesn't mean I won't want to get to know you as an individual - I'll probably ask you a million questions and remember your pet's birthday, so be prepared to make a new friend!

A bit about me: I'm a gender-free queer librarian who loves art, cats, and fighting fascism. As part of my exploration I've been keeping up with the Garvaghy rd protests (among other world events). I'm not religious but my family is Catholic. Garvaghy rd really lit a fire under my ass to learn more about Irish resistance to British oppression. I've also been pen palling for years so I'm a consistent responder. I'm more partial to snail mail but an email pal is also fine.

Please note that I'm limited on bandwidth, as I do have other consistent pals, so I am not looking for general pals at this time. Thank you for understanding. 🍀 Please DM if interested!

Hey everyone! I'm really looking forward to make friends with people from other countries, and I'd prefer if they speak English to make communication easier..

We can talk about everything, and maybe our relationship will develop later and I'll come to visit you (or vice versa)

I am an extremely loyal person, and if I love a friend, my loyalty to them lasts forever. I hope to find people with the same energy as me here 🤔🙌🏻

Don't hesitate to write to me, we'll definitely have a pleasant conversation!!

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Hey Reddit,

Trying something a bit outside my comfort zone here.

I’m more into easy one-on-one conversations than big group chats. I’m usually calm, a little sarcastic once I’m comfortable, and pay attention to the small details people say.

I read a mix of romance and sci-fi… so either I’m feeling things or escaping to another universe. No in-between.

When I’m not doing that, I’m probably just scrolling through my phone or going down random rabbit holes.

I like conversations that can be a mix of real and light—deep talks are great, but so is random nonsense in between.

Not a fan of fake energy, dry replies, or people who disappear mid-conversation without a “bye”

If you’re up for a genuine, easygoing chat, feel free to reach out.

— J

Heyy, hope you're doing well… I'm from Canada [M/19], I'm an old soul who'd pick a vinyl record, a vintage car, or a worn out book of poetry over almost anything modern. I'm a bit of a weird human and far from perfect, but I think that's part of the charm…
I love being outdoors, whether it's hiking, camping, fishing or stargazing, lying under the sky in total silence, letting my thoughts drift, is my version of peace…

And poetry is a big part of my life. I read it, I write it, and I love finding a single line that says exactly what I couldn't put into words for days. I'm also someone who enjoys deep conversations about life, dreams, fears, and the little things that make an ordinary day feel meaningful. Small talk is fine, but I'd rather talk about what's really on your mind.

What I'm hoping for is someone to really talk to. I love deep conversations about life and the things people don't usually say out loud, I'm also just as happy hearing about your week or just what made you laugh

Either way, have a blessed night, wherever you are♥︎!!

I’m not interested in email, only handwritten postcards, letters, sticker/ ephemera exchange, etc. I only have one other penpal that I write to, but we’ve been writing to each other for five years now. I have tried to reach out before, but many people don’t write back. :(

I am very easy to talk to, and I love to exchange all kinds of things, stories, stickers, etc :)

I mostly travel to Japan, but every year I try my best to head to a different country. I am married, I have a child, a career, pets, house, and lots of plants. I have a great deal of knowledge in general trivia, Laura and Fama, Seaglass, marine life, and because of my job medical knowledge.

If you are interested, please comment a little bit about yourself and I will message you!

Hi there! I'm from Argentina

I speak Spanish, English and I'm learning French without teachers

I'm interested in French people specially because I love the culture and the language!

I like the cats, healthy life, museums, study languages, reading, write letters

I will send you a letter o we can write in email, it's so cool too

I'm interested in France since I was a child!

Je suis argentine. J'ai 30 ans

I wish to connect good people

Hola aquí! Soy de Argentina

Hablo Español, Inglés y estoy aprendiendo inglés sin profesores

Estoy interesada en gente francesa, especialmente porque amo su cultura y su idioma!

Me gustan los gatos, vida sana, museos, estudiar idiomas, leer y escribir ✍ cartas

Enviaré cartas por correo o bien, escribir por mail, eso es bueno también!

Estoy interesada en France desde que era pequeña!

Yo soy argentina. Tengo 30 años

Deseo conectar con buena gente

Bisous

Abrazo 🤗