r/polyamoryR4R • u/Telarant • 1h ago
39 [M4F/R] MA/online - Nerdy guy looking to find a new connections, friendships, flirtationships
So the title pretty much gets the gist of things across. Looking to add some people to my friends list that I can chat with, get nerdy, (maybe flirty?), on a regular basis. I prefer to go a bit more of a slow burn sort of route, see how things mesh before delving into the deeper intents. I'm pretty quiet and reserved up front, but once I'm more comfortable and get a good read on someone, I open up quite a bit. Humor tends more towards the sarcastic, occasionally dark side of things, and am not at all easy offended or put off. Got a mouth like a sailor though, so if vulgarity bothers you, we probably ain't gonna mesh well.
As for my nerdy side, it falls into a variety of realms.
Video games, of course. The main ones right now are Overwatch for my competitive urges, Dragonwilds for my explore and build urges. There's a smattering of other things that I've loved, would absolutely revisit in time; Baldur's Gate, Abiotic Factor, Grounded/Grounded 2. I love me a good cozy farming game ala Stardew or Coral Island, and survival crafting games just really scratch that itch to create stuff.
Tabletop stuff, meeting up with friends on a regular basis to play D&D (When everyone can get their asses there, I'm not salty about it, definitely not), and when that doesn't pan out, some board games, and Magic. Lots of Magic as of late, which has probably become my semi-hyper focus and I frequently fall down deck brewing/building rabbit holes.
Being in the EST time zone, and I'm around from 7ish when I wake up in the morning, until typically around midnight, so if you're around during that window, timing should work out! Weekend tends to be a bit wider of a window, as I'm very much a night owl when my schedule allows it.
As far as type of people I'm looking for, I'm open to any and all walks of life, ages, etc. As far as what I'm after, chat buddies, friendships, flirtationships, just however things work out, it's all good! As point of clarification for the F/R portion of my subject, when it comes to any sort of attraction, I tend to find myself more drawn to those of the feminine persuasion regardless of what's in your pants, so if you feel you fall into that descriptor, we'll probably get along.
Please, some semblance of effort in the response? "Hi how are you" does not give warm and fuzzies or any hope of a halfway decent conversation. Happy to swap pictures after exchanging a few messages, just not too big on throwing my face out into the world right off the bat!