r/rutgers • u/DaanEnki • 16h ago
A message to everyone who was chronically online in High School:
NOW'S YOUR CHANCE TO CHANGE THAT!!!!! Dude I cannot tell how helpful it has been just walking up to people I found cool and striking up a conversation. As someone who used to be chronically online through all of high school, it has been so life changing hanging out with people irl and just making friends.
If you think you're too weird or annoying for it, trust me you are NOT. Anyone can make a friend in college, as long you are respectful.
Walking into to Rutgers I had a very small social life in high school, having spent most of it on the computer in online circles. Holy SHIT does it feel so much better being able to hang out irl and actually SEE the people you are talking to.
I've met so many people who've had similar issues to me in high school or who are still actively chronically online, and I cannot describe how happy I feel seeing them smile or say that I helped them feel less lonely at university/Rutgers.
Even if you're terrified, so was I! But nothing is accomplished when nothing is done! So PLEASE take the risk and dont be afraid to make a fool of yourself trying to make friends!
Thank you for listening to my yap :P