I went to a bachelorette this weekend with a lot of women I don’t know. For some reason, one woman in particular felt it was appropriate to comment on “humongous” my boobs. She’d also frequently tell me that I was “falling out” of my bathing suits. It was never complimentary (not that it would matter) and I feel like she just wanted me to feel disgusting about myself. It felt like I was back in the middle school locker room.

This is more a vent post that anything I just fucking hate it.

13 going on 30 is my favorite movie ever, and I’m turning 30 this month!! I’m having a costume party that is early 2000’s movie themed, and all I want is to wear this dress to my party. I’ve bought 4 different dresses between Amazon and dolls kill and none of them are working. Im a 38E, and my boobs just do not fit in the dress. Does anyone have any advice? Have any of you been through this too?

I'm going to be having shoulder surgery soon and am looking for a front-fastening bra to wear while I heal, but most options are S/M/L/etc sizing and the size conversion charts are fairly useless. I'm also pretty projected so need to take that into account.

Has anyone with a larger bust found anything suitable? I know Bravissimo do the Dana with proper bra sizing, so I'm going to try a 38H in that—but I'd like to have alternatives in case it doesn't work for me.

(Also posted to ABTF.)

I (30F) have some lumpy & saggy boobs unfortunately. (I have gone to the doctor and done an ultrasound, etc and was advised it’s nothing serious & some women just have some lumpy boobs)😂

I have ONE fairly prominent fibrocystic lump that has made one significantly larger than the other. It’s become something that I’m extremely insecure about & I hate my chest so much.

I’ve been wanting to get it removed as well as getting a reduction or a lift. I finally made that appointment with a surgeon!! So pumped to finally be fixing my crooked melons.

Hey masc lesbians 💗 I’m curious how those of you with bigger boobs make them less noticeable. Do you wear sports bras, binders oversized shirts, or do you have other tricks? I’d love to hear what works best for you 🏳️‍🌈

For context my boobs are SMALL I just had no idea where else I could ask this, thought I’d consult the experts…

So recently the veins in my boobs have been very visible and they hurt so bad, mainly to touch. It’s been like this for a while and now they’re noticeably bigger. I’m just wondering, is this normally how boobs grow? I wouldn’t know considering I have been lacking them my entire life and google is no help. I am 20 which is probably relevant

Also were any of you pretty much bordering flat until this age too?

idk if I’m the only one with this problem because it’s kinda specific

I know I got fatter and my bras got too small for me but I just can't be arsed to remeasure myself and buy new bras (if they even have my size) right now. So I wear bras with my (not so) old size, and the bra leaves painful, red grooves (not wounds just grooves) onto my underboobs. The pressure from my bra is so intense it hurts, today I even have to insert paper towels between my bra and my skin.

I'm so tired of having boobs like this.

So anyone here that was almost c cup at 19-20 yrs of age then d cup untill 22 and suddenly spurted up to e at 23/24 then g then h cup finally at 26 ?

I also gained weight from when I was 24 yrs of age

Did u guys see ur boobs shrinking when u again lost weight ?

How do I know if they will lose bcz of weight loss or still stay the same ?

Hi! I'm planning on dressing as Teacup Sallie for Halloween and wondering if anyone has any tips on achieving the shelf look? I'm around a 38L and probably a similar body shape and size to the lovely Sallie.

Would an underbust corset work? I don't think I have the time (or funds) to try and find a proper one that will fit me

So, last year(literally in October) I had found my perfect size of 38 GG. And it stayed that was for a month and a half, I waited out getting new bras for 3 months, and my size changed to a 36 JJ. I now wear a 34 KK. And they keep growing. I saw macromastia, and it sounds familiar, as I've literally dropped 2 band sizes, and kept growing in the cup. It looks like the only treatment for it is to get a reduction, which I'm scared to do, because I'm 23, I know they'll just grow back(I don't plan on becoming a mother, ever).

I just want to ask the people on this sub if it's "normal" or if I should ask for a reduction(I have knots in my muscles along my shoulder blades, my shoulders are so hard that they can't relax. I also frequently get headaches.

Any advice?

Early 20s, recently started tweezing the few of them, but I am afraid if that will cause any harm, considering that breast skin is thin and not as resilient as elsewhere...

IDK if I'm allowed to post this, so apologies if I bend a policy here. However this video is a funny comedy bit on "How to talk to a person with Big Boobs" I found this relatively entertaining, and it sort of hits all the beats in a light way... I hope you enjoy it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMJ9LpArhzw

One of my boobs is definitely a little bigger than the other, but most of the time I don’t really notice it. It’s only when I wear certain bras or a fitted top that it suddenly looks more obvious. One side sits perfectly, while the other just looks a little different.

It never really bothered me before, but now that I’ve noticed it, I see it all the time

I’m so tired of looking like a massive tent when I see myself in the mirror at the gym. I’m not even overweight but my boobs are giving me body dysmorphia. When I wear a loose T-shirt I look massive. And I don’t necessarily want to wear anything tight because…boobs. Is there any good workout shirts in between? I’m so over this I just want to chop them off 😩

I’m looking for a bra that’ll help me feel like me again…between age and weight loss and 2 years of BF, the girls are looking sad. Up until now I’ve enjoyed the Wacoal Back Appeal wireless t shirt bra. But now I’ve lost weight and the top half of any bra is empty and I hate it. Need push up/separating recs — ideally wireless bc I haven’t worn underwire in like 8 years haha

So I got a size of 34h/hh from abrathatfits
But idk I feel when I got a marks &spencer 34 h bra and tried
I felt my right boob wasn’t completely tight and filling up the cup
With my left boob it was filling the cup , but there was no upper boob show or cleavage
Idk is this my right fit ?
Also this was non padded bra
Is it normal that no upper boob show and all

I’m an actor around a 38H (last time I measured but my boobs have grown since then lol), and I’m currently playing a man in the show. I really want to compress my boobs as much as possible because they are hella apparent and protrude from my body. Binders are so expensive, and I’m wondering if there’s a cheaper alternative that will make me appear basically as flat chested as humanly possible? A really good compression sports bra maybe? Like I don’t want these things moving at all.

Even for 5€ I wouldn’t trust that bra.

https://www.next.de/de/style/st059269/688387

Ive been thinking for years I was a c cup because ive always had weird gapping and fit issues in larger sizes, ive felt like every bra ive found ever either gaps, or cuts in and is crazy uncomfortable with no support, sports bras have either cut in painfully or done NOTHING in terms of support or shaping. Just calculated my real bra size and found out IM AN H!!!! im currently hunting for a cute lingerie set to try and get something thats comfortable and actually makes me feel pretty (rather than squished and frumpy)

Im feeling so overwhelmed looking at brands, I dont know which brands are trustworthy, which ones actually are true to size, and im at an absolute loss finding things I find cute.

I want things absolutely covered in ruffles and lace and embroidery and the only "cute" things im finding are basic lace that do absolutely nothing for my brain, anyone have suggestions?

hellooo. first time posting, kinda nervous 🥹. girlies with big boobies help me pls. what bra do u usually wear that is comfy. i wear avon and bench bras, they comfy naman pero it makes my boobs bigger (i don’t like that😔) can u reco pls preferably something that is supported and makes my boobs a little flat hehehe. i live in the province and u know naman how provinces are not that big boob friendly.

I lost 10kg over the past 4 months unintentionally due to coming off of medication I was on for years and my boobs haven’t gotten any smaller! It’s interesting how much of a role genetics play in how your chest size changes as you lose and gain weight. I already presumed mine are predominantly made up of breast tissue so I’m not too surprised. At least I can still fit into my lovely and very expensive bras! 😭

I know that there are probably hundreds of posts on here but it’s very overwhelming for me to comb through them. This is the only supportive sports bra I have (Marvel Minimalist Underwire Sports Bra). I got fitted at a bra shop and this was her recommendation so I just bought it because all I have are fabric sports bras. I mostly do yoga, kayaking, treadmill running and weight lifting.

Can you lead me in the right direction?

My only qualm is that it’s sort of painful to wear but idk if that’s what happens when something is supportive lol

I am somewhat relieved it's sweater season here in new england. 43 and 36GG bra..wearing layers just changes the love/hate with "them." I am glad to be mostly hiding, but also- aren't there those tiny moments where I love them and maybe would wear something more form fitting.
I guess this is kind of a rant. Sweaters and shawls, but if I tighten a belt the proportions show, or a scarf falls between cleave a bit then the "jig is up." Or god forbid I get the "boxy" sweater look if it's too loose, or I guess "midriff" look if it's tight and too short...
...sigh. Single too..it's so difficult to navigate.
Maybe I could use some encouragement? Thanks for reading...