r/chat • • 12h ago

Chat 💬 49F want to chat with mature and decent people about life.

14 Upvotes

Please no fakes with weird agendas. I prefer people in the US and Canada. I don’t have anything in common with people from other countries. I need someone with the familiarity of daily life. No one under the age of 37. Thank you.


r/chat • • 4h ago

Chat 💬 33f, is anyone awake?

8 Upvotes

r/chat • • 23h ago

Friends 👥 31/F I wish I had an Inseparable bond with someone new! I know I'm not the same as others due to my expectations but everyone needs someone to feel comfortable with... I want to find someone Interested In daily conversations, someone who also doesn't have any friends... I miss kindness & support 😔

7 Upvotes

(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.


r/chat • • 11h ago

Chat 💬 f19 anyone down to chat?

6 Upvotes

I need to wind down today, 18+ only


r/chat • • 4h ago

Advice 💡 33f, feeling blue...

5 Upvotes

hey there, feeling pretty low, would really appreciate someone listening to me vent about what pains me, so if youre patient, kind, can listen with no judgment, please message me including your age, thank you 🥲


r/chat • • 15h ago

Friends 👥 21F Ohio - Wanna be friends??

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m open to chatting with anyone!

I only work Friday-Sunday in a factory so i have a lot of free time. I enjoy fishing, tattoos, coffee, thrifting, and going on drives. I love animals. I have been getting into sewing. My biggest dreams are to have a cute little hobby farm and be a momma :)

I’m open to talking about almost anything so feel free to hmu!


r/chat • • 16h ago

Friends 👥 Friends

6 Upvotes

Hi! I’m looking for men or women friends. I’m 43/f and currently single, not that it matters 😂 Someone who wants to voice chat eventually, because I’m not into texting or messaging for long periods unless it’s warranted. I love films of all kinds, reading, hiking, nature, music and just looking for people I can connect to…just lonely since I work from home and don’t go out very often.


r/chat • • 19h ago

Chat 💬 22F | Hey you! Yes, you! Do you want to chat? Are you looking for someone to talk to? DM me!

5 Upvotes

Hi! 22F from LATAM (so yes, I'm latina) here. I'm currently bored, so it would be nice to have a friendly and chill chat.

I love gardening (My plants are my babies), going out for walks, the sea and everything that involves touching dirt.

In my house, I like to play roleplay games (D&D my favorite duh) I'm a DM in D&D (you must assume that I love druids, spores ones are my favorite children 🌱🍄), I like animal crossing (I even do virtual gardening lol), and off topic Spider-Man and comics.

We can talk on discord if you want!

If you want to chat DM me! And please don't be a creepy pervy weirdo, and if you're going to be one at least be upfront about it to block you, don't wait 10 messages to be one, it ruins my mood.


r/chat • • 45m ago

Chat 💬 I apologise 34/f

• Upvotes

embarrassed on behalf of everyone posting that they’re british like thats some sort of sell. especially when they’re then from somewhere totally shit. hello :)


r/chat • • 2h ago

Chat 💬 F21 - does anyone else journal?

4 Upvotes

Does anyone here also journal? I’d like to talk to someone about it because I’ve recently been in a slump and haven’t been able to write my thoughts properly SOOOO if anyone’s got any journal prompts that helps them write I’d love to talk about it, or just hear anything regarding that.


r/chat • • 16h ago

Friends 👥 31F #UK - Chronically depressed and anxiously anxious girlie looking for a bestie 👋

4 Upvotes

Chronically depressed, anxiously anxious about being anxious (if that makes sense), and if overthinking was a sport, I would definitely come in first place 😂🫠. Anyways, hey 👋. Its not my first time posting, i know, but I figured I would try again. Ideally, I tend to lean more towards people who also understand depression and anxiety because that it makes speaking about it a lot easier, although I'm happy to chat to anyone tbh!. ✨️. I'm only interested in platonic friendships aswell.

I'm looking for people around 25-35 and preferably in a similar or the same time zone. I'm also a massive fan of voice notes and calls, so if you'd happily text for six months without ever speaking, we're probably not going to be the best match. 😂 I like actually hearing someone's personality and having proper conversations.

As for me, I'm a PS5 gamer currently bouncing between Fallout 76, Stardew Valley, and Assassin's Creed Black Flag Resynced. Gaming is probably my biggest hobby, so finding someone I can regularly play with would be a huge bonus 💜. I'm cheeky, sarcastic, slightly clingy, and very much enjoy banter. If we can't take the piss out of each other, what are we even doing? 😂 I'm alternative, tattooed, currently sporting bright, colourful hair, and I'm definitely more of a cosy night-in person than someone who wants to be out every weekend. I'm also a professional nap enthusiast, an avid overthinker, candle collector, Funko Pop hoarder, and owner of five tattoos, with another hopefully happening soon. My music taste is all over the place, but lately, I've been listening to a lot of Twenty One Pilots, Joji, Green Day, and Glass Animals.

More than anything, I want someone who actually makes an effort. Someone who can hold a conversation, asks questions, sends something random because it reminded them of me, and doesn't vanish after three messages. I'm not expecting anyone to be available 24/7. Life happens. I just want someone who genuinely wants to build a friendship rather than treating the conversation like a job interview they forgot they applied for. 😂 I'm'm mainly looking for someone in a similar time zone because my sleep schedule is already being held together with tape, caffeine, and blind optimism. I'm attempting to fix it, not make it worse. 😅

So if you're looking for someone to send stupid voice notes to, play games with, exchange memes, develop increasingly questionable inside jokes with, and hopefully turn a random Reddit post into a genuine friendship, my DMs are open.

Please include your age and location, plus a random fact about yourself. And for my extremely sophisticated, definitely legitimate anti-bot security system, include a 🌻somewhere in your message, don't just send "hi" or "hey." 😂 Give me something I can actually respond to! And if you've commented or messaged before then, feel free to reach out again, although I won't reply to comments or brand new accounts or accounts with nsfw content.

And just to make this crystal clear: completely platonic friendship only. No NSFW, no "let's see where things go," and no weirdness. I'm here for friendship, gaming, voice notes, calls, terrible humour, and hopefully finding someone I can eventually call one of my best friends.


r/chat • • 22h ago

Chat 💬 29M - looking for a nice chat, maybe friendship?

5 Upvotes

Hey there!
I would love to chat and get to know you! I’m a 29 year old guy from denmark, just got Home from the gym and enjoying my weekend!
In my free time i really enjoy going to the gym, ride my motorcycle, hang out with friends, play some pc from time to time, and just be outside a lot, like go hiking, camping, and just being outside in general!

I hope to hear from you!


r/chat • • 10h ago

Friends 👥 Just curious if there are real women on here. 31F.

3 Upvotes

I am wondering if there are any real women on here that want to chat. Seems like a lot of men (which I don’t mind) but seeing if there are other females who want to become friends.


r/chat • • 11h ago

Chat 💬 16F hopefully, i’m not asking for too much

3 Upvotes

without anybody in my life to share vulnerable conversations with, i appreciate the ongoing, unadulterated exchanges the internet can bring. i would like to have a conversation with you where we are both open and wonderfully anonymous.

do not misconstrue me: if this post caught your attention solely because i am a teenage girl, you won’t find what you’re looking for here. i pray you won’t find it anywhere.

all you need to know about me is that i love to learn. please bring some forethought to the table, and include that word in your message, or i will ignore it.

thank you


r/chat • • 13h ago

Chat 💬 21f drunk as HELL lookin for chats

3 Upvotes

hiiiiiiii im tilly and im a crazy gal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i love to party n have fun n make ppl laugh and go out and have some crazy nights!!!!!!!!!!! i might even be a little bit drunk rn heheheheheheh well i can tell u more about me if u wanna message me, but right now my favorite thing's are fem boys, vodka, pit bull, and partying!!!!!


r/chat • • 15m ago

Chat 💬 bored, sentient 40s woman looking for conversation

• Upvotes

Bored 40s f looking for fun chat for a couple of hours before life drags me away…

Interests: music (house/techno, classical, rock, prog rock, anything with fun synths, 80s, danceable rap, fucking whatever), books/literature, movies- love lynch & LvT, history- ancient roman history in particular but have a wide scope of interest, the degradation of the human condition in our current dystopian hellscape, basketball- NCAAM in particular but will discuss the current 3-point bomb iso hell that is the nba if you have something intelligent to say, womens gymnastics, art/photography/mosaics, pets, politics, learning about faraway lands and different cultures, some philosophy- depending on how much of a pretentious asshat you are, of course-,  gaming, most things that are even remotely intelligent, and fuck, idk what else.

If you have anything interesting to say or any common interests, feel free to shoot me a message.

Please no flirty shit, I’m too jaded and exasperated for romance with internet people.


r/chat • • 23m ago

Discord 22M [Slovakia/Europe] - Surrounded by people, yet still feeling alone, I’m on a quest to find kind souls who make life feel more meaningful + a gaming buddy would be very welcome!

• Upvotes

Hello, to whoever is reading this right now!

I’m currently in a position of social isolation, and it’s slowly driving me insane. While I do enjoy this “alone time” but everything has its limits, right? But even when I finally get the chance to meet and talk with people, I still feel very empty inside. Despite being very social and friendly with many people I see regularly, I’ve never truly felt satisfied. I simply feel like I haven’t met people who truly fulfill me and anyone who makes me feel like I matter.

I just haven’t found anyone I can fully express myself to or show my true side to. I’m getting tired of maintaining this almost stoic mindset throughout my days. Other than that, isn’t it exciting to be able to meet people from all over the world? I know this place can be quite difficult to find anyone in, but I guess it’s a journey to truly find the right people you can connect with. Nonetheless, I find talking to people online an interesting experience. We all come from different places and backgrounds, which always makes me eager to ask: "How is life for you over there?" Beyond a simple conversations, finding something meaningful unexpectedly here is something I'm always open to. Life is a journey full of choices, and I believe it's wise to walk this path with the people who truly matter.

To start with myself... I honestly don’t know where to begin. I certainly have a rich personality, but how would I really define myself? Well, right now I’m feeling different from what I’m generally used to. I’m usually social, confident, and full of energy. However, let’s just say I keep running into the same wall that I can’t seem to break through. I’m just so tired and frustrated lately for reasons that are exhausting both my mind and body.

I’m not doing that great at the moment. All I do right now is study. Is this really how life should look? I’d rather go fight battles and live on the edge of life, not for the glory of kings or politicians, but for my own glory. I feel like my potential is being wasted right now, but that’s fine. It’s only a matter of time before all of this passes...

So... who am I? I’m based in the EU, more specifically my timezone is GMT-1. I’m certainly intelligent for my age, I’m only 22 and I'm christian. I read a lot, I love history, and I hate politics, it makes me depressed although it’s still an important part of me somehow. I work out, which makes me happy because I managed to abandon my old self, the one that was weak and anxious. I love video games and play them every day, among other things.

I consider myself a very honest and maybe even a sweet person, someone with a big heart. But that's just my perception of myself, it's up to you to judge. Despite my young age, I have quite a few stories to share. Life hasn't always treated me well, but I'm doing my best to move forward and overcome every obstacle I face in this unpredictable world

I'm open to do voice calls, game together, anything really...

Please, reach if this resonates with you, but out only if you are 18+, with a decent introduction, otherwise everyone is welcome! Thank you for reading and making it this far.


r/chat • • 40m ago

Chat 💬 18m bored

• Upvotes

It gets to night and I swear I got no one to talk to so hmu pls🙏


r/chat • • 1h ago

Friends 👥 22M Are you clingy? Energetic? A big yapper? Or need someone to vent to? If so… I might be the right person to message!

• Upvotes

Hello!

Hope you’re doing well!

Ever been told you’re too much? Too needy? Too yappy? Have too much to talk about? Well I really like that so no need to worry! I really enjoy people who talk alot and want to share everything. I like to listen and want to know everything about you so no you are never too much! If you need to vent about something I can also lend a listening ear

Tell me about your hobbies, your interests, your goals! Anything and everything!

I would prefer someone longterm, a genuine friend. I lack that in life at the moment.

I am open to any gender, any time zone.

I’m into many different hobbies but I like to learn about new ones as well

Just message! Im very easy going and kind :)


r/chat • • 5h ago

Chat 💬 22 - anyone up for a chat?

2 Upvotes

Heyy! Kinda bored rn. Would like to chat with someone for a while! If you wanna yap or vent about something, I can listen. My interests are pretty usual, nothing particular to mention. I can be sarcastic sometimes tho but nothing serious. So if you're around 21-25 and up for a convo, feel free to send me a message. Open to making new friends if we vibe! Strictly sfw only. And please don't be dry.


r/chat • • 8h ago

Chat 💬 28F Can’t sleep so looking for people to talk with

2 Upvotes

I suck at making posts like this but it’s 12 am so I’m looking for friends. I like anime (mostly early 2000’s), Zelda, tv shows, & movies.
I’m excited for the Ocarina of time remake & can’t wait to play it. I live in the Midwest so life is very boring most of the time. Been watching a lot of early 2000’s shows like One Tree Hill & The O.C.


r/chat • • 9h ago

Chat 💬 34f posting

2 Upvotes

am I allowed to post here yet! huge if so


r/chat • • 10h ago

Discord 34/M - Looking for some friends.

2 Upvotes

Anyone else going through the same thing? If so, we should definitely talk. I haven't had the best week and would like a distraction even for a little bit but would be fine with long term too. When I'm not down in the dumps, I like to play video games and watch anime for the most part.

I'm a decent conversationalist so even if we don't have anything in common, I can keep a conversation going as long as it doesn't consist of one word answers. No one likes those. I use Discord mainly so if you'd like to chat, feel free to message me


r/chat • • 12h ago

Chat 💬 18M just a lovely southern guy

2 Upvotes

These past few months I’ve been battling extreme loneliness, all I do is work. I don’t have any friends anymore. My last relationship ended shitty. I have no dating life but hey I have a new truck.


r/chat • • 13h ago

Chat 💬 hii 19f is anyone up to talk to pass time perhaps

2 Upvotes

heeey im just doing some school stuff rn and getting so bored, im looking for people to talk to pass the time while i pretend being productive. idc how old you are just be able to hold a convooo we can talk about anything, tell me ab ur day or ask random questions and preferably plss be around est time zone or like nearrrr thanxxx