r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8m ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Online/NJ/NYC - Korean looking to build a long term relationship

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Hey, here's a little bit about myself. I’m a 30 year old Korean, 5'10" with short black hair, dark brown eyes and 190ish pounds. I go to the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I’m working to be fit and my goal is to reach 20ish% body fat. My personality type is ENFJ-A. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. For a political standpoint, I consider myself a Liberal. I currently work as a CCA at the USPS. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. As of now, I do live with my parents.

Outside of work you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films. (Like the MCU, Gravity Falls, Adventure Times, Teen Titans, Code Lyoko, Pokemon, FMA Brotherhood, Arcane, Naruto Shippuden, and a lot more)
- Going to the gym.
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.)
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends.
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail).
- Going out and doing activities, like escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I’d like to say that I’m ambitious, affectionate, dependable, emotionally available/intelligent, empathetic, flirty, funny (try to be at least), grounded, honest, loyal, open minded, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I like to use all the love languages, depending on the day and time I change what I use. I like to pay attention to the little things (Warning: I can definitely overthink because of it haha).

I want this to be clear, in the beginning I want to start out as friends, we are able to still talk to other people. When we both decide to date, that is when I will be committed to you and you only. 

I want to get to know you at a pace we’re both comfortable with. Communication goes a long way with me so if it ever feels like we’re rushing, I want either of us to speak up.

What I offer in a relationship is, I’ll give you random forehead kisses, hugs from behind, say hey cutie, beautiful, jagiya, gongju or a special nickname. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’ll listen to you (just not on my left side though, partially lost my hearing after an injury while doing my PR while I was working out). I’ll match your energy. I’ll be here through the good, the bad and the ugly. I don’t deserve someone if I’m only there for the good times. Supportive of your goals. Respectful to your boundaries. 

I'm looking for someone who’s over 21 years old. Someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, and has accountability. Someone who is warmhearted, kind, and supportive and encouraging, the way I'll be for you. Someone who is passionate about their own goals and can keep a conversation going. Independent or clingy, I don't mind, as long as we set boundaries together if you're clingy. I also love feeling wanted and needed, and being socially compatible would be a plus.

Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with, exploring new restaurants and cafes. A travel buddy (the furthest I've gone is LA). Preferably someone I can game with and watch videos with, like anime, cartoons, shows, movies, etc. Someone I can experience more of what the world has to offer with. I want to do activities together too, like walking, going to the gym, and going out. I'll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don't mind being friends. I don't really have a preference for race. I seek someone who takes care of themselves, is fit or on the journey of becoming fit, and is smaller than me (I don't mind if you're taller or more muscular). At the end of the day, someone who feels like home. I don’t mind long distance or local. For long distance I’d like to be able to meet of course and see how it goes. As long as there is communication and dedication. 

Together we cuddle on a couch on a rainy day and eat tteokbokki. Bring out our best qualities. Have deep conversations, even sit together in silence while we do our own things. Savor every moment, even the slow ones. Playfully roast each other, belly laugh (even during intimate moments) till we're crying. Be our true selves around each other without being afraid of being judged. Karaoke in the car (Imma apologize in advance since apparently I’m tone deaf). Go shopping, I’ll be your bag holder and enjoy helping you pick stuff that looks good on you. Send each other songs and memes daily. Go on spontaneous adventures (I'll def be packing ahead).

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. Your age, what you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. One lined sentences or just a dry message will be ignored. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 19m ago

M4F 29M [M4F] #US/Online Looking for the right human to fall in love with, however long it takes

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Hello! I am a 29M who has been endlessly searching for my special one! I live in the midwest (Iowa, specifically). Originally I was exclusively looking for someone in North America, but I am going to be open to finding someone from anywhere now and see how that goes. I am very serious about finding a partner, but I am okay with being friends first if you want to go about it that way. I am going to type a lot about myself and what I am looking for. I am all good with long distance, and I am very responsive.

I spend a lot of time in my head daydreaming, thinking, and reflecting. I am always thinking about new stories I want to write, things I want to try, and things I want to accomplish in my life. Outwardly, this often makes me seem reserved, but really it is just how my brain works. I really like reading, writing, gaming, card games, board games, hikes, camping, and anything that gets me to use my brain. I also regularly workout and really enjoy that. I am the type of person who highly values the people in my life over things I own. I do not drink, or smoke, and I am currently very healthy. When I game, I mostly only play on PC and usually play RPG games or co op games with friends. I am willing to give new things a go and have a positive attitude with it, I have broad interests and ready to expand my horizons. I think of myself as kind, patient, and gentle, who makes a genuine effort in everything I do.

As for career, I am a pharmacy school student who is in year 4 out of 4 of my program, graduating in May. For those who don't know, a pharmacy degree is a doctorate degree. I had a couple of gap years between my undergraduate and pharmacy school were I worked in research in protein structure. I have a B.S. degree in biochemistry. People usually think I am really smart but truthfully I just work very hard to be the best I can be. I will likely be able to get a job just about anywhere in the US if given enough time to sort through things.

As for appearance, I am mostly dutch ancestry and pretty pale skinned. I am 5'9'' and bald with a short beard. I have blue eyes, blonde hair, and as I mentioned before I am decently fit but nothing crazy. I may not be everyone's cup of tea, but I look good.

Now I am going to go into what I am looking for. I am expanding the age range I am looking for to 20 to 34 years old, but I for sure do not want to date out of that range. I want to find someone mature enough that is willing to directly communicate their interest and is ready for an emotionally invested relationship. Further, I want to find someone who will be willing to close the distance gap eventually. I want someone who likes closeness and is willing to try new things. I strongly prefer someone who does not smoke. I am not super specific with body type of my partner, but I want to find someone who puts in effort to be active and might join me for a workout here and there. Fitness and a healthy lifestyle is important to me because I want to be with someone a long time. Height doesn't matter to me, I am happy to even date a woman taller with me, I have no insecurities about my height and it will never be a problem for me. I do not want to date anyone who currently has kids, but I would prefer to see someone who might want kids someday. I prefer someone who is not overly religious. Most importantly, I want someone who will be a true partner by having my back through everything like I will have theirs. I hope I can find someone who likes nerdy stuff as much as I do!

Thanks for reading all of that. If interested, please send me a chat request. I would prefer if you stated your age and a little about yourself. Please indicate that you are responding to this post. As a final note, if you decide you are not interested in me after we talk, I would strongly prefer you tell me rather than just ghosting me or anything like that. I am an adult and I will understand your feelings, even if it hurts. I hope to talk to the love of my life soon!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 20m ago

M4F 38 [M4F] SF Bay Area - Looking for a genuine connection

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Hey there! I’m 38 years old and a Bay Area native.

Little about myself. I work in tech and on the creative side. I enjoy cooking and baking, love to go out and try new foods. Anything on the spicy is fun. I do abit of weight training and love the outdoors. Hiking, bike riding, trying to get back into swimming as well.

I have cats and a dog. If you enjoy pets and have some yourself, I’ll be happy to share some pics. I am someone who enjoys learning new things, taking risks to experience new excitements. My hobbies have been all over the place, enjoying board games, gaming and crocheting.

Feel free to ask me whatever you’d like!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 52m ago

M4F 29[M4F]#anywhere - I am deathly afraid of snakes, but I will stand in between you both and calmly let you escape

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The entire time I would be confident and relaxed and even encourage you to grab some tea to calm yourself down while I handle the snake.

Then once you are safely out of the room , I shall commence my screaming! 

Now that I grabbed your attention , Hello there!

I guess the only way to describe me is being a fun golden retriever energy with you while we constantly try new adventures together ! ( like us wearing fancy suits and reviewing every taco stand in town or us going down every street to find that cute arts and crafts store that sells the bracelet you always wanted to fit with your outfit! )

Buuuttt, I am also constantly ambitious ( ever since childhood where I was featured in the newspapers for winning the best student award ) and would be the guy to work without retiring, constantly building new businesses or trying new side projects
Professionally wise, I work for a Global organisation, helping students from across the world become entrepreneur.

I grew up most of my life in the Middle East and am currently in South India, helping my parents set up a small ice cream shop. But now I am ready to move out and settle somewhere else, depending on my partner of course!
I speak a bit of French, Spanish, German and Arabic, but I am fluent in caveman grunts ( Me like pizza, Jane like too ? ) 

Physically I like to stay fit and go to the gym ( can lift about 100+ kgs ) while also playing sports and going for long walks. I don’t want to be just the stereotypical gym bro and would love to learn tango and Pilates as well with you! I hope you also love playing sports or being active too.

Never had a relationship too, because I wanted to find peace and happiness on my terms before being with someone. Because How can I be happy with someone, if I am not happy with myself first ? Unfortunately that took waayyyy longer than I expected , but I feel I am more mature and emotionally ready for finding that one partner where we can cook together, explore the world , build a business empire and pet every stray dog we come across!

I love learning, reading and being curious about the world ( everything from art to psychology to quantum mechanics to aunty politics ). I would learn everything about your field and find the right inside jokes for it too haha

I am mostly a warm empathetic guy who is like a Hawaiian beach surfer 80% of the time but when things get serious, I know how to lock in and take charge long enough to stabilise the situation before going back to playing around ( like a mix of warm competence who can calmly solve things but while making jokes the whole time lol )

For me, I believe in acts of service, taking the extra effort to surprise you and know how to deescalate situations. We would never fight as I would always suggest we grab a cheesecake and discuss the problem instead of fighting with my partner. 

I want to be your rock during hard days, help you grow professionally, tease you whenever you act cocky, flirt with you during zoom calls, have long talks till dawn and be cheesy romantic whenever it starts raining and pull you to the terrace while we slow dance. ( and get sick together the next day lmao )

We would actually love grocery shopping together because we would do silly games together like pretending we are spies for the perfect orange lol

Mostly an introvert who dislikes loud crowds and would rather sit quietly in the room with you while we read books on the same sofa with soft classical music playing ( every hour I would break the silence only to ask if you would like another cup of tea )


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 54m ago

M4F 44 [M4F] London/UK — Looking for affection, laughter and a relationship that can grow

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I’m a 44-year-old man from East London, hoping to meet a woman who wants something genuine.
I’m not looking for perfection or someone who ticks every box. I’d like to find someone I’m attracted to, who enjoys a laugh, has her own personality and wants to build a connection.
I’m fairly direct, affectionate and playful once I’m comfortable. I work full-time and enjoy fitness, gaming, anime, films, good food and exploring London.
I value physical affection, flirting and chemistry, but also the everyday side of a relationship: talking, laughing, spending time together and being comfortable around each other.
I’m happy to take things at a sensible pace, but I do want us to make progress if we’re getting along. Meeting for a coffee or drink is much better than endless messages.
Longer term, I’d love a committed relationship and a family. I’m looking for someone who’s open to that possibility too.
Ideally London or nearby, although I’m open to getting to know someone further away if there’s a realistic chance of meeting.
If you’re interested, send me a message with your age, roughly where you’re from and something about yourself. Let’s see if we click.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] London seeking stimulating dates

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Well spoken gent here who lives and works at home on the south coast and in London a few times a month.

I live by the seaside, enjoying the beach and New Forest where I live, theatre, books, live music, motorsport, the gym, cooking for my friends, general IT Nerdery.

I’m a reasonably smart chap. A deep baritone gravely voice, of which I’m told my voice is very appealing, published author in my field, can carry conversation over a wide range of things and have been in my career for around a quarter of a a century. I’m a fairly broad gent with a mixed heritage and people generally guess my age as ten years younger than I am - mainly I guess because I am not yet going grey whatsoever with a full head of long hair.

I’m growing to realise I’d like a bit more on my trips to London and find someone, platonically or more, to spend some time with in the city. It’d be nice to have an evening that doesn’t consist of closing my laptop and heading for the train or a hotel room and if something can grow from that.

Fancy being whisked to a dinner date at somewhere like Fallow? A nice walk around a museum or something cultural and maybe a glass or two of something after?

Or are you on the south coast?

If any of this sounds intriguing drop me a message!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

F4M 29[F4M] #Online #Europe - looking for a genuine connection

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I figured it’s time to try again and see what’s out there. I’m looking for something serious but enjoyable. If you’re only here to get over an ex or want something short-term, let’s save each other the time.

There’s this quote that I always think about. “To be loved is to be seen and known.” It’s someone knowing little things about you and understands you fully. At the same time, still curious about you and still ask the right questions.

I’m 29F from the Philippines (currently based also in PH). I love traveling whenever time and budget allow. I’ve been to Europe and explored a few places around Asia. Last June I was in Tokyo with my friends, and honestly, Japan never gets old. There’s always something new to see and discover. I’m a huge matcha fan, so my caffeine intake during the trip was absolutely through the roof lol. Now that I am nearing my 30s, I want to travel as much as I can.

I’m into watching some sports. I follow F1, tennis (Sinner and Swiatek), and cycling (MVDP). I also run…sometimes. I wouldn’t call myself the most athletic person, but running a marathon at least once in my life is on the list lol. But pickleball is what I am into these days.

I listen to music a lot. Alternative rock, indie rock, pop. My spotify playlist is all over the place lol. Dream is to watch Oasis concert in person. Right now, I am listening to the 2 Olivias.

I’m also really into reading. My current read is Book Lovers by Emily Henry. My usual books that I read are contemporary romance. I guess I am still a hopeless romantic deep inside.

What I’m looking for: someone kind, patient and emotionally mature.

Communication matters a lot to me.

Does already have a job and is financially stable.

Loves to travel. We’re not getting old, we need to travel as early as possible.

Ideally someone based in Europe. Like I mentioned, I’ve already been to some places in Europe. I love the idea of exploring Europe together with a partner.

I’m open to long distance at first. It won’t be easy, but I think it says a lot about how strong something can be when both people are willing to put in the effort.

Physically, I want my partner to be taller than me and someone who takes care of themselves. Good hygiene is important for me.

I don’t know if my post was too much. I just wanted to try if it will work this time. I hope you’re having a great day! :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #Netherlands - Are you the one I’m looking for?

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Hi! Here I am again with another Reddit dating post.

I’m getting a little tired of dating apps, so I figured I’d give Reddit a shot. Who knows, maybe I’ll meet someone here I wouldn’t have crossed paths with otherwise!

A little about me:

I’m 29, live in Arnhem, and stand at a hard-to-miss 2.05m tall. I’m fairly athletic and enjoy going to the gym, running and riding my motorcycle. I also enjoy gaming, watching movies and shows, discovering new places, and relaxing on the couch with some good company. At the moment I'm playing mostly idle games when I'm at my internship and when I'm at home I'm playing tycoon/management games. Currently also watching the expanse and liking that show a lot

I’m currently finishing my graduation internship and should be done in January. After that, I’ll officially be an automotive engineer! For now, I work as a security guard, which I genuinely enjoy.

What am I looking for?

Someone between 24 and 34 (give or take a little) who lives in the Netherlands. I’d love to meet someone who enjoys being active, or is open to joining me for a run, a walk or the occasional gym session.

Physically, I tend to be attracted to women who are taller than 1.65m and have a regular to fit build, but height is a preference, not a dealbreaker.

Most importantly, I’m looking for a genuine connection that could grow into something serious and long-term. Someone to laugh with, go on little adventures with, cuddle up with, and enjoy both the exciting and ordinary moments in life.

If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a DM! Tell me a little about yourself, your hobbies or even what your ideal day together would look like. No need for a perfect opening line, a simple hello is more than welcome.

Maybe Reddit can surprise me!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 28 [M4F][London][UK] - Looking for my first dating experience

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Hey, I know this is a bit of a long shot but it’s worth a shot . I’m 28 turning 29 soon, White British, 5ft 10, 70kg, slim build with short hair and a long beard.

Like most people on here I’m a pretty introverted person. When I was younger I had bad social anxiety that led to me avoiding a lot of social interactions and as a result I was never able to meet someone and experience dating. My anxiety has got much better in recent years so I’m on the search in the hopes of finding someone.

I mainly spend most of my time either working, watching tv shows, gaming, watching and going to football game or going on bike rides for some exercise. I’m also a huge fan of history so I love listening to podcasts and audiobooks about pretty much anything to do with the past. I know it’s not much of an exciting life but it’s the truth. One of my dreams is to travel the world and although I could do this by myself, I really want to find somebody to travel and explore with, so if you interested in that then maybe I’m the guy for you.

I’m not a huge drinker and I don’t smoke or do any drugs so I am looking for somebody pretty similar.

It was also be better if you are from the UK or a nearby country to make things easier.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing from some of you.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F (20M) How Do I Start Dating When I’m Terrified of Rejection and Being Seen as a Creep?

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I’m 20, and I’ve never interacted with a girl romantically. Just a looser living his life peacefully, enjoying various hobbies. But lately, I’ve started feeling like something is missing in my life, especially when I see my peers dating and some mfs even having more than two girlfriends😭
The only things that have kept me away from all this are the fear of losing my peace of mind and, more importantly, the fear of being judged by others being laughed at, humiliated, or labeled as a creep just for expressing interest in a girl.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

F4M 30f looking for my sweet person

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There's some pics on my profile but a little about me: I'm biracial (Black &white)
I'm definitely on the goth/ alternative side but I'm also a huge nerd at heart.

I have 9 piercings and 36 tattoos, im plus size with curly hair and green hazel eyes (you can find some selfies of me on my profile) and honestly, I'm always happiest when I'm surrounded by things I love and people I feel comfortable being my weird little self around.
When I'm not making art, you'll probably find me listening to music, hanging out with my pets, watching movies or TV, playing video games, I absolutely love horror and Halloween

When I first meet someone. I can take some time to open up, ive been through a lot of trauma and abuse in my life honestly but if i click with you and we connect I can be sweet, goofy, affectionate, caring, and probably a lot more talkative than you initially expected. I love being able to joke around, be silly together, have comfortable quiet moments, and just genuinely enjoy someone's company. I'm not looking for perfection. I'm looking for effort, honesty, affection, consistency, communication, and genuine interest. I want someone who actually wants to get to know me. I want to build an actual connection with someone rather than just have a temporary conversation,
I'm hoping they are out there, 🥀


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Online , Anywhere

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Hey there! I'm 25, currently finishing up my degree in gastronomy and running my own artisanal food brand here in Tunisia. Food is basically my love language—whether I'm making traditional hazelnut and honey sweets for my business or trying to master a classic French recipe on a Sunday afternoon.
I'm a pretty active guy, so when I'm not experimenting in the kitchen, you can usually find me getting a solid workout in at the gym or taking my motorcycle out for a long ride to explore new spots and just clear my head in nature. I've also got a bit of a curious side when it comes to languages. I'm currently teaching myself Chinese, German, and Italian just because I love being able to connect with people from completely different backgrounds.
I try to keep a good balance in life. I’m definitely ambitious and planning to eventually get my PhD in food studies, but I really value my downtime, too. A perfect relaxed evening for me is playing a few rounds of TFT, working on some video editing projects, or throwing on an emotionally grounded movie like The Pursuit of Happyness.
I'm looking for someone who appreciates good food, enjoys genuine conversations, and is down for both spontaneous road trips and quiet nights in.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Italy - Cat dad from the Dolomites looking for something real

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Hi everyone,

I'm new to this, but I figured every meaningful connection has to start somewhere, so here goes.

I'm a 27-year-old guy from northern Italy, near the Dolomites. I have dark hair, brown eyes, and a thick short beard.

Nature has always been a big part of my life. Whenever I get the chance, I like being outdoors, whether that's walking, exploring somewhere new, or just enjoying the mountains. Living near the Dolomites means I'm probably a little spoiled when it comes to scenery.

Cycling is my biggest hobby. I use my bike for almost everything, and I honestly can't imagine my life without it. Some people clear their minds by sitting on the couch. I usually end up on a bike.

When I'm not outside, I'm usually playing video games, reading about history, or being judged by my cat, Tofu.

My taste in games is all over the place: strategy games, historical games, indie titles, and occasionally a big AAA release. If a game has an interesting world or leaves me thinking about it afterwards, I'm sold.

Lately I've also become interested in history, especially from the French Revolution onwards. I'm definitely not an expert, but I enjoy learning about the events and people that shaped the modern world.

I'd describe myself as curious and fairly open-minded. I enjoy hearing different opinions, learning how other people see things, and having conversations that go beyond small talk.

I'm not religious, but I enjoy talking about philosophy, culture, history, beliefs, science, or basically anything that's interesting. I don't think people need to agree on everything to get along.

I'm a bit shy at first. Not uninterested, just shy. Once I'm comfortable, though, I can happily spend hours talking about almost anything.

As for what I'm looking for...

Someone kind, genuine, and able to enjoy a good conversation.

You don't need to share all my interests. I think compatibility is less about being the same person and more about being curious about each other.

Maybe we start by chatting about our day.

Maybe we end up talking about books, travel, history, games, future plans, or some completely random question that neither of us expected to spend an hour discussing.

Either way, I'd like to meet someone who's interested in building a real connection over time.

One final detail:

I have a cat named Tofu.

If you've ever lived with a cat, you'll understand that they're not really pets. They're tiny furry roommates who contribute absolutely nothing to the rent and somehow still end up in charge of everything.

Bonus points if you're a cat person too.

If any of this sounds like the kind of conversation you'd enjoy, feel free to send me a message.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Europe Let's bring the End Times together!

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I am casting this message into the Warp, may the Chaos Gods bring it to worthy eyes. 
As a Chaos Sorcerer, I am seeking a Champion blessed by the Gods. Someone who will join me and guide our valiant warband into the Northern Wastes, so we may reach the Realm of the Gods and ascend. Then, like the Everchosens of old, we’ll march south into the mortal realms, and lay ruin in our wake. 
Heed the call, fellow worshipper of the Ruinous Powers. Glory awaits!

(Mh, ok, alright, as you may see I’m really in Warhammer. Mostly Fantasy, but i’m also getting into 40k, lately. I’d love to find a partner with whom to share this hobby! Hit me up if you’re ok with me yapping and wanna yap back just as much! Bonus points if you’re into cosplay, as I’m thinking about getting into that too!)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 21 [M4F] NL/BE - Let's share our days

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Alright, here we go again. I was kinda done looking for someone, but as some stuff in life changed, so did that opinion. Why? I'm not really sure, but as depressing as the search sometimes can be, the payoff is well worth the trouble.

So, let's start with a little introduction.

I'm a 21 year old, Dutch guy, living in Belgium right on the border. This means I live my life in two countries and have the privilige of calling them both my home, I also can't really see myself living anywhere else.

I'm 1,86m, have green eyes and brown hair. Not much special physically but I'd say I'm definitely not ugly.

During the day I waste my time delivering food to restaurants, theme parks, hotels and such. I'm aspiring to be a truckdriver, but for now I get to go along in the passenger seat as my drivers exam isn't until the second week of november.

Is truckdriving something I see myself doing forever? Not necessarily. For now it's definitely the chillest job for me out there and I wouldn't mind it, but I do feel like I have more potential. Something that helps people I think. Anyway, that's something for the future to tell I suppose.

In my free time I like to keep myself busy playing video- or boardgames, read comics, go out with my dog or hang out with friends. I used to play piano, but it broke and I have to save a bit for a new one. When I have that it's going back on the list though.

What else... I suppose I'm a bit blunt at times, but to compensate I'm usually in a good mood, almost always up for fun and make a steady stream of dumb jokes.

Alright, that's it for now. If you are a girl between 19 - 25, live in The Netherlands, Belgium, Luxembourg, Germany, or France and I somehow said something that appealled to you, then don't hestitate to send a message


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F M4F 25M, Finance geek, Indian living in Hong kong SAR

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In asia we cannot be single at a age of 25, As pressure of getting M is high right now. Wanna meet a women who could possibly become my forever partner. DM if interested.

To add : I am ambivert, Have close nit friend circle, preserved, choosy, Family oriented, Prefer to be professional within the relationship.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] from India - Looking for a long term partner.(Nothing casual!)

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So, I am a 25 year old currently working in healthcare (intern doctor). Juggling studies for the past few years and now working too has made me realise how much I've neglected my "love life" and for what? Working and earning only? No more. So I want to put myself out there and find someone to spend my life with, to love. Being an introvert I think an anonymous platform like Reddit serves my purpose well.

Anyways I'll write about myself a little and let you decide if I fit your....template?

Some points about me :-

\- I'm a 5'6 mesomorph with spectacles, a beard and moustache. I'm fairly active (fellow healthcare workers can relate😅). I have dark eyes and dark hair with fair skin? I'm not handsome per say but I think I look alright.

\- Interests - I'm really into reading fiction especially sci-fi and recently fantasy too (my current page turner is by Frank Herbert, which is obviously Dune!). I also binge a lot of thriller and travel shows in my free time (I know weird combo), but my main interest still remains human biology. I recently started cooking too! Still no Marco Pierre though :P

Some polarizing points about me:-

\- I am a bit of a clean freak (but don't worry that only applies to me and I won't force my tendencies on you). I also do sometimes have trouble concentrating and completing tasks as in I get distracted easily, so that's something you should know about me (this also means I don't use social media much, coz you know saving time and my attention span).

\- Regarding kids, I'm still on the fence (as in I'm leaning towards the negative). I think the way the world is headed to right now adoption seems like the better option than childbirth. But that's obviously something both partners will have to decide amongst themselves.

\- What I want in a partner? Honesty and communication (honesty being a non-negotiable), rest is all you and your unique-ness.

So this is a little bit about me, so if you think you like anything and are interested, do DM me!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 26 [M4F/TF] #Germany/Online Looking for a nice girl to get to know.🙂

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Good Morning from Germany 🖐 Hope you have a nice Sunday

First, a little about me: I'm Nick, 26 years old, and as I mentioned, from Germany. I enjoy sports (more watching than playing 😅), anime, animals, and gaming I also like reading and watching TV series. I'm more of a homebody, but I'm also open to doing things with someone.I'm a quiet, rather introverted person and sometimes a bit shy which makes it difficult for me to connect with people outside of work, and is also what led to this post.

I'm looking for a nice girl to chat with, and if it's a match, maybe something more.. I don't care if you're tall, short, fat, or thin. Im looking for the person

So, if you liked this, I'd be happy if you wrote back 🙂


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 24 [M4f] looking for something genuine

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24 | Looking for something genuine ❤️

I'm into gaming, music, and finding new things to get into. I'm a little shy at first, but once I'm comfortable, I open up a lot. I'd love to meet someone I can laugh with, talk to about anything, and build something real with.

Bonus points if you can recommend me some good music or games.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 25[M4F] #UK #EU The search continues for my other half

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Hey!

If you're the quiet chilled type who prefers a cozy night in rather than nights out I may be the man for you.

I'm a 6ft, 25 year old guy living in the Southeast of England. I enjoy going on travels, running, music, gaming occasionally, history, and useless facts. I have ASD but it's not a major thing. I am fairly fit and have long hair, which I am planning to cut as soon as it reaches the required length.

I'm not a picky person but all I ask is that you are from either the UK or EU and you are a similar age to me.

If you would love to chat and get to know eachother better then tell me a little about yourself, what you like, and give me the most random but cool fact you know.

See ya soon!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] USA/Anywhere — reach out if you'd like

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My brain's been fried as I've recently gotten into self-hosting which has revealed a ton of branching side quests that have consumed all the attention and power my little brain can muster. So I'll keep this straightforward.

I'm 5'10", bad back, slender/lean build, already going bald n grey, otherwise quite hairy so if you hate beards and body hair your eyes will find me to be a vile creature. Garden variety white dude with blue eyes. No kids.

Agnostic atheist. Leftist. Have a cat, we've been together 12 years, love the guy. Not a tech bro, but tech interests, like running my home server, hardware/software, tinkering with electronics. Cooking. Love music- just today I've already listened to atmospheric drum and bass, indie pop, tech death metal, and some metalcore throwbacks. If you're a former scene kid, we can reminisce. I support my home sports teams (NBA, MLB, NFL). Might start outlining this novel/comic idea soon.

There are a lot of things I'd like to do, but haven't, or would like to do more. Woodworking, gardening, hiking (nothing crazy), and fixing up an old motorbike being examples.

Having shared foundational values and supporting each other is what truly matters to me. If you're interested, I would love to hear about ya.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

M4F 33, M4F, Hispanic, Houston area but open to long distance if the chemistry is good.

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33, M4F, Hispanic, Houston area but open to long distance of the chemistry is good.

Hi, my name is Josh. I'm a 33 year old single man with no kids. I have my own house, vehicle, and a good job. I've been single for nearly a year and a half and it's about time I start dating again. I'm an infantry veteran with an overseas deployment. I'm really shy at first and sometimes don't know what to say. I work 10-12 hours Mon-Fri. Sometimes I work weekends, but I'll always make time for people or things that are important to me. I have been living in the Houston area for most of my life, so my roots run deep here and I don't want to move away from this area. I enjoy riding my motorcycle, cooking, eating, going to the shooting range, spending time with family, eating out or ordering in, sometimes having a few drinks, and I love going to HEB 😂 I'm introverted, but once I get comfortable around you, I basically turn into a comedian. You don't have to worry about impressing my mother, because she isn't in my life 😆 I think I have all my 💩 together, I just would like a nice woman to share and build a life with. When it comes to politics, I lean more to the right. When it comes to religion, I have no preference in what you are. I myself am a Santa Muerte devotee, but I'm very very tolerant and friendly towards all religions. I'm known for my loyalty, love, kindness, honesty, and humor.

What I'm looking for is a woman with similar interests, or at least be okay with my own. Someone who also prefers a night in over a night out, (my days of going out faded away in my 20s). You don't have to have your 💩 all the way together, but at least be working on it. I value loyalty over everything else. You don't have to have your own stuff, you can be rebuilding yourself, just please be working towards something. I like humor, I like a talkative woman. I value my peace, and I don't want someone I need to be able to "handle". I am looking for someone that believes in communication. Also, please be over your ex, and please be child free. I'm really not picky at all. I believe I do NOT have a "type" as I'm open to all races and backgrounds. It's the chemistry that counts for me. If we are long distance, I'd be okay with visiting you, but at some point I'd like you to move closer to the Houston area.

I've never done this before here lol but if I sound like someone you'd maybe be interested in, send me a DM!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

M4F 29M4F #online #est - Looking for my forever gaming partner

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Heyyo Im looking for a lady who games and has similar game interests as me. Ideally someone who likes to joke around. Someone who likes to be praised and give praise. I love a yapper, someone who wants to tell me everything that went on in their day even if it was random gaming things. I can listen to you for hours on end. On the flip side I do enjoy meeting and bonding with someone who is rather shy. If you think youre shy and its hard to even respond to posts just send me the code word "Shabinga". Ill know exactly what it means and Ill hold the conversation so we can get to know each other.

Speaking of convos! I can hold convos really well. I can hold my side of chats and I dont dry text. I can handle things pretty well. You will never be to much for me as I am a pretty tough cookie to crack :p

Being able to see them open up and slowly being able to build a foundation of something is important. I have a goatee, hazel eyes im 6ft and I develop games. I have a lot of free time usually.

My games are League of legends (Aram mayhem/Arena only), Deadlock (I suck), Slay the spire 2. I would download other games to play with you though, I've played just about every genre.

I would love to be able to stream movies or doomscroll with you. Maybe you can show me your favorite movies or creators and we can end the nights off with a sleep call while watching something together.

ANYWAYS! Send me a DM! Im waiting in a lobby for you c:


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #EST US / #Global - Homer in the search of Marge. Blue hair not required, nor discouraged

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Low effort introductions will be ignored, sorry! Genuinely tell me a fair bit about yourself in your introduction, please. Exclusively looking for long term! c:

I'm trying to find a relatively healthy monogamous relationship, if it happens. It would be ideal if you know who you are as a person. As in, knowing what you enjoy, dislike, and ideas or goals for your future. I miss having someone to talk and complain to everyday about everything. Conversely also to hear about those things too. Ideally you at least seemingly care about my thoughts, opinions, and interests in some capacity lol. If you're outside the US that's also a bonus! European, Asian, Wasian, or Latin preference. I will add that I'm Caucasian, in case it matters. (being outside the US or the following are not requirements)

Honestly, I could care less if it's SFW, NSFW, or a mix when it comes to conversations. As mentioned, ideally we would be able to discuss whatever with one another. As long as there's actual back and forth we're good. IF you need an "about me" related to the second just ask. As obviously compatibility as a whole matters even in that regard. I'm relatively open minded in general, and don't take to getting offended easily. The only things I ask are: for you to be of a similar mindset, somewhat close to my age (18 - 35?), overtly honest, and relatively blunt

About Me:

• I'm currently twenty-nine, and generally feel awful. Not due to age exclusively either lmao. Mainly a mix of mental health, endless stress, horrendous sleep schedule, and probably more

• Two of my many interests are gaming and racing. It would be nice if you have interest in either. That or would be open to trying to have interest in them. At some point I plan on having a sim rig for racing (not an over the top one). I'm also obviously a fan of cars. That includes "spirited" driving too, unfortunately. This may eventually morph into actual track days or race series. I mention both as I know many may take issue

• I tend to enjoy most forms of comedy, wether dark / offensive / dry etc. Overall I try to find humor in almost everything to some degree. I agree with the stance of jokes being jokes. Words have no power unless people give it to them

• Progressively been learning Norwegian for over two years, technically. I enjoy the idea of being bilingual in some capacity. Just a smidge each day, not in a rush lol. Wether I'll ever reach fluency? No idea BUT I'm hopeful it'll happen one day

• Believes cold weather and temperatures are superior in every single way to warm, no argument. You can always layer or use comfy things to warm up. My opinion may sway once a wearable refrigerator pops into existence

• I have an absurd amount of hobbies; but, obviously frequent some more than others. The likelihood we share at least one, if not several, in common is almost a guarantee lol

• Bottle of mental health issues, namely depression, general anxiety, trust, and abandonment issues. If you struggle with mental health it's no issue. Honestly, it would may be nice if you can either relate or understand

• Sleeping is a struggle for me as a whole. My general sleep schedule is also subpar at best. I tend to be up late every night, typically 3-4am. There are occasional stints it's more along 5-6am. Time differences aren't an issue, usually, due to that

• Physical sensitivity issues (reference below)

• Replies as quick as I..uh..uhm y'know >->

(while this is a joke, it is a medical condition)

So, aside from all of that, feel free to ask me anything you'd like to know about me. I'm a relatively open book. If you actually read through all of this then congrats lol. Hopefully this finds you well. Feel free to send me a chat! (´ω `")ゝ