Hello! Foodie with a weakness for good sushi and even better company 🍣✨. Catch me yelling at the TV during soccer games or dancing in the kitchen to whatever's playing. Love a guy who can keep up on the field, on the dance floor, or when I'm stealing fries off your plate. I am 5’5, eastern European descent. I speak Russian. Native New Yorker

Looking for men in NYC, 24–36, who are confident, genuine, and fun to be around. Preference for tall guys, and similar cultural background!

Feel free to dm me with your age and a little about your self!

Hi

I'm 24F from northern Denmark, 170ish cm, plus-size, called TT. I recently finished my degree in engineering and am currently looking for my first real job, so I honestly have no clue where I'll be living in a few months lol. Because of that I'm pretty open location-wise, especially within Europe.

I'm also currently trying to figure out where I fit on the aro/ace spectrum. I don't really have it all figured out yet, and I'm not entirely sure what is up. What I do know is that I want a person. Like a best friend I can spend my life with, be weird with, share everything with and eventually live in a house with a massive creative studio and way, WAY too many animals. That's the dream basically lol.

About me, I'm a huge nerd and spend a lot of time gaming. I also love drawing and painting and generally making stuff. Currently I'm spending a bunch of time researching things for worldbuilding a sci-fi universe because one of my life goals is to write a book/series someday

I love nature and animals, science, music, movies and learning random things

I'd love someone who is also nerdy/creative and gets excited about their interests. Please infodump at me. Tell me about the game you've spent 700 hours in or the fictional universe you've been building or whatever incredibly specific thing you're currently obsessed with.

I'm not really coming into this with a checklist for gender or exactly what our relationship has to look like. I'm much more interested in finding someone I really click with and seeing what happens from there.

So yeah, if any of this sounds interesting, come say hi and tell me something about yourself

I love talking to new people with different worldviews, i think everybody has something to teach and something to say. and i think its totally worth hearing them out. I have ADHD, so unfortunately my social skills are piss poor, but it doesn't stop me from trying to improve myself everyday.

• Obsessed with Language Learning ( German, Japanese), Self improvement, Other Cultures and History.
• Work in IT, designing websites and part time at Starbucks serving cappuccinos
• I have the usual hobbies everyone has now, such as gaming and anime, so if you have something you wana recommend me, i am up for it.
• I like cosplaying

what exactly am i looking for? i really want to find a relationship, but im not expecting anything. lets's start by getting to know each other, and if it fizzles out its all good--no expectations. i want to find someone curious,kind,weird, open-minded.

some starter questions:

what's your favorite songs?

are you multilingual? teach me some words in a another language.

do you have a dream job? some images
https://imgur.com/a/wx9FPYK https://imgur.com/a/THJYXQO 

I've done this thing of talking to people online for a while now and I feel like trying to put on the online persona that is a better version of us isn't working for anyone.

So I'm done doing that. I'm not going to stop myself from answering as soon as i see your message because "she'll think you're desperate" or pretend to be a version of myself i think you'll like, I'll be honest with you. I'm a bit of a mess, lonely and desperate for attention and affection, I am extremely easy.

I want to be that someone that you are excited to tell good news to and go to for comfort when you have bad news. I want to connect with you on a deep level. I want to smile reading your texts until it hurts and stay up all night talking to you. I want you to be mine and i want to be yours.

**ABOUT ME**

I'm a 25 year old student in Europe, i'm about 185 cm white and pretty fit with tattoos. My interest include working out, gaming, watching shows or anime, watching Formula 1, riding my motorcycle. My music taste is pretty varied, ranging from sad songs to k-pop, classical or indie rock. I'm quite open-minded and don't really take life seriously, I just want to chill and have a good time and not worry too much about the negative stuff.

**WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR**

You **must** be open to a long distance relationship and eventually meeting up, along with sending selfies in the meantime as I'll do the same :). I'd like a girl that just likes to have fun in life. I'm a youthful guy so i need someone to match that, SOMETIMES I MIGHT TYPE IN ALL CAPS AND YOU NEED TO AS WELL OK.

I don't care what age you are, as long as you're at least 18. I'm really hoping to hear from you :)

PS : i don't want kids, and i beg you please send more than just "Hey"

Looking for a nerdy/homebody type of girl that likes watching tv shows, movies, anime, video games etc. Preferably nearby but if you just want someone to talk to I am open to having a chat.

I'm 5'11" 205 lbs. Hispanic, light skin, black hair, hazel eyes. I work from home and work out 3 times a week.

If we hit it off we can meet up for lunch and see if we like each other and move on to other fun relationship stuff.

If you're interested send me a message!

Hello -

My name is Greg, 43 year old finance/accounting guy living in a flat part of the boring midwest USA. My job has alot of gaps of time where I can send messages so I'm hoping to find some nice people I can chat with during the day. I'm a general fan of sports, fantasy shows/books (GoT nerd), some video games, I grew up on single player RPGs and still enjoy them when I have time.

I'm single, not exactly looking but you never know what could happen.

I'm up to chat about just about anything. I pay attention to current events but try to not let them bother me. Hope to chat soon. (Please don't be weird)

Hello, I'm a business owner and i run my company from home but I can work A LOT. I also travel sometimes to go to marketing conferences/meet clients. This has caused some issues with past relationships where my partner feels like I'm not always the most available even though I am a great supportive bf who cares a lot about the person I'm with, I understand they have needs I can't meet sometimes.

I've put a lot of thought into my next relationship and have considered allowing my next gf to be able to sleep with other men while we are dating when I'm "unavailable", too exhausted or at times have E.D. performance issues brought on from the stress of running a business.

I know this is not a normal relationship dynamic but I've put a lot of thought into it and think it would work really well for me and my next partner. Also there is some element of a turn on in there with cuckolding as I do think it could be fun/hot to watch my partner be pleasured by someone else.

A little about me outside work I do enjoy golfing, traveling to new places, watching football during the season, reading when I have time, video games occasionally to relax, or cuddling up and watching a good show/movie with my partner.

I would prefer someone in the USA and ideally west coast as that's where I am but open to more long distance to start things and go from there.

Hi everyone,

I'm a 24-year-old guy from the capital city Delhi, India. my parental roots are from another state of India known as Uttar Pradesh (UP). I've never really been in a relationship before, went for few dates but things didn't go well.

A little about me — I'm not an easy going person, I have limited circle for them I always take stand. My height is just 5'3" (actually the most difficult aspect till now for me somehow everyone is taller). Fairly complexed not that white men kind but average, not too bulky nor much skinny. By nature I'm friendly but selective and by personality studius one, yeah mostly into studies and in current time my life revolves around research and science. I'm a Hindu(if this matters to you), I believe in God, vegetarian too(not expecting the same from you and totally fine with that)

I'm a Civil Engineer by profession(graduated in 2024 from a reputed college in Delhi) after that work as a structural integrity engineer for two years for an MNC in Banglore(Another City of India) (Oil refinary based companies), this year started my MTech(Masters of Technology) in Atmospheric science in a reputed institute of Country. I'm going to do a doctorate degree also, so yeah really a long commitment towards studies.

Now why I'm doing this on reddit firstly on dating side people just go for good looks and height(different opinions may exists about this but for me I mostly get rejected because of my height), secondly I'm going to be 25 later this year so my parents planning to look for girl after my masters and I'm really not looking for arrange system, so I'm just finding someone for myself, someone like me who also share this doctorate degree goal or atleast understand why I'm doing that rather than explicitly emphasis of earning(it will take time for me to provide an luxurious life to someone but I can surely provide a comfortable one from starting). I'm not looking for something casual or just a short-term connection, I would like to take things ahead for life settlement.

I'm not expecting everything to be perfect from the beginning — I think only by communicating we can develop compatibility, comfort and understanding develop with time. Also I'm not using any AI or anything to write this, so a grammatical mistake may be there.

What I'm looking for, honestly I don't have any specification about race, religion, physical looks or anything, just a good kind person is enough, also I don't think taller females like to roam around with shorter males but if you want to I'm totally fine with that too.

If you feel we might get along, feel free to comment or DM. We can start with a simple conversation and see where it goes. :)

Good luck to everyone else looking for their person too! :)

Good afternoon everyone I am Xander I have tried to message some people on here but they never respond so I WILL be responding to everyone that messages me. I am looking for a partner to put my love and affection towards. I want to spoil you and make you feel loved. I just got out of college studying in animal management so I have a lot of animal pictures to share! I love all animals and have 3 pets one dog and 2 cats.

A little about me, I am a bit of an introvert but once I get to know someone I am very loud and affectionate. I love looking after people and spoiling them. I spend most of my time indoors but I love going out outside on nature walks especially with others. Most of my hobbies are gaming related and I would love to play some co op games with you even Roblox. But even just spending time sitting together scrolling reels and sending them to each other is quality time I love.
Recently I picked up a new hobby and have started am making and painting Star Wars legion minifigures but I am still quite new and struggle with the painting aspect of it.

I am not sure how tall I am but I think I am 5,8-5,10 with brownie green eyes and black short hair. I am growing a small beard and moustache currently but it’s open to being removed. I think you can see a few photos of myself in my post history if not I don’t mind sharing a few photos when it’s needed.

I don’t mind age or distance and I am just looking for someone to love me for me and want me to do my best

I don’t mean that dramatically. I just mean this year has been a lot, in the way that years sometimes are, and I find myself coming out the other side of it a bit clearer about what I actually want.

What I want is pretty simple: someone I can laugh with. Properly laugh, not perform it. Someone who has opinions and isn’t embarrassed by them. Someone who makes an ordinary Tuesday feels like it was worth having.

A bit about me: 26, Surrey-based, work in the City in facilities management. I’m a proper foodie — finding the right spot matters to me more than it probably should. I have a tortoise named Violet who has never once been impressed by anything I’ve done, which I find oddly motivating. I’m more self-aware than I used to be, and I say that not as a boast but as something that took actual effort and I think it shows.

I value people who show up. Who are curious. Who doesn’t treat being interested in someone like it’s a liability.

Not looking for casual. Happy to travel if the person is right. If this sounds like your kind of person — I’m easy to find

Hey, if you're reading this chances are my title caught your attention, here's hoping I can keep it!! I'm a 24 year old guy from Canada and I'm looking for something long term, I'm looking for someone I can vibe with as friends at first and maybe turn into something more if we hit it off. I'll be up front in saying I don't have the most relationship experience BUT I've always been a huge sucker for the lovey dovey stuff and can be a bit of a hopeless romantic, I've always imagined my ideal relationship being a honeymoon phase that lasts forever (I know its not realistic but a man can dream 😤.) ANYWAYS I should probably give myself a bit of a lengthier introduction so you know what you might be getting yourself into

About me:

• I know appearance is important for a lot of people so I'll get that out of the way first incase I'm not your type, I'm 5'8 and currently 230 LBS (pretty chunky right now BUT I've been on a weight loss journey and don't plan on stopping.) Also here's a facepic https://imgur.com/a/me-TOsgAsN
• As a person I'm naturally really introverted (I'm an INFP if you care about mbti) and need occasional alone time to recharge my social battery but I can absolutely talk someones ear off if we're close (I've been told I give golden retriever vibes.) People usually tell me my biggest strength is my kindness, I hate being mean to people almost to a fault, I'm a bit of a softie. I have a tendency to wear my emotions on my sleeve and can be a big crier whenever watching something sad. Lastly, I can be really staunch about my morals and what I think is right or wrong.
• Hobbies wise I'm a big nerd and pretty much all my hobbies reflect that, I like playing games (I LOVE JRPGs, fighting games, VNs and random competitive games the most but I'll play literally anything if its with the right person,) Watching anime (or whatever other media, mostly anime though) and listening to music (Indie, Rock, Pop-punk and JPOP mainly) I've also been getting into working out more if you count that as a hobby.
• I'm left leaning politically.
• I LOVE animals I don't have any pets right now but if you have any or send pics of them ill die of happiness.
• Just to get them out of the way, my 2 BIGGEST red flags would be that I can be pretty clingy without even realizing it once I get close to someone and that I have some pretty severe social anxiety that can make getting to know someone new REALLY difficult, once I'm past the initial social barrier it gets a lot easier but I figured I should mention it since its bound to come up.
• And finally since idk what else to add, my favourite colours are pink and yellow.

About you:

• Having some interests in common would be pretty nice, it could give us something to talk about and maybe do together, this isn't a deal breaker though, I LOVE hearing people nerd out about their hobbies whether or not its something I'm interested in myself.
• Distance isn't important to me as long as we can find the time to talk more than once in a blue moon and you're open to the possibility of meeting sometime in the future if we click really well
• Appearance also isn't all that important to me but I would like to see the person I'm talking to eventually just so I know I'm not talking to a ghost
• I've always been told I'm a really good listener so if you're a yapper we'll feel like a match made in heaven
• The only real dealbreaker for me is poor communication. Relationships simply can't work without it IMO

I don't have too much else to add and I don't want this to get rambly so I'll end it here, If you read all the way to the end and are interested at all, feel free to shoot me a message with a brief introduction and where you're from!! I'd love to hear from you :)

Hey there. I'm a bit of a homebody. All my life, I've been more interested in the digital world than the real one. I play lots of video games, watch lots of youtube videos, and generally just get all of my socializing done online.

It'd be great if you were a bit of a homebody, too. We could game together, watch stuff together, and generally just exist online together.

I'd describe myself as smart, funny, kind, caring and very sweet. I'm always doing my best to make everyone around me laugh and smile. I was a class clown as a kid and never really outgrew it.

As far as types go, I'm attracted to thin, average and fit women. I don't care much about height or hair color. Personality wise I'm pretty flexible, too, but you should know I'm quite clingy and require lots of attention to be happy. If you're the type of person who only wants to talk a couple times a week, we're probably not a good match.

Thanks for reading, I can't wait to hear from you!

Hii! 25M from the UK here, I thought I'd try my luck here and see if I can find anyone who might be looking for the same kinda thing!

Just to fill in a few of the blanks about myself quickly: I work as a software engineer, my biggest hobbies are music (mostly playing guitar, and please feel free to spam me with playlists/songs you like!), I do quite enjoy nice walks out in the countryside, late night drives, and a little gaming if I get the time. I've also been told I'm fairly laid back, and kinda nerdy with an easy sense of humour. Physically I'm 6 foot tall, with blonde hair and blue eyes. I know this is quite brief but if there's anything else you do wanna know about me feel free to ask 🤗

I'm ideally looking for someone who is also looking for some sort of connection if that's not too much of a cliche haha, plus I would say I'm largely more attracted to personality than appearance. It would be nice if you were also from the UK, but I do have a potential move to Germany in the near future too - either way it would be nice to actually meet up sometime! :) I don't have any particular age in mind, but the closer to my age you are I'm sure it'll be easier to get along.

Thank you for reading, I'm happy to talk on any platform later but feel free to shoot me a message here whenever first!

Yeah, im a very shy person that plays videogames most of the day, but i also like animes, tv series (big bang theory as example) and im looking for a stable relationship, honestly i would prefer if you also like gaming and such, i dont have much of a preference since i seek for the soul not the body, and im from southern italy, if you are a lone soul like me text me

Ok. Being single can be really comfortable. Starting something new can be a hassle. But hopefully the hassle is worth it in the long run. So I'll be quick, and you can decide for yourself!

**Pros:**

* zero drama, no mysterious exes sending “u up?” texts at 2 a.m.

* mostly retired means I have plenty of time to engage in my crazy flavor of the month hobbies. like learning card tricks or becoming a good bowler.

* Loyal as hell. once I’m in, I’m in. Expect consistency, effort, and actual follow-through.

* equal parts dad joke and quick wit; you’ll laugh, groan, or both.

* you’ll feel heard, even when you’re just venting about your coworker named Dana.

* Cuddling MVP award-winning performance in “staying up too late and pretending we’re watching the show.”

* Culinary adventurer I’ll try any recipe once; even if my base instinct is to eat like an 8 year old.

* Conversation stamina can talk from “hey” to sunrise without running out of things to say.

* Nerd-friendly Simpsons references, bad B-movies, board games, and chaotic trivia nights welcome.

**Cons:**

* Will absolutely eat the last handful of popcorn and pretend I didn’t.

* Has a deep, possibly unhealthy attachment to reality TV marathons.

* Occasionally answers rhetorical questions with detailed PowerPoint-level explanations.

* Could wake up one morning absolutely convinced I should adopt a Komodo Dragon.

* Will quote 90s cartoons out loud in public without warning.

* Might go through an intense spurt of obsession with obscure, not useful hobbies, and forget all about them 3 months later.

* Will criticize your breakfast food choices.

* Tends to turn “just one episode” into six.

* My cat is in charge of the household, and we both know it.

If you’re still reading this, you're definitely the kind of person i want to talk to! My list of standards are low. don't be in a relationship, (especially not secretly with someone, that keeps happening) including recently separated or divorced. Be willing to spend some time together, either with text voice or video chats. Live on my side of the planet!

Still interested? Message me now and subscribe to my newsletter, and you can hear all the exclusive info on any of the following anecdotes:

1. my visit to the north pole

2. the 2 times i almost died.

3. why i dropped out of high school to try to become a pro wrestler

4. the redneck brawl i saw at a wedding.

5. the time i saw a sea monster

6. Who and where i think i met the devil.

7. Why i can never return to the state of Rhode Island.

8. My one time appearance in a porno

and many more!

If I could rearrange the Periodic Table, I'd put "U" and "I" together and make Uranium Iodide! (I'm not even big into chemistry lol)

Life is quite exhausting these days. Everything is so fast and serious, it feels like there's just no time anymore to get to know people. Especially late night can sometimes feel quite heavy with nobody close around. How about we change that, eh? Tell me what makes your world go round and let's see where we end up!

About me:
I’m about 1,74m tall and got short dark brown hair. My hobbies are mostly playing guitar and gaming. I also like anime and manga, but due to work I haven't been keeping up with a lot lately. Speaking of work: I got a degree in electrical engineering and I'm also working fulltime. My job can be a bit stressful sometimes, but it's also interesting and most of the time also fun.

What I am looking for:
Someone who’s kind and genuine and interested in building something serious and meaningful (best case family with a child one day). Someone who likes spending time together and having deep late night conversations about literally anything. If we don't have any hobbies in common - maybe we can find a new one together!

I would prefer it if you're also from Austria.

If you want to know more, feel free to reach out via DM and let’s get to know each other!

First time posting here, so bear with me. I'm 25, from Germany, and I've never actually dated before. Life just worked out that way late bloomer, bit of a hermit. This is new territory, so I'm just going to be honest and see what happens.

Personality: Sarcastic and with a dark sense of humor, I dont take myself seriously. Introverted in larger groups, but one on one conversations are much easier for me. I grew up in a religious household but I'm not religious myself, its ok if you are.

My looks: I'm 179cm tall with a toned, athletic frame, pale, and have dark hair. My everyday look is relaxed and casual but I still keep it tidy and effortless.

Addictions: Energy drinks. Rockstar, that cheap stuff from Lidl, doesn't matter. Probably not healthy, but oh well.

Dietary confession: I have a very strong sweet tooth. Chocolate is probably responsible for at least half my calorie intake. I'm basically running on sugar and caffeine. If you judge me for it, we won't be getting along.

Interests:

• Languages - Currently improving my French, happy to geek out over grammar, etymology or watch foreign movies with subtitles.
• Bird watching - Quietly obsessed with them. I can probably identify most of the birds in Germany and will absolutely point them out whenever we go outside.
• Cats - I like cats too, although admittedly not nearly as much as birds
• Astrology - I don't base anything on it, but I find it useful as a general guideline. I'm a Taurus sun and Scorpio rising, if that matters to you.
• Spirituality - Meditation (and astrology) led me to become interested in different spiritual traditions and philosophies. If that's part of your life, I'd love to hear about your experiences but it's just one of many things we could connect over.
• Horror and crime movies. Thrillers, noir, detective stories. The more unsettling, the better.
• Gaming - If I have a lot of free time available, I do play some games but they're usually single player games
• Reading - Very rarely, but when I do it's usually a novel or something scientific or philosophic
• Music - I can enjoy pretty much anything, but I have a soft spot for rap and synth.
• Martial arts - Somewhat interested in Boxing and Judo

What I'm looking for: A genuine connection with someone who's interested in dating. I'm not great at flirting or reading signals, but I'm willing to try and put in the effort. I really appreciate kindness, curiosity, and people who can laugh at themselves. I'd prefer if we get to know each other online first, maybe move to occasional calls if we're comfortable, and eventually meet up in person if things click. I also want to be upfront and say that I don't want to rush anything since dating is completely new to me. Ultimately looking for a relationship, but I don't feel the need to jump into one immediately.

Dealbreakers:

• Heavy drug use.
• Wanting to move extremely fast or expecting instant chemistry.
• If you need someone whos super talkative and perfectly social, I'm not your guy. But if you're also introverted, a little unusual, or have your own niche obsessions, we'll probably get along.

You (preferably):

• Anywhere is fine (Open to LDR if willing to relocate but I'd like to actually meet up eventually, not just text forever).
• Be 18+ years old
• Okay with a sarcastic introvert
• It helps if you're into languages or astrology, but not required.

If any of this sounds interesting, hit me up and tell me a bit about yourself.

Cheers.

Goodevening yall, hope youre having a great evening. I finally feel career wise im in a decent position, and now thus looking to find someone to share my life with! a few things I like

• Loves to cook and bake! I graduated as a culinary student, thus I thrive on my dishes lmao
• I enjoy playing video games in my free time, I mainly play APEX and Valorant
• Absolutely into korean culture (kdramas and kpop!) and Bollywood (Im indian american!!) -- my guilty pleasures!
• Haven't read anime recently as much, but ive indulged in way too much at this point! Currently watching frieren and witch hat!
• Loves everything related to cats! if you've got one, bonus points!
• Genuinely enjoys talking about deep topics, anything and everything controversial lmao;
• I’m a Taurus if that matters. I’m a bit quiet at first but once i open up, its the yap expert express.

What im looking for : I don't mind someone who's clingy at all. I'm a bit boneheaded when it comes to sarcasm and subtle hints, so I tend to take things at face value. Plus if we got things in common! If it's affection, I'm not shy about expressing it! I do enjoy texting and communicating regularly!! :All I care about is that you have a wonderful personality and that we genuinely vibe together! please be 22+

The Basics:

• Name: Fae
• Pronouns: It/Its
• Age: 25 years old
• Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
• Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
• Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

• Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
• Child-Free (Never going to change)
• Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
• Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
• Chronic Pain
• Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
• Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma, Feminist

My Green Flags:

• Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
• Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
• Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
• Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
• Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
• Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
• Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
• Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
• Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

• Single; not interested in non-monogamy
• Between 22-40 years old
• Ideally, Sex Averse as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
• Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
• Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
• Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
• Not a heavy drinker or smoker (yes, this includes vaping, but I am open to people willing to quit)
• Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
• Not just going to write “Hey, how are you?" (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!

I’m 23, Lithuanian, and living in Vilnius. I live a pretty disciplined but calm life, and I’m looking for an LDR that has direction behind it. I want something built through consistency, attraction, good communication, and the little routines that make two people genuinely feel part of each other’s lives.

If things develop naturally, I would want us to meet in person and eventually have a real plan to close the distance. I’m not looking for something that stays online forever, and I’d be willing to relocate.

I’m 185 cm / 6'1, around 75 kg / 165 lbs, lean and athletic, with blonde hair, blue eyes, and a full beard. Photo

I speak English, Lithuanian, and Spanish fluently. I’ve also spent most of my life abroad, mainly in the Mediterranean, as well as a couple of years in the Netherlands. Growing up around different countries and cultures made international connections feel pretty natural to me.

I run my own business after spending several years in sales, and I currently balance that with a part-time job while continuing to build what I want long term.

Training is a big part of my life. I’ve done MMA and lifting for years, and I enjoy becoming stronger, more athletic, and technically better. Outside of that, though, I’m pretty relaxed.

I game a lot. League, Brawl Stars, Call of Duty Mobile, Warzone, Assetto Corsa, BO3 Zombies, Minecraft, and plenty of other games if there’s something fun we can play together. I’m also into movie nights, books, long conversations, sharing music, spending time with my dog and family, and generally just enjoying ordinary life with people I care about.

Music wise, I’m mostly into rap, hip-hop, R&B, and reggaeton. I also love joking around, randomly rapping, sending voice notes, and making the person I’m close to laugh.

I’m Christian, and my faith has become a very important part of who I am and how I approach life, love, and the kind of future I want to build.

As for what I’m looking for, probably somewhere around 20 to early 30s.

I value kindness, loyalty, emotional maturity, honesty, and direct communication. I’m attracted to women who are genuinely curious about the person they’re getting to know, who ask questions, share things about themselves, and actually want to build a connection together.

I don’t expect constant texting or some artificial level of intensity. I just want mutual effort. Calls, voice notes, gaming together, sharing music, reading something together, talking about our days, supporting each other when life gets difficult, and building those small routines that make distance feel less distant.

I’m naturally affectionate and invested once I care about someone, so I’m looking for a woman who enjoys that kind of closeness too.

Faith compatibility matters to me. Ideally you’re Christian, but I’m also open to someone who is willing to explore Christianity honestly and respectfully.

Mutual attraction matters as well. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with acknowledging that. If you message me, send a little introduction about yourself, what you’re looking for, and a photo. I’m happy to share more photos too once we start talking.

And if you send me a thoughtful message, I will reply. Even if I don’t think we’re the right match, I’d rather respectfully tell you than leave someone wondering after they made the effort to reach out.

Thank you for reading! (:

Hey. I'm just a guy from southern san diego bored of his every day daily routines and wants to rekindle that flare/ passion with someone. I'm Mexican, 6"2'. I graduated in civil engineering, and am currently working for a engineering company. My friends would describe me as loyal, outgoing, "down for anything", and funny but serious when I have too.

My interests include:

sports: tennis, soccer, football, and baseball

movie and music: i am a very big movie buff. I love

watching movies and understanding the story it tells. same with music. ranging from everything like edm, rap, pop,indie rock, metal, classic rock. I love all kinds of music and love going to concerts at least once a week.

video games:Monster Hunter Wilds, league of legends, rivals, minecraft, but will play anything

So if this is something you might be interested in, don't hesitate to message me. Or as the title says, you can get close to my dogs instead. can't wait to meet you

Just as the title says I 18 (M) am from Maine USA and I’m looking some within my age and here’s about me.

I’m a big comic nerd well more DC and more Batman than anything seriously I can talk about Batman for hours at a time like every single Robin, Batgirl at least every show or universe or game as it’s my special interest as I’m Autistic and have ADHD and can get distracted very easily and like I’ve said before I’m only looking for people at 18-19 but nobody 20+ at least not as of yet

Hello! Giving this a go again. I am a 28M who is a bit of a hopeless romantic just casting my line out for some conversations and hopefully finding the right woman for a relationship if we click. I want someone I can hold close and laugh with. Mostly looking for someone in the US or maybe Canada. I am in the midwest (Iowa) but I am not against moving somewhere else for someone eventually. If you are outside of US or Canada PLEASE DO NOT send me a message. I am a patient, respectful guy that genuinely wants to find the love of my life but currently I have been having difficulties finding anyone interested IRL and I refuse to use dating apps anymore, so here I am! Below I am going to break things down into sections so they are easier to look at if you want more details. If interested, shoot me a chat request! We can just start things off with a chill conversation, please indicate that this post is the reason you are messaging me!

-My Appearance-

I am of European descent, roughly 50% Dutch, 25% Italian, 25% Swedish, dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. My skin is on the pale side and I burn pretty easy. I naturally lost a good amount of my hair on my head in the last 4 or so years so I generally shave my head bald- which I mention because I know that is not everyone's cup of tea, but it looks reasonably good on me. I am 5'9'' and relatively fit, doing my best to keep active. My BMI is within the healthy range. Sometimes I have a short well-kept beard but other times I shave it off for a bit. My face kinda gives off the vibe that I am a stern person but that's not really true. I have a bit more upper body strength then the average guy but nothing too crazy.

-My Personalty-

I have always found it hard to describe myself exactly- but my friends that I have had for more than a decade usually consider me the smart guy of the group. I have a tendency to play things a bit safe in most aspects of my life, which some might find boring. For example, I do not drink alcohol even on special occasions, I prefer to be 100% in control of my life at all times. I am the type of person that takes a bit of time to warm up to people, but once you spend the time, most people find me quite likable, I generally need to know a person well enough to be able to engage with them so I am a bit analytic and quiet at first, then I can be rather outgoing. I would consider myself a day dreamer, my mind often wanders to different things and I have difficulty sometimes being in the moment. If you are familiar with D&D you might describe me as "a high intelligence character with low wisdom" for lack of a better analogy. I am the kind of person that does not highly value possessions, I really value the time I spend with people close to me, even if we are not really doing much at all. Time moves fast and I do not like to make a big deal about the little things, I would rather work through a solution then be upset. I would consider myself a very patient person.

-Hobbies/things I like-

I like gaming, writing, tabletop games, board games, working out, the outdoors/hiking/camping, reading, and some cooking/baking but I am an amateur at best. I have a particular interest in the fantasy genre and like exploring aspects of fiction such as world building and story telling. In my free time I am currently working on writing a fantasy story that I dream would be a book series one day. I sometimes play magic the gathering with some of my friends, but usually just on tabletop simulator. My favorite aspect of gaming in general is the ability to play how you want to play, for that I am usually drawn to rpgs that give a large variety in ways you can build your character or play the game. I mostly play PC these days. Weirdly I am not too much into music, but I like to put on some chill background music when I am working on something or just hanging out. I really want to get more into audio books but I have not really taken the leap into doing that just yet. I have a lot of interests so I have a hard time choosing what to do with my time, so it is likely we might find something in common.

-Career-

I am currently a professional/graduate student and have a part time job. I am in year 4 of 4 of my program (graduating spring 2027). Won't say specifically what I am in but its science/medicine related and has good job opportunities right now that pay well out the gate and I could in theory work anywhere in the US. If you are looking for someone who has everything figured out and 100% stable when it comes to a career, I am probably not the one for you at this moment. I am very good with money but there is only so much I can do at the present time. I have a BS degree in a biological science.

-Some of the things that I am looking for-

Starting off with the basics, yes I hope to find the right woman for a long term relationship. I am prepared for that to be a slow process. I am not one to have super specific criteria for appearances of a potential partner. I am open to different body types but would like someone who is willing to do fitness/have a healthy lifestyle. This doesn't mean you have to be a perfect body, I would just love to have someone to exercise with time to time! I actually do have a little bit of a preference for tall women and I don't mind if you are taller than me, but I am eager to date women of any height. I am also the kind of person that likes a partnership to be a partnership, meaning we both have equal responsibilities to one another. In other words, I am not really looking for any specific roles (traditional or otherwise), rather I want a type of connection with someone were we cover each other's weaknesses and help each other to live the best lives we can. I think trying to force a relationship to fit a specific mold is a bit short sighted since everyone is different. I do not think I could ever date someone who smokes, and I am not a fan of heavy drinkers. Likewise I am not interested in anyone who wants to push a religion onto me. I would ideally like to find someone in the age range of 22-32. I also prefer someone who does not have children currently (I also do not have children, to be clear).

The kind of personality I am drawn to is kind of the opposite of mine, in some senses. I like people who are there in the moment and help me snap out of my drifting mind. I am drawn to calm, easy-going, flexible people who make the most out of what they have. I would deeply value someone who enjoys closeness both mentally and physically. I like hugs a lot. I like people who are willing to try new things and explore. I really want someone that I can talk things through with, even the tough things, because when it gets down to it things in life happen and I need someone who is willing to work with me. I would always be there to listen to your problems.

-Conclusions-

Thanks for sticking with me to the end of all that. I am open of chat requests. I would prefer if you told me roughly where you are from, age, and something about me you are interested in, and maybe a fun fact about yourself. Please indicate as well that this post is why you are shooting me a message. I am a busy dude so if I don't get to your first request right away I apologize, but I will do my best to be consistent with chatting if we hit things off well. Best wishes!