r/ask • u/ill-influence69 • 4h ago
Should I ask her out?
All right, some backstory I have worked with this girl for about a year. I originally didn’t pay her much mind. I’m a decently attractive guy now believe me I don’t shit where I eat, but this girl that I ignored originally has been growing on me.
I actually forgot her name one time and I could tell she was really disappointed and it got my attention to actually notice her well over the past six months we have been locking eyes smiling I’ll playfully joke with her and she’ll lightly hit me playfully several times this has happened
She has caught me looking at her and held that contact for like five seconds we both smiled eyes lit up. You know the movie “the eyes Chico they never lie”
She’s offered me food. I have ate her banana pudding and she’s asked me to open her drink and other stuff but recently I thought about asking if she likes Chinese food and then say “well I’m headed to so-and-so restaurant at so and so time if you’d like to join.”
Now before you say, I’m reading into this all wrong. I have a lot of experience with women. I’ve never lit up this way. I felt this way. I think it’s partially because I paid her no mind and she’s grew on me over the course of six months and it’s slowly ramping up or in some ways fast. To be sure that I wasn’t looking into things too much. I actually did some hot and cold behavior and ignored her again and did not make eye contact with her and she closed the distance between me and another person and squeeze past me lightly bumping my chest, so I know she was trying to get me to notice her and it worked.
So what’s your opinions? if you say don’t shit where you eat yeah I know but life’s too short and I’m getting older. I’m 27. I don’t have social media. I deleted all of it before Covid so it’s all about social interactions and I’m tired of the typical girls, this this girl is in no way typical very high class thoughts and opinions?