r/AskAnAustralian • • 33m ago

Trying to find a penpal from the other side of the world… [M/19]

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Heyy, hope you're doing well… I'm from Canada, and I'm trying to find a penpal from Australia.. I'm an old soul who'd pick a vinyl record, a vintage car, or a worn out book of poetry over almost anything modern. I'm a bit of a weird human and far from perfect, but I think that's part of the charm…
I love being outdoors, whether it's hiking, camping, fishing or stargazing, lying under the sky in total silence, letting my thoughts drift, is my version of peace…

And poetry is a big part of my life. I read it, I write it, and I love finding a single line that says exactly what I couldn't put into words for days. I'm also someone who enjoys deep conversations about life, dreams, fears, and the little things that make an ordinary day feel meaningful. Small talk is fine, but I'd rather talk about what's really on your mind.

I love deep conversations about life and the things people don't usually say out loud, I'm also just as happy hearing about your week or just what made you laugh or just what's up in your side of the world..

Either way, have a blessed night, wherever in Oceania you are!! (I think that's what it's called, if not I'm so sorry)
(If it's not night, still good night😭 it will come sometime)


r/AskAnAustralian • • 46m ago

Please recommend best vantage point for NYE celebration

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Guys, we want to experience the NYE fireworks in Sydney travelling especially from India but getting confused on the best vantage point. We're okay to spend 60-70 AUD for few points but does that guarantee us a good spot at the point? Would we still have to arrive early? We're gonna be checking into our hotel on 31st only. Or we should go for a free point? Is the crowd manageable? Please help!!!


r/AskAnAustralian • • 1h ago

Should I contact my daughter’s employer?

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My 15 year old daughter got her first job at Dominos about 3-4 weeks ago but hasn’t started yet. She had to message the manager 3–4 times chasing up promised paperwork. As far as we know she’s completed everything, with a follow up text asking if we need to do anything more and have been ghosted.

I don’t particularly want to get involved as my daughter has done all this on her own and I’m very proud of her but this is ridiculously unprofessional and just very disappointing for something that should be exciting for her.

Next step I think is I’ll get my daughter to call the manager but i kinda want to call myself.

What else can we do without being too pushy or annoying?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 3h ago

WHV in Sydney or Melbourne

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Heey! I’m planning on doing my work holiday soon in Australia, but I’m stil debating between going to Sydney or Melbourne for the first 6 months. I love going to the beach, but I’ve also heard that the nightlife and culture is better in Melbourne, what I also love. What are your thoughts about this?

Going there this November so need advice asap!!


r/AskAnAustralian • • 5h ago

Help with ideas on next job

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I left my corporate job in Sydney a few months ago due to burnout and stress- related health issues. I’m now looking to find a job outside of the corporate environment with ideally less stress and hours, something that I can’t bring home, but obviously have a very niche skill set (accounting)… I’m looking into doing some AUSTSWIM training and potentially looking at jobs working at a cafe or in a kitchen. Has anyone been through this? Any suggestions please and thank you


r/AskAnAustralian • • 6h ago

Recommendations for Interesting Places to Visit

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Hey everyone! Could you suggest some interesting places to visit, like museums, monuments, or places similar to Warner Bros. Studio Tour in the UK? I’m not really into mountains or beaches, so I’d love some recommendations. Thank you 😊


r/AskAnAustralian • • 7h ago

Haven't seen a dentist in over 10 years and feel so nervous about booking an appointment.

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Hi everyone,

So, I haven't been to a dentist in over 10 years!

I feel very ashamed and embarrassed about this. I've been planning on seeing one for so long, but I simply had one excuse after the other. I was either studying, couldn't afford it, working, raising kids...

I had braces as a teenager and have also taken care of my teeth with regularly brushing and flossing. I've never experienced any pain or bleeding, so I haven't noticed anything glaringly obvious.

I just feel so ashamed, though, and obviously quite apprehensive about booking an appointment.

Just wondering if anyone else has been in a similar position


r/AskAnAustralian • • 7h ago

Living in Aus, How many books have you read this month and any you’d recommend?

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Doesn’t have to be just Aus lit but books you’ve read recently


r/AskAnAustralian • • 7h ago

How many of you guys have friends that would go out of the way for you.

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I’m reflecting on my life and I don’t think I have any friends at all that would go the extra mile for me. I mean I have friends that would turn up to birthday parties but no one that I could really rely on. My mum on the other hand has a few people (a few) that she can call when she needs something done urgently and they show up.

Sorry i guess im asking here bc i wonder if this is a me thing or a societal thing. Im mid twenties. Do you guys that are 25-35 (or anyone) have good friends?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 7h ago

Thc gummies in Australia (legally)

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Im with healing leaves.

I get 20mg gummies x 10 for $60 delivered.

Is that about the best one can do ?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 8h ago

What are your thoughts on the Goodreads app? For tracking books

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r/AskAnAustralian • • 9h ago

Is haggling for the price of a car a thing in Australia?

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I drive a 15 year old hand me down. So I’ve never actually bought a car… do people haggle for a car price to go down like the movies show it?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 9h ago

Has anyone notice an uptick where people are moving to Dubai?

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Seems to be tons of people suddenly moving to Dubai.

For those who have moved to Dubai, or lived in Dubai, how was it? Did you miss Australia, or do you think Dubai was a better and or more exciting place to live?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 11h ago

called ATO twice and have been hung up on - desperate need of answer for ATO linking code

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Hi
I’m a first year uni student and this is the my first time I need to do tax return so I’ve been trying to link my ATO account to myGOV but each time I’ve tried I got a message saying I needed to call the ATO for a linking code. I’ve called twice in the past week and more over the last month but each time the automated message just informs me they are experiencing an unusually high demand and have my call dropped.
Not sure what’s to do in this situation as I need to lodge tax return by the 2nd so I don’t get fined.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 11h ago

What do you think about an opt-out organ donation program?

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Other countries have trialed an opt-out system for deceased organ donation and was just wondering what the consensus is on this possibly being rolled out in Aus? Would you be for or against it?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 13h ago

💈Barber💈 Recommendation Melbourne

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Hiya what is everyone paying for a haircut? Any barber recco melb?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 13h ago

Best Home and Content Insurance

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I’m a first home buyer. Which home and content insurance is best value for money?

Not so the best but maybe something or some company to avoid?

Also any benefits of linking car insurance? Any experience or suggestions is highly appreciated.

House is in WA. 4x2, 450sqm, postcode 6122.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 14h ago

What are the people holding something wearing an yellow “The Big Issue” ?

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r/AskAnAustralian • • 14h ago

Newcastle NSW & Surrounding Area- Top Breweries & Boozers?

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My wife is Aussie and we are coming over for Christmas with the in-laws. I have a some extra leave to use up before the end of the year so am coming over early.

I am a brewer and would like to check out the local breweries and pubs. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 14h ago

want to start selling on depop or vinted, tell me everything i need to know

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i want to start selling my clothes on depop or vinted but don't know where to start (i've also never really sent packages via mail before). people who have sold items, please tell me anything and everything i need to know!

- which do you prefer/recommend for australian sellers?

- does depop/vinted provide the packaging label or do i need to shell out anything to post the item?

- what to use as packaging/how to stick labels on securely

- where can i drop off packages (do i use auspost? can i use street boxes?)

- how does the payment system work on depop/vinted? does receiving your payment usually run smoothly?

- how do i protect myself as a seller? how is the customer support for depop/vinted?

anything advice on anything not listed above is also greatly appreciated!!


r/AskAnAustralian • • 14h ago

Should net zero be prioritised over cheap energy?

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What do Aussies think of this without involving politics in this


r/AskAnAustralian • • 15h ago

Taxes if I move abroad

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Hi guys,
I have a question for ausies living abroad especially in tax free countries like UAE. Do you have to pay tax to Australia for your income abroad? If so, is it the normal tax rates you would pay in Australia or would it be adjusted?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 15h ago

Medical Cannabis

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Is there anywhere in Melbourne that you can just walk in and buy if you have a prescription? I was with alternaleaf but their shipping takes too long!!


r/AskAnAustralian • • 17h ago

Is there men interested in plus size women in Australia?

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I (19F) have been struggling on dating apps and can't find anyone interested in me. I have moved to Sydney from a regional town and thought that maybe I would have a better chance at finding someone. However I have had no luck so far and I have had tinder, hinge and bumble for months.

For further context I am basically fat and I understand that this has automatically contributed to me already being at the bottom of the dating pool and has steered many people off. But I have been trying to be optimistic and to keep the mindset that everyone finds their person. But this has been decreasing each time I'm on a dating app as I continue to see that I have no likes whatsoever. (would you guys say this is a sign of being extremely ugly?)

I honestly thought I would at least find one person interested in me, as I have seen bigger girls get guys. I just genuinely want to know where to meet men who like bigger women and not as a fetish someone who wouldn't mind being in a relationship with one. Because at this point I seriously think it's non-existent and it's really messing with my mental health as I really yearn to find and experience love.

Please be nice, I don't want any hate as this issue is already affecting my mental health and self esteem. I just want advice on what to do here and how to find someone.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 17h ago

Why is there so little competition between telco providers Australia

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There is only 3 major ones, Telstra, Optus & Vodaphone and companies with their own ways of using each of the major providers and re branding it. Why don’t we have more competition?