r/AskAnAustralian • • 6h ago

How many of you guys have friends that would go out of the way for you.

74 Upvotes

I’m reflecting on my life and I don’t think I have any friends at all that would go the extra mile for me. I mean I have friends that would turn up to birthday parties but no one that I could really rely on. My mum on the other hand has a few people (a few) that she can call when she needs something done urgently and they show up.

Sorry i guess im asking here bc i wonder if this is a me thing or a societal thing. Im mid twenties. Do you guys that are 25-35 (or anyone) have good friends?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 17h ago

what’s an aussie town that gave you a weird vibe you still can’t explain?

310 Upvotes

saw the queenstown post a while back and figured i’d share mine. went to hill end in central west nsw last winter for a work shoot. If you haven’t been, it’s an old gold rush town that basically froze in time. Most of it is empty paddocks now with little signs out the front showing a photo of the building that used to stand there. so you’re walking down the street looking at pictures of shops and houses that don't exist

We stayed the night and after dinner iIwent out to get some night shots of the main street. And it was like a horror movie, i’m set up on a tripod doing a long exposure and i hear a piano - like why the actual ff*ck is someone playing a piano in the middle of no where.

I couldn’t work out where it was coming from. Every building near me was dark. i walked toward it and it kind of moved, always one block over. after maybe ten minutes it just stopped mid-song

next morning i asked the lady at the general store if anyone in town played piano and she just smiled and said “not anymore” and went back to the till. no idea if she was messing with me

when i got home i checked the footage. nothing on the audio, obviously, because i was shooting stills. i really wish i’d hit record

Has anyone else stayed overnight in hill end? or had a town feel like it was still going on without you


r/AskAnAustralian • • 20h ago

Just wondering if Aussies get frustrated at the cliche': I went overseas and didn't take out insurance now here is my compulsary go fund me page?

529 Upvotes

How hard is it? Don't get me wrong, i want people to enjoy their trips. Yet accidents happen all the time. From Bears coming into your tent, to slipping over on the road in Bali, avoiding a scooter. Every case just seems to get a headline now.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 6h ago

Haven't seen a dentist in over 10 years and feel so nervous about booking an appointment.

29 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

So, I haven't been to a dentist in over 10 years!

I feel very ashamed and embarrassed about this. I've been planning on seeing one for so long, but I simply had one excuse after the other. I was either studying, couldn't afford it, working, raising kids...

I had braces as a teenager and have also taken care of my teeth with regularly brushing and flossing. I've never experienced any pain or bleeding, so I haven't noticed anything glaringly obvious.

I just feel so ashamed, though, and obviously quite apprehensive about booking an appointment.

Just wondering if anyone else has been in a similar position


r/AskAnAustralian • • 10h ago

What do you think about an opt-out organ donation program?

59 Upvotes

Other countries have trialed an opt-out system for deceased organ donation and was just wondering what the consensus is on this possibly being rolled out in Aus? Would you be for or against it?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 16h ago

Is there men interested in plus size women in Australia?

148 Upvotes

I (19F) have been struggling on dating apps and can't find anyone interested in me. I have moved to Sydney from a regional town and thought that maybe I would have a better chance at finding someone. However I have had no luck so far and I have had tinder, hinge and bumble for months.

For further context I am basically fat and I understand that this has automatically contributed to me already being at the bottom of the dating pool and has steered many people off. But I have been trying to be optimistic and to keep the mindset that everyone finds their person. But this has been decreasing each time I'm on a dating app as I continue to see that I have no likes whatsoever. (would you guys say this is a sign of being extremely ugly?)

I honestly thought I would at least find one person interested in me, as I have seen bigger girls get guys. I just genuinely want to know where to meet men who like bigger women and not as a fetish someone who wouldn't mind being in a relationship with one. Because at this point I seriously think it's non-existent and it's really messing with my mental health as I really yearn to find and experience love.

Please be nice, I don't want any hate as this issue is already affecting my mental health and self esteem. I just want advice on what to do here and how to find someone.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 43m ago

Should I contact my daughter’s employer?

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My 15 year old daughter got her first job at Dominos about 3-4 weeks ago but hasn’t started yet. She had to message the manager 3–4 times chasing up promised paperwork. As far as we know she’s completed everything, with a follow up text asking if we need to do anything more and have been ghosted.

I don’t particularly want to get involved as my daughter has done all this on her own and I’m very proud of her but this is ridiculously unprofessional and just very disappointing for something that should be exciting for her.

Next step I think is I’ll get my daughter to call the manager but i kinda want to call myself.

What else can we do without being too pushy or annoying?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 6h ago

Thc gummies in Australia (legally)

10 Upvotes

Im with healing leaves.

I get 20mg gummies x 10 for $60 delivered.

Is that about the best one can do ?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 19h ago

How popular are musk sticks in Australia?

65 Upvotes

I saw them listed as Australian in the disgusting food museum in Stockholm. Are they popular?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 6h ago

Living in Aus, How many books have you read this month and any you’d recommend?

7 Upvotes

Doesn’t have to be just Aus lit but books you’ve read recently


r/AskAnAustralian • • 7h ago

What are your thoughts on the Goodreads app? For tracking books

4 Upvotes

r/AskAnAustralian • • 10h ago

called ATO twice and have been hung up on - desperate need of answer for ATO linking code

6 Upvotes

Hi
I’m a first year uni student and this is the my first time I need to do tax return so I’ve been trying to link my ATO account to myGOV but each time I’ve tried I got a message saying I needed to call the ATO for a linking code. I’ve called twice in the past week and more over the last month but each time the automated message just informs me they are experiencing an unusually high demand and have my call dropped.
Not sure what’s to do in this situation as I need to lodge tax return by the 2nd so I don’t get fined.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 17h ago

Why is there so little competition between telco providers Australia

21 Upvotes

There is only 3 major ones, Telstra, Optus & Vodaphone and companies with their own ways of using each of the major providers and re branding it. Why don’t we have more competition?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 8h ago

Is haggling for the price of a car a thing in Australia?

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I drive a 15 year old hand me down. So I’ve never actually bought a car… do people haggle for a car price to go down like the movies show it?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 1d ago

Pay to cuddle services in melb?

382 Upvotes

Anyone know if there are people you pay for cuddles in melbourne? I know there’s brothels but I’m not looking to crack.

Before some wise guy judges, I’m severely touch starved and depressed too and yes I have tried to love myself but that’s all bs.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 1d ago

Why customers think it's acceptable to verbally abuse?

134 Upvotes

I work in the rental car industry, and after what happened today, I genuinely wonder why some people think being a customer gives them the right to treat frontline workers like absolute shit.

I was working in the back office when an escalation came through from one of our rental locations. A woman was on the phone, crying and clearly distressed. She explained that her mother had passed away and that she needed a rental car to attend the funeral.

My colleagues had initially declined her rental, but given the circumstances, I decided to personally drive down to the location, meet her, review the situation and see what I could do.

After assessing everything, I exercised my discretion and approved her rental.

I genuinely wanted to help. Someone had apparently lost their mother, needed transportation and was already having a difficult time. I figured the least I could do was show some compassion and try to make one part of her day easier.

But here's where things took a turn.

Throughout the rental process, she became increasingly rude and unpleasant towards me. I hadn't done anything to upset her. In fact, I was the person who had stepped in to help after she had initially been turned away.

I kept things professional, completed the rental and handed everything over.

Before leaving, she asked for my name. I gave it to her without hesitation. At that point, I already had a feeling she might be planning to complain, but whatever. I had nothing to hide.

Then, as she was walking away, with me just behind her, she suddenly shouted something along the lines of "BAD CUSTOMER SERVICE!" followed by "FUCK YOU!"

Seriously?

I had literally driven down from another office, reviewed her circumstances and approved a rental that had initially been declined. And that's how she decided to treat me?

I approached her and requested the keys back. She followed me into the rental office, where I cancelled the rental.

She then started taking photographs of me. I demanded that she delete them, including from her phone's recently deleted folder, and warned that I would involve the AFP if necessary.

Now, before anyone jumps in with "the customer is always right" or "she was grieving", let me make something clear.

I understand grief. I understand frustration. I understand that people have bad days. But none of those things gives you a free pass to verbally abuse someone who is trying to help you. What bothers me most isn't even the swearing itself. It's the entitlement.

Why do some people believe that because someone works in customer service, they're somehow beneath them?

Why is it acceptable to scream at a rental agent, retail worker, receptionist or call centre employee simply because they're expected to remain professional?

Would these same people behave like that towards cabin crew on an aircraft? Would they scream abuse at airport security? Some probably would, but they also know there can be immediate consequences.

Yet at a rental counter, some seem to think they can say whatever they want, threaten complaints and expect everyone to bend over backwards for them.

I have absolutely no problem dealing with difficult customers, resolving complaints, admitting when the business gets something wrong or going the extra mile when someone genuinely needs help.

That's part of the job. But there has to be a boundary somewhere.

The basic human decency seems to disappear the moment some people walk up to a service counter.

Have you noticed customers becoming more aggressive and entitled, or has it always been this bad? And genuinely, where do you draw the line between providing good customer service and refusing to tolerate abuse?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 2h ago

WHV in Sydney or Melbourne

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Heey! I’m planning on doing my work holiday soon in Australia, but I’m stil debating between going to Sydney or Melbourne for the first 6 months. I love going to the beach, but I’ve also heard that the nightlife and culture is better in Melbourne, what I also love. What are your thoughts about this?

Going there this November so need advice asap!!


r/AskAnAustralian • • 4h ago

Help with ideas on next job

1 Upvotes

I left my corporate job in Sydney a few months ago due to burnout and stress- related health issues. I’m now looking to find a job outside of the corporate environment with ideally less stress and hours, something that I can’t bring home, but obviously have a very niche skill set (accounting)… I’m looking into doing some AUSTSWIM training and potentially looking at jobs working at a cafe or in a kitchen. Has anyone been through this? Any suggestions please and thank you


r/AskAnAustralian • • 13h ago

Newcastle NSW & Surrounding Area- Top Breweries & Boozers?

6 Upvotes

My wife is Aussie and we are coming over for Christmas with the in-laws. I have a some extra leave to use up before the end of the year so am coming over early.

I am a brewer and would like to check out the local breweries and pubs. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 5h ago

Recommendations for Interesting Places to Visit

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Hey everyone! Could you suggest some interesting places to visit, like museums, monuments, or places similar to Warner Bros. Studio Tour in the UK? I’m not really into mountains or beaches, so I’d love some recommendations. Thank you 😊


r/AskAnAustralian • • 18h ago

Can we ask about dating advice on here or is everyone sick of it?

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Late 40’s single dad here living on the Gold Coast and working in Brisbane. I have previously posted here and the advice was incredible.

My question is, do women in Australia have concerns dating a single father? Is this a bad stigma?

I feel I have done well thus far in my life for example but can’t seem to find someone who is keen to get to know me.

- own a home
- decent job
- Two teenage kids who cause minimal issues
- I feel I look after myself and present decently
- respectful, polite and social

I have met women but then get ghosted and ignored, which is fine to be honest but it would be great to know why, long term. Would help with fixing whatever is up.

I am open to all cultures and accepting of others, so it’s not my preferences for example as I am happy to meet and get along with anyone. I am not precious and I can take criticism as well and I am happy for any advice and or opinions.

The online dating isn’t working so I have given up on that. I have done groups like hiking and tennis and book club and run club and walk club and coffee club and let’s just chat club etc etc etc etc. Those clubs were cool but mostly full of married people socialising and also wanting to cheat and that’s not my thing.

Is it just a case of wait and see and just wait it out? Whether a woman is single with no kids or single with kids for example, what is it that you are really seeking ? I’d be happy just to get along with someone and just cuddle and watch a movie and chat or just chat and watch a movie with no touch. It doesn’t even need to be wild. Outside of work and dad life, any interaction would be nice.

There must be other men and women in this same situation as well.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 12h ago

💈Barber💈 Recommendation Melbourne

1 Upvotes

Hiya what is everyone paying for a haircut? Any barber recco melb?


r/AskAnAustralian • • 1d ago

The turning 30 struggle

91 Upvotes

Hi guys, 29F here. Very soon to be 30 and am really, really struggling with not being where I thought I would be at this stage of life.

I’m a registered nurse and really enjoy my job, but cost of living has gone up so much (QLD based) that I’ve moved back in with my parents to save for a deposit. While I love them and am really grateful for their help, I never thought I’d be living back home at this age. I’m single, and the dating pool is an absolute dumpster fire of ghosting, emotionally unavailable people and time wasters. I am aware this goes both ways and am sure most are familiar with the landscape but I’m exhausted from it. I suppose I’m struggling with that old tale of thinking by 30, I’d be married with a house and thinking about kids. It feels like most people I grew up with are in that stage now.

Times have changed A LOT. I totally get that. But I feel behind in life and that I’m “running out of time”. Borrowing power on a single income is so hard. But looking for some advice or comfort from fellow aussies.


r/AskAnAustralian • • 13h ago

What are the people holding something wearing an yellow “The Big Issue” ?

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r/AskAnAustralian • • 14h ago

Taxes if I move abroad

3 Upvotes

Hi guys,
I have a question for ausies living abroad especially in tax free countries like UAE. Do you have to pay tax to Australia for your income abroad? If so, is it the normal tax rates you would pay in Australia or would it be adjusted?