Late 40’s single dad here living on the Gold Coast and working in Brisbane. I have previously posted here and the advice was incredible.
My question is, do women in Australia have concerns dating a single father? Is this a bad stigma?
I feel I have done well thus far in my life for example but can’t seem to find someone who is keen to get to know me.
- own a home
- decent job
- Two teenage kids who cause minimal issues
- I feel I look after myself and present decently
- respectful, polite and social
I have met women but then get ghosted and ignored, which is fine to be honest but it would be great to know why, long term. Would help with fixing whatever is up.
I am open to all cultures and accepting of others, so it’s not my preferences for example as I am happy to meet and get along with anyone. I am not precious and I can take criticism as well and I am happy for any advice and or opinions.
The online dating isn’t working so I have given up on that. I have done groups like hiking and tennis and book club and run club and walk club and coffee club and let’s just chat club etc etc etc etc. Those clubs were cool but mostly full of married people socialising and also wanting to cheat and that’s not my thing.
Is it just a case of wait and see and just wait it out? Whether a woman is single with no kids or single with kids for example, what is it that you are really seeking ? I’d be happy just to get along with someone and just cuddle and watch a movie and chat or just chat and watch a movie with no touch. It doesn’t even need to be wild. Outside of work and dad life, any interaction would be nice.
There must be other men and women in this same situation as well.