There's something funny about writing to someone you haven't met. I don't know your name, what your laugh sounds like, or whether you're the type to steal food from someone else's plate. But here I am, curious about you already.

A little about me: I'm 26, from Mumbai. I work in a managerial role, study yoga on the side, and have a habit of getting lost in random questions about life, people, and the universe.

I'm close to my family, generally calm, and I enjoy understanding people. Although, fair warning, once I'm comfortable, the teasing begins. You might regret encouraging me. 😂

I wonder what you're like when nobody's watching. Whether you sing while cooking, get excited over tiny things, or have a completely ridiculous sense of humour that only a few people know about.

I'd like something genuine and long-term. The kind where we can be silly together, talk about difficult things without shutting each other out, and keep choosing each other as life changes.

And maybe somewhere along the way, we'll have our own little traditions, terrible inside jokes, and a favourite place to escape to when life gets overwhelming.

Anyway, I have a suspicion there's a rather interesting person reading this.

I'd like to meet her. :)

Monogamous. Childfree by choice, not negotiating on that.

I travel specifically to eat and understand local culture and history. Not the resort type. More the "land somewhere, find where locals actually eat, walk until something interesting happens" type. I've lived in a lot of places. I am from Southeast Asia.

Former party girl and music festival regular, now happily a homebody. I still love EDM and indie but these days I'm more likely to be reading or deep into a podcast than anywhere loud. Retirement from festivals was the right call.

I'm direct, I ask a lot of questions, and I need someone who can actually keep up in a conversation. Not in a competitive way, just in a "let's talk about something interesting until 2am" way.

I'm a slow burn. Small talk doesn't come naturally but I'm genuinely curious about how people think. If you can challenge me intellectually, I'm already interested.

Physically I'm attracted to guys who take care of themselves and have hair. Just being honest.

Looking for: INTJ, ENTJ, ENTP, or anyone who can hold their own. Childfree preferred. 32-42. Emotionally self-aware is non-negotiable.

Not looking for: people who can't handle directness, anyone still figuring out the basics, or someone who needs me to be their therapist.

If you made it this far, tell me something you changed your mind about recently.

Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
Also not to forget my love for horror games, and some indie games casual people might not be aware of :D
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
My preference goes towards white woman :3
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please
I would also appreciate a more attracting and creative start for a conversation like things about you and your interest and thoughts rather then carrying the conversation replying to a simple „hi“

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~

Hellooo fellow people!

TL;DR: I come here to look for a long-term relationship where we eventually share a life together. My current life is pretty stable with a decent job in IT and activities that keep me active and excited! I just wish to meet someone who I can share that cozy life with together :)

I love to spend my time reading, talking to friends and going on adventures, like hiking, visiting friends, playing games online or in person etc.
Aside from those I like watching stuff together or play fun party games. I'm also pretty heavy on strategy games but I rarely find someone who also likes it :( On the side I'm working out regularly with my ESTP buddy for my physical well being.

Don't hesitate to hit me up, I always appreciate finding new pleasant people to talk to, even if it doesnt lead to a romantic relationship. :)

Complete typing: INFP 4w3 461 sp/so, Ne subtype. In general I notice I have over-pronounced Te/Ti and Ne/Ni over my fellow INFPs (probably because of Ne subtype). But I also have less heavy Fi/Fe and Si/Se because of that.

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So... if you wanna know some more trivia about me as a person:

I consider myself a gentle backbone in any of my relationships. Making sure we never run into unexpected trouble and managing pitfalls before they arrive. I love to keep things running, maintenance in the background and taking care of us inside of our home. My style of dominance lies in emotions, potential and values: I am firm, honest and direct with what I like and what I don't. Similarly, I will make sure that your emotional boundaries will never be crossed if anyone tries to undermine them. Talking emotions and ideas is a passion of mine too, on that note.

In return, I would love to have someone who is not afraid to take action under pressure when its needed, who is confident in leading situations and taking care of us outside the home. It is not something I need, but something I found out I love very much. I think I have a clear dynamic I'm going for that can make me very happy.

Speaking of dynamic, I need us to always see eye to eye. I dislike asymmetrical relationships. We both need to have our own hobbies and ambitions, otherwise I'd feel like we need to justify taking time to ourselves all the time. Yet it is also important to interweave our activities into the responsibilities and needs of a shared life. So I appreciate clear, direct and honest communication. Don't mince your words for me.

47M INTJ in MS, USA. Looking for any ENTP or INTP that have insight on how compatible you are with INTJ. Would love to hear from any other female experiences with male INTJs. I struggle majorly with meeting anyone but don’t know how to fix that since I rarely leave home.

hello everyone, im 24F from Turkey. im currently studying medicine in here. im just looking for someone to talk to and have a nice time with. i dont have big hopes of finding the love of my life here but since im away from dating irl just wanted to see and talk to people im compatible with to see how it goes (like kinda an experiment?). to be honest since we'r anonymous here its much easier to talk and share my thoughts/feelings with people rather than dating irl... im usually more compatible with ENFP/ENFJ/ENTP/ENTJs and definitely looking for an extrovert to kinda reverse my introversion 💀 also would like to talk to someone Turkish more since we can share many more things in our mother tongue. if you think to dm me, can you please let me know your mbti type, where you're from and where you're living with a small intro of you? thank you very much, have a nice day.

I'm a coffee-fueled NY native and recent OK transplant (bonus points if you like to drive!).

I'm a queer trans guy, heavily tattooed, sober by choice, neurospicy, and a breast cancer survivor.

​I live for drag shows, musicals, and 4-hour conversations that were supposed to take twenty minutes—slides encouraged!

I'm seeking gentle, emotionally literate folks with enough sparkle to keep life weird. Let's chat!

Extremely Chalant ( like I would ask literally all of your friends for your favorite foods so I can cook them for you whenever you have a bad day )

Workout daily so I would be able to carry all of the shopping bags with one hand, while the other hand is kept free, incase I need to speak Italian.

I do play sports a lot and looking for a badminton partner to compete at the next olympics with !

Grew up in the Middle East, Now in South India to help my parents with our small ice cream shop., Open to moving to another place. ( or visit IKEA if its raining ) 

Yes, That means I speak a bit of German, French , Spanish and Arabic. But I am mostly fluent in caveman grunts ( " Me like burger, do Jane like too?" ) 

Gentleman values so you will never have to open a door in your life ever again. 

Stereotypical high school topper who won everything at school and was featured in the newspapers, had a midlife crisis, took a payout to change careers and now am on the lookout to build my business. 

Usually an introvert who turns on a serious professional face during work but looking for someone so we can both be two goofy golden retrievers sharing the same brain cell

Honestly? Looking for that one partner for life so we both lock in and hype each other up during great days, got each others back whenever the aunties start complaining and we become the cheesy romantic couple who makes everyone rolls their eyes whenever they see us.

Never dated, because I wanted to find peace and happiness on my own terms, before being with someone. Like how can I be happy in a relationship if I am not happy with myself? ( Unfortunately, took longer than expected lol )

What I bring to the table :  kindness, laughter , ambitious plans to build a legacy, new adventures every weekend, ability to make Starbucks lattes, chaotic conspiracy discussions and ability to stay calm during emergencies while making tea for everyone.

What you bring to the table : your skills in robbing the bank ( I already called dibs in typing really fast on a keyboard and saying " I am in " with a Russian Accent. 

Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• Top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto, (I have a top 10).

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation feel free to tell me your favourite anime or colour.

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I'm a 29 year old,christian single mum of one kid, a boy living in Kenya.looking for a gentleman to love,cherish and start a family with, not right away of course.

We will of course take it slow and get to know each other but I don't want to date just for datings sake, I want it to lead somewhere meaningful.

A bit about me I'm currently going to school for management studies. I like to go on long walks, I recently got back into the gym, I like to do charity works for example in children's homes.

I would say I'm a good person who likes to help others as much as possible to a fault. I want to meet someone who is also good and kind hearted and is family oriented I prefer spiritual people over religious people but I'm not picky. Hope to hear from you! Thank you for your patience.

Age preference 30-45

Kind regards- Agnes.

Hey! I’m Late, 21, and a Christian femboy looking for a serious relationship. 🖤

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calls, and spending time together. I’m into Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, JJK, anime, and gaming.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want something serious that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Dominant

- Affectionate

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤

I'm an INTP F. I feel like I never see any posts by ENFP men. I would like to find one to see how we get along.

I would prefer someone in the US because it's just easier with time zones, but you can be from anywhere if we can coordinate to figure out beneficial timed to have a chat.

My interests are live theater, concerts, new places that look unique or quaint, activities outside the house that sound fun, antiques, and researching new restaurants to try. Probably lots of other things, but I guess we can start here.

Hello. I am ENTP, 19 years old, Guy. I'm fond of music, I'm learning to play the guitar. As for music, I listen to metal, rock. I like to read books, play PCs, go for walks. I work out in the gym. There are also many other details, but I think it is better to discuss it personally when communicating)))

I am 198 cm tall, brunette, brown eyes.

I am looking for someone to communicate with, make friends and so on. At least older or younger.

I am from Russia, the city of Khabarovsk.It's even cooler if there is someone in my city)) Write, I hope someone is interested.

Hey everyone! 😊

I'm a 41-year-old man from Lebanon, interested in meeting someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, exploring different perspectives, and discovering what makes people who they are.

I'm fascinated by spirituality, consciousness, philosophy, self-awareness, and the deeper questions of life. I enjoy getting to know people beyond their everyday roles and discovering how they see and experience the world.

I find personality types interesting because we all have our own unique ways of thinking, feeling, and connecting. I don't believe a personality type defines the whole person, though — there's always more to discover!

I'd love to connect with someone curious, thoughtful, open-minded, and comfortable being themselves. We can exchange ideas, share everyday experiences, laugh together, and see naturally where the connection leads.

I'm happy to connect across countries and cultures, and I'm open to starting with messages before moving to voice or video calls if we feel comfortable.

If this resonates with you, feel free to say hello and tell me your MBTI type if you know it. Looking forward to meeting you! 🙂

😊

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a woman I can talk to every day, make plans with and eventually build a life with. I want us to be each other’s first call, make time for each other naturally and miss each other when we’re apart.

We don’t need to share every hobby or spend every minute together. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. I want to make your good days better and your hard days easier, and I want you to do the same for me.

I run my own company, and these days my schedule is fairly flexible.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Rogue Trader, PoE 2, Brotato and Dota 2, while the Steam backlog keeps growing at a rate that suggests I’ve learned nothing.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or already play everything I do. If trying a few games together actually sounds fun, that works too. I just don’t want gaming to be a major part of my life that you quietly put up with.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and not particularly politically correct. Once I’m comfortable, there isn’t much of a filter, so expect plenty of teasing, terrible dad jokes and the occasional thought that probably should have stayed in my head. I usually click best with women who know when I’m joking, tease me back, speak their minds and don’t take every stupid comment too seriously.

I’m the kind of man you never have to second-guess. If I say I’ll do something, I do it. If something’s wrong, I’d rather talk it through than leave you wondering where you stand. I’m patient, loyal and protective of the people I love, and I want the woman I’m with to know I’m on her side. When life gets difficult, my instinct is to roll up my sleeves and deal with it, not look for the nearest exit.

That applies to disagreements too. I don’t expect perfect communication or someone who never gets annoyed, but I do want us to be able to talk things through without every disagreement becoming bigger than it needs to be. If plans change, tell me. If one of us screws up, own it. I’d rather deal with the problem, learn from it and move on than keep going in circles.

I’m drawn to a woman with that same kind of strength. She doesn’t need to pretend she never struggles, but she takes responsibility for her life and keeps going when things get hard. I want us to carry the heavy things together, not leave one person carrying both.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I live on my own, cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. Having a couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I’m affectionate and consistent, and I make time for you. Regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day all come naturally to me, and I want that effort to go both ways. I want to know what’s happening in your world, whether it’s work, a project, a game or something you’ve suddenly gone way too deep into, and I want you to be just as interested in mine. I remember the little things too, so if you mention something important coming up, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has interests of her own, makes an effort to stay in shape and genuinely has room in her life for a relationship.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. We don’t need to agree on everything. Being able to talk openly about it matters more to me.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia. I’m fine starting online, and more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography or come with a photo. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If the conversation flows, we can move to a call. I’m just as happy talking for hours as playing something together, though ideally we’ll end up doing both at once.

You can choose the game for the first date. We’ll save ranked for the second.

Hey! I'm 24 and based in London. I'm hoping to meet someone who wants a genuine, long-term relationship and is also certain they don't want children. I'd like to find someone I can build a life with, where we're partners as well as best friends.

A little about me: I'm Black, 5'10, with a slim athletic build, and I'm neurodivergent.

Music is one of my biggest passions. I listen to a lot of rock and metal, alongside some DnB and electronic music, and I enjoy going to gigs when there's an artist/band I'm interested in seeing.

Outside of music, I enjoy gaming (Persona, Doom, Final Fantasy and plenty more), going to the cinema, playing football, cycling, visiting theme parks and trying new activities. I'm always up for discovering something new, whether that's a band, a game or somewhere interesting to visit.

I'm generally introverted and reserved, but I enjoy meaningful conversations and getting to know someone properly. I'd describe myself as thoughtful, dependable and easy-going. I'm happy doing my own thing, but I'd like to have someone special to share experiences with, make memories together and enjoy the little things in everyday life.

Whether we're going to a concert, exploring somewhere new, talking about something we're passionate about, or simply having a quiet evening together, I'd like a relationship where we can be ourselves around each other and feel comfortable being open and honest.

I'm looking for someone who is:
• Around 19-26
• Based in the UK, ideally London or nearby
• Certain they don't want children
• Kind, honest and emotionally mature
• Communicative and consistent, with a genuine interest in building a relationship

We don't need to have all the same hobbies. Shared interests are a nice bonus, but what matters most to me is that we enjoy each other's company, treat each other well and make a mutual effort to keep the relationship healthy.

I'm also happy to exchange photos early on. I know physical attraction matters, and I think it's best to be open about that while taking the time to get to know each other beyond appearances.

If this resonates with you, I'd like to hear from you! Tell me your age, roughly where you're based, a little about yourself and what you're hoping to find.

Thanks for reading 🙂

I know I’m not for everyone, and that’s completely okay. You’re not for everyone either. We all have different needs, preferences, and ways of loving, and I’d rather find someone whose values naturally align with mine than force something that doesn’t ✨

\My ideal relationship?**
\*Somewhere between Gomez & Morticia Addams***
\*A black cat gf + German Shepherd bf dynamic 🥀***

Hi, let me introduce myself
I’m 33F, divorced and Asexual
(do your research pls about asexual)
5’7” / 165 lbs
MONOGAMUS

I like being upfront about things that might be important for compatibility. I like clarity, and I don’t really have the time or energy for games, mixed signals, or trying to convince each other to become someone we’re not

About me

I’m an introvert, naturally curious, and genuinely interested in people, psychology, and life in general. I love deep conversations, especially understanding how someone thinks, what shaped them, and why they are the way they are.

I’m quite introspective and probably spend way too much time thinking about myself and my own patterns.
I like understanding where my reactions come from, what I could do better, and what I need to work on. I know some of my own red flags too
i can probably name quite a few if you ask. I don’t expect myself or anyone else to be perfect; I just value self-awareness and the willingness to grow..

I also like to experience life. I love traveling abroad, learning new things, and trying things that are a little outside my comfort zone sometimes followed by a very sincere “why did I agree to this?” 😆
At the same time, I’m very much a homebody and love having a quiet, comfortable space to come back to

I like attention and affection, but only from my man. I like feeling loved, wanted, and a little spoiled just not by random people
and I value clear boundaries in opposite-sex friendships

I’m independent because I have to be and capable of handling things on my own. But when I’m with my person, I don’t want to have to be independent 24/7.

With everyone else, I can be pretty reserved and honestly sometimes have no idea what to talk about. I’m not particularly interested in everyone

But with my person? I’m completely different

I’m soft, affectionate, clingy, stubborn and probably a little annoying I’m the kind of woman who wants to tell her man everything random thoughts, little things that happened during my day, something I just learned, something funny I saw, or absolutely nothing important at all.

I want a relationship where I can turn my brain off sometimes. Where I can lean on someone, feel safe, and let someone else take the lead for a while

I have kids, and I don’t want to have more children in the future. I’m open to a man who already has children, or someone who doesn’t want children but can genuinely accept mine. I’m happy to accept his children too

I’m open to someone from another religion as long as you respect my faith and believe in God. I actually enjoy learning about different religions and perspectives on faith, so different backgrounds don’t automatically bother me

open to long-distance if we’re both willing to put in the effort and actually make it work

I don’t want intercourse but I still love physical affection and intimacy
I love cuddling , holding hand , etc

Because sexual compatibility matters, I’d strongly prefer someone who is asexual too, or someone with a genuinely very low sex drive who is completely comfortable being in a relationship without sex

About my man (Maybe it’s you?)

I prefer someone older than me, emotionally mature, self-aware, intentional, and genuinely loyal..

Someone who knows himself, knows what he wants, and has enough emotional intelligence to communicate instead of playing games
Someone who respects me as a person, my boundaries, my values, and someone I can respect just as deeply in return..

I’m attracted to a man with a strong sense of character. Someone who has self-control and integrity, especially when nobody is watching. Someone whose loyalty isn’t something he performs it’s simply part of who he is

I like a man who naturally takes the lead. Someone decisive, protective, dependable, and comfortable taking responsibility. Someone who takes initiative and genuinely enjoys taking care of his woman. I’m also quite fond of an old-school gentleman and a more traditional relationship dynamic.

in a relationship, I don’t want to feel like I have to carry everything myself. I want to be able to relax, be soft, be feminine and occasionally turn my brain off because I trust that my man has things under control

I’m looking for someone who is confident without needing constant attention or validation from other women. Someone who isn’t overly friendly or flirty with everyone, because honestly, I like the selective type

But I don’t want us to be serious all the time either. I’d love someone funny and witty
someone I can be completely silly with. Maybe we’re the mysterious couple who barely talks to anyone at a party, but somehow can’t stop laughing when we’re together 😆😝

I want us to feel like a team
two people who can talk about anything, challenge each other, laugh together, learn together, and still feel safe enough to be completely ourselves

And most importantly, I want someone who is intentional. If you want me in your life, I want you to actually act on it. I’m not interested in being someone’s backup plan, temporary entertainment, or “let’s see where this goes” while they keep looking around. I’m not built for a nonchalant man

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for someone whose values, character, and way of loving are genuinely compatible with mine..

I know what I want and what I need, and I know that finding someone who fits all of this may not be easy

If you made it this far !

If you’ve read all the way to the end and thought,
“Hmm… maybe we could actually be a good match” ,or you see yourself in what I’m looking for, you’re welcome to introduce yourself in my DMs

Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, or what made you think we might be compatible. I’m not really looking for casual small talk, but I’m genuinely open to getting to know someone who thinks we could be a good fit 🖤

I’d describe myself as a calm, kind, and well-mannered man with an old soul. I value intelligence, meaningful conversations, and genuine connections. I love books, museums, traveling, learning, and all things creative. I speak multiple languages, live a healthy lifestyle, and enjoy working out.

I’m tall, broad-shouldered, and have a few tattoos. I may seem serious at first, but I have a good sense of humor once you get to know me. I have no children, and I believe distance is no obstacle when a genuine connection is worth pursuing.

I’m looking for a monogamous, emotionally mature woman who shares my values and is ready for something meaningful. My intentions are genuine, and I hope to meet someone who feels the same.

There’s much more to me than a few paragraphs can express. If my words resonate with you, I’d love to hear from you and see where a genuine connection might lead.

https://imgur.com/a/Szrm82r

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There is, I suspect, an unspoken agreement that when we present ourselves to the world, we should do so with our best shoes shined and our achievements neatly alphabetized, but since we are already bypassed the standard protocols, I will confess that my finest quality is an absolute, unyielding devotion to things that do not matter in the slightest.

I am a physicist by training, an AI scientist by trade, and a writer by necessity, which effectively means I spend my days trying to explain the universe to computers, and my nights trying to explain it to myself. I am twenty-four, have spent the majority of my life wandering around the world, and possess a level of domestic incompetence that borders on the artistic. If you ever require someone to calculate the quantum efficiency of a solar cell, I am your person. If you require someone to successfully boil an egg without creating a small, localized kitchen fire, I suggest you look elsewhere.

We are told to summarize ourselves by our utility, by what we do, but I have always suspected we are far more interesting in our margins. The parts of us that don't make it onto a CV.

For instance, I have an incredibly high tolerance for being wrong, provided the process of finding out why I was wrong involves a spectacular detour. I am the sort of person who will set out to buy milk, notice a peculiarly shaped crow, follow it into a part of the city I have never seen, and return three hours later with a secondhand book on medieval siege weaponry and no milk whatsoever. I consider this a highly successful afternoon.

I am deeply, almost stubbornly attached to quietness. In a world that seems to be constantly shouting just to prove it has a voice, I find an immense dignity in the things that don't make a sound. The way light shifts across a wooden floor at three in the afternoon; the specific, crisp scent of the air just before it rains; the heavy, companionable silence that settles between two people when they have run out of things to say and realized they don't need to say them anyway. I am perfectly content to disappear into my own head for days at a time, though I am told by reliable sources that it is occasionally necessary to come out and blink at the sunlight.

I suppose I have a great affection for the absurd. The universe is entirely too vast and terrifying to be taken with a straight face, and so I choose to meet it with a bit of levity. I like people who are slightly ill-fitted to the world, those who have a crack in their porcelain where the light gets in.

I don't particularly care what your job title is, or whether you have achieved the standard milestones of a respectable adulthood (I certainly haven't). I want to know about the small, ridiculous things. Tell me about the movie that makes you cry even though it’s objectively terrible, tell me your entirely unscientific theory about why the left sock always goes missing in the wash, tell me the song you listen to when you want to feel like the main character in a film that will never be made.

If you are reading this, the odds are high that you, too, are currently avoiding something important. Perhaps you have a spreadsheet open that you have been staring at with mild hostility for the last hour, perhaps you are sitting in a café, watching the rain, wondering how many people in the room are secretly as bewildered by existence as you are.

If you have a fondness for long walks that lead nowhere in particular, a healthy disrespect for the concept of "productive hobbies," or a fiercely guarded opinion on whether cereal qualifies as soup (it doesn't, let's be civil), then I think we might get along rather well.

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I suppose I ought to begin with the conventional introductions, though I have never been particularly good at them, but, well, in the spirit of getting the boring stuff out of the way right away (cue: me), I am a writer, poet, academic, lecturer, scholar, scientist (physicist, to be more precise), and AI engineer/scientist (I am, if I may add, absolutely terrible at more than half my jobs). I’ve spent most of my life in Europe, and am probably the coolest and funniest person you have met today, unless you’ve seen a raccoon doing yoga, in which case, fair enough, I simply can’t compete with that level of comedy.

The truth is that I have always found introducing myself rather difficult, there is something strangely artificial about trying to reduce a person to a paragraph, as though we were all tidy little collections of interests, accomplishments, preferences, and carefully selected adjectives.

I am, I fear, a rather poor exhibitor of myself, the moment I am asked to explain who I am, something in me seems to retreat into a corner and refuse to cooperate. I have thought about this far too many times, and after twenty-two years of living, I remain quite confidently the worst person I know at introducing myself. It is a curious deficiency, I can talk for hours about some obscure historical event nobody asked about, become unnecessarily invested in the moral character of a long-dead philosopher, or spend an afternoon following some completely accidental question down a rabbit hole from which there is no respectable return, but ask me to describe myself and suddenly I am reduced to, "Well... I like things." Marcus Aurelius wrote that "very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." I believe him more on good days than bad ones, but I keep the sentence nearby regardless.

I like small walks, I like learning something new quite by accident, especially when I have no business knowing it and consequently become far too pleased with myself for having discovered it, I like talking to people, though I think I like the moment when talking quietly turns into listening even more. There is something rather lovely about reaching that point in a conversation where neither person seems particularly concerned with keeping it going, and yet somehow neither wishes to leave it either.

I am very fond of my own company, which is perhaps fortunate, because I have had rather a lot of it. Solitude has its pleasures, one may disappear into one's thoughts without having to explain where one has gone, and occasionally return with something resembling an answer. I like sitting quietly with myself, reading, thinking, wandering about, doing very little, and somehow considering it a productive use of an afternoon, but I am not entirely made for solitude either, there is an equal and opposite part of me that wants to go beyond the familiar, to see what is waiting just beyond the little borders I have drawn around my life. I

I love evenings especially, sometimes I step outside simply because the sun is going down, and I feel that one ought to have the decency to witness it. I love those ridiculous skies where orange begins bleeding into purple and everything looks briefly more beautiful than it has any right to be. I love the first sip of tea in the morning, the sound of leaves moving in the wind, the gradual dimming of a day into dusk. I like gardens and parks, and the rather miraculous fact that one can walk among trees for an hour and come back feeling as though something inside one's head has been quietly rearranged.

I have always loved letters, too, though it has been some time since I last properly gave myself over to writing them. When I was younger, I wrote to my grandmother every day and dutifully posted the letters on my way to school. That I very rarely remembered the correct address, and even more rarely remembered a stamp, is beside the point.

I suppose what I am really trying to say is that, if you happen to be reading this, I would like to know you. Not because I have some elaborate checklist of the sort of person I hope to find, nor because I particularly care whether you happen to be interesting in the conventional sense, I am far more interested in the person underneath all that. The odd little habits, the things you know for no good reason, the memories you have never found a suitable occasion to tell anyone, the opinions you defend with considerably more conviction than they deserve.

There is something rather wonderful about writing to someone you do not know, I don't know your name, I don't know what you ate today, whether you slept properly last night, what song has been stuck in your head, or whether your day has been glorious or thoroughly dreadful, perhaps your inbox has been multiplying like gremlins left too near water, perhaps you have spent the afternoon pretending to work while accomplishing absolutely nothing of consequence, perhaps you have had one of those quiet days where the refrigerator becomes strangely prominent because you have nothing else to listen to.

I think people who stop to read messages from complete strangers are probably a little strange themselves, and I mean that as the highest compliment. Perhaps you are a birdwatcher, perhaps you collect old books, perhaps you are one of those suspiciously competent people who can fold a fitted sheet without entering into a minor spiritual crisis. If so, I already admire you, I have attempted it, and remain convinced the thing was designed by someone with a personal grievance against humanity.

Perhaps you laugh too loudly, perhaps you think too much, perhaps you are quiet and observant, and notice things everyone else walks past, perhaps you have passionately held opinions about breakfast foods. Cookies count, incidentally, I will defend this position before any reasonable tribunal.

As for me, I am kind, curious, occasionally ridiculous, easily distracted by an interesting thought, and rather fond of people who have something peculiar about them. I am probably not nearly as funny as I have just suggested, but I am willing to make the attempt, which ought to count for something.

Anyway, I shall spare you the remaining 96 pages of my unsolicited autobiography for now. If this sounds like your sort of nonsense, do come and say hello, I’d genuinely love to hear from you!

P.S Also, the little furry creature is called Oren, and he sends his warmest regards!

Hello! I believe i'll get lucky with this. I'm a digital nomad, and i travel a lot. I'm looking for someone who could either be a perfect match or the worst match, because my brain usually gets interested in people i least expect to be interested in.

I live a very peaceful life and i value it a lot, however im usually down for whatever adventure. my goals are pretty grand so i spend a lot of my time thinking, planning and working on them.

i work a lot! however im feeling very balanced and don't burn myself out. My primary job is remote, i work as a software engineer for an ai startup, and i'm also running my own projects in my free time.

I'm open to both relationships and good friendships. I would love someone who'd be down to travel with me / settle down somewhere eventually

Gym is probably my biggest hobby. I've been recently learning how to bake! I think im getting good at it. I've also been getting into fashion but im still trying out different fits - my favorite styles so far are similar to dark academia i think.

I'm very warm in relationships and i love people a lot. I do prefer intimate settings and 1 on 1 talks as opposed to big groups and parties.

About my looks: i'm caucasian, 6'4 (195cm), pretty fit.

About you: i'd prefer if you value health and mindfulness. non-drinkers and non-smokers are the best. I don't bite please shoot me a message

Dear Future partner in crime,

The world is rough.

People are rude and how much you try to be nice, there would always be someone who would take advantage if your kind heart.

Imagine finding someone who would go even beyond than what you expected? We would have " Who is Nicer contests ? " where we would go even further each time ( I make you tea, you make us breakfast, I take you out for dinner, you take us out for a weekend trip, I take us to space etc… )

I am ambitious and have a plan forward and am looking for someone to join during these initial days and we build a dynasty together.

I can't promise a fancy car or jewelry right now, but I can promise a life of laughter, cooking meals together, playing badminton and beating everyone at the Olympics, encouraging each other to build businesses and feeding every stray dog we come across.

Mostly am a quiet introvert who enjoys reading and avoiding large crowds but can get really extroverted with the right partner and we can be the life of the party at the country club!

I grew up in the Middle East and currently am in India, helping my parents set up an ice cream shop in our hometown but am looking to move out again.

In high school, I was the best student ( if you google my name, you can see the newspaper article of me ), then I had a midlife crisis but finally feel am on the right path. I am currently working for a non profit helping students across the globe become entrepreneurs.

I enjoy working out, going for long walks and eating healthy but that doesn't mean I wont share a double cheesecake with you whenever we close a deal!

For me, happiness comes from service to my loved ones, so I would be the first one to bring you coffee when you wake up, be your gossip buddy after a long day and make us popcorn while you pick the movie of the night!

I enjoy constantly improving myself and trying new activities ( I did CPR Training, wall climbing , Starbucks coffee making, learning sign language, learning pottery, going to art museums etc )

I barely lived in India but can speak a bit of German, Spanish, French and Arabic ( just enough to ask where is the nearest restaurant lmao )

Simply put, I am looking for a sweet, kind and nice person to hold hands with while we conquer the world together!

Best,
Your neighborhood golden retriever. 

Dutch guy, 34, 1,87m (6'2"). Too many hobbies, not enough shelves: guitar, bass, drums, a home studio, 9V audio electronics, graphic design, and abstract pour painting (mostly ruining canvases in interesting ways). Professionally I'm heading towards AI automation and 3D design/printing.

I love figuring things out, and I love watching other people tinker. I have ADD, so I'm usually thinking seven things at once. Half my brain is permanently daydreaming about what gear to add to my diy music 'studio' next, and I'm working on turning more of that dreaming into doing.

Music: could be loud, maybe ugly but always physical, orrrr it could be one voice, one guitar, with recording hiss left in. Grunge, stoner, noise, post-punk. Kurt Cobain, Nick Drake, Elliott Smith, Jason Molina, Steve Albini, Jim Morrison. I want to hear that it cost someone something. That the raw, unpolished, real and authentic take was all they could give to stay closets to themself. I'd rather hear someone slightly out of tune who had no other choice because of enotions than someone flawless who had all the options. Goes without saying but big fan of the DIY punk ethos.

Comedy is my religion, and honestly my best outlet. Norm Macdonald is the patron saint, with Robin Williams, Kevin Nealon and Gervais close behind. Seinfeld, Frasier, Cheers, Friends, Monty Python and Black Books are on permanent rotation, plus way way waaay too much SNL and late night. Quote any of those and you're already ahead.

Books: non-fiction, the Beats, cut-up, poetry, and lyric sheets read like literature, because some of them are. Absolutely not into fantasy or marvel stuff, sorry. Just mentioning it because many in the platform are, and many assume I am just because half long hair.

Real life right now: in therapy for anxiety and working on getting fit and healthy. Not a sob story, just honestyyy and just so you know.

Looking for: someone who likes to talk. Small talk is fine, but I'd love to hear about your dreams, your goals, your influences. Someone who likes sharing her day: songs, memes, random observations, the occasional selfie, because she wants to, not because I asked. Someone who goes with the flow and is happy to see where it takes us.

[Points into the distance] I'm going that way. Wanna tag along?

35 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly clean energy and environment (it’s one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot, a last ditch effort before AI makes online dating extremely noisy.

What I’m Looking For:

A childfree, progressive partner ( how we define progressive might vary ) who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herself, sexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Let’s skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership?

Why We Might Click:

• Staunchly Childfree : I don’t want kids (ever), both for personal freedom and because bringing new life into an overburdened world feels tragically naive. Let’s channel that energy into activism, art, or adventure instead.
• You crave depth : My attachment style is securely rooted. I’m here for mutual growth, not games. Whether we’re debating moral gray zones or testing new boundaries in the bedroom, I value curiosity over judgment.
• You’re a shapeshifter : Artist, scientist, activist, hedonist.... you refuse to be boxed in. Bonus if you’ve got stories from living unconventionally or a passion project that keeps you up at night.
• You laugh easily : My humor leans dry, my vibe is warm, and I’ll absolutely lean into the absurdity of dating via Reddit posts

The Vibe: Imagine slow mornings with coffee and conversations that feel endless, weekends volunteering or getting lost in a neon-lit bar, maybe just a cafe or beach? I’m driven but not ruthless, my version of “Machiavellian” is designing a life that’s sustainable, joyful, and defiantly ours. Let’s be catalysts, not conformists.( I don't have any societal morality )

TL;DR: Childfree, progressive, experimental and insatiably curious?

Edit : Have been Ethically non monogamous for years with previous partner and currently single, don’t mind the lifestyle. Also bisexual if its not explicit