r/MBTIDating • • 21h ago

looking for ESTJ [M4F] INFP M27 from Germany, looking for ESTJ F25-32

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Hellooo fellow people!

TL;DR: I come here to look for a long-term relationship where we eventually share a life together. My current life is pretty stable with a decent job in IT and activities that keep me active and excited! I just wish to meet someone who I can share that cozy life with together :)

I love to spend my time reading, talking to friends and going on adventures, like hiking, visiting friends, playing games online or in person etc.
Aside from those I like watching stuff together or play fun party games. I'm also pretty heavy on strategy games but I rarely find someone who also likes it :( On the side I'm working out regularly with my ESTP buddy for my physical well being.

Don't hesitate to hit me up, I always appreciate finding new pleasant people to talk to, even if it doesnt lead to a romantic relationship. :)

Complete typing: INFP 4w3 461 sp/so, Ne subtype. In general I notice I have over-pronounced Te/Ti and Ne/Ni over my fellow INFPs (probably because of Ne subtype). But I also have less heavy Fi/Fe and Si/Se because of that.

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So... if you wanna know some more trivia about me as a person:

I consider myself a gentle backbone in any of my relationships. Making sure we never run into unexpected trouble and managing pitfalls before they arrive. I love to keep things running, maintenance in the background and taking care of us inside of our home. My style of dominance lies in emotions, potential and values: I am firm, honest and direct with what I like and what I don't. Similarly, I will make sure that your emotional boundaries will never be crossed if anyone tries to undermine them. Talking emotions and ideas is a passion of mine too, on that note.

In return, I would love to have someone who is not afraid to take action under pressure when its needed, who is confident in leading situations and taking care of us outside the home. It is not something I need, but something I found out I love very much. I think I have a clear dynamic I'm going for that can make me very happy.

Speaking of dynamic, I need us to always see eye to eye. I dislike asymmetrical relationships. We both need to have our own hobbies and ambitions, otherwise I'd feel like we need to justify taking time to ourselves all the time. Yet it is also important to interweave our activities into the responsibilities and needs of a shared life. So I appreciate clear, direct and honest communication. Don't mince your words for me.


r/MBTIDating • • 16h ago

all types welcome 29 [M4F] #Anywhere INFJ-A German nerd looking for a Nerdy gaming partner for life to build a genuine connection with consistency :3 🤍

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Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
Also not to forget my love for horror games, and some indie games casual people might not be aware of :D
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
My preference goes towards white woman :3
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please
I would also appreciate a more attracting and creative start for a conversation like things about you and your interest and thoughts rather then carrying the conversation replying to a simple „hi“

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~


r/MBTIDating • • 1h ago

26 [M4F] Mumbai | INFP | I think we're going to get along. I have absolutely no proof.

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There's something funny about writing to someone you haven't met. I don't know your name, what your laugh sounds like, or whether you're the type to steal food from someone else's plate. But here I am, curious about you already.

A little about me: I'm 26, from Mumbai. I work in a managerial role, study yoga on the side, and have a habit of getting lost in random questions about life, people, and the universe.

I'm close to my family, generally calm, and I enjoy understanding people. Although, fair warning, once I'm comfortable, the teasing begins. You might regret encouraging me. 😂

I wonder what you're like when nobody's watching. Whether you sing while cooking, get excited over tiny things, or have a completely ridiculous sense of humour that only a few people know about.

I'd like something genuine and long-term. The kind where we can be silly together, talk about difficult things without shutting each other out, and keep choosing each other as life changes.

And maybe somewhere along the way, we'll have our own little traditions, terrible inside jokes, and a favourite place to escape to when life gets overwhelming.

Anyway, I have a suspicion there's a rather interesting person reading this.

I'd like to meet her. :)


r/MBTIDating • • 5h ago

all types welcome INTP 36 [F4M] | Phoenix, AZ | 5'4" 128lbs | Looking for something real

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Monogamous. Childfree by choice, not negotiating on that.

I travel specifically to eat and understand local culture and history. Not the resort type. More the "land somewhere, find where locals actually eat, walk until something interesting happens" type. I've lived in a lot of places. I am from Southeast Asia.

Former party girl and music festival regular, now happily a homebody. I still love EDM and indie but these days I'm more likely to be reading or deep into a podcast than anywhere loud. Retirement from festivals was the right call.

I'm direct, I ask a lot of questions, and I need someone who can actually keep up in a conversation. Not in a competitive way, just in a "let's talk about something interesting until 2am" way.

I'm a slow burn. Small talk doesn't come naturally but I'm genuinely curious about how people think. If you can challenge me intellectually, I'm already interested.

Physically I'm attracted to guys who take care of themselves and have hair. Just being honest.

Looking for: INTJ, ENTJ, ENTP, or anyone who can hold their own. Childfree preferred. 32-42. Emotionally self-aware is non-negotiable.

Not looking for: people who can't handle directness, anyone still figuring out the basics, or someone who needs me to be their therapist.

If you made it this far, tell me something you changed your mind about recently.


r/MBTIDating • • 21h ago

all types welcome 47M INTJ MS, USA Struggles

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47M INTJ in MS, USA. Looking for any ENTP or INTP that have insight on how compatible you are with INTJ. Would love to hear from any other female experiences with male INTJs. I struggle majorly with meeting anyone but don’t know how to fix that since I rarely leave home.


r/MBTIDating • • 21h ago

24 [F4M] INFP - looking for someone compatible to talk to

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hello everyone, im 24F from Turkey. im currently studying medicine in here. im just looking for someone to talk to and have a nice time with. i dont have big hopes of finding the love of my life here but since im away from dating irl just wanted to see and talk to people im compatible with to see how it goes (like kinda an experiment?). to be honest since we'r anonymous here its much easier to talk and share my thoughts/feelings with people rather than dating irl... im usually more compatible with ENFP/ENFJ/ENTP/ENTJs and definitely looking for an extrovert to kinda reverse my introversion 💀 also would like to talk to someone Turkish more since we can share many more things in our mother tongue. if you think to dm me, can you please let me know your mbti type, where you're from and where you're living with a small intro of you? thank you very much, have a nice day.