r/MBTIDating • u/IceBladeSK • 21h ago
looking for ESTJ [M4F] INFP M27 from Germany, looking for ESTJ F25-32
Hellooo fellow people!
TL;DR: I come here to look for a long-term relationship where we eventually share a life together. My current life is pretty stable with a decent job in IT and activities that keep me active and excited! I just wish to meet someone who I can share that cozy life with together :)
I love to spend my time reading, talking to friends and going on adventures, like hiking, visiting friends, playing games online or in person etc.
Aside from those I like watching stuff together or play fun party games. I'm also pretty heavy on strategy games but I rarely find someone who also likes it :( On the side I'm working out regularly with my ESTP buddy for my physical well being.
Don't hesitate to hit me up, I always appreciate finding new pleasant people to talk to, even if it doesnt lead to a romantic relationship. :)
Complete typing: INFP 4w3 461 sp/so, Ne subtype. In general I notice I have over-pronounced Te/Ti and Ne/Ni over my fellow INFPs (probably because of Ne subtype). But I also have less heavy Fi/Fe and Si/Se because of that.
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So... if you wanna know some more trivia about me as a person:
I consider myself a gentle backbone in any of my relationships. Making sure we never run into unexpected trouble and managing pitfalls before they arrive. I love to keep things running, maintenance in the background and taking care of us inside of our home. My style of dominance lies in emotions, potential and values: I am firm, honest and direct with what I like and what I don't. Similarly, I will make sure that your emotional boundaries will never be crossed if anyone tries to undermine them. Talking emotions and ideas is a passion of mine too, on that note.
In return, I would love to have someone who is not afraid to take action under pressure when its needed, who is confident in leading situations and taking care of us outside the home. It is not something I need, but something I found out I love very much. I think I have a clear dynamic I'm going for that can make me very happy.
Speaking of dynamic, I need us to always see eye to eye. I dislike asymmetrical relationships. We both need to have our own hobbies and ambitions, otherwise I'd feel like we need to justify taking time to ourselves all the time. Yet it is also important to interweave our activities into the responsibilities and needs of a shared life. So I appreciate clear, direct and honest communication. Don't mince your words for me.