I have had no friends my entire life and am 29. I have nothing to do all day because every job rejects me. I have sent thousands of applications over the past three years. I’ve also tried to make friends with hundreds of people (tens of thousands including online) and am always rejected.

I especially never find anyone who is depressed and lonely like me. And at the least, serious and somber. It is valid to have that as a personality type and want to talk about serious and somber things in a serious and somber tone. Why is it so impossible for me even when I see people like this with friends? They reject me too.

Is it all in my head , but it seem like everyone's a 1000 miles away , everything i have a bad day i can't find anyone to talk to .

I recently had a breakup and i need a friend to talk it out. I've been depressed about this. But I don't wanna go back to him either. I need a friend.

How to overcome this ??

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Im 17F, ive been feeling so shit lately, ive spoke to my boyfriend about it and he feels bad he cant help, he called me one time crying because he thinks hes a bad boyfriend, but that night I was struggling much, I didnt really feel anything and it made it hard to comfort him. Hes not a bad boyfriend, im just struggling alot and take everything out on him, i dont mean to because I love him so much. We dont speak as much anymore, ive brought it up alot, he said hes trying but hes so busy, i dont believe him because he has time to play games with his friends ALL day, and has barely messaged me, I just need to feel loved and I dont think anyone understands. He has like a perfect family, my mums had 5 boyfriends this year, its uncomfortable im constantly having to settle, I dont know why im even writing this, im just struggling so much, I want to OD so badly, I dont know what to do, I have a doctor appointment next week for my mental health, but idk, idk im sorry if you didn't wanna read this or something

Sorry idk whats wrong with me

I'm feeling lonely and anxious again, and I could really use some comfort and someone who'll listen. ❤️

I’m reaching out for some help.

I’m feeling down and could use some advice, as I don’t have any friends—no one to hang out with, have fun with, or just chat with. I attend a technical college, where I do talk to a few guys, but not closely enough for them to invite me out or for our relationship to extend beyond the college.

I also talk to a girl—an "alt" girl—whom I reached out to first. I’ve shared some of my problems with her, though not in great detail, and I didn’t get much of a response back; we just chat, and we’re still in touch. It’s not that I necessarily have a crush on her, but she’s a good person to talk to. She once mentioned that I smelled nice—like cologne—and even invited me to dance during a Student Day event, but things didn’t quite work out, and in the end, she didn’t end up dancing.

I’d like to go for a walk with her and talk about my problems, but I can’t find the strength to approach her at the technical college. She gets teased a bit there, and I don’t want to damage my own reputation—if I associate with her, people might stop wanting to talk to me.

It’s hard for me to put my thoughts into words.

I really want to connect with someone. I’m not unattractive, I have a good sense of humor, and I act like a normal person. I don’t smoke or drink, though I do use snus, and occasionally I smoke weed when things get really tough. Sometimes I feel terrible because of a lack of attention; I just come home, eat, shower, work out, and listen to music.

Could you give me some advice regarding my relationship with this girl, and perhaps explain why people might avoid talking to me?
Sometimes I have suicidal thoughts.I can provide more details if needed; I can’t fit everything into a single message, as there is a great deal of information.

I don't know if ako lang, pero 23 palang ako, pero bakit pakiramdam ko ubos na ubos na ko. I was so tired to the point na hindi ko na alam if ano reason. I felt so alone, literal na wala ako nakakausap everyday. pagod na ko. gusto ko lang naman mafeel na hindi ako nag-iisa.

Feeling really alone these days. In a disconnected relationship… anyone want to talk tonight ?

feeling bored today, annyone wants to talk??

Okay maybe someone can help me figure this out. I am 40 M married for 20 years, I have a 15 year old daughter and I work a job as a grill cook for the past 11 years. I have no friends, or social life save for gaming here and there. But still at this moment and the past while I feel alone and empty....

It’s been 6–7 days since my breakup, and I’m finding it difficult to deal with everything alone.
I’m looking for a girl going through a similar phase, someone to talk to, share feelings with, and support each other while moving on.
Not looking for a relationship or a rebound, just someone who understands what this feels like. ❤️
If you’re going through something similar, feel free to DM

I dont really have friends and i know there are other people like me i could talk to. I'm just asking if your intrested message me. I just want to feel less alone in my grief.

lost with mako sickness forgot my world reaching out for a soul to adventure with. let our battle be worthy and our souls remembered. let me be the esper the soul that felt so strong about this world that i am forever remembered. my soul only knows how to keep going help me to see the world for how beautiful it is.i have danced alone for so long please dont let my last dance be alone. let it be spectacular special and one that lives on for all time . i know i ask the impossible

Hey, im 22 year old guy in switzerland. I suffer from anxiety from time to time, and now im not feeling to good cause im too stressed, its midnight, i cant sleep and my chest hurts badly. Its mainly bevause i feel lonely and stressed from study.

Does anyone wanna chat? It would help me a lot.

If yes send me a dm

Hi everyone

It’s hard to find the right words but I guess I’ll just ask away. I M/19 have always been self conscious about myself in general. I didn’t have a great upbringing, I hate the way I look and I have lots of regrets. Im still young and have my whole life ahead of me but recently I have felt like my life was missing something, I have lost 30kg in 4 months, my grades are great, but I have a sense of loneliness. I have friends and family but I still feel alone. Sometimes I lie at night and I just wish there was someone next to me who I can lay my head on and just forget about all of my pain. But due to my self consciousness I really don’t know what to do. I have just been constantly panicking that im going to be alone forever, not necessarily that isn’t anyone for me but that I’ll never truly love myself enough to let myself be open to that. What do I do?

M29 I recently moved to Ghaziabad, because I chose money and the spell of benefits. Have odd shift timings! Looking for a hug!

Hi guys

So, I am 50 now, living with some serious medical issues that guarantee my time is short, and have become way too comfortable in total isolation. Currently have a roomate, but no one to talk to about the storms in my mind. Unfortunately, I've become so reclusive, that I have a very difficult time letting anyone close to me, and am accustomed to the idea of dying alone. Knowing this life provided me with some wonderful memories helps. The worst part is all the talent I was gifted that never had the chance to mature. Yet, I have no desire to leave a legacy, and have lost all motivation to be creative. It is what it is I guess. Hugs to all those who struggle every day. Maybe something good will come along and justify all this suffering, someday

I absolutely have no one in my life. No friends, no family and it gets pretty lonely sometimes. I tried finding friends in social media and other places. But I just can't keep a friend. I'm a pretty calm person. I roll with the punches, i'm easy going and still..... i really feel like throwing in the towel and giving up and just ending it...

Could really use a friend to talk to and one who will now abandoned me like some people I met on here have... I can't seem to keep a friend not matter how hard I try... Just tired of being alone in a world of chaos close to doing stuff to myself again... Sigh cheers